So she's expressed interest in the cage/vibrator scenario, but we haven't played it out yet. Her sluttiness in college has been such a closed topic for so long, but I'd love for her to open up about it.jratt85 wrote: ↑Wed Jul 27, 2022 5:44 pmSomething you might want to try and bring up again would be to have her put you in your cage and then masturbate with her vibrator while telling you about her being slutty in college.. She needs to learn that you are okay with her being experienced, that she was slutty in school and get her pleasure from it while seeing you struggle where you are getting hard but can't because of the cage.. either that or get a cock ring and have her tie your hands behind your back while you're listening to her and you have to sit there hard as hell from hearing her stories and seeing her getting off while you can't touch yourself.. She'll get to see that you're hard for her and if she wants to reach over and play with it she can but it's completely for her and at her whim.
I think that would give her positive reinforcement while also giving into your sub tendencies and also reinforcing that her talking about being with other guys is a good thing.
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So the last two nights she has made a big effort, so I thought I’d share.
We’re both dealing with minor colds, but nothing too major. I can tell my wife wasn’t looking for marathon sex sessions like we’ve been having though, so she used the opportunity to explore some dom/submissive stuff.
On Friday, I told her I ordered the larger cage (the current one is just too small—incredibly difficult to get on and it pulls down against the back of my balls, leading to major pinching on the top of my shaft). We got into bed and she told me she wanted me in the cage.
I was rock hard already and suggested she put me in it after we play. She liked that idea, but told me all I get to do was masterbate while I watch her with her vibrator. I asked if I could please warm her up a bit with my tongue and she let me.
After only about two minutes she told me I had enough and pushed me off. She spread her legs wide, in front of my face, and worked the vibrator on her clit as I sat back and jerked off.
She was dirty talking, telling me all I get to do is watch and noting how good her vibrator feels and how it’s her favorite way to reach an orgasm.
After about five minutes, I was close to orgasm and she noticed. She told me to stop because I wasn’t allowed to cum yet. She told me to lick her nipples instead, so I did.
Over the next few minutes, her orgasm built and she let me know she was getting close. I asked if I could lick her cum and she moaned. Right as she was about to cub, she pulled the vibrator away and guided my head down with her hand and I dove my tongue inside her as she came.
She came down from her orgasm and told me she wanted my dick inside her. I was very close to cuming, so I suggested we go for two rounds as I put it in. She said she’ll be locking my cock up as soon as I cum.
I tried to hold off cuming, but she gyrated her hips into me and started dirty talking hard: “I own your cock now and you won’t have any idea where the key is…Enjoy this orgasm because I don’t know when you’ll get to fuck me again…It must feel so good inside my tight pussy right now and I’m going lock it up in that tiny cage soon; etc.”
I pulled out and came after about 30 seconds.
We talked a bit about it while waiting for my cock to shrink back down and I told her how hot it all was. I was able to get the cage on, but lying in bed to fall asleep it started to really pinch again and we had to take it off. Hopefully when the larger cage comes, it will be more manageable.
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Then last night (Saturday). We’re both still a little sick and we were exhausted from being at beach with kids all day, so we went up to bed early. I was just going to go to sleep, but she rolled into me and let her hand roam over my dick, saying “I’m going to give you a handjob.”
I responded, “mmm, but you looked so good today; I really just want to bend you over.”
Her: “Sorry, you don’t get that.”
Me: “We’ll I’d love to see your pretty mouth wrapped around it.”
Her: “You don’t get that either, but grab me the lube.”
So she slowly worked her hand over my dick with the lube and it felt incredible. She reiterated how all I get was this tonight—I don’t get to feel her tight pussy or wet mouth—and then how she is going to make me shoot a giant load all over myself and then have to clean it up on my own while she goes to bed.
It felt really good and I knew I’d cum quick, but I asked her to tell me a sex story from college. She paused for a bit while she stroked and I wasn’t sure what she was going to do as it’s been a sensitive topic at times.
But she leaned in and told me a story about hooking up with a guy in his dorm room. How she really wanted to feel his hard cock as they made out and she put her hand in his pants. He then tried to push her head down, but she wouldn’t and just kept jerking. He then pushed for sex, but again she refused and kept jerking until he came all over himself.
I came as well, also all over myself.
While cleaning up I told her how hot it was and how much fun it was the last two nights. I also noted that I’d she told a story that involved her having sex, the juxtaposition of me just getting a HJ would have made me cum instantly. She laughed and said she’d keep it mind for next time.
So I gotta say, her seeming openness to occasionally talk about this stuff as part of our sex life is awesome—it’s been my number one ask our entire relationship. So this is a really game changer—I’m not going to push it though. I recognize this stuff needs to be the minority.
In fact, while I was writing this post (in bed, on my phone), she came upstairs from dealing with kids and we fooled around—regular sex though and it was a lot of fun. We both came.
Looking at it all now, I feel like the key difference has been all of our emotional talks. We’re both so open with each other now and listening to each other. The emotional connection, especially for her, is so strong that she seems way more into all the physical stuff.
We’re both dealing with minor colds, but nothing too major. I can tell my wife wasn’t looking for marathon sex sessions like we’ve been having though, so she used the opportunity to explore some dom/submissive stuff.
On Friday, I told her I ordered the larger cage (the current one is just too small—incredibly difficult to get on and it pulls down against the back of my balls, leading to major pinching on the top of my shaft). We got into bed and she told me she wanted me in the cage.
I was rock hard already and suggested she put me in it after we play. She liked that idea, but told me all I get to do was masterbate while I watch her with her vibrator. I asked if I could please warm her up a bit with my tongue and she let me.
After only about two minutes she told me I had enough and pushed me off. She spread her legs wide, in front of my face, and worked the vibrator on her clit as I sat back and jerked off.
She was dirty talking, telling me all I get to do is watch and noting how good her vibrator feels and how it’s her favorite way to reach an orgasm.
After about five minutes, I was close to orgasm and she noticed. She told me to stop because I wasn’t allowed to cum yet. She told me to lick her nipples instead, so I did.
Over the next few minutes, her orgasm built and she let me know she was getting close. I asked if I could lick her cum and she moaned. Right as she was about to cub, she pulled the vibrator away and guided my head down with her hand and I dove my tongue inside her as she came.
She came down from her orgasm and told me she wanted my dick inside her. I was very close to cuming, so I suggested we go for two rounds as I put it in. She said she’ll be locking my cock up as soon as I cum.
I tried to hold off cuming, but she gyrated her hips into me and started dirty talking hard: “I own your cock now and you won’t have any idea where the key is…Enjoy this orgasm because I don’t know when you’ll get to fuck me again…It must feel so good inside my tight pussy right now and I’m going lock it up in that tiny cage soon; etc.”
I pulled out and came after about 30 seconds.
We talked a bit about it while waiting for my cock to shrink back down and I told her how hot it all was. I was able to get the cage on, but lying in bed to fall asleep it started to really pinch again and we had to take it off. Hopefully when the larger cage comes, it will be more manageable.
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Then last night (Saturday). We’re both still a little sick and we were exhausted from being at beach with kids all day, so we went up to bed early. I was just going to go to sleep, but she rolled into me and let her hand roam over my dick, saying “I’m going to give you a handjob.”
I responded, “mmm, but you looked so good today; I really just want to bend you over.”
Her: “Sorry, you don’t get that.”
Me: “We’ll I’d love to see your pretty mouth wrapped around it.”
Her: “You don’t get that either, but grab me the lube.”
So she slowly worked her hand over my dick with the lube and it felt incredible. She reiterated how all I get was this tonight—I don’t get to feel her tight pussy or wet mouth—and then how she is going to make me shoot a giant load all over myself and then have to clean it up on my own while she goes to bed.
It felt really good and I knew I’d cum quick, but I asked her to tell me a sex story from college. She paused for a bit while she stroked and I wasn’t sure what she was going to do as it’s been a sensitive topic at times.
But she leaned in and told me a story about hooking up with a guy in his dorm room. How she really wanted to feel his hard cock as they made out and she put her hand in his pants. He then tried to push her head down, but she wouldn’t and just kept jerking. He then pushed for sex, but again she refused and kept jerking until he came all over himself.
I came as well, also all over myself.
While cleaning up I told her how hot it was and how much fun it was the last two nights. I also noted that I’d she told a story that involved her having sex, the juxtaposition of me just getting a HJ would have made me cum instantly. She laughed and said she’d keep it mind for next time.
So I gotta say, her seeming openness to occasionally talk about this stuff as part of our sex life is awesome—it’s been my number one ask our entire relationship. So this is a really game changer—I’m not going to push it though. I recognize this stuff needs to be the minority.
In fact, while I was writing this post (in bed, on my phone), she came upstairs from dealing with kids and we fooled around—regular sex though and it was a lot of fun. We both came.
Looking at it all now, I feel like the key difference has been all of our emotional talks. We’re both so open with each other now and listening to each other. The emotional connection, especially for her, is so strong that she seems way more into all the physical stuff.
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It’s amazing what happens to a relationship when the communication is open and honest, and the other person is an active listener.
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That is hot! Hopefully the new cage fits better and is something you can sleep in and wear without too much pain/discomfort.
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Well, a fairly big update. The new, larger cage arrived over the weekend. Yesterday morning, out of the blue, my wife asked me to put it on, but I protested because I was on my way to physical therapy and then had a day in the office--I didn't want to test it out for the first time so aggressively. She just noted that "I had a lot of excuses" and left for work herself.
I changed my mind and decided to wear it, realizing that I needed to put in the effort on this if my wife was. The increased size made all the difference and I had virtually no issues with pinching--it was a bit awkward to walk around with, chaffing against my inner thighs, but nothing too major. I didn't even mention I was wearing it to my wife; just left the key on her nightstand.
That evening, while putting our daughter to bed, we had a brief embrace and as she will often do, she cupped my dick--but this time immediately noticing the cage. She was surprised I was wearing it, but seemed to like it.
We hung out with my son for a bit before he went to bed--we had a bit of an incident (I made an insensitive comment). She decided she wanted to take a bath to reset. I later texted her to see if I could join her and she told me to come up. I apologized for the comment and hopped in the bath.
It might just be my mind playing tricks with the cage on, but she looked extra good--it was just after her period, so her boobs were a little fuller and she had just shaved her pussy bare earlier in the day. I felt like a teenager who couldn't stop starring while she talked about her day--I suspect she noticed, but didn't say anything.
After the bath, we got into bed. She asked me if I wanted the key and I told her it was entirely up to her. She paused for a bit.
"Well, I was going to use my toy regardless, so it just feels really mean to keep you locked up while you watch."
I responded, "Nah, it's totally fine--I can focus on you."
"Well that's fine with me..."
She was naked, legs spread, with her vibrator between her legs. I was gently kissing her, with my hands roaming her body. She started to get into it, so I worked my way down, mouth on her right nipple; hand working her left nipple.
After 5-10 minutes, I went down further, kissing her legs and running my tongue over her pussy while her vibrator kept working. After a couple of minutes, she told me to back up and just watch, so I did.
Her right leg was draped over my legs with my head resting on her left thigh; the cage firmly in her view as she moaned with pleasure. It began to get very uncomfortable with my dick straining against the cage. I asked if she could please unlock it; she did, but told me I could only jerk off.
Once it was off, I resumed my position: my face inches from her soaking pussy as I jerked my cock. I knew I couldn't last long as it was all so overwhelming.
I leaned in and licked her pussy again, and as I did, she sunk the vibrator deep inside as she kept building up to her orgasm. She pulled it out and I licked it clean, her helping me along by putting it in my mouth. I told her how good she tasted.
I asked if I could cum on her pussy and she told me I could, so I sat up with my dick just inches from her spread pussy. She suck the vibrator deep inside her again, pulling it out and putting it in my mouth again. I shot a huge load all over her pussy and stomach.
I quickly got tissues to clean what was dripping off while she got back to work on her clit as she was really close. I leaned down, licking up her body, tasting my cum, as I worked my mouth to her nipple. I sucked it hard and it set her over the top and she came.
I was still rock hard and ready to go again, so I asked if she wanted sex. She told me I could put it in. I started to, but I realized I really had to pee, so we took a break so my dick could go down a bit and I could pee.
We got back into bed and I was exhausted. I was lying there about to drift off to sleep not even realizing it. That's when I felt her hand start to roam, working its way down to my dick again.
I was hard quick and asked if we could have sex, but she replied: "Actually not what I had in mind," as she reached for the toy again.
I relaxed a bit as she worked her hand on my dick and the vibrator on herself. After a couple of minutes, she moved the vibrator to my cock and holy shit it felt good. Had I not just cum, I think it would have made me cum immediately. She held her hand stationary, wrapped around my dick, while she ran the vibrator up and down my shaft. I humped her hand hard feeling like I was going to cum really quickly.
She would sense me getting close and pull the toy away and back to herself. Back and forth, teasing me with me ineffectively humping her fist for all I could, but she'd never quite let me cum.
We talked a bit as well--about how I was going to cum from the vibrator just like she does and about how it's her favorite way to cum.
It went on for about 15 minutes; her teasing. I finally began to beg to fuck her. She teased a bit before eventually caving. It felt incredible to be inside her and I fucked her for a few minutes before pulling out and cuming all over her again.
It was a good night! And we explored lots of new territory. She initiated sex again a few hours ago and I fucked her prone position and came on her ass.
In terms of our sex life, things are going well.
I changed my mind and decided to wear it, realizing that I needed to put in the effort on this if my wife was. The increased size made all the difference and I had virtually no issues with pinching--it was a bit awkward to walk around with, chaffing against my inner thighs, but nothing too major. I didn't even mention I was wearing it to my wife; just left the key on her nightstand.
That evening, while putting our daughter to bed, we had a brief embrace and as she will often do, she cupped my dick--but this time immediately noticing the cage. She was surprised I was wearing it, but seemed to like it.
We hung out with my son for a bit before he went to bed--we had a bit of an incident (I made an insensitive comment). She decided she wanted to take a bath to reset. I later texted her to see if I could join her and she told me to come up. I apologized for the comment and hopped in the bath.
It might just be my mind playing tricks with the cage on, but she looked extra good--it was just after her period, so her boobs were a little fuller and she had just shaved her pussy bare earlier in the day. I felt like a teenager who couldn't stop starring while she talked about her day--I suspect she noticed, but didn't say anything.
After the bath, we got into bed. She asked me if I wanted the key and I told her it was entirely up to her. She paused for a bit.
"Well, I was going to use my toy regardless, so it just feels really mean to keep you locked up while you watch."
I responded, "Nah, it's totally fine--I can focus on you."
"Well that's fine with me..."
She was naked, legs spread, with her vibrator between her legs. I was gently kissing her, with my hands roaming her body. She started to get into it, so I worked my way down, mouth on her right nipple; hand working her left nipple.
After 5-10 minutes, I went down further, kissing her legs and running my tongue over her pussy while her vibrator kept working. After a couple of minutes, she told me to back up and just watch, so I did.
Her right leg was draped over my legs with my head resting on her left thigh; the cage firmly in her view as she moaned with pleasure. It began to get very uncomfortable with my dick straining against the cage. I asked if she could please unlock it; she did, but told me I could only jerk off.
Once it was off, I resumed my position: my face inches from her soaking pussy as I jerked my cock. I knew I couldn't last long as it was all so overwhelming.
I leaned in and licked her pussy again, and as I did, she sunk the vibrator deep inside as she kept building up to her orgasm. She pulled it out and I licked it clean, her helping me along by putting it in my mouth. I told her how good she tasted.
I asked if I could cum on her pussy and she told me I could, so I sat up with my dick just inches from her spread pussy. She suck the vibrator deep inside her again, pulling it out and putting it in my mouth again. I shot a huge load all over her pussy and stomach.
I quickly got tissues to clean what was dripping off while she got back to work on her clit as she was really close. I leaned down, licking up her body, tasting my cum, as I worked my mouth to her nipple. I sucked it hard and it set her over the top and she came.
I was still rock hard and ready to go again, so I asked if she wanted sex. She told me I could put it in. I started to, but I realized I really had to pee, so we took a break so my dick could go down a bit and I could pee.
We got back into bed and I was exhausted. I was lying there about to drift off to sleep not even realizing it. That's when I felt her hand start to roam, working its way down to my dick again.
I was hard quick and asked if we could have sex, but she replied: "Actually not what I had in mind," as she reached for the toy again.
I relaxed a bit as she worked her hand on my dick and the vibrator on herself. After a couple of minutes, she moved the vibrator to my cock and holy shit it felt good. Had I not just cum, I think it would have made me cum immediately. She held her hand stationary, wrapped around my dick, while she ran the vibrator up and down my shaft. I humped her hand hard feeling like I was going to cum really quickly.
She would sense me getting close and pull the toy away and back to herself. Back and forth, teasing me with me ineffectively humping her fist for all I could, but she'd never quite let me cum.
We talked a bit as well--about how I was going to cum from the vibrator just like she does and about how it's her favorite way to cum.
It went on for about 15 minutes; her teasing. I finally began to beg to fuck her. She teased a bit before eventually caving. It felt incredible to be inside her and I fucked her for a few minutes before pulling out and cuming all over her again.
It was a good night! And we explored lots of new territory. She initiated sex again a few hours ago and I fucked her prone position and came on her ass.
In terms of our sex life, things are going well.
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If you want something else you could try, lay back propped against the wall/head of the bed on pillows and have her lay back on you with either her head on your crotch or your shoulder while she uses her toy. She'll be able to play with herself but you won't but she'll be up against you the whole time.. I'm sure you'll be hard and leaking in no time. Then when she finally lets you play you can sandwich her toy between you and her and she can grind on it and grind it into your cock until you both cum from it. Hell if you can get a big enough condom you could even pull it over both you and the toy keeping it firmly lodged against your cock while she grinds and then you can do whatever you want with your cum afterwards.
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Nice! Glad to hear the new cage fits/works better for you guys. It will be interesting to see how you feel the first time she makes you wear it for a few days rather than just a few hours.
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We're dealing with some emotional strife right now, so nothing new on the kink front.Rogueuser1 wrote: ↑Fri Aug 12, 2022 8:18 amNice! Glad to hear the new cage fits/works better for you guys. It will be interesting to see how you feel the first time she makes you wear it for a few days rather than just a few hours.
I did realize a humiliating detail yesterday that I shared with my wife. I purchased a pocket pussy in December of last year. I only used it a handful of times, but one of the occasions was in early January while my wife was "traveling for work"--I was home fucking the fake pussy while another guy was fucking hers. A hard pill to swallow for sure.
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Update:
So as mentioned in the last post, we were dealing with some issues--some of it revolved around sex (as there's been a lot). I think my wife was feeling too much pressure to have sex all the time and it was causing problems in other areas. Our marriage counsellor suggested that we try only having a sexual session when my wife initiates it. I was hesitant at first as I wasn't sure it would solve the problem, but my wife really liked the idea. So I said I'd give it a try for a week or so and we'll see how we like it.
We then discussed it more at home and she thought it was a perfect time to use the cage. Because I won't be initiating any sexual time, there's no reason not to be locked up. Then when she wants to fool around, she can unlock me. I was hesitant at first, but her point was logical and I thought it might be fun.
So now the kids are out of the house for the week (with grandparents) and we're home alone and I'm locked up. So far so good, but this will be a long time staying locked, so I hope I can cope with it. I will admit it's been a bit fun because she's walking around the house in very short shorts and a tanktop, so the cage has been getting tight.
No promises, but maybe I'll have some fun updates for the week.
So as mentioned in the last post, we were dealing with some issues--some of it revolved around sex (as there's been a lot). I think my wife was feeling too much pressure to have sex all the time and it was causing problems in other areas. Our marriage counsellor suggested that we try only having a sexual session when my wife initiates it. I was hesitant at first as I wasn't sure it would solve the problem, but my wife really liked the idea. So I said I'd give it a try for a week or so and we'll see how we like it.
We then discussed it more at home and she thought it was a perfect time to use the cage. Because I won't be initiating any sexual time, there's no reason not to be locked up. Then when she wants to fool around, she can unlock me. I was hesitant at first, but her point was logical and I thought it might be fun.
So now the kids are out of the house for the week (with grandparents) and we're home alone and I'm locked up. So far so good, but this will be a long time staying locked, so I hope I can cope with it. I will admit it's been a bit fun because she's walking around the house in very short shorts and a tanktop, so the cage has been getting tight.
No promises, but maybe I'll have some fun updates for the week.
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Nice - glad to hear things are going well!
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It didn't take long for a good update. I'm sick with a cold so we headed up to bed early last night. I wasn't sure of my wife's intentions once we got into bed, but I had promised to leave all initiation to her.
She came out of the bathroom in only her thong, no top, so it obviously caught my attention.
She asked if I was up for fooling around. I said of course, but it was entirely up to her. She told me she was horny and wanted to play. I had a wave of relief and asked her to get the cage off of me.
She just laughed though and said not so fast. She took out her vibrator and straddled her legs over mine, so her pussy was inches from my caged cock.
And then she started to play with herself, but the vibrator was also touching me. I thought my dick was going to break in half it was so hot. After a couple of minutes, she used one hand to hold my caged cock up while she used her vibrator with the other, so I now felt it directly on my shaft--felt so good.
She slid the vibrator inside her and I whimpered, "fuck..."
She started to moan and tell me how good it felt. She was close to an orgasm, but wanted to change positions so I could play with her nipples.
She said she'd unlock me under two conditions: I understand I don't get to fuck her tonight and I don't touch my dick so I can stay focused on her breasts. I quickly agreed, though I would have agreed to anything at that point.
She unlocked the cage and pulled it off and my dick sprang free.
She shifted up by me so we were lying next to each other--she told me to lube my dick and she began to slowly jerk me off with her right hand while she worked the vibrator on herself with the other. I was super horny and humping her hand back with sexual frustration.
We had an exchange that I'll try to transcribe from memory:
Her: You want to cum so bad, don't you?
Me: So bad. I wish I could fuck you.
Her: You have no chance at fucking me tonight, babe. I might let you cum though.
Me: Are you going to put me back in the cage after I cum?
Her: Of course. You 're going to wear it all the time now--we agreed.
I started to hump her hand harder and she laughed as she loosened her grip so I couldn't cum.
Her: Me first babe. Focus on my nipples.
Me: How does that feel?
Her: So good. The toy feels so good too. Can you see how wet it is?
Me: Are you really going to keep me locked in the cage all the time? I didn't realize that's what we settled on.
Her: Yes--does that scare you?
Me: Well, I just would like to be able to jerk off sometimes.
Her: Sorry, babe. No more of that. But doesn't this feel so much better?
Me: Fuck, yes it does. I want to cum so bad.
She worked her way to an orgasm and then moved the vibrating toy over and pressed it against my ass. She then lowered her mouth onto my cock. I think it was the most pleasure I've ever experienced. I thought I might black out. She sucked my dick for about 30 seconds until I exploded down her throat--she struggled to swallow the full load, but got most of it.
I was sick and congested, so I passed out before remembering to put the cage back on, but she woke me up with another BJ this morning and swallowed another load. I used my fingers to make her cum as well.
I'm back in the cage, but she was in a rush to get off to work and forgot the key. We texted about it and she's going to put the key on one of her chains or her charm bracelet when she gets home so that doesn't happen again.
I took a picture at the start of last night's session, but I can't post it without checking with my wife first obviously. I suspect she'll be reserved about it, but maybe one day.
She came out of the bathroom in only her thong, no top, so it obviously caught my attention.
She asked if I was up for fooling around. I said of course, but it was entirely up to her. She told me she was horny and wanted to play. I had a wave of relief and asked her to get the cage off of me.
She just laughed though and said not so fast. She took out her vibrator and straddled her legs over mine, so her pussy was inches from my caged cock.
And then she started to play with herself, but the vibrator was also touching me. I thought my dick was going to break in half it was so hot. After a couple of minutes, she used one hand to hold my caged cock up while she used her vibrator with the other, so I now felt it directly on my shaft--felt so good.
She slid the vibrator inside her and I whimpered, "fuck..."
She started to moan and tell me how good it felt. She was close to an orgasm, but wanted to change positions so I could play with her nipples.
She said she'd unlock me under two conditions: I understand I don't get to fuck her tonight and I don't touch my dick so I can stay focused on her breasts. I quickly agreed, though I would have agreed to anything at that point.
She unlocked the cage and pulled it off and my dick sprang free.
She shifted up by me so we were lying next to each other--she told me to lube my dick and she began to slowly jerk me off with her right hand while she worked the vibrator on herself with the other. I was super horny and humping her hand back with sexual frustration.
We had an exchange that I'll try to transcribe from memory:
Her: You want to cum so bad, don't you?
Me: So bad. I wish I could fuck you.
Her: You have no chance at fucking me tonight, babe. I might let you cum though.
Me: Are you going to put me back in the cage after I cum?
Her: Of course. You 're going to wear it all the time now--we agreed.
I started to hump her hand harder and she laughed as she loosened her grip so I couldn't cum.
Her: Me first babe. Focus on my nipples.
Me: How does that feel?
Her: So good. The toy feels so good too. Can you see how wet it is?
Me: Are you really going to keep me locked in the cage all the time? I didn't realize that's what we settled on.
Her: Yes--does that scare you?
Me: Well, I just would like to be able to jerk off sometimes.
Her: Sorry, babe. No more of that. But doesn't this feel so much better?
Me: Fuck, yes it does. I want to cum so bad.
She worked her way to an orgasm and then moved the vibrating toy over and pressed it against my ass. She then lowered her mouth onto my cock. I think it was the most pleasure I've ever experienced. I thought I might black out. She sucked my dick for about 30 seconds until I exploded down her throat--she struggled to swallow the full load, but got most of it.
I was sick and congested, so I passed out before remembering to put the cage back on, but she woke me up with another BJ this morning and swallowed another load. I used my fingers to make her cum as well.
I'm back in the cage, but she was in a rush to get off to work and forgot the key. We texted about it and she's going to put the key on one of her chains or her charm bracelet when she gets home so that doesn't happen again.
I took a picture at the start of last night's session, but I can't post it without checking with my wife first obviously. I suspect she'll be reserved about it, but maybe one day.
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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation
Awesome session - she is far too nice to you of course letting you cum in her mouth twice in <10 hours... but it IS ok to be too nice sometimes. It will be interesting to see what your longest lock up period without cumming (aside from a wet dream) actually is. What do you think is the longest you would WANT to go without cumming?
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Yes, she was VERY generous--hopefully that continues!Rogueuser1 wrote: ↑Fri Aug 26, 2022 10:13 amAwesome session - she is far too nice to you of course letting you cum in her mouth twice in <10 hours... but it IS ok to be too nice sometimes. It will be interesting to see what your longest lock up period without cumming (aside from a wet dream) actually is. What do you think is the longest you would WANT to go without cumming?
I think at this point, 2-3 days would be my upper limit. I'm open to pushing it as we explore it though.
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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation
I spent the entire day caged yesterday, including heading out to dinner together, so it was the first time in public with her wearing the cage. We then watched some TV back at home with her barely dressed--massive turn on.
We then went up to bed and she told we she wanted to have sex. So I said awesome and asked her to unlock me. She laughed and said not yet--first I need to warm myself up and she made me watch as she used her vibrator on herself. I asked to give her oral, but she told me I just had to watch.
She spent about 10 minutes getting herself ready and then got the key to unlock me--she let me give her a bit of oral beforehand. I got the cage off and my dick was fully hard already. Sliding inside her after almost a week of no intercourse felt incredible. I fucked her really good and hard for about 15-20 minutes. We did missionary, side doggy and then prone--my cum shot went from below her ass to her hair lol.
It's been awesome.
I do have one question for those of you who have dabbled with chastity. My wife has been very enthusiastic about the cage and has seemingly really enjoyed it, but she's not enforcing it, so a part of me feels kind of silly about it. For example, I haven't even put it on today and she doesn't care--it makes me feel kind of weird to just keep putting it on--is that crazy? However, on the flip side, I find it a huge turn on to wear it and she seemingly does as well.
We then went up to bed and she told we she wanted to have sex. So I said awesome and asked her to unlock me. She laughed and said not yet--first I need to warm myself up and she made me watch as she used her vibrator on herself. I asked to give her oral, but she told me I just had to watch.
She spent about 10 minutes getting herself ready and then got the key to unlock me--she let me give her a bit of oral beforehand. I got the cage off and my dick was fully hard already. Sliding inside her after almost a week of no intercourse felt incredible. I fucked her really good and hard for about 15-20 minutes. We did missionary, side doggy and then prone--my cum shot went from below her ass to her hair lol.
It's been awesome.
I do have one question for those of you who have dabbled with chastity. My wife has been very enthusiastic about the cage and has seemingly really enjoyed it, but she's not enforcing it, so a part of me feels kind of silly about it. For example, I haven't even put it on today and she doesn't care--it makes me feel kind of weird to just keep putting it on--is that crazy? However, on the flip side, I find it a huge turn on to wear it and she seemingly does as well.
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Update.
Still dealing with ups and downs post-affair, but the sex stuff has progressed. An issue for my wife is that she has been enjoying sex with me, so she doesn't want the kink to interfere with that. She likes oral, my hands, her vibrator, but after the warmup, she likes to be fucked to climax. We settled on the idea that she can have sex with me whenever she wants, but I don't get to cum from it--I either get her hand or my own hand after she's done.
She surprised me with it a bit the first time, but it turned me on. She came and was interested in having more sex, so she asked if I could stop and she watched me jerk off and cum on myself afterward. Afterward I told her it turned me on and a solution was born.
Last night she asked if I could cuddle with her, so I missed the 2nd quarter of the football game watching Bridgerton with her, cuddled into her chest as she stroked my hair. Strangely, it really turned me on, so I told her. She was thrilled and requested a massage and oral sex tonight while she watches the next episode. It's a bit strange, but I'm straining in my cage thinking about missing the football game to do that for her.
Still dealing with ups and downs post-affair, but the sex stuff has progressed. An issue for my wife is that she has been enjoying sex with me, so she doesn't want the kink to interfere with that. She likes oral, my hands, her vibrator, but after the warmup, she likes to be fucked to climax. We settled on the idea that she can have sex with me whenever she wants, but I don't get to cum from it--I either get her hand or my own hand after she's done.
She surprised me with it a bit the first time, but it turned me on. She came and was interested in having more sex, so she asked if I could stop and she watched me jerk off and cum on myself afterward. Afterward I told her it turned me on and a solution was born.
Last night she asked if I could cuddle with her, so I missed the 2nd quarter of the football game watching Bridgerton with her, cuddled into her chest as she stroked my hair. Strangely, it really turned me on, so I told her. She was thrilled and requested a massage and oral sex tonight while she watches the next episode. It's a bit strange, but I'm straining in my cage thinking about missing the football game to do that for her.
Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation
Thanks for the update!
I'm curious, how are you progressing on the other issues regarding your marriage? More specifically, how is the "sex stuff" (as you call it) either enhancing, or is being enabled, by progress (or lack thereof) on the "other stuff"?
I'm curious, how are you progressing on the other issues regarding your marriage? More specifically, how is the "sex stuff" (as you call it) either enhancing, or is being enabled, by progress (or lack thereof) on the "other stuff"?
Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation
drstrangelove wrote: ↑Mon Sep 19, 2022 11:03 amUpdate.
Still dealing with ups and downs post-affair, but the sex stuff has progressed. An issue for my wife is that she has been enjoying sex with me, so she doesn't want the kink to interfere with that. She likes oral, my hands, her vibrator, but after the warmup, she likes to be fucked to climax. We settled on the idea that she can have sex with me whenever she wants, but I don't get to cum from it--I either get her hand or my own hand after she's done.
She surprised me with it a bit the first time, but it turned me on. She came and was interested in having more sex, so she asked if I could stop and she watched me jerk off and cum on myself afterward. Afterward I told her it turned me on and a solution was born.
Last night she asked if I could cuddle with her, so I missed the 2nd quarter of the football game watching Bridgerton with her, cuddled into her chest as she stroked my hair. Strangely, it really turned me on, so I told her. She was thrilled and requested a massage and oral sex tonight while she watches the next episode. It's a bit strange, but I'm straining in my cage thinking about missing the football game to do that for her.
At least you are having fun and somehow making it work, if only for now. Personally, I'd definitely take that over being alone for the rest of my life as it seems I will be.. That's all I'll say, this isn't about me.
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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation
American football is the game split into quarters. What most of the rest of the world call football (Soccer) is in halves as we know. It would be highly unusual for any Brit to refer to a 2nd quarter of a football match unless referring to American football which is a fairly minority interest over here.jratt85 wrote: ↑Mon Sep 19, 2022 6:32 pmwhelp, we all know you are a Brit now, no American would ever call that football LOL. Maybe that's also something most of us have issues relating to you with is the societal disconnect because your world is definitely different than living in the US.drstrangelove wrote: ↑Mon Sep 19, 2022 11:03 amUpdate.
Last night she asked if I could cuddle with her, so I missed the 2nd quarter of the football game watching Bridgerton with her, cuddled into her chest as she stroked my hair. Strangely, it really turned me on, so I told her. She was thrilled and requested a massage and oral sex tonight while she watches the next episode. It's a bit strange, but I'm straining in my cage thinking about missing the football game to do that for her.
At least you are having fun and somehow making it work, if only for now. Personally, I'd definitely take that over being alone for the rest of my life as it seems I will be.. That's all I'll say, this isn't about me.
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whelp, we all know you are a Brit now, no American would ever call that football LOL. Maybe that's also something most of us have issues relating to you with is the societal disconnect because your world is definitely different than living in the US.
At least you are having fun and somehow making it work, if only for now. Personally, I'd definitely take that over being alone for the rest of my life as it seems I will be.. That's all I'll say, this isn't about me.
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Wot are you on about mate? Bridgerton is a television program, not a footy club.
whelp, we all know you are a Brit now, no American would ever call that football LOL. Maybe that's also something most of us have issues relating to you with is the societal disconnect because your world is definitely different than living in the US.
At least you are having fun and somehow making it work, if only for now. Personally, I'd definitely take that over being alone for the rest of my life as it seems I will be.. That's all I'll say, this isn't about me.
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Wot are you on about mate? Bridgerton is a television program, not a footy club.
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Sorry I misread.. it happens..
Believe it or not I'm still a virgin. I'm autistic & didn't know till 30. Blame my cuck side on dad's Penthouse Letters in my teens & women teasing me on Myspace @~20. Yes I'm 6'10.
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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation
The kink stuff is helping because it’s acting as a bridge to keep us connected. Largely, kink or not, we’re enjoying our sex life, so it’s a reprieve from any of the heavier emotional stuff.
There are times when we are both in a negative head space and sex can bring us out of it. Other times it can’t, but thus far it hasn’t seemed to harm us. As best I can tell, my wife is enjoying our sex like now more than ever—regardless of the kinks.
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Interesting, so the sex improves the other stuff…. Thanks for answering and for the insight
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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation
As an update, we had a fun couple of days.
As I suggested, during the Monday Night Football game, I gave her a full body massage while she watched Bridgerton. That then turned into oral sex until she had an orgasm and we followed it up with her requesting sex and unlocking me. I fucked her really good on the couch, entirely focused on not cuming myself, until she had her second orgasm. As soon as she was done, she asked me to stop, and I did. However, she was really happy with me and offered to finish me off with her mouth--only lasted about a minute.
The next day (yesterday) I had to go into the office, and she stayed home, so I wore the cage to work. We're still sorting through how to handle the cage, but largely we've now decided to use it whenever we're not together--which is mostly when one or both of us go into the office. She sent me a pic while I was working of her in bra and panties with the key on her necklace--yesterday was the first time she wore it around her neck (she usually just hid it in the house).
I haven't been wearing the cage for many full days, so it was a bit annoying to have to sit to pee all day, so we had an exchange about it. We discussed how it's no big deal and how women always have to sit--it's also an opportunity to take a break from my busy day and think about my wife for a minute. We both liked that framing.
I came home and cooked dinner and she had plans to do a dance class afterward. However, once the kids were in bed and before she left, she was horny and wanted to fool around. It started with oral, but after about five minutes she requested I go get her vibrator. I ran to get it and returned, and she asked me to watch. I sat back for about 10 minutes massaging her feet while she built up to an orgasm. It was a really hot visual to see her legs spread in ecstasy with the key to my cage around her neck.
As she got close, she asked me to play with her nipples, so I repositioned to suck on one and fondle the other. That lasted less than five minutes before her orgasm. I wasn't sure what was going to happen next and didn't want her to feel compelled to unlock me, so I followed her lead. She took the necklace off and unlocked me and crawled up my body to kiss me.
She told me I had been such a good boy, wearing the cage all day and watching her orgasm that she wanted to reward me. So I said thank you and asked if we were going to have sex. She told me she wasn't in the mood for sex, but really wanted to swallow all my cum. I didn't protest and she gave me an incredible BJ for about 10 minutes until I came.
I will admit, I was tempted to push the envelope there and ask her to snowball my cum into my mouth--I know she doesn't *like* to swallow it and we've done some recent dirty talk about it, but I think she feels akward "forcing" me and I always lose the desire once I cum. That's definitely a next step I want to explore. I think it's a hot dynamic if in exchange for a BJ, I have to eat my cum.
As for the cage, we're both home today and I had a bit of irritation from it yesterday, so I'm not wearing it. The more I've used it, the more I like wearing it though--I feel a bit exposed now without it today, so that's an interesting mental development.
As I suggested, during the Monday Night Football game, I gave her a full body massage while she watched Bridgerton. That then turned into oral sex until she had an orgasm and we followed it up with her requesting sex and unlocking me. I fucked her really good on the couch, entirely focused on not cuming myself, until she had her second orgasm. As soon as she was done, she asked me to stop, and I did. However, she was really happy with me and offered to finish me off with her mouth--only lasted about a minute.
The next day (yesterday) I had to go into the office, and she stayed home, so I wore the cage to work. We're still sorting through how to handle the cage, but largely we've now decided to use it whenever we're not together--which is mostly when one or both of us go into the office. She sent me a pic while I was working of her in bra and panties with the key on her necklace--yesterday was the first time she wore it around her neck (she usually just hid it in the house).
I haven't been wearing the cage for many full days, so it was a bit annoying to have to sit to pee all day, so we had an exchange about it. We discussed how it's no big deal and how women always have to sit--it's also an opportunity to take a break from my busy day and think about my wife for a minute. We both liked that framing.
I came home and cooked dinner and she had plans to do a dance class afterward. However, once the kids were in bed and before she left, she was horny and wanted to fool around. It started with oral, but after about five minutes she requested I go get her vibrator. I ran to get it and returned, and she asked me to watch. I sat back for about 10 minutes massaging her feet while she built up to an orgasm. It was a really hot visual to see her legs spread in ecstasy with the key to my cage around her neck.
As she got close, she asked me to play with her nipples, so I repositioned to suck on one and fondle the other. That lasted less than five minutes before her orgasm. I wasn't sure what was going to happen next and didn't want her to feel compelled to unlock me, so I followed her lead. She took the necklace off and unlocked me and crawled up my body to kiss me.
She told me I had been such a good boy, wearing the cage all day and watching her orgasm that she wanted to reward me. So I said thank you and asked if we were going to have sex. She told me she wasn't in the mood for sex, but really wanted to swallow all my cum. I didn't protest and she gave me an incredible BJ for about 10 minutes until I came.
I will admit, I was tempted to push the envelope there and ask her to snowball my cum into my mouth--I know she doesn't *like* to swallow it and we've done some recent dirty talk about it, but I think she feels akward "forcing" me and I always lose the desire once I cum. That's definitely a next step I want to explore. I think it's a hot dynamic if in exchange for a BJ, I have to eat my cum.
As for the cage, we're both home today and I had a bit of irritation from it yesterday, so I'm not wearing it. The more I've used it, the more I like wearing it though--I feel a bit exposed now without it today, so that's an interesting mental development.