Figuring it out

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Fox » Fri Jun 24, 2022 11:34 am

Shirley has had a bunch of disappointments like this. One I. Particular named Mark. Really pushed all her buttons texting. After a few weeks she tried to set up a date. Suddenly he says he thinks he figured out we might have a potential conflict with people he knows that she works with. Doesn’t want to risk putting her job in jeopardy. Didn’t really make sense but ok. A few months later he texts her saying he can’t get her out of his head, maybe we can make this work if we’re discreet enough. After she sends him some new pics he disappears again. Months later he texts again. Clearly a pic collector. Just was clever enough that it took her a while to realize it.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Fri Jun 24, 2022 1:01 pm

Fox wrote:
Fri Jun 24, 2022 11:34 am
Shirley has had a bunch of disappointments like this. One I. Particular named Mark. Really pushed all her buttons texting. After a few weeks she tried to set up a date. Suddenly he says he thinks he figured out we might have a potential conflict with people he knows that she works with. Doesn’t want to risk putting her job in jeopardy. Didn’t really make sense but ok. A few months later he texts her saying he can’t get her out of his head, maybe we can make this work if we’re discreet enough. After she sends him some new pics he disappears again. Months later he texts again. Clearly a pic collector. Just was clever enough that it took her a while to realize it.
Sorry to hear that she had to go through that. It frustrates me that there are so many flakes out there. Hopefully she's found some good guys since then.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Fox » Fri Jun 24, 2022 1:11 pm

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Fri Jun 24, 2022 1:01 pm
Fox wrote:
Fri Jun 24, 2022 11:34 am
Shirley has had a bunch of disappointments like this. One I. Particular named Mark. Really pushed all her buttons texting. After a few weeks she tried to set up a date. Suddenly he says he thinks he figured out we might have a potential conflict with people he knows that she works with. Doesn’t want to risk putting her job in jeopardy. Didn’t really make sense but ok. A few months later he texts her saying he can’t get her out of his head, maybe we can make this work if we’re discreet enough. After she sends him some new pics he disappears again. Months later he texts again. Clearly a pic collector. Just was clever enough that it took her a while to realize it.

Sorry to hear that she had to go through that. It frustrates me that there are so many flakes out there. Hopefully she's found some good guys since then.
Took her awhile but she now has 2 that she likes a lot and a 3rd she’s been talking to for quite a while but schedules haven’t worked out and the sexual connection in their texting isn’t as strong as she’d like. So not sure about that one yet.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by eventfire » Sat Jun 25, 2022 9:43 am

I hate it when people disappear from your life

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Tue Jun 28, 2022 10:05 am

I posted a pic in our illustrated thread but thought I’d offer a bit more of a longer version here. (And before you get too excited, the pic is of clothes on a hotel room floor…nothing too titillating....oh wait, my husband added another).

Last week, G and I had another great sex date. I can’t count how many times I have had sex with him since becoming a hot wife. Sometimes I wonder if, because he was my first hot wife partner, the relationship should be running out of steam by now. But it isn’t. And I’m glad. Truth be told, I’m a little bit smitten by him (in an entirely appropriate way), and still get giddy when a new date approaches.

For this particular date, Adventurer had suggested that we record some audio from our time together. I thought that sounded like an excellent idea, and G was up for it too. I used a voice recorder app on my phone and left the phone on the bedside table. I paused it during some sex breaks, but captured a lot of flirty banter, kissing, the wet sounds of bodies meeting, and a lot of moans and screams of pleasure. (I can be a bit loud sometimes).

Adventurer loved it.

While the sexy bits were arousing, I think one of the things he liked best was the banter between G and I. You can tell that we’ve built a friendship over the past year and a half. The sex is amazing because we get each other and know how to mentally stimulate each other just as much as physically.

For example (and this is my rough summary of what was on the recording, not an actual transcript…who has time to do that?).

G (rubbing his cock against my pussy lips): The phone is going to pick up a lot of very wet sounds.

Me: Well you do make me a bit sloppy.

G: Very slippery too. I can hear your wetness just by rubbing against you. Do you know what this reminds me of?

Me (smiling up at him): What?

G (a naughty smile on his face): Our cemetery visit.

Me (bigger smile): That was a good visit. I remember being in the gazebo and I had your cock in my hand and I rubbed it against my clit just like that.

G: Like this?

Me: Yes. Just like that and I made myself cum.

G: I remember. I liked making you cum. I still like making you cum. Do you know what I wanted to do then?

Me: What?

G (thrusting fully inside me): This!

Me (moaning): Oh fuck! I wanted you to do that back then.

G (fucking me slowly and deeply): You did?

Me: Yes. I wanted you inside me. But we didn’t have condoms and we had to be good. It was our first solo date without D there.

G: Yes. We had to be good. Even though I wanted to fuck you so hard and deep. But we don’t have to be good anymore.

Me (as G picks up pace and begins to fuck me hard and fast): Fuuuuuck! No we don’t. Fuck that feels good. Fuck. I love fucking you!

This is followed by a lot of sounds of bodies colliding and me cumming over and over.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Long Lurker 34 » Tue Jun 28, 2022 11:07 am

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Tue Jun 28, 2022 10:05 am


Last week, G and I had another great sex date. I can’t count how many times I have had sex with him since becoming a hot wife. Sometimes I wonder if, because he was my first hot wife partner, the relationship should be running out of steam by now. But it isn’t. And I’m glad. Truth be told, I’m a little bit smitten by him (in an entirely appropriate way), and still get giddy when a new date approaches.

LoA - I have to admit, when reading these various threads, to come across a post that reeks of balance,fun, friendship, a smattering still of NRE and a touch of adventure from my armchair perspective is as close to perfection as one can get. Good on all of you! Now if you could just figure out how to bottle it. :shock:

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Wed Jun 29, 2022 6:58 am

Long Lurker 34 wrote:
Tue Jun 28, 2022 11:07 am
LoA - I have to admit, when reading these various threads, to come across a post that reeks of balance,fun, friendship, a smattering still of NRE and a touch of adventure from my armchair perspective is as close to perfection as one can get. Good on all of you! Now if you could just figure out how to bottle it. :shock:
Thank you so much! When I read other posts on this forum, I am struck that everyone has their own approach to this lifestyle. What works for one person, doesn't always work for someone else. With that said, I'm really happy with the way things are going for Adventurer and I. I'm glad you are enjoying it too :)

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by rascalnvixen » Wed Jun 29, 2022 1:24 pm

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Wed Jun 29, 2022 6:58 am
Thank you so much! When I read other posts on this forum, I am struck that everyone has their own approach to this lifestyle. What works for one person, doesn't always work for someone else. With that said, I'm really happy with the way things are going for Adventurer and I. I'm glad you are enjoying it too :)
All I can say is that I would enjoy all the things about you if we lived closer!!!!! :mrgreen: :twisted: :whip:

Rascal
I mean, really!!! Who could resist a sweet smile like that??? 💋

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Sun Jul 03, 2022 5:36 am

rascalnvixen wrote:
Wed Jun 29, 2022 1:24 pm

All I can say is that I would enjoy all the things about you if we lived closer!!!!! :mrgreen: :twisted: :whip:

Rascal
I mean, really!!! Who could resist a sweet smile like that??? 💋
Funny story: I took a picture on Friday of me in a red bikini for Canada Day. I sent it to G and was going to post it in the Hotties, but then got a bit self conscious about my belly in it. It wasn't necessarily rational, I just decided that the world didn't need to see more of me.

I was feeling a bit blah and unattractive the rest of the day. Adventurer reminded me that I was (in his words), "Fucking hot and sexy as hell." He also said that he wasn't the only one to think so. "G does. Sir does. Rascal does."

I thought you'd enjoy knowing that you were part of a confidence boost this weekend. Maybe a bikini pic next Canada Day.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Johng1953 » Sun Jul 03, 2022 6:38 am

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Sun Jul 03, 2022 5:36 am
rascalnvixen wrote:
Wed Jun 29, 2022 1:24 pm

All I can say is that I would enjoy all the things about you if we lived closer!!!!! :mrgreen: :twisted: :whip:

Rascal
I mean, really!!! Who could resist a sweet smile like that??? 💋
Funny story: I took a picture on Friday of me in a red bikini for Canada Day. I sent it to G and was going to post it in the Hotties, but then got a bit self conscious about my belly in it. It wasn't necessarily rational, I just decided that the world didn't need to see more of me.

I was feeling a bit blah and unattractive the rest of the day. Adventurer reminded me that I was (in his words), "Fucking hot and sexy as hell." He also said that he wasn't the only one to think so. "G does. Sir does. Rascal does."

I thought you'd enjoy knowing that you were part of a confidence boost this weekend. Maybe a bikini pic next Canada Day.
There is nothing sexier (to me anyway) than a little bit of belly on a woman. Please reconsider.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by rascalnvixen » Sun Jul 03, 2022 12:32 pm

LFA..... POST THE PICTURE!!!!! Everything I've seen of you says Adventurer is right on target with his comment! You're very HOT and we all have an insatiable desire for you!!

POST THE PICTURE!!
POST THE PICTURE!!
POST THE PICTURE!!
POST THE PICTURE!!

Have, you got the message yet????? :twisted:

Rascal
:mrgreen: :whip:

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Whosbeensleeping » Sun Jul 03, 2022 3:48 pm

Dear LFA, I too find you very sexy and fascinating. I have to turn my heart gaze away a little sometimes so I'm not pulled too strongly in a direction I can't deliver on. I'm honoured to know you vicariously through the magical oasis that is OHW.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Fox » Sun Jul 03, 2022 4:27 pm

What they said. Post the pic. You’re sexy!!

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Chewbacca1 » Sun Jul 03, 2022 6:33 pm

We're still at the point of trying to figure this lifestyle out and why it excites both of us.
My vanilla wife was a definite no go when I brought up the idea a few years ago, but I've been persistent - almost to a bad point, but found out she is really into the roleplay aspect of hotwifing after I shared this book with her i found on Amazon called "The Faithful Hotwife ".
She saw that she wasn't alone or strange and is taking her first cuckoldress steps.... I'd say "she was eating it up" but now she's learned that is my task for her to make me do. It must be working because the night stand drawer is overflowing with her new dildos and toys.
I think this is a jour, but a fun one. Good luck.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Mon Jul 04, 2022 4:09 am

rascalnvixen wrote:
Sun Jul 03, 2022 12:32 pm
LFA..... POST THE PICTURE!!!!! Everything I've seen of you says Adventurer is right on target with his comment! You're very HOT and we all have an insatiable desire for you!!

POST THE PICTURE!!
POST THE PICTURE!!
POST THE PICTURE!!
POST THE PICTURE!!

Have, you got the message yet????? :twisted:

Rascal
:mrgreen: :whip:
LOL. I received the message loud and clear :)

That photo has long since been deleted, but I'll think about something else that I can share soon.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Mon Jul 04, 2022 4:11 am

Whosbeensleeping wrote:
Sun Jul 03, 2022 3:48 pm
Dear LFA, I too find you very sexy and fascinating. I have to turn my heart gaze away a little sometimes so I'm not pulled too strongly in a direction I can't deliver on. I'm honoured to know you vicariously through the magical oasis that is OHW.
Beautifully said. Thank you Whosbeensleeping. I'm honoured to know you too. XOXO

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Mon Jul 04, 2022 4:13 am

Johng1953 wrote:
Sun Jul 03, 2022 6:38 am

There is nothing sexier (to me anyway) than a little bit of belly on a woman. Please reconsider.
Fox wrote:
Sun Jul 03, 2022 4:27 pm
What they said. Post the pic. You’re sexy!!
Thank you gentlemen. That photo has been deleted, but I'll try to think of something else to share soon. I did buy a "little something" that is sort of an homage to a french maid outfit. Not practical for housekeeping, but did look pretty good when I tried it on. So maybe Adventurer will help me take some pics sometime. In the meantime, that you for your kind words.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Mon Jul 04, 2022 4:18 am

Chewbacca1 wrote:
Sun Jul 03, 2022 6:33 pm
We're still at the point of trying to figure this lifestyle out and why it excites both of us.
My vanilla wife was a definite no go when I brought up the idea a few years ago, but I've been persistent - almost to a bad point, but found out she is really into the roleplay aspect of hotwifing after I shared this book with her i found on Amazon called "The Faithful Hotwife ".
She saw that she wasn't alone or strange and is taking her first cuckoldress steps.... I'd say "she was eating it up" but now she's learned that is my task for her to make me do. It must be working because the night stand drawer is overflowing with her new dildos and toys.
I think this is a jour, but a fun one. Good luck.
Welcome to the forum Chewbacca1 (and your wife). I wish you all the best on your journey. My husband and I have been exploring this lifestyle for the past two years or so. A lot of the details of our journey are in this thread. For us, the key is to communicate openly and honestly about what we want (and not to push anyone beyond what they are ready for). Sounds like you are doing that well. Good luck to you, too.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Thu Jul 14, 2022 5:35 am

A couple of weeks ago, Adventurer asked if I’d want to go back to the sex club this summer. We had enjoyed having a couple of men watch me masturbate last time, and he wanted to encourage me to explore that even more.

The plan he presented to me was this: we’d go in the afternoon and spend some time naked in the club pool. We could watch other people having sex, fool around a bit, and just generally have a good time. Then we’d head out to dinner in the city somewhere nearby. When we returned from dinner, it would be my decision.

If I was feeling up to it, I could ask him to put a BDSM collar on me. He’d take me to the dungeon room and we’d let other people watch as he played with me. He wanted me to consider letting other people participate in playing with me as well. He would be there and would ensure that my limits were followed. If I wasn’t up for BDSM play, we could go to one of the upstairs rooms and we’d have more vanilla sex but surrounded by other sexy people going at it.

I agreed to the plan and spent some time thinking about what I’d do. On the one hand, playing with complete strangers really isn’t me: it isn’t my fantasy, it isn’t something I’d seek out on my own, and I have some latent associations with the idea that make me resist wanting to be “that slutty.”

On the other hand, when we dabble in BDSM, the times I enjoy it the most are when I cede control: I like being bound, I like not knowing what comes next, I like having my body pushed a little…within the safety of my limits and a dom who respects my safe words.

I was really on the fence. I chatted with Tess and she very much encouraged me to do it. But she also has a fantasy about having a lot of strangers pleasuring her, so this would be totally up her alley. It was a harder decision for me. I wasn’t convinced and decided that I’d make my final choice in the moment.

I was, however, completely game for BDSM play at the sex club. I told Adventurer that I’d be up for putting on a show, even if I decided not to let anyone touch me. We packed a collar, cuffs, a flogger, some nipple clamps, and a new purchase – a ribbed cone that stretches you wider and wider as you take more in. I also packed a sexy body harness to provide eye candy to any spectators that decided to watch.

We went to the club around mid-afternoon. It was a beautiful July day. The sun was shining and it wasn’t too hot. We put our stuff in the locker, stripped naked, and went to enjoy the pool. It was quite crowded already with a good mix of people.

To the one side of us were, what we guessed, were members of a swinger club. There were four couples, between the ages of 45 and 65, that all seemed to know each other. They were naked and spent most of the time sunbathing and chatting. Sometimes someone would rub or touch someone else for a little bit of sex play, but the pairings seemed quite fluid.

On the other side of us was a woman in her 50’s who had come with two attractive men. They both seemed younger than her and it was clear that they were both there with her and planned to play later. I thought that was fun. She was a lucky woman to have two lovers with her.

Across the pool were several younger couples – likely in their late 20’s. They seemed to be there with their boyfriend/girlfriend. Sometimes two couples would chat with each other, but mostly they remained in sets of two. At one point, all the women seemed to be giving their partners blowjobs on the edge of the pool at the same time.

And then scattered about were a few single men. They were mostly watching, although sometimes they’d chat with a couple or two. I had learned on our previous visit that you had to be careful about making eye contact with the single guys. I was happy to make small talk with the couples around me, but single guys seemed to always take it as an invitation to do more. If I wasn’t planning on playing with them, it was better to just steer clear. Otherwise I’d have to turn down their advances and that just makes me feel awkward. I hate disappointing people.

All in all, though, the afternoon at the pool was quite fun. We enjoyed watching what was happening. Adventurer stood behind me and played with my breasts a bit. I’d grind my butt against him and feel his cock get hard. We’d kiss when the mood struck. He also encouraged me to reapply sunscreen a few times…I think because he enjoyed watching me rubbing my breasts in public. :)

At one point, we went to get some drinks and tried to find a spot to sit on the pool deck when we returned. The open spots were next to where a man was sunbathing. We started chatting with him a little. CJ is in his 50’s, and had an all-over tan that showed this was not his first time nude in the sun. I was quite sure he was gay by the way he carried himself. I recognize that I should not stereotype in that way, but he really gave off that vibe.

In any case, the conversation was easy. Adventurer and I chatted with CJ for a bit and then we all got in the pool and chatted some more. Some of it was generic small talk (he’d been out dancing the past few night at local clubs, he spends at least half the year on an island in the Caribbean and was hoping to head there in the next couple of weeks, he’d come to this club three or four times since he had gotten back from his last trip). And some of it was more sexual. CJ asked about our previous experiences there and what we had enjoyed. He also asked if we liked to play with other people, and if we were looking for men, women, or couples.

It was then that he told us that he “is really, really, into women.” I guess my gay-dar was completely off. LOL

I should say that I was not attracted to CJ in any way. In fact, he’s sort of the opposite of my type: he’s a bit pretentious and talked about himself a lot, plus he had a tanned/fake kind of look that I’m just not into. But he had asked enough questions about us and what we were looking for that I knew that he would be respectful. And he had told me that he enjoys watching people at the club, and also enjoys giving pleasure. He doesn’t necessarily expect anything in return.

When he asked if he could touch me, I paused for a bit. Adventurer whispered in my ear that I should just do it. I hesitated, but eventually said, “sure. Why not?”

CJ’s hands gently fondled my breasts. He lifted one of my legs in the pool and massaged my feet as Adventurer supported me from behind. Adventurer played with my breasts as CJ’s hands moved up my legs. Adventurer kissed my neck as CJ massaged my clit. It was very arousing and exciting. I did my best to be quiet, but there were definitely people in the pool watching. I think I came four times by the time the two men were done with me.

I thanked CJ for his assistance. He said he’d love to be invited upstairs at the club later for a blow job or sex. I told him that I wasn’t ready for that. Even having him touch me had been a big deal for me. He said he understood. He had enjoyed playing with me.

We chatted for a little bit longer. CJ said it was getting cool and he was going to go to the sauna for a while. I gave him a quick peck on the cheek. A few minutes after he left, we decided to get dressed and go get some dinner.

As we ate ramen together, we debriefed the experience. I said that as far as strangers go, CJ had been very nice and respectful. He checked in a lot and asked if it was ok before he touched me anywhere new. I had enjoyed the orgasms, but had no intention of doing anything more with CJ when we got back to the club.

I also said that I felt a bit guilty about the whole thing. I don’t know why. But having total strangers touch me feels like it crossed a line. Adventurer reminded me that I had nothing to feel guilty about. He told me that he is in awe of me and thought I was very brave. He loves my strong sexual side and likes that I let my guard down a bit.

We paid our bill and decided to go for a bit of a walk through Toronto to explore the neighborhood. Adventurer held my hand and every once in a while he’d stop to kiss me. “That was really fucking hot, you know that right?” he’d say. I laughed and said that I was quite aware of how much he had enjoyed it.

We decided to head back to the club....stay tuned for part 2 :)

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Johng1953 » Thu Jul 14, 2022 5:41 am

“That was really fucking hot, you know that right?”
He's absolutely right!

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Thu Jul 14, 2022 6:08 am

Johng1953 wrote:
Thu Jul 14, 2022 5:41 am
“That was really fucking hot, you know that right?”
He's absolutely right!
:) Thank you.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Mr1SexyGILF » Thu Jul 14, 2022 6:37 am

Johng1953 wrote:
Thu Jul 14, 2022 5:41 am
“That was really fucking hot, you know that right?”
He's absolutely right!
And I third that opinion.

Looking forward to the rest of the story.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Thu Jul 14, 2022 9:53 am

Mr1SexyGILF wrote:
Thu Jul 14, 2022 6:37 am
“That was really fucking hot, you know that right?”
He's absolutely right!

----

And I third that opinion.

Looking forward to the rest of the story.

Mr GILF
Thank you. I hemmed and hawed about sharing...especially part two (which is coming shortly). Truth be told, I'm still working through some internal stuff about "how slutty is too slutty?"

I think I mentally associate some level of "badness" with being a highly sexual person. I also worry a bit about feeding the perception that hot wives are all a sure thing any and every time.

In any case, this is something I did and something that I'm feeling relatively proud about now that I've had time to process it. So I thought I'd just go ahead and share :)

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Long Lurker 34 » Thu Jul 14, 2022 10:10 am

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Thu Jul 14, 2022 5:35 am
A couple of weeks ago, Adventurer asked if I’d want to go back to the sex club this summer. We had enjoyed having a couple of men watch me masturbate last time, and he wanted to encourage me to explore that even more.

The plan he presented to me was this: we’d go in the afternoon and spend some time naked in the club pool. We could watch other people having sex, fool around a bit, and just generally have a good time. Then we’d head out to dinner in the city somewhere nearby. When we returned from dinner, it would be my decision.

If I was feeling up to it, I could ask him to put a BDSM collar on me. He’d take me to the dungeon room and we’d let other people watch as he played with me. He wanted me to consider letting other people participate in playing with me as well. He would be there and would ensure that my limits were followed. If I wasn’t up for BDSM play, we could go to one of the upstairs rooms and we’d have more vanilla sex but surrounded by other sexy people going at it.


I agreed to the plan and spent some time thinking about what I’d do. On the one hand, playing with complete strangers really isn’t me: it isn’t my fantasy, it isn’t something I’d seek out on my own, and I have some latent associations with the idea that make me resist wanting to be “that slutty.”

On the other hand, when we dabble in BDSM, the times I enjoy it the most are when I cede control: I like being bound, I like not knowing what comes next, I like having my body pushed a little…within the safety of my limits and a dom who respects my safe words.

I was really on the fence. I chatted with Tess and she very much encouraged me to do it. But she also has a fantasy about having a lot of strangers pleasuring her, so this would be totally up her alley. It was a harder decision for me. I wasn’t convinced and decided that I’d make my final choice in the moment.

I was, however, completely game for BDSM play at the sex club. I told Adventurer that I’d be up for putting on a show, even if I decided not to let anyone touch me. We packed a collar, cuffs, a flogger, some nipple clamps, and a new purchase – a ribbed cone that stretches you wider and wider as you take more in. I also packed a sexy body harness to provide eye candy to any spectators that decided to watch.

We went to the club around mid-afternoon. It was a beautiful July day. The sun was shining and it wasn’t too hot. We put our stuff in the locker, stripped naked, and went to enjoy the pool. It was quite crowded already with a good mix of people.

To the one side of us were, what we guessed, were members of a swinger club. There were four couples, between the ages of 45 and 65, that all seemed to know each other. They were naked and spent most of the time sunbathing and chatting. Sometimes someone would rub or touch someone else for a little bit of sex play, but the pairings seemed quite fluid.

On the other side of us was a woman in her 50’s who had come with two attractive men. They both seemed younger than her and it was clear that they were both there with her and planned to play later. I thought that was fun. She was a lucky woman to have two lovers with her.

Across the pool were several younger couples – likely in their late 20’s. They seemed to be there with their boyfriend/girlfriend. Sometimes two couples would chat with each other, but mostly they remained in sets of two. At one point, all the women seemed to be giving their partners blowjobs on the edge of the pool at the same time.

And then scattered about were a few single men. They were mostly watching, although sometimes they’d chat with a couple or two. I had learned on our previous visit that you had to be careful about making eye contact with the single guys. I was happy to make small talk with the couples around me, but single guys seemed to always take it as an invitation to do more. If I wasn’t planning on playing with them, it was better to just steer clear. Otherwise I’d have to turn down their advances and that just makes me feel awkward. I hate disappointing people.

All in all, though, the afternoon at the pool was quite fun. We enjoyed watching what was happening. Adventurer stood behind me and played with my breasts a bit. I’d grind my butt against him and feel his cock get hard. We’d kiss when the mood struck. He also encouraged me to reapply sunscreen a few times…I think because he enjoyed watching me rubbing my breasts in public. :)

At one point, we went to get some drinks and tried to find a spot to sit on the pool deck when we returned. The open spots were next to where a man was sunbathing. We started chatting with him a little. CJ is in his 50’s, and had an all-over tan that showed this was not his first time nude in the sun. I was quite sure he was gay by the way he carried himself. I recognize that I should not stereotype in that way, but he really gave off that vibe.

In any case, the conversation was easy. Adventurer and I chatted with CJ for a bit and then we all got in the pool and chatted some more. Some of it was generic small talk (he’d been out dancing the past few night at local clubs, he spends at least half the year on an island in the Caribbean and was hoping to head there in the next couple of weeks, he’d come to this club three or four times since he had gotten back from his last trip). And some of it was more sexual. CJ asked about our previous experiences there and what we had enjoyed. He also asked if we liked to play with other people, and if we were looking for men, women, or couples.

It was then that he told us that he “is really, really, into women.” I guess my gay-dar was completely off. LOL

I should say that I was not attracted to CJ in any way. In fact, he’s sort of the opposite of my type: he’s a bit pretentious and talked about himself a lot, plus he had a tanned/fake kind of look that I’m just not into. But he had asked enough questions about us and what we were looking for that I knew that he would be respectful. And he had told me that he enjoys watching people at the club, and also enjoys giving pleasure. He doesn’t necessarily expect anything in return.

When he asked if he could touch me, I paused for a bit. Adventurer whispered in my ear that I should just do it. I hesitated, but eventually said, “sure. Why not?”

CJ’s hands gently fondled my breasts. He lifted one of my legs in the pool and massaged my feet as Adventurer supported me from behind. Adventurer played with my breasts as CJ’s hands moved up my legs. Adventurer kissed my neck as CJ massaged my clit. It was very arousing and exciting. I did my best to be quiet, but there were definitely people in the pool watching. I think I came four times by the time the two men were done with me.

I thanked CJ for his assistance. He said he’d love to be invited upstairs at the club later for a blow job or sex. I told him that I wasn’t ready for that. Even having him touch me had been a big deal for me. He said he understood. He had enjoyed playing with me.

We chatted for a little bit longer. CJ said it was getting cool and he was going to go to the sauna for a while. I gave him a quick peck on the cheek. A few minutes after he left, we decided to get dressed and go get some dinner.

As we ate ramen together, we debriefed the experience. I said that as far as strangers go, CJ had been very nice and respectful. He checked in a lot and asked if it was ok before he touched me anywhere new. I had enjoyed the orgasms, but had no intention of doing anything more with CJ when we got back to the club.

I also said that I felt a bit guilty about the whole thing. I don’t know why. But having total strangers touch me feels like it crossed a line. Adventurer reminded me that I had nothing to feel guilty about. He told me that he is in awe of me and thought I was very brave. He loves my strong sexual side and likes that I let my guard down a bit.

We paid our bill and decided to go for a bit of a walk through Toronto to explore the neighborhood. Adventurer held my hand and every once in a while he’d stop to kiss me. “That was really fucking hot, you know that right?” he’d say. I laughed and said that I was quite aware of how much he had enjoyed it.

We decided to head back to the club....stay tuned for part 2 :)


LFA - You know if you are in the 416 and feeling adventurous (what you guys - Never!), head over to the "Islands". Specifically Hanlan's Point - an officially recognized by the City clothing optional beach. :idea: :shock: :o :o

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Thu Jul 14, 2022 10:29 am

Long Lurker 34 wrote:
Thu Jul 14, 2022 10:10 am

LFA - You know if you are in the 416 and feeling adventurous (what you guys - Never!), head over to the "Islands". Specifically Hanlan's Point - an officially recognized by the City clothing optional beach. :idea: :shock: :o :o
How did you know that "nude beach" is on my summer bucket list? Hanlan's point is a possibility. I have heard there is also one in Port Burwell on Lake Erie. It might make for a fun road trip :)

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