Should a cuckold get any pussy?

[Cuck4Life]

I have lived as a cuckold for over 40 years. I do not believe that a cuckold should be allowed pussy, it should be for superior males only. A cuckold should not have the privilege of feeling the warmth or wetness of a pussy. The cuckold should eat the creampie and lick clean the cock after his wife has been properly serviced by the superior male. His orgasms should be denied or ruined.

[2inUPMichigan]

Generalizations are a slippery slope.

If you answer for yourself that is one thing, but to claim that everyone "should" make the same exact choice doesn’t make a logical sense to me.

We aren't all the same here, there is just a shared interest that brings us all together. What works for your situation may not at all work for another couple and vice versa.

There is no "one true way " and thankfully we don't decide as a group what is acceptable for each individual couple.

[2inUPMichigan]

To each their own but to my mind this type of “play” seems like a mental illness. Married people should have sex in my opinion unless it is not physically possible. Short term denial to increase passion makes sense. Total denial long term for the purpose of “angst” seems delusional.

I have to wholeheartedly agree. But it seems to work for a number of folks. But I am quite curious (of course, there's no way to find this out) as to how long a marriage lasts after total long-term denial has set in. I mean, granted, there are many reasons for getting and/or staying married. And as people change over time, I'm sure those reasons change. But total long-term denial? WTF does the Wife then need the Husband for, given that he is now (essentially) a sexless roommate to her? Just sayin........

Wow! So I only needed my husband for sex? If he can't have sex he is suddenly useless and disposable?
That is one if the saddest things I have heard in a long time.

[Christinebitg]

Generalizations are a slippery slope.

If you answer for yourself that is one thing, but to claim that everyone "should" make the same exact choice doesn’t make a logical sense to me.

We aren't all the same here, there is just a shared interest that brings us all together. What works for your situation may not at all work for another couple and vice versa.

There is no "one true way " and thankfully we don't decide as a group what is acceptable for each individual couple.

This!! ^^^^^^^

It's too bad that a version of this isn't required reading for people when they first register at this site. So many people (guys especially, I suppose) seem to think that there's a "One True Way" to do this stuff.

[D+D]

That is totally up to my wife. She has never cut me off although she has has two long term lovers and many one time or a few times. She knows that she can certainly deny me if she wants and I won’t even question it. She also knows that I’m obedient enough to wear a cage if told to. So, to me it never up to the cuckold but always the hotwife or mistress.

[AgegapCuck]

I agree it is her choice. I have a good sized and reliably performing cock so my wife is happy to be fucked by me every few weeks. Partly to be considerate to me and also because she might as well get relief from my cock as a dildo.

But she offers me a very limited choice. I can’t lick or kiss her pussy and she wants next to no foreplay. Im not even allowed to French kiss her. She reserves all passionate intimacy for her lover.

This is her right. Her lover is physically far superior to me. 6’4”, built and looking like a Viking warrior. My wife has given him her pussy for carnal delight. and my access is for routine sex as and when they both allow it.

If or when he insists on my being pussy free, I will have to accept this and hope hat by being obedient I can earn relief.

[FFDriver]

You've asked a simple question that requires a complex answer, far beyond a 'yes-or-no.' That's why the thread, "Looking For Advice" hits so close to home for me. We're in our later 70s now, so it's all in the past for both of us. My wife was outgoing, personable, flirty, free spirited..., and literally wrote the book on discretion and privacy.

She adamantly refused to ever discuss anything with a sexual connotation. When she saw someone she wanted to feel between her knees, the signs were so very subtle you had to really know her to see them. Nothing changed for us at home. Her last couple boyfriends before she quit were more intense relationships and I knew she'd become exclusive with them when our sex stopped. Signs like changing in the walk-in closet so I never saw her nude, bathing when she knew I wouldn't enter the bathroom, and becoming disinterested any time I made advances. Only once did she err, and leave "visible evidence." She'd changed in the closet and without thinking, left her panties atop the pile in the hamper with the crotch visible.

My attitude: she was a perfect wife in every way imaginable 99% of the time. I could live with the... one percent... considering how the other 99% was in our lives. I think the answer to the question rests with the wife. If your love is mutual, it becomes her decision.

[Cory87]

I have lived as a cuckold for over 40 years. I do not believe that a cuckold should be allowed pussy, it should be for superior males only. A cuckold should not have the privilege of feeling the warmth or wetness of a pussy. The cuckold should eat the creampie and lick clean the cock after his wife has been properly serviced by the superior male. His orgasms should be denied or ruined.

You have lived as something different than a cuckold for over 40 years. A cuckold is a married male who has a wife that has sexual relationships with others(whether he is aware or not). I think the majority of these men enjoy having sex with their wife and/or other women far too much to give it up.

[Cory87]

To each their own but to my mind this type of “play” seems like a mental illness. Married people should have sex in my opinion unless it is not physically possible. Short term denial to increase passion makes sense. Total denial long term for the purpose of “angst” seems delusional.

this^^^

[Naplescuck]

I have lived as a cuckold for over 40 years. I do not believe that a cuckold should be allowed pussy, it should be for superior males only. A cuckold should not have the privilege of feeling the warmth or wetness of a pussy. The cuckold should eat the creampie and lick clean the cock after his wife has been properly serviced by the superior male. His orgasms should be denied or ruined.

I am with you 1000 percent!!! I long for the day my wife has a steady lover (boyfriend) or multiple, whatever she WOULD CHOOSE, but I know for a fact he would be superior and she absolutely deserves that……..for a man to TAKE HER (as she has told me she desires). I KNOW that my little dick does absolutely nothing for her at all (she has made that clear, and I do love that), as others have said, we are all different, and their is nothing wrong with how we choose or how we are wired, as someone else mentioned, you only live once, so why fake it, be who you are

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

I agree it is her choice. I have a good sized and reliably performing cock so my wife is happy to be fucked by me every few weeks. Partly to be considerate to me and also because she might as well get relief from my cock as a dildo.

But she offers me a very limited choice. I can’t lick or kiss her pussy and she wants next to no foreplay. Im not even allowed to French kiss her. She reserves all passionate intimacy for her lover.

This is her right. Her lover is physically far superior to me. 6’4”, built and looking like a Viking warrior. My wife has given him her pussy for carnal delight. and my access is for routine sex as and when they both allow it.

If or when he insists on my being pussy free, I will have to accept this and hope hat by being obedient I can earn relief.

HMMMM.......as far as I am concerned, French/deep-tongue-kissing is one of the most erotic and loving things a couple can do. I could never live without something like that, but if you are able to live with it being denied to you, more power to you.

[Christinebitg]

HMMMM.......as far as I am concerned, French/deep-tongue-kissing is one of the most erotic and loving things a couple can do. I could never live without something like that, but if you are able to live with it being denied to you, more power to you.
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I agree with you. It definitely is all of that. It may be my favorite thing, and that's covering a lot of territory.

But unfortunately, my partner (who is otherwise wonderful in many ways) just doesn't enjoy it and never has. So I do without that. And now without penetration, although that's more recent.

But now close to 70, companionship and emotional support are more important.

[AgegapCuck]

I agree it is her choice. I have a good sized and reliably performing cock so my wife is happy to be fucked by me every few weeks. Partly to be considerate to me and also because she might as well get relief from my cock as a dildo.

But she offers me a very limited choice. I can’t lick or kiss her pussy and she wants next to no foreplay. Im not even allowed to French kiss her. She reserves all passionate intimacy for her lover.

This is her right. Her lover is physically far superior to me. 6’4”, built and looking like a Viking warrior. My wife has given him her pussy for carnal delight. and my access is for routine sex as and when they both allow it.

If or when he insists on my being pussy free, I will have to accept this and hope hat by being obedient I can earn relief.

HMMMM.......as far as I am concerned, French/deep-tongue-kissing is one of the most erotic and loving things a couple can do. I could never live without something like that, but if you are able to live with it being denied to you, more power to you.

I don’t disagree. I adore Passionate kissing and oral in all forms. But it’s not about me. She associates kissing with passion and carnal pleasures and she is just not attracted to me sexually. I am 21 years older but that’s only part of it. She desires younger alpha and well built guys and reserves her kisses for them.

I do get occasional pussy and she is very loving in a million other ways. I’m more partner in crime and ‘girl’ friend than lover. But I remain hers and I am delighted to have a Hotwife with a bull who knows how to please her. .

[desertsub]

Like others have said, it is up to what each couple want. There are couples all up and down the spectrum and what works for one might not work for another.

In my case, I am totally submissive to my wife and whatever she decides is how it will be and I accept that. At this point she allows me inside her on very special occasions, to be determined by her. She absolutely doesn't count birthdays, anniversaries and holidays as special occasions, she says that is too much expected and she doesn't play that game. She might allow me inside her once or twice a year, but I am never allowed to cum inside her. It has been that way for several years now, only other men are allowed to ejaculate inside her. She told me that as a cuckold, that is the one thing I'm never allowed to do. I probably saw that coming way before it happened, just after we were married she told me that I had to clean her pussy anytime we had sex. I was given two choices, lick her clean after cumming inside her or pull out before cumming. When she started cuckolding me shortly after that, it was understood that I would also clean her after any other man had cum inside her. I truly believe that I have cleaned every load of cum from her pussy that has been put inside it for 35 years!

I personally feel that because of my inability to properly fuck her, my wife should just cut me off altogether, but she says she wants the intimacy of feeling me inside her every once in a while, even though I'm not allowed to cum when I do so. As I said, I submit to her and go with her wishes. We have talked about the possibility and she know that if she wants that I am quite alright with it. She prefers short term relationships with other guys, but says that if she ever develops a long term relationship I would most likely be totally pussy free. I once wrote her a story about her ex-boyfriend moving in with us and her handing the keys to my chastity cage over to him and making me pussy free. She said it was one of the hottest things she had ever read, and if he was ever to move in with us my story was probably a pretty good representation of what would happen. My wife has had him come to visit throughout the last several years and fucked him whenever he was in our home, and admits to still having feelings for him after all these years. He recently got married, so the chances of him moving in with us when he retires is pretty much nil, and I don't see her developing a relationship like that with another man so yeah, I will probably be allowed to put my little dick inside her on very special occasions, but I know that I won't be allowed to cum when it happens.

[troilusand]

I personally feel that because of my inability to properly fuck her, my wife should just cut me off altogether, but she says she wants the intimacy of feeling me inside her every once in a while...

You could always cut yourself off, Des.

When Cressida was still cuckolding me with her last long time lover, I decided we should stop fucking, not her. When they finally broke up, she didn't believe it when I told her it had been three years since the last time I did anything but beat off alone. And that for a few years before that, had only had her pussy about a 1/2 dozen times. She couldn't believe that this oversexed cuck could EVER give up fucking.

Right after they broke up I got to fuck her once. That was around 5 years ago and I was so bad that she told me after that time that was the last time I'd ever feel the inside of a pussy in my life.

So my scorecard is about a 1/2 dozen lays in the last 13 years or so -- just once in the last 8.

I'm good with it.

Troilus

[gazdenied]

I am pussy free and have been for years. The only pussy I get is with my tongue. I can't have sex with my wife because I am so small I really can't get it in her so I use my tongue and she gets cock from her BF.

I could have written this. I am exactly the same.

[Chrislydi]

I have lived as a cuckold for over 40 years. I do not believe that a cuckold should be allowed pussy, it should be for superior males only. A cuckold should not have the privilege of feeling the warmth or wetness of a pussy. The cuckold should eat the creampie and lick clean the cock after his wife has been properly serviced by the superior male. His orgasms should be denied or ruined.

Speak for yourself, don't try and make that the definition of a cuckold as it's not and you can be a cuckold and take the polar opposite view

[CuckNSub]

It should be up to the bull to decide.

[Deank1992]

I'm going without pussy for the next three months while my wife's boyfriend is staying with us. It's only been a week but I'm really looking forward to sleeping with my wife again.

[Cuckonthelook]

I have lived as a cuckold for over 40 years. I do not believe that a cuckold should be allowed pussy, it should be for superior males only. A cuckold should not have the privilege of feeling the warmth or wetness of a pussy. The cuckold should eat the creampie and lick clean the cock after his wife has been properly serviced by the superior male. His orgasms should be denied or ruined.

Speak for yourself, don't try and make that the definition of a cuckold as it's not and you can be a cuckold and take the polar opposite view

He quite literally is speaking for himself and his beliefs…

[Chrislydi]

I have lived as a cuckold for over 40 years. I do not believe that a cuckold should be allowed pussy, it should be for superior males only. A cuckold should not have the privilege of feeling the warmth or wetness of a pussy. The cuckold should eat the creampie and lick clean the cock after his wife has been properly serviced by the superior male. His orgasms should be denied or ruined.

Speak for yourself, don't try and make that the definition of a cuckold as it's not and you can be a cuckold and take the polar opposite view

He quite literally is speaking for himself and his beliefs…

Obviously his beliefs are intolerant of others and think there's only one way a cuckold should be. He's also wrong as it's not up to him, there's no one way as witnessed by the wide variety of domestic arrangements within the cuck spectrum

His way is the best for him but not for other cucks who shouldn't have to conform to his template. To
try and say alphas are superior males, in what way ? It's just so wrong, it hardly deserves consideration., I'm physically stronger than most alphas, but that's no determining factor either - it's a joke.

." I do not believe that a cuckold should be allowed pussy, it should be for superior males only. A cuckold should not have the privilege of feeling the warmth or wetness of a pussy. The cuckold should eat the creampie and lick clean the cock after his wife has been properly serviced by the superior male. His orgasms should be denied or ruined"

There we go again the liberal use of his definition of 'superior' - or is it just another word for alpha - laughable

I virtually disagree with every single word but respect his choice to live that way, doesn't mean other cucks should.

I'd like to know his definition of superior and whether it stands up to even the flimsiest scrutiny.

[xucked]

We fool around with denial

I crave it, it amuses my wife

Although as she gets so little out of PiV in the first place, it saves her getting beat for no benefit to her

My wife denies me anywhere from a couple of weeks upto a few months. But I do wish it would be permanent

For me, only active denial works, not just being ignored... I need to be teased too

Recently she's added nudity denial to it too

[slowsteady]

The question is rhetorical.

A married man with a 100% faithful wife gets all 100% of her pussy. It doesn't matter if she allows only one fuck per year or 3 fucks per day. Any lingerie, dress, attention or other loving and caring things she might do are 100% for him. She may do these things often or rarely for hubby. The important fact is: She does 100 per cent of all these things for her husband only.

A married man with an unfaithful wife, for any reason, is getting less than 100% of his wife. Not only that, but hubby gets the shit portion of her attention. Her lover gets the good stuff from her now. She'll dress for him, change her looks for him, shave her pussy, devote a very attentive attitude to the desires and wishes of her lover. Et cetera. She'll fuck her lover in his own bed while hubby sleeps on the couch.

So, the married man with a faithful wife gets her everything. The cuckold, stag, hotwife hubby or however else they wish to define themselves today, gets the opportunity to behold his unfaithful wife bestow her goodies and affections on another man - her lover. Regardless, the amount of pussy the vast majority of cuckolds receive tends to diminish over time. Usually more rapidly than you'd think. The end result is a bunch of cuckolds on a slippery slope varying from a lesser amount of pussy to absolutely zero sex at all. The cuckold might eventually find himself in a total platonic relationship with his wife. A number of them haven't even seen their wives naked in quite awhile. They live as virtual dickless men. They get treated as virtual dickless men.

My conclusion is that many, if not a majority, of cuckolds are involved in a waning sex life with their wives. Since her lover gets her best, the quality of the "sex" that hubby does get from her is served with a mundane sense of duty. Her lover gets her sex served to him with hot desire! Understand now?

I know every cuckold situation is different and a number of cuckolds and their wives find the lifestyle a Nirvana for themselves. Not every cuckold gets the shaft and not every cuckoldress is a cold hearted bitch. The question whether the cuck should get pussy is moot. Even if he still gets lucky the pussy he does get is very low grade compared to her lover's portion. So don't get in my face about how wonderful your particular relationship is. I really don't give a shit.

Just saying...

[Bartleby]

the most important part for me is that the cuck needs to stay faithful to his wife. He can't have any pussy other than his wife's. If he has got any homosexual orientation, he cannot play the active part in anal intercourse.

[4herpleasure89]

To each their own but to my mind this type of “play” seems like a mental illness. Married people should have sex in my opinion unless it is not physically possible. Short term denial to increase passion makes sense. Total denial long term for the purpose of “angst” seems delusional.

I have to wholeheartedly agree. But it seems to work for a number of folks. But I am quite curious (of course, there's no way to find this out) as to how long a marriage lasts after total long-term denial has set in. I mean, granted, there are many reasons for getting and/or staying married. And as people change over time, I'm sure those reasons change. But total long-term denial? WTF does the Wife then need the Husband for, given that he is now (essentially) a sexless roommate to her? Just sayin........

Wow! So I only needed my husband for sex? If he can't have sex he is suddenly useless and disposable?
That is one if the saddest things I have heard in a long time.

This thread and my comments are about self imposed or forced denial. I don’t think either relate to your situation.