What would you enjoy to see/happen?

[feetuji]

Wannabes, imagine that your wife finally embraces the hotwife lifestyle. For your first time, what would you love to happen?

[Shantideva]

As someone who hasn't done any extramarital activity at all, my dream first time would be a same-room swap with another couple, where I could watch my wife getting fucked doggie by another guy while his wife blows me.

I've asked my wife a version of this question since we fantasize about scenarios together often, and if she was really going to do it, what is the scenario she is envisioning? She told me she wouldn't want me to be there, because it would make her too self-conscious. She'd want it to be on a trip or vacation of some sort that I wasn't on, and she'd want it to be with someone she already knew a little, but who she wouldn't be likely to see again, or at least not anytime soon. That way the pressure would be low and she'd feel free to do whatever knowing that the consequences would be few.

[ucaneffher]

My mood and wants regarding the lifestyle vary from day to day. But I would say that for the last couple of weeks , i have been sort of desiring more of a long term thing versus a one night type thing...

Ideally having my girlfriend sit me down one day and tell me that she has decided to get a boyfriend and wants me to meet her new boyfriend so that I am aware who she will be spending time with, who she will be having sex and sleeping over with, and who I'll be splitting her part time with. It would be sudden but her sitting me down and telling me that he's the man I'll be sharing her with from now on does sound hot and sexy to me.

[isinlarsa]

As someone who hasn't done any extramarital activity at all, my dream first time would be a same-room swap with another couple, where I could watch my wife getting fucked doggie by another guy while his wife blows me.

I've asked my wife a version of this question since we fantasize about scenarios together often, and if she was really going to do it, what is the scenario she is envisioning? She told me she wouldn't want me to be there, because it would make her too self-conscious. She'd want it to be on a trip or vacation of some sort that I wasn't on, and she'd want it to be with someone she already knew a little, but who she wouldn't be likely to see again, or at least not anytime soon. That way the pressure would be low and she'd feel free to do whatever knowing that the consequences would be few.

It was't our first time, but we had paired off with another couple, and his wife looked at me with a wicked grin, and said "do you want to watch?" We positioned ourselves, me on my back, her laying next to me, so she could suck my cock, while we both watched our mates fucking. I think it was actually more exciting than if I had fucked his wife.

[Tracescuck]

For the first time, I’d like it to be like one of Cuiogeo’s videos probably that my wife and I watched. I would like to watch her start on her knees giving him a good blow job. Ideally maybe she would stop to give me a kiss every once in a while. Then it would move to the bed where she would be facing off the end of the bed and he would do her doggie style while we maybe hold hands or we look each other in the eyes. She talks a little dirty and teasing to me maybe. I would then like to maybe see it from the side view too where I can see her ass ripple and jiggle as he pounds her from behind. Then maybe she lies on her back and they do it and I can see the action between his legs, and then maybe watch her ride him and see his big cock slide in and out of her stretched pussy. Ideally it would be nice to watch him cum in her, but we will probably use condoms, so I’m thinking he sheds the condom and cums on her. Time will tell.

[zorro]

For the first time, I’d like it to be like one of Cuiogeo’s videos probably that my wife and I watched. I would like to watch her start on her knees giving him a good blow job. Ideally maybe she would stop to give me a kiss every once in a while. Then it would move to the bed where she would be facing off the end of the bed and he would do her doggie style while we maybe hold hands or we look each other in the eyes. She talks a little dirty and teasing to me maybe. I would then like to maybe see it from the side view too where I can see her ass ripple and jiggle as he pounds her from behind. Then maybe she lies on her back and they do it and I can see the action between his legs, and then maybe watch her ride him and see his big cock slide in and out of her stretched pussy. Ideally it would be nice to watch him cum in her, but we will probably use condoms, so I’m thinking he sheds the condom and cums on her. Time will tell.

We have enjoyed doing exactly this. Good MFM stuff. Just have to find the right guy and get things straight between your wife and you.

[Tracescuck]

For the first time, I’d like it to be like one of Cuiogeo’s videos probably that my wife and I watched. I would like to watch her start on her knees giving him a good blow job. Ideally maybe she would stop to give me a kiss every once in a while. Then it would move to the bed where she would be facing off the end of the bed and he would do her doggie style while we maybe hold hands or we look each other in the eyes. She talks a little dirty and teasing to me maybe. I would then like to maybe see it from the side view too where I can see her ass ripple and jiggle as he pounds her from behind. Then maybe she lies on her back and they do it and I can see the action between his legs, and then maybe watch her ride him and see his big cock slide in and out of her stretched pussy. Ideally it would be nice to watch him cum in her, but we will probably use condoms, so I’m thinking he sheds the condom and cums on her. Time will tell.

We have enjoyed doing exactly this. Good MFM stuff. Just have to find the right guy and get things straight between your wife and you.

Yes! I’m betting finding the right guy is key in all of this. Initially until we find our way and what we like, I don’t think we want anything over the top full on dominant or full on cuckold or whatever. I’m thinking just good fun sex.

[Cosmic]

For the first time, I’d like it to be like one of Cuiogeo’s videos probably that my wife and I watched.

Yes, Cuiogeo is our go-to guy. There's a great 4K clip on XHamster of his called "Meeting with One of My Favorite Cuckold Couples" and it's got the whole package. He seems like a nice guy when everyone is just chatting, but when the action start he really gives it to the wives hard. In this clip hubby is wearing a cage while watching on, which adds that extra frisson. And although Cuigeo wouldn't be wearing a condom in my fantasy version, the fact that he is doing so here just adds to the authenticity and helps you believe that this is a real couple rather than professional actors.

[Tracescuck]

For the first time, I’d like it to be like one of Cuiogeo’s videos probably that my wife and I watched.

Yes, Cuiogeo is our go-to guy. There's a great 4K clip on XHamster of his called "Meeting with One of My Favorite Cuckold Couples" and it's got the whole package. He seems like a nice guy when everyone is just chatting, but when the action start he really gives it to the wives hard. In this clip hubby is wearing a cage while watching on, which adds that extra frisson. And although Cuigeo wouldn't be wearing a condom in my fantasy version, the fact that he is doing so here just adds to the authenticity and helps you believe that this is a real couple rather than professional actors.

I think that is the exact clip I’m thinking of. It was hot! He’s doing her from behind and she has ahold of her husbands cage and wow, that’s how I would like for it to happen. I’m sure it won’t be near as hot, but one can hope.

[feetuji]

Nice answers so far, thanks for your posts guys

In a general way I would love to see her doing something she likes. She loves kissing (mouth to mouth), so that would be amazing. Such slow start would be awesome, just imagine your wife kissing another guy ! Generally we jump to sex lol, but if this was for real, things would build slowly and tge initial small stuff(like kissing or even just a naughty smile to other guy) would be out of this world.

[Tracescuck]

Nice answers so far, thanks for your posts guys

In a general way I would love to see her doing something she likes. She loves kissing (mouth to mouth), so that would be amazing. Such slow start would be awesome, just imagine your wife kissing another guy ! Generally we jump to sex lol, but if this was for real, things would build slowly and tge initial small stuff(like kissing or even just a naughty smile to other guy) would be out of this world.

Weird as it may be, my wife was sharing some dirty back and forth details with me and a guys she’s flirting with via email. It got us all hot and bothered and led to some passionate kissing and I remembered she always said even after all these years it makes her weak in the knees. I thought about that for a minute and it bothered me some. I was like wait, she might be kissing someone else hot and passionate like that one day. Is it weird to get hung up on the kissing part and not on some of the other? We talked about it and it helped a great deal to hear her take on it. It’s what we have together that makes those kisses so good and something not just everyone can have because that bond is not there.

[ursamajor69]

While my wife has never had sex with another guy while we've been together, there have been several times she has come close. The one complicating factor is that despite I would like (ie to watch and also to participate), she has made it clear that would find it awkward for me to be there, especially for the first time.

She has lots of male friends who she has one-on-one dinners and such with. I teasingly call them "dates" and help her pick out her clothes (I always suggest sexier outfits than she would otherwise choose). So, being realistic, here is what I imagine seeing for the first time:

She would go out on one of these dates dressed in a simple but slinky little black dress, thigh high stockings and heels. As usual, I would be waiting at home, no phone or message contact as she tends to give her male friends her complete attention. I would be left to my own thoughts, hope for her to be having a wild time, but knowing that I would probably be disappointed again as I had been many times before. Then when she comes back much later than first anticipated, I see her come into the door wearing a wicked smile.

"Guess what honey? I have a surprise for you," she says seductively, teetering towards me on her stilettos while slowly pulling her dress up.

The lacy black panties are clearly soaked all up and down the front. The inside of her thighs are also glistening with a tell-tale slimy liquid, some even soaking into the tops of the stockings.

"Did you?...I mean...did..." I stammer.

"Yep, I sure did. It's what you've always wanted, isn't it?"

I nod enthusiastically, noticing now the slightly smudged lipstick and messed up hair. I help her out of her tight dress, then I slip her panties down, admiring the thick white residue coating the inside contrasting against the smooth black material.

She would then tell me about what happened while I make love to her. I know wouldn't last long at all, and as I start to spasm inside her she whispers into my ear "Yes, honey. Add your cum to the load that he put inside me," sending me to the biggest orgasm of my life.

Regaining my composure and still rock hard, I would continue to fuck her as she detailed all the ways he defiled her. When I finally collapse, exhausted, I would kiss and cuddle her, letting her know how much I love her and how lucky I am.

So while I would enjoy actually seeing her in the throes of ecstasy at the end of another guy's cock, I think this is the most realistic and best case scenario of what I would like to see happen the first time. And honestly, after all this time, I think it would be absolutely fantastic.

[tony090909]

My ideal first time would be a same room swap with another couple, so that I get to fuck another woman and get to see my wife being fucked. I suspect in that scenario I would cum much quicker than I intended to.

However if my wife did ever go for it, I suspect she would want privacy (on the first occasion at least). Waiting at home for her to return would be hot and she would let me feel her panties which would be soaked with her lover's sperm.

Alternatively I would be in the room below the bedroom where my wife is being pleasured. I would clearly be able to hear the rocking of the bed as she is fucked and her loud cries of pleasure. If it was our marital bed that would add another layer of eroticism.

Whatever the scenario I am very clear that I would want to reclaim her afterwards and add my sperm to the load in her married pussy (in my fantasies the sex is always bareback).

[PaNic]

Ooh how to choose from so many exciting scenarios? For me the essential element is my girlfriend’s lusty enjoyment so the choice is hers.

The moment that stars in all my Hotwife fantasies is the one where she says “Yes, I’ll do it!” She could be either shy, unsure of herself and embarrassed or boldly looking me in the eye daring me to object, massive turn on either way!

How id like it to happen... Again, however turns her on. It could start with her flirting at her work/on one of her her courses, sharing texts with me and helping her write flirty responses, encouraging her to dress sexy and wear her anklet; or going online together looking for a “bull” to meet; or dressing her up for a girls night out with the intention to get laid; or going out together pretending I’m just a friend supporting her to find a one night stand.

It’s the emotional intimacy of sharing her journey into celebrating her sexual exuberance and the lusty reclaiming her afterwards that really get me going!

[sherulestherooster]

Fun topic, My ex hot wife played solo only so I never watched. I guess one scenario that turns me on a lot would be to be introduced to her bull after they’ve had several sessions and know what’s each other likes sexually but still have that new relationship energy going.

He’d show up and I’d greet him because she was upstairs primping for the date. I’d make him a cocktail and we’d make some small talk about sex with her. He’d say things in a confident but not so much humiliating way, things like, “wow, I bet you’re really looking forward to watching us, eh? I think we’ll put in quite a show for you. How would you like to do a over-under on how many times she cums tonight?”

Then she’d come down and say something innocent ish, like, “I guess you boys are getting to know each other?” and I’d love to undress her as a way of “presenting” her to him.

I’d like to take photos and videos and that would be the only porn I’d ever need in my life again.

I’d like it to be all about sex with them, hopefully multiple rounds and continue the banter among all of us as they are recuperating, some dialogue like, “hey what was your favorite position to watch us”, things like that.

Maybe they shower and we grab a quick bite. Then I’d reclaim her if she wasn’t too sore.

[fly3177]

While in bed together one night and have her ask, "were you serious about me sleeping with another man?"

After assuring her that I am serious, she tells me, "good, because I did it last Friday and I plan to again this week"

[cukgrl69]

We've been at this for a few months and things have progressed quickly.

I think at first I wanted her to experience MMF and to watch her with another guy. We started pretty hard, meeting a stud with about a 10" BBC. That was followed by going to a sex club a week later where she had a MMF threesome (just oral and vaginal) while I watched, and then 2 more times at the club, with some BBCs.

We've done a lot of talking about it all and fantasizing together and mutual masturbation, etc. We're going to the club again in a couple of week to meet someone and hopefully some other guys as well.

At first I just wanted her to have fun with multiple guys and experience some really big cocks. Now I've become really turned on by my own inadequacy (though let me be clear, I'm bigger than average and good in bed) and really want her to tell me that she only wants BBC now. We've gotten kind of close to that. In fact last night she commented that she was really horney when we were in bad. I snuggled up to her and started to rub her pussy and she pushed my hand away saying, "For a big black cock, not you." I said, "Yeah, I bet," and cuddled up to her arm while she masturbated. When she finished she kissed me on the forehead and rolled over

[ahotwifewatcher]

After a few sex talk around the subject.... "In my mind" I would love to find someone that she was attracted to on SLS, maintaining anonymity. It would be amazing to arrange a night out, he knowing it was only a night of sexual adventure and exploration. Would like to go out to place with hotel bar or close and already discussed the possibility of him being able play with her. After several drinks, she would excuse herself to the restroom....if she wanted to move forward and take him up to our room to start with giving her a massage, she would text me and I would say let's go or kindly thank him for his time. I would have previously dared her to utilize this time to make me jealous and let him do what ever she was comfortable with. I know it NEVERGOES AS HOPED..OR PLANNED

[Bent_n_Twisted]

For the first time...I imagine a hotel room, she has me restrained on the bed with my head near the end. She is on top in a '69', I am licking her pussy while she teases my caged cock. There is an adjoining room, she has arranged for another guy to be in it and the door is unlocked but I am not aware of the plan. He enters quietly and slides into her from behind, I am surprised by the intrusion and stop licking, she squeezes my nuts and orders me to keep going. My cock is straining in the cage, she hasn't let me cum for two or three months, I can't escape, all I can do is lick her clit while this strange cock slides in and out right in front of my eyes. I strain against the bonds, I can't get away but I want to, because I know that when he unloads inside her she is going to make me keep licking her, she has told me many times that that's what she wants to do...

[russellgrand]

I want to see her create a huge throbbing bulge in his trousers whilst she excitedly shows off her incredible legs and heels.
I want that cock out and her giving him one of her amazing foot jobs with her incredible arch teasing his cock till he’s ready to blow.
I want to see her doggie style, his cock thrusting hard till he pumps bucket loads of cum in her pussy that trickles down her legs.
I want her a few more hours later to demand more from him and they go at it again

[feetuji]

I want to see her create a huge throbbing bulge in his trousers whilst she excitedly shows off her incredible legs and heels.
I want that cock out and her giving him one of her amazing foot jobs with her incredible arch teasing his cock till he’s ready to blow.
I want to see her doggie style, his cock thrusting hard till he pumps bucket loads of cum in her pussy that trickles down her legs.
I want her a few more hours later to demand more from him and they go at it again

I also have foot fetish, so your fantasy is similar to some fantasies I have. If you want I can do that to your wife, but only if you play with my wife beautiful feet

[ucaneffher]

My girlfriend and I are not in the lifestyle officially but we have already talked about it and she was 100% on board. She has already gone on a bunch of dates with a bunch of guys and has made out with two of them and one managed to get her stripped down to her thong in his living room and they dry humped. He sent her home absolutely soaking wet, almost had me thinking he had filled her up but she was just super wet from making out with him and getting felt up.

We discussed that it's okay for her to flirt/respond to men while we are out together at bars, clubs, or anywhere really. We agreed that if she ended talking to other men or perhaps ended joining men at their table while the two of us are together, that i will be patient and keep to myself while she's with another man or men.

At this point, i am dying to see another man sweep my woman right off her feet right in front of me. I've never seen my girlfriend ache and go crazy for another man but I want to experience seeing the lust in her eyes for another man in front of me. I want to see her just biting her lips and not have any self control and just see her not being able to hold herself back and eventually send me home alone that night because she just absolutely wanted to get to know her new friend better..

In summary, i absolutely cannot wait to go to a bar or club with my girlfriend and end up being sent home alone because a stranger completely stole her away for the night. Like, seeing her so lustful and horny that i just see her all over the guy as he's taking her away and leading her out of the establishment and she wants him so bad that doesn't even come to say goodbye but rather makes a gesture that she's going home with him.

God I can't wait to start seeing men picking up my girl right before my eyes. Can't wait to start going home alone on the weekends and picking her up later on from a motel or their place.

I absolutely cannot wait for it to become normal and for us both to expect that whenever we go out on Friday night or Saturday night, there is a 99% chance that my girlfriend is getting picked up in front of me and going home with another man. I am even beyond fine with letting her tell her male friends that i am just a friend....and perhaps even becoming her wingman when we go out.

[BritCouple15]

So the first time…

I’ve always wanted it to be with one of my friends… I want her to show him exactly what makes her the sexiest woman I know and I want her to rock his world and have the best time doing it.

It starts with us inviting him round for drinks and food. As the night progresses I’d like her to get more flirty with him, sit with him on the sofa and get more flirty and touchy with him, then I’d like her to excuse herself and go and change into my favourite outfit and then come back into the room.

When she comes back in I want her to go straight over to him and straddle him… and then give him a long passionate kiss before he has chance to do anything else.

Then I want her to kneel in front of him and start to slowly rub his cock under his pants before she takes it out and and slowly runs he tongue over the head of his cock while she looks up at him before looks at me, gives me a cheeky smile and then takes his cock into her mouth and begins to give him an blowjob… the type that I’ve had from her multiple times and can only describe as amazing and one of a kind.

When she’s taken him close to the edge I want her to stop and tell him in no uncertain terms that she’s going to fuck his brains out all night long and that he can have her anyway he wants… from there it’s entirely up to them… bareback, anal… whatever he wants he can do… and he can do it as many times as he wants for the evening and that he can cum in or on her as many times as he likes.

[cisner545]

I would like that she would meet one or two BF and she put me a chastity belt with no release for me.

[Rsm7075]

So many scenarios, as we can take liberty as wannabe! But would want it be with a steady bf. Probably start slowly with dates and progress. The guys wife and I know and support it.