My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

[Des 31]

Today's UPDATE is at the bottom of the previous page (#160.)

Great update, Des! I can't help wondering who his previous married woman is that is"very,very well known" in the community. My first thoughts are it might be the lady lawyer who is also Chairperson of the Board of Directors of Gigi's bank! I've always gotten the vibe that she was a player and was quite fond of Gigi. She could be a swinger as well as a bi-female who would love to get her hands on Gigi! I guess we would find out if Weldon takes her to join in on a get together with her. Hoping to hear more as the weekend continues!
Rascal

Hi, Rascal . . . That also occurred to me until that telephone call Weldon placed. I sort of wanted to hear she was the woman he was talking about. The reason I discounted the expectation was the woman is married in the traditional sense, and the chairwoman isn’t. The chairwoman’s most recent live-in partner was another lawyer with who she has since split. But she has changed around her live-in partners at times since we have known her. At least one of those was a woman. Some in the community know about it, but her status in her professional field and the fact that she’s unmarried allows her to be mostly immune from criticism.

Wow, Awesome Update Des and I loved the attention to detail. While I have never seen a pic of Gigi, I can develop and imagine in my mind's eye and envision them fucking wildly. I do wish you could record Gigi fucking so we could hear her moaning.

Interesting thought. If this website ever installs capabilities to include audio recording playbacks, that’s a possibility for many members.

Without going back to re-read your update it seems that somewhere you are sitting and he was standing with his dick just inches away, then he tells Gigi while at the lake you to join them at home and with all the other things he has said he has been around. Your LS may be going to the next level. Glad you will be traveling with Sam. Look forward to an update there too.

Yeah, at that moment, I was sitting at the kitchen table across from my wife and he was standing to my right. From my view at the time, I was facing my wife but rolled my eyes aside to examine it. Without turning my head and being obvious about it, the only part of his anatomy in my field of view was his long stiffy jutting out alongside me. When he addressed me, he turned in my direction and his dick bobbed within two to four inches from my face. It visibly jerked up and down a few times as he stood closely to me, and I suspected he caused that purposely. I had the impression he was somewhat proud his sizeable manhood’s rigidity. And now that I think about it, I think I was sort of impressed too.

If my wife is serious about exclusivity with Weldon, you’re probably right about our marital sharing becoming somewhat disparate from that of our past. I’ll have to see that come about to truly believe it. It won’t be the first time I have heard that. More than once in the past, she has said she was planning to cut back, but each time that didn’t come about as she seriously intended.

I would later learn that, when stiff, his member doesn’t deflate easily.

I was thinking that maybe he has some chemical assistance. Nothing wrong with that. Just a thought though as I recall Gigi indicating that he had taken something one night when she was at his place
Second what happened to one outside guy? She’s talking about swinging now. I don’t see how both you and Weldon could go.
Interesting times.

It’s up in the air for discussion. At this point, I have no assurance that’s really going to come about and am awaiting words of potential acceptance from Samena and her husband. I’m withholding judgment as to whether I care to participate in a group sex club anyway. I’m mulling that over.

I noticed that Des said: “She promised only not to say anything about me and my partner Samantha or any other women.” With Weldon wanting to be Gigi’s second-best friend after Des, are you and Gigi moving towards a semi-poly open marriage style relationship?

Yeah,I suppose it could be that. I no longer know how to categorize us. Those current considerations seem a mixture of about every classification at this website. Despite what Weldon and my wife proposed about swinging, I’m less interested than they. Aside from that, it occurred to me that if I actually go along with that for them, my lifestyle will no longer fit at this website. My feeling at this time is that I’m unlikely to join them. But I’m not opposed to the two of them if they wish to be a part of fucking in a group setting. I just enjoy that she’s satisfied with whatever she prefers. As she has often said, she wouldn’t like going back to the time when it was just the two of us. I’m with her about that. I don’t care for the idea of the two of us again becoming monogamous either.

Thanks again for your timely post. You must both be exhausted. What a weekend! So did Weldon watch you fuck Gigi or did you spit roast her or were you just watching?

Your message made me realize that, even with all that writing, I left a lot out as I often do. But yeah, everybody watched everything. Thanks for writing, Trace.

~ Des

[rascalnvixen]

Another wonderful update, Des!!! I'm trying to understand how to pronounce Samena's name. Is the name pronounced Se-me-na with a long e in the second syllable or is it a short e??? Or is it pronounced a entirely different manner???

Rascal

[Des 31]

Another wonderful update, Des!!! I'm trying to understand how to pronounce Samena's name. Is the name pronounced Se-me-na with a long e in the second syllable or is it a short e??? Or is it pronounced a entirely different manner???

Rascal

I'm guessing it's Sah-me-na, with the accent on "me" and a long "e." I recall that name and its meaning from a long-ago-published article on Polynesia but haven't personally heard it pronounced.

[rascalnvixen]

Another wonderful update, Des!!! I'm trying to understand how to pronounce Samena's name. Is the name pronounced Se-me-na with a long e in the second syllable or is it a short e??? Or is it pronounced a entirely different manner???

Rascal

I'm guessing it's Sah-me-na, with the accent on "me" and a long "e." I recall that name and its meaning from a long-ago-published article on Polynesia but haven't personally heard it pronounced.

Well, I guess we can pronounce it any way we want to say it!!!

Rascal

[Tracey52]

Don’t forget Des. You were going to write about your night with Mary. That really intrigues me for some reason.

[solstice]

I think I can remember in the early days before you had penetrative sex with Mary, in the heat of the moment she said loves you? Can I I ask you to describe her appearance? The fact that you were not in those days engaging in sex, apart from Gigi, makes me curious about this lady.

[Des 31]

I think I can remember in the early days before you had penetrative sex with Mary, in the heat of the moment she said loves you? Can I I ask you to describe her appearance? The fact that you were not in those days engaging in sex, apart from Gigi, makes me curious about this lady.

Hi Sol. That isn’t a common question for us, but okay - She has an athletic appearance - because she is - and she hasn’t gained or lost more than four pounds since I first met her. The most obvious feature noticed by almost everyone first meeting her is her height; she’s 5’11”, an inch taller than me. Long legs and arms - and oddly, a rather longer-than-average tongue, but that isn’t something most could know. Her hair is brown, but she has changed that from time to time, now with lighter streaks dyed in by her hairstylist.

I’m sure many, even at her workplace, don’t know her natural eye color - her eyes are brown, but she sometimes wears one of four non-prescription lenses tinted different colors. Dependent upon when they encounter her, people may think her eyes are brown, green, blue, or gray. She first purchased those offsetting lenses for reasons of occasional anonymity but now uses them whenever the whim comes upon her. Yet, I don’t recall more than maybe four non-relatives who have noticed that.

Her face is … well, very attractive, but is such that her age is difficult for others to estimate. She will be 36 in December, but people who try to guess her age come up with every number from around 28 to 51. I can’t think of many women whose ages cannot be approximated within a decade either way, but I occasionally encounter a few. She dresses conservatively, and it seems that whatever she may be wearing may have something to do with the wide range of guesses for her age. Perhaps for the reason of her demeanor, she is generally considered by most as someone who values tradition. The only thing in which she admits pride is that she was born in the USA’s Deep South, but she has no regional accent or manner of speaking that could reveal her roots.

Don’t forget Des. You were going to write about your night with Mary. That really intrigues me for some reason.

Hi Trace. I didn’t keep notes in my journal about that night but recall it well. The details could be lengthy. My and my wife’s evenings have been taken up with work, meetings and social obligations lately, and it all came upon us at once. I was going to skip that event here - but because you asked, I’ll get around to that in the next few days. Thanks for reminding me.

~ Des

[snooper56]

Hey Des, just checking in. I see you have commented on some other threads. Bumping this back to page 1!

[Observer1931]

Hi Des awaiting your next update. Hope all is good.

[eater]

great adventure. can't wait to read what happens next

[Des 31]

I’m in our home’s computer room while my wife’s boss is fucking her in our bedroom. I’ll get around to that after I explain some changes in our lives that have recently come about.

I haven’t been able to update lately, but it isn’t because of work. My absence here had to do with personal concerns.I was in Tennessee for five days and six nights for a client who recently moved his corporation there. Every night I was away, my wife and Weldon were fucking hotly and growing even closer. Upon returning and sitting alongside Gigi on our living room couch, she openly admitted the frequency of their nightly fucking, twice at our home and three times at his.

Although she hadn’t told me they were going at it that much during my phone calls to our home, I had no problem with that. But upon my return, she added that he would be at our home that night as well. I thought it was time for a talk. I turned to her and asked how serious was their relationship.

She bit her lip and paused before saying, “I guess you noticed. It’s deep and serious, and that’s bothering me too.” She went on to say both have told the other they’re falling in love. I was silent a moment as I digested her confession and said, “Call him now and tell him it’s over.” Her face displayed shock and disbelief. She said, “Are you serious?”

I repeated, “Call him now.” She reluctantly turned to the phone at the couch side’s table, punched in his number and set it on speaker so I could hear all to be said. He answered and she said with a gulp, “I have to end our relationship.” Weldon sputtered, then responded, “Why?” She said, “I’m married. You and I are getting too close and that could become a problem.” He came up with a string of solutions, but Gigi adamantly said, “It’s over.”

Weldon’s voice quavered as if with a sob as he said, “Could we have just one more time together as a parting?” Gigi looked questionably at me. I nodded approval. She told him, “Once more. That’s it. You cannot call me again after that.”

They settled on Thursday night and he arrived promptly at seven. I greeted him with a handshake and offered him a beer. He declined, saying he had stopped at a bar after office hours and another drink would impair his driving home later.

Gigi, attired in nothing but her transparent robe, came out from our bedroom to the living room where she greeted him with a lingering kiss. I retired to my computer room to finish up some work from the office. They were soon in our marital bedroom. I wasn’t sure whether my wife leaving the bedroom door ajar was for me to hear or just forgot to close it. Neither made a sound for about five minutes, but soon each moaned and sighed. Soon, flesh slapped against flesh and my wife cried out passionately as he fucked her.

I turned off the computer room’s overhead light, darkening the hallway. Grabbing my camera from a desk drawer, I padded out to watch from the doorway. My wife was on her knees, and Weldon leaned onto her back as his hips thrust rapidly into her. His whisper was crystal clear as he said, “I love you so much.” Gigi sobbed in response, “I love you too.” She has told others, and been told by others, the same. The tone this time was different and genuine. I snapped a pic in the room's dim light, but without the flash, and later found it came out moderately well. I thought she at least should have a memory of their time together but would find out within a few days she didn't wish to look at the photo.

He increased his tempo and my wife muttered, “It’s so fucking good.” She had told me her admiration for him had grown during their times together. I could understand the physical attraction. Weldon’s body is impressive and I had seen his seven-inch dick up close at a moment he had previously stood alongside me at our kitchen table. He’s truly a likable guy. My wife was now getting all of that deep in her pussy and I had no doubt she was loving every inch. Her mutterings of “Oh! Oh! Oh!” and “Yes!” filled the room and would have been loud enough for neighbors to hear if other homes were closer to ours.

He turned her about and knelt between her knees in missionary position. Gigi’s wide eyes gazed down to his cock as it was about to enter her. He asked, “Do you want it?” She said, “You know I do!” His cockhead parted her opening and he drove in deeply as she exhaled noisily in keyed=up satisfaction.

I knew I shouldn’t be aroused at all this, but my swollen cock bulged in my jeans. I turned away from the partially opened door, pressed my back to the wall, and unzipped my fly. My warm hand curled around my cock. I pulled the skin back slowly a few times, then jerked off intensely at my wife’s and his sighs and moans as they fucked.

She requested our bedside Alexa device to play “Light’em Up,” a thumping song I hadn’t before heard. Amid their frantic fucking, the tune seemed just right. He plowed her cunt with a fury for several minutes. My wife’s volley of screams were like a flock of crazed geese and at times her thrilled volume overwhelmed the Alexa’s lyrics.

Then, Gigi screamed in orgasmic delight. I again peered around the door jamb. Weldon hesitated as my wife’s climax raged through her. Then he thrust fast and mightily for another minute or so until he groaned aloud as his birth juice burst into her cunt. I was cumming hard into my handkerchief. I’m sure that at that moment, he wouldn’t remember this was to be their last fuck. Neither did I. I had the feeling I enjoyed it as much as did they.

They separated and lay side my side. Each breathed in exhaustion. Weldon asked if she really believed their separation was necessary. She responded, “I won’t change my mind. This is our last time together.” He attempted to respond but choked up and the words wouldn’t come out. She leaned aside to kiss him and said, “This isn’t easy for me either. But it’s necessary. I can’t risk my marriage over our affair.”

I crept quietly to the living room and awaited the two to come out of our bedroom. A half-hour passed before they walked into the living room. Weldon was dressed and ready to leave. My wife wore only one of my dress shirts that covered her down to her hips. She kissed him, thanked him, and added, “We had wonderful times together. I’m glad you understand.” He turned to shake my hand, thanked me for being “so generous,” and cast a solemn look as he walked out the door to his car.

Gigi always enjoys fucking other men. But, to me, this parting sexual encounter seemed far more than typical. My thought at the time was she will hate me for forcing the two to break up. I would later learn I wasn’t far off, at least for a day or two. She wasn’t pleased about it, but admitted their parting was the right thing to do. Whenever she has since mentioned him, her tone has been like that of something long past and without emotion.

* * * * *

The following Friday evening, she asked for a half-hour’s private talk in bed. I had all sorts of thoughts about what that might entail. At the top of my list of assumptions was that she may wish to ask my opinion about whether she might get back with Weldon at less frequent times. I was wrong.

She offered an opinion that her experience with Weldon has taught her several lessons. She opined that I too was getting too close to my firm’s partner Samantha. That isn’t true but she insisted she’s confident it’s happening. So I gave up countering her argument and asked what she wishes me to do. I hadn’t anticipated her response. She said, “I liked it better with our original agreement, that you wouldn’t have sex with other women.”

Each of us had more to say about that, but I soon came to realize I also liked it better at that time. I promised her I wouldn’t have sex with other women but preferred she continue to see other men as she wishes. She grinned and said, “What if I decide I don’t see any?” I said I’m not asking that but would go along with whatever she wishes. She laughed and said, “I don’t want to quit. Is that okay?” I smiled and said, “I like that.”

We’re again a hotwife couple and agreed that will work best for us. I know it would be difficult for her to quit, and I really don’t want that either.

* * * * *

Some may wonder about the swingers' party Weldon and my wife attended. I didn’t ask for details but inquired of both how many she fucked at the gathering that night. She said, “All of ‘em.” I asked, “You mean the women also?” She said, “Yeah. All of them.”

Weldon added this story from the gathering: While the last guy was fucking Gigi on the couch in front of others, one of the guys told the host and his wife, “I want to be her.” The woman chuckled and said, “There’s a song about that and it just fits what you said.” The hosts also have an Alexas device, but I’m told it looks much different from ours. She turned to the Alexa and said, “Play ‘The Boys Want To Be Her.” I was unfamiliar with the song, but those witnessing her fucking the guy on the couch said that was a “perfect” song for the moment. I told Gigi and Weldon nothing’s “perfect” but I’m glad you and they liked it.

She and Weldon were invited to return to their next monthly party, but my wife told the hosts she doubted her husband would approve any regular attendance. In truth, she said the social atmosphere was “nice,” but she prefers one guy at a time. She went on, “If I decide I want to go back, I’ll take you as my date and you can sit around and watch the activity like you did at the cuck club.”

I understood the unstated part of her comment. We probably won’t be attending those parties.

* * * * *

This afternoon, my wife and her boss left their offices an hour before the bank closed for the day. I’m sitting here in the computer room. The bedroom door is closed and I can’t hear whatever is going on inside. But I’m confident his big dick is already inside her. They hadn’t been together for sex in a month. He had told her today at the office he “needs it” as soon as she finds the time. I didn’t know she had invited him over tonight until arriving home from work.

I served both with snacks and drinks for a few minutes before they left for the bedroom. Since breaking up with Weldon, she has been fucked one time each by Beau and Martin. She told me over the weekend she no longer thinks about Weldon. She said, “It’s just another part of my past. But I’m not sorry it happened the way it did. All sorts of experiences have made me whatever I am, and I hope you like the way I turned out.”

I agreed I’m thrilled she is just the way she is. She liked that.

~ Des

[ericsacto]

Thanks for sharing this. That must have been very hard for Gigi to end it with Weldon.

Do you know what made her relationship with Weldon different from her other guys that allowed her to get to intimate with him?

[Des 31]

Thanks for sharing this. That must have been very hard for Gigi to end it with Weldon.

Do you know what made her relationship with Weldon different from her other guys that allowed her to get to intimate with him?

I think I understand it but not with certainty. He's good-looking, smart, and seems sincere. Given that, I believe it's the frequency of sex between them. He has texted her several times since the break-up but only with ordinary, friendly comments. She has responded to two of those with similar remarks. The same could be said of her and her boss, but that's an entirely different circumstance. For many reasons, he cannot afford a divorce and my wife recognizes he and she are entirely different in many ways. So that doesn't offer the same risks. It's just sex - hot, yeah, but still just sex.

She's over it, but I don't think he is. It was difficult for my wife for a few days but evidently harder for him. My narrative above, as always, doesn't cover every moment of all that, but one of her comments when she admitted to me the depth of their relationship, "You and I always knew this way of life could develop into something more." That's true, and I have felt that way throughout our years at this.

Can it happen again? I don't know. There are no guarantees in hotwifing. but I do my best at keeping it the way we originally intended.

~ Des

[brudan13]

I am happy that it worked out for you & Gigi. It would be terrible to loose just a fine woman as Gigi

[Observer1931]

Thank you very much for such a deep update!

[johnstevens555]

Unfortunately there are not many men in the LS who have the balls to do what you did nor many women who respect their husband enough to do honor him and their marriage like Gigi did. I admit, I was worried for you when you first told about Weldon. Well done. Will you be mad if she goes behind your back and fucks hm again? How about twice?

[afagehi7]

Des - way to be a man and put your foot down. It needed to be done to protect the marriage.

Her cutting you off from outside pussy was retaliation, pure and simple

More details on her fucking "all of them" would be appreciated. No way I'd want my wife doing something like that with another guy. That should be reserved for you.

[Tracey52]

That was intense Des. I was trembling for you as I read it. I too was worried by how Gigi’s relationship with Weldon was trending. So unlike you to put your foot down like you did and not go along with Gigi’s wishes as usual. I also believe Gigi cutting you off from Samantha is her reasserting her control, perhaps with an element of punishment for standing up to her. Have you told Samantha, Sherry or Mrs B yet?

I wouldn’t be surprised if Gigi flaunts your one sided arrangement in your face for awhile.

While I don’t think she’ll see Weldon behind your back, she does have form. I’m thinking her coworker when all this started. May have been better if she had cooled it for awhile. Perhaps you two should go away for a holiday together to reconnect especially before she takes over the bank. Australia will have great weather soon

Can’t believe the slut she was at the swingers party. Perhaps showing off for Weldon. Still quite reckless especially when their were potential clients or fellow prominent persons there.

Wild ride but when you play with fire sometimes you get burnt. Don’t be a stranger.

[Scotch98]

Wow, Thanks for the update Des, I was getting concerned with your long absence and Like tracy52 I was holding my breath while reading your update. I am so happy it worked out for you and you two could work it out even though I don't really care for the terms but I know that has been working well you guys and you definitely have something special together. I was thinking Gigi was fucking Weldon way to much w/o it getting further involved and obviously Weldon sure wanted it to be. Love to hear more detail about the Swinger's Party. When she said she fucked “All of ‘em.” I asked, “You mean the women also?” She said, “Yeah. All of them.” is one of the sexiest comments I have heard. I am sure that took you back a little when she said that. All the best to you both and hope you have many more years of Fun!!!.. PS, I do hope Gigi loosens your restrictions a little...Cheers

[mundyman]

Thanks for sharing this. That must have been very hard for Gigi to end it with Weldon.

Do you know what made her relationship with Weldon different from her other guys that allowed her to get to intimate with him?

I think I understand it but not with certainty. He's good-looking, smart, and seems sincere. Given that, I believe it's the frequency of sex between them. He has texted her several times since the break-up but only with ordinary, friendly comments. She has responded to two of those with similar remarks. The same could be said of her and her boss, but that's an entirely different circumstance. For many reasons, he cannot afford a divorce and my wife recognizes he and she are entirely different in many ways. So that doesn't offer the same risks. It's just sex - hot, yeah, but still just sex.

She's over it, but I don't think he is. It was difficult for my wife for a few days but evidently harder for him. My narrative above, as always, doesn't cover every moment of all that, but one of her comments when she admitted to me the depth of their relationship, "You and I always knew this way of life could develop into something more." That's true, and I have felt that way throughout our years at this.

Can it happen again? I don't know. There are no guarantees in hotwifing. but I do my best at keeping it the way we originally intended.

~ Des

I would argue that your wife is not over Weldon.
Her adamant demand that you stop fucking other women was a clear way of getting you back under her control. I find her demand to be incredibly immature and merely a way to get back at you for making her end her relationship with Weldon.
She says she never thinks of him, but if she was as into him as you’ve described, someone doesn’t just cut that part out of their hearts that quickly.
You’ve described her mental toughness throughout your thread but I don’t believe for a minute it’s over in her mind.
She’s saying those things for your benefit and with the hope that the more she says it the greater likelihood she will eventually believe it.
I’ve always been struck by the power imbalance in your relationship Des. I applaud you for standing up to your wife and demanding that she end the relationship with Weldon. She’s obviously happy with her life with you and what you’ve built, as well as your place in her life.
This is why I love this board and community. Your retelling of your conversation with Gigi and TELLING her to end the relationship with Weldon is an example to others. However in retrospect do you wish you would have brought up your concerns much earlier about what you were seeing and feeling as she grew closer to Weldon? Could there have been a way to give Gigi a softer landing as she broke up with Weldon, or do you think the abrupt ending of the relationship was necessary to really drive home to her the idea that it had to be over with no hope of continuation?
A continued big thank you for sharing you and your wife’s journey through this lifestyle. I find your story both exciting at times and frustrating. It wouldn’t be quite the way we roll, but it doesn’t have to be. I respect and am envious of the life, and relationship, you and Gigi have built with and for each other.
Continued good luck, happiness, and success to the both of you.

[rascalnvixen]

Des,

Not much time for me to write now, but I wanted to respond to your update. I, too, believe her reverting to the one sided sex arrangement was without doubt a clear retaliation for having to stop with Weldon!! And that is a great disappointment to me. Those are not the comments or assertations I expected from a woman of clear thinking as we have come to understand about her. Someone has said that this shows the imbalance of power in your relations ship with Gigi, I find it just the opposite!! I think your justified demand that she stop and her acceptance of that demand shows that you have had significant power in your relationship but have exercised it very sparingly. Personally, I would have countered her retaliation with a modification to allow you some sex with limited women. It is a bit of a push back but she is the one who is pushing the power game. You demanded that she stop with him which was you exerting a power on her, her demand to return to original rules was simply her reasserting HER power back again. I know that my thoughts are of no value in this, but that needs to be a subject of a further discussion. She has been given very WIDE permissions by you to enjoy herself, YOU should now be given some of those permissions as well. Maybe not as frequent as she, but you should not be cut off completely. After all, you could have called for ALL of her extramarital play to end!!! You two need a good talk!!!

Just my 2¢ worth!

Rascal

[Des 31]

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[Des 31]

I would argue that your wife is not over Weldon.
Her adamant demand that you stop fucking other women was a clear way of getting you back under her control. I find her demand to be incredibly immature and merely a way to get back at you for making her end her relationship with Weldon.
She says she never thinks of him, but if she was as into him as you’ve described, someone doesn’t just cut that part out of their hearts that quickly.
You’ve described her mental toughness throughout your thread but I don’t believe for a minute it’s over in her mind.
She’s saying those things for your benefit and with the hope that the more she says it the greater likelihood she will eventually believe it.
I’ve always been struck by the power imbalance in your relationship Des. I applaud you for standing up to your wife and demanding that she end the relationship with Weldon. She’s obviously happy with her life with you and what you’ve built, as well as your place in her life.
This is why I love this board and community. Your retelling of your conversation with Gigi and TELLING her to end the relationship with Weldon is an example to others. However in retrospect do you wish you would have brought up your concerns much earlier about what you were seeing and feeling as she grew closer to Weldon? Could there have been a way to give Gigi a softer landing as she broke up with Weldon, or do you think the abrupt ending of the relationship was necessary to really drive home to her the idea that it had to be over with no hope of continuation?
A continued big thank you for sharing you and your wife’s journey through this lifestyle. I find your story both exciting at times and frustrating. It wouldn’t be quite the way we roll, but it doesn’t have to be. I respect and am envious of the life, and relationship, you and Gigi have built with and for each other.
Continued good luck, happiness, and success to the both of you.

In our time at this way of life, I have learned a bit about human behavior and nature. And in this way of life, I think almost anything can happen. My wife has a lot of skills, but one thing she cannot do is lie to me. Whenever I ask her, I get an honest answer. No one tells another everything about their lives but throughout my life, I have found that clues to hidden matters always eventually come about. If that should come about with Weldon or anyone else, I think I can handle it.

Des - way to be a man and put your foot down. It needed to be done to protect the marriage. Her cutting you off from outside pussy was retaliation, pure and simple.

More details on her fucking "all of them" would be appreciated. No way I'd want my wife doing something like that with another guy. That should be reserved for you.

Wow, Thanks for the update Des, I was getting concerned with your long absence and Like tracy52 I was holding my breath while reading your update. I am so happy it worked out for you and you two could work it out even though I don't really care for the terms but I know that has been working well you guys and you definitely have something special together. I was thinking Gigi was fucking Weldon way to much w/o it getting further involved and obviously Weldon sure wanted it to be. Love to hear more detail about the Swinger's Party. When she said she fucked “All of ‘em.” I asked, “You mean the women also?” She said, “Yeah. All of them.” is one of the sexiest comments I have heard. I am sure that took you back a little when she said that. All the best to you both and hope you have many more years of Fun!!!.. PS, I do hope Gigi loosens your restrictions a little...Cheers

Des - way to be a man and put your foot down. It needed to be done to protect the marriage.

Her cutting you off from outside pussy was retaliation, pure and simple

More details on her fucking "all of them" would be appreciated. No way I'd want my wife doing something like that with another guy. That should be reserved for you.

I have yet to hear more about just what went on at the gathering. For the reason she found having sex with that many people in one night was somewhat impersonal, I wasn’t as interested as I usually am to hear her details. I only know she went through five dicks and romped with their women. From what she and Weldon told me, her performances left an awesome impression on the attendees. All or almost all wanted her to be a regular guest at future gatherings, but she has so far declined to accept their offers.

Two couples separately gave her their home phone numbers and asked if she might be interested in joining each couple as a third. She didn’t respond but thanked them for the invitations. I’m told their group is evidently exceptionally selective in whoever gets invited to the hosts’ parties. I’m not sure but got the impression a majority are likely to come across as pretentious and egoistical; those two features turn me off more than anything I can imagine. I personally prefer “normal” people.

That was intense Des. I was trembling for you as I read it. I too was worried by how Gigi’s relationship with Weldon was trending. So unlike you to put your foot down like you did and not go along with Gigi’s wishes as usual. I also believe Gigi cutting you off from Samantha is her reasserting her control, perhaps with an element of punishment for standing up to her. Have you told Samantha, Sherry or Mrs B yet?

I wouldn’t be surprised if Gigi flaunts your one sided arrangement in your face for awhile.

While I don’t think she’ll see Weldon behind your back, she does have form. I’m thinking her coworker when all this started. May have been better if she had cooled it for awhile. Perhaps you two should go away for a holiday together to reconnect especially before she takes over the bank. Australia will have great weather soon

Can’t believe the slut she was at the swingers party. Perhaps showing off for Weldon. Still quite reckless especially when their were potential clients or fellow prominent persons there.

Wild ride but when you play with fire sometimes you get burnt. Don’t be a stranger.

Afagehi7 had the same opinion as yours about my wife reason for requesting me not be involved with other women. I suppose it’s possible that her change of mind could also have been a bit of punishing revenge as you and afagehi7 wrote; if so, I’m okay with that too. I’m not going to ask her. I like it the way it is. The demand that I wouldn’t have sex with other women was our original agreement, and I promised I would abide by it. I only varied from that with her permission. With her approval now withdrawn,

So now, I’m back to that contractual accord. I think her reasons change of mind was sincere and based upon her recent experience. Either way, I can stay within the parameters. Like most others who post at this website, my greater pleasure comes from other men fucking my wife. The aftermath, while she is telling me about each adventure during sex between us, is always mind blowing to me.

I didn’t feel that way about her and Weldon’s attendance at the swinger party. Once she told me it wasn’t as “personal” as sex with just one guy, I lost interest and didn’t ask for the details as I almost always do after another guy has fucked her. She sensed that and didn’t push to tell all about it.

Among the little I know about the party, I was told Wendell became highly aroused at watching other guys balling her. She spotted him watching from nearby the bed she and another guy were in. She said Weldon’s eyes were wide and affixed on her. Although he had already fucked at least two of the women, he was then leaning against a tall dresser against the wall and jerking off like a crazed guy. She chuckled at that for the reason it reminded her of my tendency to do the same.

I have since asked our Alexa device to play those two songs mentioned above and can imagine the effect each song had on my wife at the time she was being screwed. I’m sure she found it hot.

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I didn’t mention in that posted update a part of our conversation the night she broke off the relationship. I asked how difficult it was for her to separate from him. She said it wasn’t easy, but she would never let another man separate her from me. She added, “You’re more of a man than anyone I know, and I need you.” I suggested her boss and a couple of others are manly men. She responded, “Yeah, but they’re not like you.” I liked that.

Thanks for sharing this. That must have been very hard for Gigi to end it with Weldon.

Do you know what made her relationship with Weldon different from her other guys that allowed her to get to intimate with him?

I think I understand it but not with certainty. He's good-looking, smart, and seems sincere. Given that, I believe it's the frequency of sex between them. He has texted her several times since the break-up but only with ordinary, friendly comments. She has responded to two of those with similar remarks. The same could be said of her and her boss, but that's an entirely different circumstance. For many reasons, he cannot afford a divorce and my wife recognizes he and she are entirely different in many ways. So that doesn't offer the same risks. It's just sex - hot, yeah, but still just sex.

She's over it, but I don't think he is. It was difficult for my wife for a few days but evidently harder for him. My narrative above, as always, doesn't cover every moment of all that, but one of her comments when she admitted to me the depth of their relationship, "You and I always knew this way of life could develop into something more." That's true, and I have felt that way throughout our years at this.

Can it happen again? I don't know. There are no guarantees in hotwifing. but I do my best at keeping it the way we originally intended.

~ Des

I would argue that your wife is not over Weldon.
Her adamant demand that you stop fucking other women was a clear way of getting you back under her control. I find her demand to be incredibly immature and merely a way to get back at you for making her end her relationship with Weldon.
She says she never thinks of him, but if she was as into him as you’ve described, someone doesn’t just cut that part out of their hearts that quickly.
You’ve described her mental toughness throughout your thread but I don’t believe for a minute it’s over in her mind.
She’s saying those things for your benefit and with the hope that the more she says it the greater likelihood she will eventually believe it.
I’ve always been struck by the power imbalance in your relationship Des. I applaud you for standing up to your wife and demanding that she end the relationship with Weldon. She’s obviously happy with her life with you and what you’ve built, as well as your place in her life.
This is why I love this board and community. Your retelling of your conversation with Gigi and TELLING her to end the relationship with Weldon is an example to others. However in retrospect do you wish you would have brought up your concerns much earlier about what you were seeing and feeling as she grew closer to Weldon? Could there have been a way to give Gigi a softer landing as she broke up with Weldon, or do you think the abrupt ending of the relationship was necessary to really drive home to her the idea that it had to be over with no hope of continuation?
A continued big thank you for sharing you and your wife’s journey through this lifestyle. I find your story both exciting at times and frustrating. It wouldn’t be quite the way we roll, but it doesn’t have to be. I respect and am envious of the life, and relationship, you and Gigi have built with and for each other.
Continued good luck, happiness, and success to the both of you.

Thanks for all of that, Mundy. I cannot disagree with your analysis in that I realize some remnants are likely to remain in her thoughts for some time - and perhaps for years to come. Many, perhaps most, wives will always remember their first loves and certain others.

I could ask at any time in the future, and I’m sure she would confess the memories are still there. If so, that wouldn’t bother me. It’s part of being human.

And yes, I think my demand was necessary to bring it to an immediate end. I knew their affair had not gone on long enough to be the most serious of threats to our marriage. There are some things about this way of life for which I won’t stand or allow. I believe in giving my wife the freedom to live her sexual life as she wishes, but I cannot allow any behaviors by anyone that can threaten our marriage.

I knew than ending the relationship immediately was preferable than allowing it to grow further and have no regrets about doing so. She tells me she isn’t sorrowful for it and recognizes her and Weldon’s feelings were going too far. Although she didn’t specifically complain about my demand, she was a bit testy for a few days and I knew why. I simply ignored it until she got around to thanking me for forcing her to end it.

Ongoing experiences with other men will continue to suppress any feelings she may still have for Weldon. As it has recently turned out, another potential relationship is developing with a new guy. I’ll get around to writing about that soon, but so far it’s no more than casual luncheon meetings with him.

~ Des
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Des,

Not much time for me to write now, but I wanted to respond to your update. I, too, believe her reverting to the one sided sex arrangement was without doubt a clear retaliation for having to stop with Weldon!! And that is a great disappointment to me. Those are not the comments or assertations I expected from a woman of clear thinking as we have come to understand about her. Someone has said that this shows the imbalance of power in your relations ship with Gigi, I find it just the opposite!! I think your justified demand that she stop and her acceptance of that demand shows that you have had significant power in your relationship but have exercised it very sparingly. Personally, I would have countered her retaliation with a modification to allow you some sex with limited women. It is a bit of a push back but she is the one who is pushing the power game. You demanded that she stop with him which was you exerting a power on her, her demand to return to original rules was simply her reasserting HER power back again. I know that my thoughts are of no value in this, but that needs to be a subject of a further discussion. She has been given very WIDE permissions by you to enjoy herself, YOU should now be given some of those permissions as well. Maybe not as frequent as she, but you should not be cut off completely. After all, you could have called for ALL of her extramarital play to end!!! You two need a good talk!!!

Just my 2¢ worth!

Rascal

Thanks for the input, Rascal. I need to think this one over. (But I'm not into blaming her.)

Des

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My previous post didn’t load somehow. Annoying but gave me a chance to read the subsequent replies by Des which has allayed my concerns somewhat but would like to raise the following:
I’ve always admired Gigi for the way she handles herself and for her clear thinking but she is a hypocrite cancelling your extramarital license considering she was the one guilty of not being able to control her feelings and not you. This is wrong even though you’re ok with it.

Her recent liaisons starting with Rob the astronomer then, Martin and now Weldon have been getting more intense sexually and frequently and with deeper emotional attachment each time culminating on falling in love with Weldon. Is this just getting cock crazing, all that sperm juice in her brain or is she looking for something besides extramarital sex that’s missing from your relationship. How is your relationship? Seems back to “normal “ but go you have the previous level of intimacy with Gigi?

Finally, giving them a final night together. Seems really reckless. What were you thinking? So much could have gone wrong. It’s like catching your spouse doing drugs and say one more time then stop. End it now should have meant end it now after the phone call without giving them a chance to realise what they were giving up. I also don’t like them texting. No contact means no contact.

I’m sure you have a better handle on this but I wouldn’t be travelling for awhile. You need to be around.

Thanks for indulging me.