Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

[Crusty1969]

SF, is this completely real life? Or is it just maybe a little bit dramatized like in the movies. I'm a neutral observer of this lifestyle. Its practice is egoistic. I don't understand it. I couldn't live it, too egoistic. However, I'd defend your right to live it. I don't believe it's proper to impose on innocents. And maybe your Mr. G is not an innocent. I don't know. If there is any uncertainty about Mrs G, then you should play your game in another yard. Otherwise you're putting your beautiful wife in harm's way. Think about it. Too many crazies; too many nuts; too many gun toting fools out there. Also you should seriously vet any potential lover. I know I'm cautious maybe a little paranoid. You'd never forgive yourself if something obtuse occurred. I sure as hell couldn't if she were my wife. It's maybe titillating too some of these agitators but she depends on you. Think about it.

[slenderfish]

Is this anything?

SW and I were going through the list of people to invite to my upcoming birthday. She is intending to take the lead on it but is not really that adept at using computers and software for e-invitations. So she recruited me to assist.

We did prepare the invitations using my account because she has no idea how to start a new account under her name, and all the email addresses are already present in my account. But I changed the host name to show it's SW and not me. I assured her that the invitees will not know it's my account. And I am correct on that point.

So the minute she/we sent the first batch of invitations out, within which included Mr. B, her phone immediately buzzed and it was Mr. B. At the same time, I received a notification that Mr. B had sent in a "yes" RSVP. She kind of quietly pushed her phone aside and said that she wanted to focus on the rest of the invitations, etc. I assume they got back in contact later, out of my earshot.

It will be a hell of a party, probably 50-60 people attending. SW has arranged the location and asked me to get a quote from a deejay she likes, who has played on Mr. E's boat a few times. We are going to meet with the venue next week to discuss the food options, etc. Decorations, etc. already assigned out. Some of our friends from Europe and across the U.S. said they will come in for the shindig.

I wonder if I should suggest a special after-party at out house for a very small handful of guests. Mr. B for some late night pole or lap dancing?

[afagehi7]

Is this anything?

SW and I were going through the list of people to invite to my upcoming birthday. She is intending to take the lead on it but is not really that adept at using computers and software for e-invitations. So she recruited me to assist.

We did prepare the invitations using my account because she has no idea how to start a new account under her name, and all the email addresses are already present in my account. But I changed the host name to show it's SW and not me. I assured her that the invitees will not know it's my account. And I am correct on that point.

So the minute she/we sent the first batch of invitations out, within which included Mr. B, her phone immediately buzzed and it was Mr. B. At the same time, I received a notification that Mr. B had sent in a "yes" RSVP. She kind of quietly pushed her phone aside and said that she wanted to focus on the rest of the invitations, etc. I assume they got back in contact later, out of my earshot.

It will be a hell of a party, probably 50-60 people attending. SW has arranged the location and asked me to get a quote from a deejay she likes, who has played on Mr. E's boat a few times. We are going to meet with the venue next week to discuss the food options, etc. Decorations, etc. already assigned out. Some of our friends from Europe and across the U.S. said they will come in for the shindig.

I wonder if I should suggest a special after-party at out house for a very small handful of guests. Mr. B for some late night pole or lap dancing?

I'd think that you and sw would be burned out after hosting a party that large. These things are lots of work for the hosts. I don't know what I think about Mr B. On one hand he really should be ejected from your life 100% because what he did just isn't cool whatsoever... On the other hand, I can see the lure of him fucking her Because you want her to be a hotwife and it seems like the easiest path. I understand that you are torn and in your situation, I don't know what I'd do. I like to think I'd do the right thing and eject him but the desire for a hotwife is strong so I'd probably be doing just as you are, keeping him in the dugout in case.

This whole Mr B situation is odd for lack of a better term. You're a better man than I because I'd probably be sneaking through her communications looking for clues.

[Tryn]

It probably depends on how late you plan on the venue crowd going. If there's an early (relatively) cutoff at the venue, then definitely, but if there's no cutoff time then it'll likely go late. Perhaps getting a hotel room near the venue if it goes late.

Have you asked playfully if there's going to be any fantasy to real life "gifts" for your birthday? A fun game you could propose is have her be Pinky, but nobody can know, as in she cannot get caught doing anything, and you try and figure out if she's being naughty and how naughty, with her "coming clean" afterwards on all that she did. Have her declare "game on" at the event so you're both on the same page that the game is being play and thus she's not being 100% secretive. She'll be able to be secretive on her own, but the gift would be divulging all of her naughty antics to you after.

Hopefully you followed up with SW on the Mr. B text. In my opinion, you need to get better at asking about it when the text comes through or those moments arise. Your sex therapist will definitely agree that honesty is paramount for you two and therefore there shouldn't be an issue with you asking SW "what did Mr. B have to say" in a friendly manner and get an honest response. It's almost like you're enabling her secretive behavior by allowing her to get away with being secretive in those scenarios. By not following up or asking right away, you're allowing her to hide things from you.

Anything of interest happen while you were away this week?

Lastly, I'm guessing a Tesla Model S is the vehicle you're considering.

[Long Lurker 34]

Is this anything?

SW and I were going through the list of people to invite to my upcoming birthday. She is intending to take the lead on it but is not really that adept at using computers and software for e-invitations. So she recruited me to assist.

We did prepare the invitations using my account because she has no idea how to start a new account under her name, and all the email addresses are already present in my account. But I changed the host name to show it's SW and not me. I assured her that the invitees will not know it's my account. And I am correct on that point.

So the minute she/we sent the first batch of invitations out, within which included Mr. B, her phone immediately buzzed and it was Mr. B. At the same time, I received a notification that Mr. B had sent in a "yes" RSVP. She kind of quietly pushed her phone aside and said that she wanted to focus on the rest of the invitations, etc. I assume they got back in contact later, out of my earshot.

It will be a hell of a party, probably 50-60 people attending. SW has arranged the location and asked me to get a quote from a deejay she likes, who has played on Mr. E's boat a few times. We are going to meet with the venue next week to discuss the food options, etc. Decorations, etc. already assigned out. Some of our friends from Europe and across the U.S. said they will come in for the shindig.

I wonder if I should suggest a special after-party at out house for a very small handful of guests. Mr. B for some late night pole or lap dancing?

Hmm, I might've thought you would go for Mr G at the after party.

[afagehi7]

" It's almost like you're enabling her secretive behavior by allowing her to get away with being secretive in those scenarios. By not following up or asking right away, you're allowing her to hide things from you."
GAWD, finally, someone else sees the light. Under different alias's I've been saying this (among other things) for a very long time.

Fish has heard many of us say this but he's going his own way... He's got a plan and he's doing way better than I did, that's for dayum sure

[slenderfish]

Thanks for the responses. Good thoughts, all.

At this point I agree with all. Some additional considerations:

- The venue is a boutique hotel. We will be outside on the upper view deck, taking it for the party.

- The event is set for 6 to 10 p.m. So it will end relatively early.

- It's being catered, etc. so there isn't a whole lot of work for me or SW.

- Mr. G is invited, plus his guest (assume his wife). Unless he elects to attend solo.

- Mr. B has shown the interest and energy to grab the chance with SW. Their mutual energy has increased of late.

This is the landscape.

[CuriousUK]

Sooo looking forward to the briefing of how this goes, and the many subtle (or not so subtle) moves and nuances that SW makes on the night Have a wonderful birthday my friend, hope you get your ultimate gift!

[slenderfish]

We met SW's girlfriend Ms. W last night over dinner. This Ms. W is the one who was over for NYE and was set up that night by SW to be matched up with Mr. C (Mr. Italian) but for some reason she ultimately was not into him and was overly flirtatious with me.

SW has offered our house (and me to co-host) for Ms. W's birthday in May. Last night was the planning session. The stated purpose for the party and for our hosting is that SW wants to try out our almost-fully-remodeled house in party mode.

And as you may know by now, often with SW the stated reason isn't the only reason for things.

After some talk and working out the details (time frame, food, libations, dress code, invitations, etc.) I've been assigned to organize the alcohol and apparently will be cooking the dinner for everyone. I don't mind it; I make a very delicious grilled salmon with grilled asparagus and roasted rosemary potatoes and that's what SW requested.

SW also asked me to arrange for the deejay.

SW then led the conversation over to whether Ms. W might be okay if "we" invite a friend or two. Of course, Ms. W couldn't really say no.

SW looked over at me and then back to Ms. W and said that "we" will be inviting Mr. B. Did not carry that conversation point any further.

We finished dinner, went home and watched tv. We were both tired in that we went out really "big" on Friday night (got home around 2:00 a.m. and to bed around 3:30).

[afagehi7]

We met SW's girlfriend Ms. W last night over dinner. This Ms. W is the one who was over for NYE and was set up that night by SW to be matched up with Mr. C (Mr. Italian) but for some reason she ultimately was not into him and was overly flirtatious with me.

SW has offered our house (and me to co-host) for Ms. W's birthday in May. Last night was the planning session. The stated purpose for the party and for our hosting is that SW wants to try out our almost-fully-remodeled house in party mode.

And as you may know by now, often with SW the stated reason isn't the only reason for things.

After some talk and working out the details (time frame, food, libations, dress code, invitations, etc.) I've been assigned to organize the alcohol and apparently will be cooking the dinner for everyone. I don't mind it; I make a very delicious grilled salmon with grilled asparagus and roasted rosemary potatoes and that's what SW requested.

SW also asked me to arrange for the deejay.

SW then led the conversation over to whether Ms. W might be okay if "we" invite a friend or two. Of course, Ms. W couldn't really say no.

SW looked over at me and then back to Ms. W and said that "we" will be inviting Mr. B. Did not carry that conversation point any further.

We finished dinner, went home and watched tv. We were both tired in that we went out really "big" on Friday night (got home around 2:00 a.m. and to bed around 3:30).

More with Mr B. Why doesn't she just admit she's crushing on him? I'm baffled. It's obviously the case because out of everyone she could choose to invite, he's top of the list. If she's saying that she's trying to set him up with one of the other women, that's BS because she knows fully well he's a bird dog and there are much better choices for setting up single females than Mr B.

You just seem to let it roll off your back without seeking additional information. I'd at least ask her reasoning and apply a bit of pressure for the truth.

I do admit, I'd too be conflicted after what happened. I like to think I'd cut him out of my world but I understand how strong the desire for hotwife activity is...

What is it about him that has her so enamoured? There's something that really has her interested. I'm certain part of it is his success with ladies. Women desire a man desired by other women. Sure he's good looking but I think there's something else besides the obvious.

Edit: maybe if she fucks him in hotwife pinky mode she'll feel better about previous incidents? Kinda absolved in a way

[slenderfish]

Edit: maybe if she fucks him in hotwife pinky mode she'll feel better about previous incidents? Kinda absolved in a way

Maybe he is the target of her exclamation last November "You'll have your wish by the time of your birthday"?

She always said that she has to have "a connection" with the man.

It's a long shot but the only one I've found that is fully consistent with this recent energy around Mr. B.

[BallSpanking]

Judging from SW's clues, she seems to revert to Mr B.
Despite his known indiscretions, she crushes on him, to all appearances more than Mr G.
Who knows why women have specific attractions, sometimes it is unknowable ... Maybe it's the shoes (Size 14).
In any event, to the extent she gets to play and practice her HW skills, all is good!

[solstice]

Slenderfish writes: Dress codes.

You are creating a highfalutin gatherings when a dress code is mentioned , I imagine the code it is for guidance only, and not mandatory.
Being a member of the Hoi Polloi, I have never been to a party that a dress code has ever been advocated.

[slenderfish]

So on Saturday morning we had a very slow start to the day and after going out for coffee etc. I came home and SW was just starting to stir.

I took the opportunity to join her back in bed and we lounged for a half hour or so.

Then we made plans for the day but also snuck in some sexy time. SW was game.

I noted that the weather is warming up and that she will naturally begin wearing more summery workout outfits. I asked about some with midriff, shorter spandex, etc. She said she has some of those from prior years, and had added during the off-season winter months. Said also that she has some new bikinis to try out for me.

I took it back over to the workouts. I asked her why she doesn't wear panties with her spandex. She said (as expected) she doesn't want the ugly lines ruining the look. She then added (with a chuckle) that Lululemon is now selling thong panties, presumably to go under the spandex. I asked her about the front, that the thong wouldn't ruin that look, would it? She said that it may ruin the look, but certainly will ruin the feel, in that the pussy need to breathe, especially when in spandex.

I asked her if her spandex sometimes clings tightly and shows the full curve of her backside, including when she is doing her workouts, squats, etc. She confirmed that's kind of the point of it, no?

I asked her about the front of her spandex, if it also clings and shows some of the detail of her lips, etc. She said it probably does.

I then asked her to describe the workout. Does Mr. G closely supervise? Does he bark orders? Does he "spot" her?

She said he assists at the end of her bar-hanging element, to help her on the final reps and also to jump down from the bar.

I asked about the squats. Does she do with weights? She said no weights, but that she is doing a squat and then finishing with a pushing of her fists up into the air. I asked her if that's called a clean or a jerk. She said it's a jerk. I asked her if she is good at the jerking or cleaning after a squat? She laughed.

I then asked her to imagine a very hot day where she wore very skimpy spandex shorts, the kind that some cyclists wear during triathlons (which she does own). That something happened the seam tore in the middle of the spandex, such that her backside started feeling some cooler air and her pussy was exposed. But Mr. G barked the order to continue, apparently not knowing of her predicament. That she decided he must not have noticed, so she should go ahead and finish her set to not draw attention.

He says to keep her head up, to look forward and up, to keep a straight and slightly arched back, and to continue.

Suddenly she became aware of someone sliding his body underneath her, between her shoulder-width stance. That Mr. G barked not to change her posture and to continue. To squat deeper.

She felt her squat go lower and the body below rising up, a cock entering her wet pussy.

Mr. G continued to order her to do more repetitions, but to go deeper and deeper. She complied.

I then said she finally finished her set, looked down and saw it was (at this point she was worked up and ready to climax but I could tell that it would ruin the moment if I said it was Mr. G) ME!

She immediately reached her orgasm, there in our bed, and me also at the same time.

[setv4]

So on Saturday morning we had a very slow start to the day and after going out for coffee etc. I came home and SW was just starting to stir.

I took the opportunity to join her back in bed and we lounged for a half hour or so.

Then we made plans for the day but also snuck in some sexy time. SW was game.

I noted that the weather is warming up and that she will naturally begin wearing more summery workout outfits. I asked about some with midriff, shorter spandex, etc. She said she has some of those from prior years, and had added during the off-season winter months. Said also that she has some new bikinis to try out for me.

I took it back over to the workouts. I asked her why she doesn't wear panties with her spandex. She said (as expected) she doesn't want the ugly lines ruining the look. She then added (with a chuckle) that Lululemon is now selling thong panties, presumably to go under the spandex. I asked her about the front, that the thong wouldn't ruin that look, would it? She said that it may ruin the look, but certainly will ruin the feel, in that the pussy need to breathe, especially when in spandex.

I asked her if her spandex sometimes clings tightly and shows the full curve of her backside, including when she is doing her workouts, squats, etc. She confirmed that's kind of the point of it, no?

I asked her about the front of her spandex, if it also clings and shows some of the detail of her lips, etc. She said it probably does.

I then asked her to describe the workout. Does Mr. G closely supervise? Does he bark orders? Does he "spot" her?

She said he assists at the end of her bar-hanging element, to help her on the final reps and also to jump down from the bar.

I asked about the squats. Does she do with weights? She said no weights, but that she is doing a squat and then finishing with a pushing of her fists up into the air. I asked her if that's called a clean or a jerk. She said it's a jerk. I asked her if she is good at the jerking or cleaning after a squat? She laughed.

I then asked her to imagine a very hot day where she wore very skimpy spandex shorts, the kind that some cyclists wear during triathlons (which she does own). That something happened the seam tore in the middle of the spandex, such that her backside started feeling some cooler air and her pussy was exposed. But Mr. G barked the order to continue, apparently not knowing of her predicament. That she decided he must not have noticed, so she should go ahead and finish her set to not draw attention.

He says to keep her head up, to look forward and up, to keep a straight and slightly arched back, and to continue.

Suddenly she became aware of someone sliding his body underneath her, between her shoulder-width stance. That Mr. G barked not to change her posture and to continue. To squat deeper.

She felt her squat go lower and the body below rising up, a cock entering her wet pussy.

Mr. G continued to order her to do more repetitions, but to go deeper and deeper. She complied.

I then said she finally finished her set, looked down and saw it was (at this point she was worked up and ready to climax but I could tell that it would ruin the moment if I said it was Mr. G) ME!

She immediately reached her orgasm, there in our bed, and me also at the same time.

Very, Very Smart move SF! You are always thinking ahead!

[slenderfish]

" It's almost like you're enabling her secretive behavior by allowing her to get away with being secretive in those scenarios. By not following up or asking right away, you're allowing her to hide things from you."
GAWD, finally, someone else sees the light. Under different alias's I've been saying this (among other things) for a very long time.

It's a very sensitive tightrope I walk. SW, when asked, puts on her "I'm a good girl and not a slut" attitude. But when she's more relaxed, turned on, perhaps a bit tipsy, etc. or when it's presented in a more oblique way, she responds well.

I believe she is not willing to be honest with herself, with respect to her desires and her not-so-chaste feelings. So she will of course not be honest with me, in general.

So I play this supporting role.

It's paid off in the past, in other elements of our lives and also in hotwifing.

[slenderfish]

That is such a hot story you told her. Next time, incorporate Mr. G into the center of the conversation. Maybe Ms M can order her to have a black cock.

Best. Idea. Ever.

[slenderfish]

Slenderfish writes: Dress codes.

You are creating a highfalutin gatherings when a dress code is mentioned , I imagine the code it is for guidance only, and not mandatory.
Being a member of the Hoi Polloi, I have never been to a party that a dress code has ever been advocated.

This is a party conceptualized, hosted, and presented by SW. You've seen her photos. She will dress it up and expects everyone else to bring their hotness game. They know this in advance, but why take any chance?

[solstice]

I look forward to hear how the party shaped up, and as the drink flowed if there was any high jinks to report.

[slenderfish]

So there are two parties on the calendar.

The first is in May, which SW offered our house for Ms. W's milestone birthday. Ms. W has invited about 25 of her friends (her girlfriends who will then bring their significant other if one exists). So women will vastly outnumber the men.

SW is inviting Mr. B to help "balance the count" but it's just a drop in the bucket and, I'll observe, if she was serious about rebalancing, she would ask me to invite some guys. But no. Just Mr. B.

This party is also to test out our remodeled house as an entertainment platform. We are going to also see if we can get the birthday deejay (below) for a trial run.

The second is in June, but not at our house. It's my birthday, and will take place at the upper rooftop view deck of a boutique restaurant in our area. SW has "bought out" that part of the restaurant for the evening. She is bringing in a Deejay, hiring out the decorating and design, the restaurant is providing the food and open bar, etc. This will be about 50 (give or take) participants. Mr. B was the first one to rsvp for that one.

[Mr Mrs Cream]

So on Saturday morning we had a very slow start to the day and after going out for coffee etc. I came home and SW was just starting to stir.

I took the opportunity to join her back in bed and we lounged for a half hour or so.

Then we made plans for the day but also snuck in some sexy time. SW was game.

I noted that the weather is warming up and that she will naturally begin wearing more summery workout outfits. I asked about some with midriff, shorter spandex, etc. She said she has some of those from prior years, and had added during the off-season winter months. Said also that she has some new bikinis to try out for me.

I took it back over to the workouts. I asked her why she doesn't wear panties with her spandex. She said (as expected) she doesn't want the ugly lines ruining the look. She then added (with a chuckle) that Lululemon is now selling thong panties, presumably to go under the spandex. I asked her about the front, that the thong wouldn't ruin that look, would it? She said that it may ruin the look, but certainly will ruin the feel, in that the pussy need to breathe, especially when in spandex.

I asked her if her spandex sometimes clings tightly and shows the full curve of her backside, including when she is doing her workouts, squats, etc. She confirmed that's kind of the point of it, no?

I asked her about the front of her spandex, if it also clings and shows some of the detail of her lips, etc. She said it probably does.

I then asked her to describe the workout. Does Mr. G closely supervise? Does he bark orders? Does he "spot" her?

She said he assists at the end of her bar-hanging element, to help her on the final reps and also to jump down from the bar.

I asked about the squats. Does she do with weights? She said no weights, but that she is doing a squat and then finishing with a pushing of her fists up into the air. I asked her if that's called a clean or a jerk. She said it's a jerk. I asked her if she is good at the jerking or cleaning after a squat? She laughed.

I then asked her to imagine a very hot day where she wore very skimpy spandex shorts, the kind that some cyclists wear during triathlons (which she does own). That something happened the seam tore in the middle of the spandex, such that her backside started feeling some cooler air and her pussy was exposed. But Mr. G barked the order to continue, apparently not knowing of her predicament. That she decided he must not have noticed, so she should go ahead and finish her set to not draw attention.

He says to keep her head up, to look forward and up, to keep a straight and slightly arched back, and to continue.

Suddenly she became aware of someone sliding his body underneath her, between her shoulder-width stance. That Mr. G barked not to change her posture and to continue. To squat deeper.

She felt her squat go lower and the body below rising up, a cock entering her wet pussy.

Mr. G continued to order her to do more repetitions, but to go deeper and deeper. She complied.

I then said she finally finished her set, looked down and saw it was (at this point she was worked up and ready to climax but I could tell that it would ruin the moment if I said it was Mr. G) ME!

She immediately reached her orgasm, there in our bed, and me also at the same time.

Sounds great.

I hope you will ask SW to book a massage with Mr. G after her next personal training.
During such massage she may ask about massage the inner thighs.
She may mention that it needs to be streached and you doesn’t take care about this parts.
So you do not satisfy her and are looking for someone to do this.

Can you imagine his hand touching her there, almost there?
Can you see imagine her face…
You may ask SW about it…

[slenderfish]

With the party in May being a test for your newly remodeled house why the party at a commercial boutique? If SW was going to give you your ultimate birthday present, she would want to be home. Maybe next year.
Can we get some more pictures of her breasts?

We will have some parties at our house over the summer, etc. The one in June is "extra special" and therefore will include more people than our house can manage.

Perhaps it's time to consider a new avatar.

[slenderfish]

With the party in May being a test for your newly remodeled house why the party at a commercial boutique? If SW was going to give you your ultimate birthday present, she would want to be home. Maybe next year.
Can we get some more pictures of her breasts?

We will have some parties at our house over the summer, etc. The one in June is "extra special" and therefore will include more people than our house can manage.

Perhaps it's time to consider a new avatar.

And.....

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[regular3]

Larger version please for closer inspection.

[Jimmy394]

How in the hell is it possible that Mr. G can possibly keep his hands off that Ass, much less sink his Cock into it!! That man must be made of steel to resist!!!