Humiliation

[BOGMANDIAS]

Many couples like to include some form of humiliation in their lifestyle, but it doesn't always come at the beginning of the cuckold relationship, how was that for you? How did humiliation evolve during your relationship? What is your favorite form of humiliation? What's the most humiliating thing you've ever done?

[PRsubhub]

Other:
Having to be "Feminized" (dressed) in front of her bulls, or don't get to watch or participate.

[bradisalpha]

As a BF.. I enjoy all 11 for the cuckold !!

Just saying...

Brad

[dinoo]

Humiliation ???
We discussed it many times.
My wife LadyD didn't like this expression. However, she did all to tease me.

She once: "It isn't humiliation. It is an expression of the exceptional bond we have. Yes, it makes me horny if you are watching, especially when I'm "owned" and the only thing you can do is jerking yourself off. But when we both are together again, you are my beloved husband and not the cuckold like it is described so often."

When at last I proposed the expression "sexual humiliation" she could live with it.
She: "I love to be a HW and that is what I like showing to you. It is really a gift that you feel it as a joy. Your eyes can't lie, you know. They push me to cross borders I thought I had. Where will it lead to?"

Nevertheless, I voted for the points 3, 5, 6, 7, 8.
The last one, sucking cocks, LadyD liked extremely. Then watching me with much joy.
Once she said: "When I saw you suck his cock, I felt jealous not being a male."

[Lucky Dog]

I have done many of the items on the list, but my wife has not really thought of it as humiliation - just fun for all. Things ended with her last guy because he was very young and had to move on, and also because of the pandemic. I've found myself caving more humiliation, and I thought it wouldn't happen without a bull. We've had a talk and she is willing to do it more in the context of femdom even before circumstances and her schedule allow her to find a bull.

She has been unwilling to hurt me or make me suffer, but she is beginning to understand my needs as a submissive and is willing to try doing these things. I'd love to be naked under her desk and lick her while she's working or in a video conference - but probably not one where they can see her on video. I'd love to do that, but of course, she can't let that happen professionally. Maybe that's just the stuff of porn videos?

[Bent_n_Twisted]

Many couples like to include some form of humiliation in their lifestyle, but it doesn't always come at the beginning of the cuckold relationship, how was that for you? How did humiliation evolve during your relationship?

It started with a chastity device. Then it went to making me lick her cum-filled pussy- It wasn't my idea, I was restrained and I didn't get a choice.

What is your favorite form of humiliation?

I don't have a 'favorite'. The whole scenario of being restrained, and being (literally) forced to do/be subject to 'naughty'/nasty/perverted things that I don't 'want' to do and would never do willingly is hot as hell, especially not having a 'safeword' and not being able to 'escape' from whatever she might have in mind.

What's the most humiliating thing you've ever done?

That's probably a toss-up between being left bound in the bathtub for hours while she relieved herself on me every time she had to go, and her fucking my mouth with a rather large and very realistic dildo (both occurred on the same day).

[Cuck_Steve]

All of them.

[Triceratops]

Main Humiliation has been Lila seducing or being easy lay for my work colleagues and golf buddies. Most are under the illusion i dont know so when they are with both of us, i get hard knowing they have and will again fuck my wife

[Revenant]

licking and kiss her feet while her bull give it all

[subguy80]

I used to resist using the word "humiliation" because I didn't feel "humiliated" when I would be a sub to my wife and/or her BF. I felt different pleasures but they weren't pleasures from being made to look silly or foolish or pathetic. (I am not criticizing others who do want that). But, I suppose it's a fine line, really, and I've been at a loss to find another word to describe how I feel. When I wear a cock cage and another man gives my wife sexual pleasure while I watch, is that humiliation? I suppose "vanilla" people would say "yes." But I feel turned on. And I know that my wife and her BF are also turned on. Is it humiliation to cradle your wife while two guys take turns with her pussy and you can tell she absolutely loves it? And you know you can caress and stroke her cheeks and breasts and show her tenderness and support, but you know you won't be getting access to her pussy except maybe your tongue? I read once that something is only humiliating if the person who is supposedly the object of the humiliation feels that way. It doesn't matter how the outside world feels. That always stuck with me and made sense to me. However, I still can't find a better word in the English language that describes how I feel.

[desertsub]

I have experienced all of these except for the feet thing. My wife hates having her feet messed with, which is fine by me because I've never been into feet myself. The first real humiliation thing for me was being left tied to our bed at night while she went out with her girlfriends and fucked other guys and then came home and made me clean her cum filled pussy. Her girlfriends all knew she was cuckolding me, which brings me to one of the most humiliating things I've experienced. On two occasions during this time period (it was early in our marriage) she brought two different girlfriends home with her when she returned home, to show them how I was left at home tied to the bed and blindfolded. Both times they played with and made fun of my rock hard little erection and said they understood why my wife was cuckolding me!

My interaction was very limited back then, I was never present when she got fucked. Years later, when she started back cuckolding me after we raised our kids, she decided she wanted me present whenever possible to see her get fucked. Right off the bat I was locked in chastity and she has had me do pretty much everything on the list since then, along with some things not on the list.

[Texas Jack]

Her girlfriends all knew she was cuckolding me, which brings me to one of the most humiliating things I've experienced. On two occasions during this time period (it was early in our marriage) she brought two different girlfriends home with her when she returned home, to show them how I was left at home tied to the bed and blindfolded. Both times they played with and made fun of my rock hard little erection and said they understood why my wife was cuckolding me!

This is insanely hot.

[jw_kk]

Humiliation, at least as an intentional or deliberate part of things, isn’t really in our repertoire.

Having said that, KK’s made comments, as well as some from encounter partners that have a humiliating aspect to them; “You have to cum inside me so that hubby will want to fuck me!” is one oft repeated comment KK makes, while the frequent exclamation from an encounter partner is usually along the lines of “I can’t believe your husband’s watching me fuck you,” or something to that effect.

We’ve had some public exposure, like three of us in an elevator, heading back to our hotel suite, with KK being groped, or groping an encounter partner in the elevator cab, and having it unexpectedly stop on an intermediate floor - sometimes others will board the elevator, other times they’re taken aback by the scene and let the cab go without boarding.

I’ve often undressed my wife for another man, or men, which has an air of humiliation around it, however I mostly feel a sense of pride in that act.

One of my favorite active, participant roles is fuck-licking KK while she’s taking a lover’s cock - in that position, balls on the forehead, and sometimes a blow-out cum load from her lover are inevitable.

Things like cleaning up a sloppy cream-pie, sucking my wife’s manicured toes, and similar services are all part of the deal for anyone experienced in this lifestyle, but not necessarily, or always humiliating.

[Kneeling]

THE MOST INTENSE HUMILIATION WAS KNEELING BEFORE THE BULL WHO HAD JUST BEEN WITH MY WIFE AND ASKING HIS PERMISSION TO
KNEEL AND LICK HER CLEAN OF HIS CUM

[Kneeling]

THE MOST INTENSE HUMILIATION WAS KNEELING BEFORE THE BULL WHO HAD JUST BEEN WITH MY WIFE AND ASKING HIS PERMISSION TO
KNEEL AND LICK HER CLEAN OF HIS CUM

[MartasBoy]

I've accompanied my wife to the hotel cocktail lounge while we waited for her bull to arrive. It's usually pretty clear to the hostess and waitress, what's going on, when he and she send me to another table while they flirt to make out. And I have waited there in the cocktail lounge while they are up in their hotel room.

The waitresses are usually very kind to me. Some have kept me supplied with free beers, sympathy beers, I guess you'd call them.

When my wife comes back down, it's pretty clear what has happened. Her previously perfect hair and makeup are now a mess, sometimes her stockings are gone, sometime she comes down carrying her shoes. Any woman would recognize the look of satisfaction on her face.

Anyone who sees him, and sees me, understands why he and I each serve the particular role, that we do for my wife. One time he came down with her and stayed to have a drink As my wife and I were leaving, I noticed the cocktail waitress give him her phone number.

[Robo2006]

I have undresses my wife for twi of her bulls and have sucked on one of her bulls to keep him hard. I have done clean up duty, but not in front of a bull. As of this moment we only have have one bull that we know would love for me to eat his cum from her in front of him. I would love to eat a cream pie in front of the man who gave it to her. I also want her to tell me how much better his thick cock feels than my skinny cock does while he is fucking her, but I don't think she would ever do that.

[liv2gag]

I've experienced all of the above, for the most part. But the one thing that I would place under the "Other" category that I've really enjoyed is being punished, physically by the Bull in the presence of my Goddess.

I've sucked Bulls, been fucked by Bulls, been cum on and in by Bulls, I've cleaned Bulls as well as my Goddess, but never until Goddess' Bull reprimanded me verbally and then harshly spanked me in front of Her have I ever felt quite so an intense feeling of submission to a superior Alpha.

This particular Bull came over for an evening meal that Goddess requested I prepare for them. Earlier in the day, Goddess had been fairly unhappy with me for failing to wash Her car for Her. She shared this information with Her Bull when He arrived. Of all of Her Bulls, this one happened to be the one that seemed to enjoy humiliating me the most. Prior to this, He had routinely been dismissive of me to the point of ignoring me at times. He had been fairly aggressive and verbal with me when I would attend to His or Goddess' physical needs. But, prior to this evening, He had never punished me in a physical fashion.

After Mistress brought Him up to speed on the situation, He asked me what I had to say for myself. Dissatisfied with my answer, He then took the lead in interrogating me about my behavior and really laying into me with the verbal abuse. I was amazed the effect this had on both me and my Goddess. She was obviously aroused seeing Him take control of me in this fashion, something i'd never really seen from Her before. Similarly, although being treated in this fashion by another Man (a real Man) was certainly uncomfortable for me, i could not deny the intense physical and psychological arousal i was feeling as well. Had i not been caged, i would have been fully erect. As it was, part of the pleasure i was feeling was derived from the pain my cock felt as it swelled in the confines of the cage. Furthermore, i could feel my clitty beginning to leak substantially, visibly staining my panties (thankfully, i was wearing a skirt over them so Sir couldn't see the discharge).

Still dissatisfied with my attitude and my excuses, Sir then told me to strip. When i did, He and Goddess could see how much i had leaked. This made Sir very angry, as He questioned me why i would think it appropriate to be sexually aroused as He was dressing me down. Again, i had no answer to satisfy Sir. Without any warning, Sir grabbed me by the arm and pulled me over his lap. He then preceded to spank me unlike i had ever been spanked before. Goddess had disciplined me on many occasions before this, but i'd never once felt the power and sting of a Man's hand.

It was glorious. The arousal I felt was off the charts. Had i not been caged, i am certain i would have ejaculated hands free from His ministrations.
As i said, i'd been fucked by Men, sucked Men, but never until this Alpha was raining blows down on my ass had i ever felt a sense of submission as intense in my entire life.

The effect on Goddess was just as intense. Surprised by His actions, i heard Her gasp slightly as He began spanking me. As the blows began to get progressively more painful, and my reaction to them more animated, a small moan escaped my Goddess' mouth. I felt Her move closer to Him on the sofa. Soon the blows were almost more than i could bear. For a brief moment, i contemplated using a safe word, but Sir soon stopped. I was left in genuine pain, gasping for air with tears in my eyes.

Goddess, who had always been the type of 'sensual' or gentle Domme to me, seemed to have been pushed to new levels by what She had just seen. As i sat, gasping for breath and grateful that Sir had stopped, She leaned over to Him and actually thanked Him. She then placed Her hand down the front of Her tights and told Him She thought i might need a bit more to make sure i'd learned my lesson.

Without hesitation, the blows continued on my ass, i began to cry out in earnest, genuinely begging Sir to stop, and seriously considering my safe word. Goddess was clearly beside Herself with lust at this point as She watched a real Man break down Her sissy-sub. She was masturbating furiously while watching my ordeal. Like i say, She had always been the sensual type of Domme, rarely speaking harshly to me. i was always Her "sweetie/sweetheart" or Her "good girl". But as She began to climax She shouted to Sir, "yes! Beat the fag's ass!" Then a deeply guttural groan escaped Her and i knew She was cumming.

Soon after, the blows stopped. i was sobbing in earnest at this point. Sir, well aware of what the He had done to Goddess, pushed me off His lap onto the floor. He stood up, took Goddess' hand and led Her upstairs to the bedroom. i lay there on the living room floor for another ten minutes as i listened to Goddess, this extremely Dominant woman that i'd known to NEVER submit, get fucked more intensely than i had ever heard.

i laid there, in my precum soaked panties, and realized that both Goddess and i had just been completely owned by Sir.

[thepen]

That was scalding hot, liv2gag. Thanks for sharing it!

[Uncreative78]

I've experienced a couple on the list, but recently have really dove deep in wanting and hoping for more.. id love almost everything listed

[King_Mr]

I've experienced all of the above, for the most part. But the one thing that I would place under the "Other" category that I've really enjoyed is being punished, physically by the Bull in the presence of my Goddess.

I've sucked Bulls, been fucked by Bulls, been cum on and in by Bulls, I've cleaned Bulls as well as my Goddess, but never until Goddess' Bull reprimanded me verbally and then harshly spanked me in front of Her have I ever felt quite so an intense feeling of submission to a superior Alpha.

This particular Bull came over for an evening meal that Goddess requested I prepare for them. Earlier in the day, Goddess had been fairly unhappy with me for failing to wash Her car for Her. She shared this information with Her Bull when He arrived. Of all of Her Bulls, this one happened to be the one that seemed to enjoy humiliating me the most. Prior to this, He had routinely been dismissive of me to the point of ignoring me at times. He had been fairly aggressive and verbal with me when I would attend to His or Goddess' physical needs. But, prior to this evening, He had never punished me in a physical fashion.

After Mistress brought Him up to speed on the situation, He asked me what I had to say for myself. Dissatisfied with my answer, He then took the lead in interrogating me about my behavior and really laying into me with the verbal abuse. I was amazed the effect this had on both me and my Goddess. She was obviously aroused seeing Him take control of me in this fashion, something i'd never really seen from Her before. Similarly, although being treated in this fashion by another Man (a real Man) was certainly uncomfortable for me, i could not deny the intense physical and psychological arousal i was feeling as well. Had i not been caged, i would have been fully erect. As it was, part of the pleasure i was feeling was derived from the pain my cock felt as it swelled in the confines of the cage. Furthermore, i could feel my clitty beginning to leak substantially, visibly staining my panties (thankfully, i was wearing a skirt over them so Sir couldn't see the discharge).

Still dissatisfied with my attitude and my excuses, Sir then told me to strip. When i did, He and Goddess could see how much i had leaked. This made Sir very angry, as He questioned me why i would think it appropriate to be sexually aroused as He was dressing me down. Again, i had no answer to satisfy Sir. Without any warning, Sir grabbed me by the arm and pulled me over his lap. He then preceded to spank me unlike i had ever been spanked before. Goddess had disciplined me on many occasions before this, but i'd never once felt the power and sting of a Man's hand.

It was glorious. The arousal I felt was off the charts. Had i not been caged, i am certain i would have ejaculated hands free from His ministrations.
As i said, i'd been fucked by Men, sucked Men, but never until this Alpha was raining blows down on my ass had i ever felt a sense of submission as intense in my entire life.

The effect on Goddess was just as intense. Surprised by His actions, i heard Her gasp slightly as He began spanking me. As the blows began to get progressively more painful, and my reaction to them more animated, a small moan escaped my Goddess' mouth. I felt Her move closer to Him on the sofa. Soon the blows were almost more than i could bear. For a brief moment, i contemplated using a safe word, but Sir soon stopped. I was left in genuine pain, gasping for air with tears in my eyes.

Goddess, who had always been the type of 'sensual' or gentle Domme to me, seemed to have been pushed to new levels by what She had just seen. As i sat, gasping for breath and grateful that Sir had stopped, She leaned over to Him and actually thanked Him. She then placed Her hand down the front of Her tights and told Him She thought i might need a bit more to make sure i'd learned my lesson.

Without hesitation, the blows continued on my ass, i began to cry out in earnest, genuinely begging Sir to stop, and seriously considering my safe word. Goddess was clearly beside Herself with lust at this point as She watched a real Man break down Her sissy-sub. She was masturbating furiously while watching my ordeal. Like i say, She had always been the sensual type of Domme, rarely speaking harshly to me. i was always Her "sweetie/sweetheart" or Her "good girl". But as She began to climax She shouted to Sir, "yes! Beat the fag's ass!" Then a deeply guttural groan escaped Her and i knew She was cumming.

Soon after, the blows stopped. i was sobbing in earnest at this point. Sir, well aware of what the He had done to Goddess, pushed me off His lap onto the floor. He stood up, took Goddess' hand and led Her upstairs to the bedroom. i lay there on the living room floor for another ten minutes as i listened to Goddess, this extremely Dominant woman that i'd known to NEVER submit, get fucked more intensely than i had ever heard.

i laid there, in my precum soaked panties, and realized that both Goddess and i had just been completely owned by Sir.

Was this the only time that happened, or were you disciplined again?

[Mgcouplemn]

Wife and I have a adult playroom full of her & him adult toys. The first time I was was humiliated publicly was when one night I was in the other room hearing my wife and her friends talking about sex over wine. My wife came in and told me to go to the playroom and start doing something while her friends left. Normally this meant she was horny and wanted sex. went to start playing on my own self. I was hard already, so I stripped naked and put a nice tight brass cock ring on which made me even harder. I laid on the bed and started using the masturbater machine my wife had gotten me, I was well into it and edging very nicely when the door opened and my wife walked in telling me not to stop. I kept going and then three of her girlfriends walked in too. The four of the sat around the room watching me masturbate. Of course I came while they watched. Now about once a month she has the girls over for wine and I put a show on for them, they never touch me, but I do cum infront of them.

[ucaneffher]

I selected OTHER. The ONLY types of humiliation that I seem to be okay with and actually like are:

1. When she publicly acts single in front of me and has no regard for me being next to her. Example, If a man flirts with her or hints being attracted to her while we are sitting at a bar-her next to me, she will turn completely to face him and engage in a conversation/flirting with him and just make me wait patiently/watch as she entertains and flirts. Once he starts buying her drinks, I know that I am going to be abandoned for a while. I've experienced 5 minutes of it and I've experienced over an hour of it. Wish that it happened almost every time we went out but realistically it has only occurred around 12 or 13 times in the last 4 years.

A few of those times she has actually walked off and sat with the other man for the remainder of the night -leaving me there alone sipping on my drink and watching her laugh and touch his arms as they talk for what seems eternal. Nothing sexier than seeing your GF exchanging phone numbers with the man she was chatted up by.

2. Hasn't happened with this GF yet but hoping she follows the ex GFs footsteps. It's very humiliating but delicious for me when my GF has a partner who she becomes sexually addicted to and being with him becomes her number 1 priority in her life. The sexual chemistry and connection with him makes her literally stupid and has her doing things she'd never do and I'm just there absolutely helpless unable to snap her out of it and having no choice but to accept that she has cravings for her man.

It's humiliating that he can claim her and fully make her his with with minimal effort and whenever her wants her- and she more than happily and addicted to him is beyond excited to become his, and me? I just need to accept it that my gf is addicted to him, sees him every day, and no longer cares to no hide being his.

Humiliating because this leaves me to pick up the slack in all areas that she is neglecting because she is obsessed with pleasing him. House chores such as food, cleaning, and not to mention the excuses when going out with our friends but my gf is not there with me because she's out getting dicked down for the 5th consecutive day but you have to tell them she wasn't feeling well, or when she stops being discreet and goes out dancing with him or dates and people tell you they saw her with a man.

Those are my two weaknesses when it comes to humiliation. I have a third one that I would like to live one day. If my GF ever gets a full time boyfriend who I become good friends with. If they ever become serious, I want to be able to accept to him and her and tell them both that I understand and accept that she fully belongs to him and I accept it as long I still get included in their relationship and some alone time with her but I respect that she will immediately go back to him after we have our time.

[maxbud]

Wife and I have a adult playroom full of her & him adult toys. The first time I was was humiliated publicly was when one night I was in the other room hearing my wife and her friends talking about sex over wine. My wife came in and told me to go to the playroom and start doing something while her friends left. Normally this meant she was horny and wanted sex. went to start playing on my own self. I was hard already, so I stripped naked and put a nice tight brass cock ring on which made me even harder. I laid on the bed and started using the masturbater machine my wife had gotten me, I was well into it and edging very nicely when the door opened and my wife walked in telling me not to stop. I kept going and then three of her girlfriends walked in too. The four of the sat around the room watching me masturbate. Of course I came while they watched. Now about once a month she has the girls over for wine and I put a show on for them, they never touch me, but I do cum infront of them.

Imagine how hot it would be,... for you to be naked on the floor masturbating... and then the women walk in .. (all of them gorgeous and clothed), and then your wife and her BF walk in. Your hotwife sits on his lap and makes out with him deeply and slowly... whilst you look at them and masturbate intensely.. .. in front of everyone.
and the other woman are watching your self-imposed cuckolding, and are amused by it (one of them chuckles , and comments how this humiliation makes you so un-fuckable and untouchable, and opposite , makes the bull soooo fuckable... ; and she goes to the bull implying that she also wants some, your wife pauses the deep french kissing,.. and the girlfriend goes for a deep french kiss with the bull, as he fondles her breast gently; the girlfriend is flustered and red faced,..and everyone is laughing. Your wife offers to lend her girlfriend the bull,.. and she enthusaistically echoes how she would LOVE to have a night with him; and would like to also borrow you, to have you naked and masturbating as they have deep dirty sex

[iloanmywife]

I have no problem admitting that I enjoy humiliation. I'm a cuckold masochist and it's a part of my personal kink.

My wife was originally reluctant for fearing of hurting me, but as she explored that part of our sexuality she embraced it. Humiliating me became her fetish and she's at least as into it as I am, and almost certainly more. For her, my humiliation adds another dimension to fucking other men, even when I'm not there. And she developed a taste for being humiliated herself and has explored that fetish with other men. Never by me, but sometimes in my presensce.

To me, being cuckolded is humiliating in and of itself, regardless of any overt humiliation. Listening to my wife upstairs with another man, or picking her up from another man's house. Masturbating by the side of our bed while watching her with another man. That, to me, is a baseline humiliation that gets me going.

We've definitely enjoyed some deliberate humiliation play, some of it extreme. Early on, most of it was sort of play-acted and for my benefit, usually at my suggestion beforehand (i.e., "It would be really hot if..."). The best experiences sort of organically happened within our sexual dynamic and the situation at the time, unplanned but not unwanted. And some humiliation play sort of crescendoed and pushed our boundaries, the sort of play where it's been awkward for a while after and feels like it left an indelible mark on our marriage. I don't mean that it was bad; just permanent, like a tattoo. We both know what happened.

I think my most humiliating experiences haven't been meant to humiliate me. We might casually discuss my inadequacies over dinner. Not as foreplay, but just as honest conversation. Or when she came home one morning and gushed about how she just had the best sex of her life. Or watching another man give her multiple orgasms and make her squirt, then having euphoric (for me) sloppy seconds sex while she casually chats with the man who just nutted inside of her. None of that was meant to humiliate me, which makes it excruciatingly humiliating.