Not sure what to do

[AmieLee]

Ty everyone for you advice it really helps and I appreciate it! I was thinking about the idea of a bj next superb101 and think i will bring it up with hubby tonight and see what he thinks. I do really enjoy Tom's interest and how supportive hubby has been so far! He did say it is a good way for a younger guy to learn and is ok as long as I enjoy it too. That's kind of like you said Mr1SexyGILF. My next chance will be tomorrow. Will talk more with hubby tonight and see!

[hedonistcouple]

Wonderful story Amie Lee. It would be great to hear about your background, are you in the US? What is your body count & sexual history and have you been with anyone else from work? Do customers ever hit on you while you waitress?

[xxxRyno]

Sounds as if you and your husband haven't had a "real talk" about it yet. So for starters I would start with communication and making sure he would actually be as ok with it as he seems. Maybe just try getting your creative juices flowing and tell him one night in bed that you had been a bad girl and make up an elaborate story of messing around with this guy, maybe or maybe not full on sex. Maybe some oral sex or something. And see what he thinks for sure before breaking his heart a little and telling him it wasn't real yet. Then talk to him about what if it was real before deciding if you actually want to go through with it.

Or, you could just take the seemingly free hall pass you seem to have and just go with it for real and see what happens. Whatever you decide make sure it's what you actually want, and you're not just trying to please others.

As for ideas, a ride home might be a good ice breaker. Also leaves some innuendo open for when he thanks you for the ride, you can reply with something like "Maybe some day you can return the favor and I can ride you." Or some such playful nonsense. 24 and 19 is a fairly big age gap for a serious relationship, but I don't think it's much of a factor for casual fun.

VERY good advice

[Seekingmore12]

It may also be wise to let Tom know that you are not cheating and that your husband supports you. Honestly all around is likely the better policy.

[xxxRyno]

AmieLee... looking forward to the next time you go back to work a shift

[AmieLee]

Going to working tonight with Tom. I did talk to hubby again about maybe bj if Tom seems like he would like (I think he would) and hubby told me again its a great thing for a guy and is ok as long as I want to and I let him know about what we are doing. Hubby did say he doesn't want me "dating" Tom so no going to movies and such and that seems fair.

That kind of leads to what you said Seekingmore12

"It may also be wise to let Tom know that you are not cheating and that your husband supports you. Honestly all around is likely the better policy."

I don't get the impression Tom is looking for serious relationship since he knows I'm married but I do think would be best to make clear that I'm not cheating like you said. I'm just not sure how to. Should i just come straight out and say it?

[superb101]

Just casually mention it as you undo his pants, pull his cock out and slide it into your mouth:

"I thought you might like to know that husband knows all about this and he is completely on board with me doing this. At some point, maybe Ill ask you over so he can watch."

[Farmgirl]

I don't get the impression Tom is looking for serious relationship since he knows I'm married but I do think would be best to make clear that I'm not cheating like you said. I'm just not sure how to. Should i just come straight out and say it?

AmieLee,
How I usually handle it is: 'So we're on the same page, I'm a Hotwife. That means I am happily married, but I am free to enjoy sex with other men.'
That starts the flow of any questions he may have.
Like you, my guys know I'm married; this just clarifies things.

[AmieLee]

Ty Farmgirl that makes so much sense! I'm going to work in just a little while and will see. I think I can let him know when just chatting and that might be best way to. I am hoping he wants a ride home. My hubby said either way hes still loves me so that's so awesome :-)

[2inUPMichigan]

You talk about what you think Tom wants and your husband's reactions but not a lot about what you are going through or what you want out of this experience.
How are you feeling about all this? Is this something you have thought about in the past? Are you able to talk with your husband if you have any concerns or doubts?

[xxxRyno]

AmieLee, what happened after work last night?

[AmieLee]

Hi again everyone

It was fun last night! I gave Tome a ride home and we talked more. Like you suggested Farmgirl while we talking I did let him know that hubby knew I was spending some time with him and was ok with it. I wasn't sure how Tom would react but he seemed relived and said that was great because he was a little worried because he didn't want to cause any trouble in my marriage. I thought that was very sweet of Tom and told him not to worry it's ok (I did talk to hubby again before work to be sure he was still feeling ok about it). After we talked for a while I parked the car in a quiet area and leaned over and kissed him. We made out for a while and I let his hands wander and then I started to undo his pants and helped him slide them down a bit. I stoked him a bit and then leaned over and gave him a bj. It was so exciting its hard to describe in a way! It didn't take him very long to finish and I could tell he really enjoyed it! After I dropped Tom off I went home and told hubby exactly what happened. He was all smiles and asked me to show him what happened again. I did and that was really hot :-). We cuddled for a while after and went to bed and snuggled close it was so nice.

Oh btw 2inUPMichigan ty for your comments

"You talk about what you think Tom wants and your husband's reactions but not a lot about what you are going through or what you want out of this experience.
How are you feeling about all this? Is this something you have thought about in the past? Are you able to talk with your husband if you have any concerns or doubts?"

I think so far I want what is happening. It makes me feel so nice to know another guy is attracted to me and enjoy the experience. Hubby has been so supportive so far and I do feel like I can talk to hm about anything and I do and I am going to be sure to talk to him before going any further. I did explain to Tom that I'm not looking to "date" him or develop a romantic relationship with him. Like I mentioned above he actually seemed relieved when I told him so I think every thing is cool :-) . Ty again for asking 2inUPMichigan it really does help to get advice especially since I'm so new to this!

[tit5atat]

I really like your husband's attitude! He is basically letting you run with this and reaping many benefits too. It's so cute the way he says, "show me what happened". I am not sure who is getting the most out of this, you, Tom or your husband. Seems each is getting something good!

[leggysman]

I wonder what everyone will suggest should happen on the next ride home

Really enjoying this story AmieLee!

[xxxRyno]

How far would you like to take things with Tom? Planning to move things out side the car eventually?

[AmieLee]

I talked more with hubby today and he told me he loves me so much so that I enjoy time with Tom it's ok! I told hubby for sure I don't want to be with someone else for a relationship but that it just makes me feel special and nice for another guy to take interest. Hubby said he can understand that and is alright :-) I did ask hubby about what if went further. He said he can understand if might want to have sex but that same things are I can't "date" Tom and such and I said that's all ok. Tom texted me today and told me how much he enjoyed last night and I shared that with hubby too. I asked hubby if should text back and he said sure. I then asked hubby what if Tom wants to get together this weekend and hubby said as long as I want to that's ok! :-)

[Des 31]

Many of us husbands get great joy in sharing our wives. Your idea to invite him for a ride is a good start. My wife has learned from experience that many guys 19-25 are always eager to have sex with any woman, married or single. Being alone in a car or elsewhere and having conversations with younger men almost always results in physical attraction.

Touching his hand while you talk with him is a good way to begin. Good luck with your new guy. It doesn't need to turn into a long-term relationship - As my wife says, it's just for fun - for both her and the guy. And sex is the most fun either of you can have.

[Pecannut]

So amazingly hot ! Thank you for sharing your experience with us. Did Tom feel you up?

[AmieLee]

Hi ty again everyone :-)

I've been taking to hubby and texting Tom too. I told hubby I thought maybe I could go out with Tom in the car and maybe see if we could find a place to park (i know a few quiet places). Hubby said that's cool if i want to and I texted Tom and he said he would like to see me for sure! :-) I did ask hubby what if Tom wanted to have sex and he told me that as long as it was what I wanted and would share with him what happens then is is ok!

I'm really thinking about this now I do think I want too and hubby is ok with it so I'm thinking I will! Is there something else I should be thinking about? Would appreciate advice if it seems like I'm making a mistake somewhere.

[superb101]

Wear something sexy and with easy access!

[DavaoMike]

Hi ty again everyone :-)

I've been taking to hubby and texting Tom too. I told hubby I thought maybe I could go out with Tom in the car and maybe see if we could find a place to park (i know a few quiet places). Hubby said that's cool if i want to and I texted Tom and he said he would like to see me for sure! :-) I did ask hubby what if Tom wanted to have sex and he told me that as long as it was what I wanted and would share with him what happens then is is ok!

I'm really thinking about this now I do think I want too and hubby is ok with it so I'm thinking I will! Is there something else I should be thinking about? Would appreciate advice if it seems like I'm making a mistake somewhere.

Just be careful where you park. You don’t want to get arrested for public lewdness.

[AmieLee]

"Just be careful where you park. You don’t want to get arrested for public lewdness."

Good point but yeah did think about where but yeah. Any more ice water anyone?

[superb101]

When will you see him again?

[Mr1SexyGILF]

Hello Again AmieLee

Just curious if you have verified that Tom is in fact a Virgin. To me, that definitely amplifies the Hotness of this situation.

Maybe hubby would be willing to leave the house for awhile, and you could bring Tom home for today’s Sex Ed lesson.

Mr GILF

[AmieLee]

Hi again

I'm not sure exactly when will superb101 but was talking to hubby more last night and texting Tom. Hoping may be able to get together later today.

"Just curious if you have verified that Tom is in fact a Virgin. To me, that definitely amplifies the Hotness of this situation. " I really think he is Mr1SexyGILF but haven't come right out and asked. It does add something to it for me but I'm not sure I should really bring it up. Should I?