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randyrexxx · Unread post by **randyrexxx** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 9:37 am

W770, stop where you are. Breathe. I've been exactly where you are - wife on her first outing at a casino to meet her Greek "S-man" - 1/2 her age and with his buddy that just "showed up at the blackjack table". I was going nuts but restrained myself and kept saying over and over: "Let HER text me; let HER enjoy; she'll be back later; WE'LL be back later". When she got back and we reclaimed it became one of the most memorable times that I still carry with me.

I stumbled on your thread after posting and was drawn into its inertia. It seems you two are doing a great job of communicating, you're tempering your feelings and learning to RIDE THE WAVES. Do you surf? I used to and it's a lot like HWing. You have to wait for the right one to come along, you ride it for a while, enjoy it while it's there, then gracefully (gracefully) try again.

Suggestion for you to consider - the board is a nice hand-holding device, however, you might find some diversion by writing to her now, while you're in the angst, about how what she's doing is affecting your feelings. You could choose to share it with her afterwards when the time is right. Mine was flattered, complimented, and moved by the amount and depth of emotion she created in me and our relationship by COMMUNICATING how erotic I found her to be and how it drove me to her even more.

Or, take a xanax? (JUST KIDDING).

You've been doing great, just stay cool - and get ready. Get outside and go for a walk to clear your head (the basis for EMDR - it works). Listening in now may be overwhelming and keeping yourself collected for later should be your mantra.

RR

randyrexxx · Unread post by **randyrexxx** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 9:37 am

W770, stop where you are. Breathe. I've been exactly where you are - wife on her first outing at a casino to meet her Greek "S-man" - 1/2 her age and with his buddy that just "showed up at the blackjack table". I was going nuts but restrained myself and kept saying over and over: "Let HER text me; let HER enjoy; she'll be back later; WE'LL be back later". When she got back and we reclaimed it became one of the most memorable times that I still carry with me.

I stumbled on your thread after posting and was drawn into its inertia. It seems you two are doing a great job of communicating, you're tempering your feelings and learning to RIDE THE WAVES. Do you surf? I used to and it's a lot like HWing. You have to wait for the right one to come along, you ride it for a while, enjoy it while it's there, then gracefully (gracefully) try again.

Suggestion for you to consider - the board is a nice hand-holding device, however, you might find some diversion by writing to her now, while you're in the angst, about how what she's doing is affecting your feelings. You could choose to share it with her afterwards when the time is right. Mine was flattered, complimented, and moved by the amount and depth of emotion she created in me and our relationship by COMMUNICATING how erotic I found her to be and how it drove me to her even more.

Or, take a xanax? (JUST KIDDING).

You've been doing great, just stay cool - and get ready. Get outside and go for a walk to clear your head (the basis for EMDR - it works). Listening in now may be overwhelming and keeping yourself collected for later should be your mantra.

RR

w770 · Unread post by **w770** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 9:42 am

I'm freaking out and hyperventilating. One of my colleagues just knocked on my door and asked if everything is okay. Taking a walk isn't really an option as it's pouring rain and I didn't bring an umbrella.

I'm terrified of getting a 3 emoji text.

randyrexxx wrote: ↑
Sat Dec 03, 2022 9:37 am
W770, stop where you are. Breathe. I've been exactly where you are - wife on her first outing at a casino to meet her Greek "S-man" - 1/2 her age and with his buddy that just "showed up at the blackjack table". I was going nuts but restrained myself and kept saying over and over: "Let HER text me; let HER enjoy; she'll be back later; WE'LL be back later". When she got back and we reclaimed it became one of the most memorable times that I still carry with me.

I stumbled on your thread after posting and was drawn into its inertia. It seems you two are doing a great job of communicating, you're tempering your feelings and learning to RIDE THE WAVES. Do you surf? I used to and it's a lot like HWing. You have to wait for the right one to come along, you ride it for a while, enjoy it while it's there, then gracefully (gracefully) try again.

Suggestion for you to consider - the board is a nice hand-holding device, however, you might find some diversion by writing to her now, while you're in the angst, about how what she's doing is affecting your feelings. You could choose to share it with her afterwards when the time is right. Mine was flattered, complimented, and moved by the amount and depth of emotion she created in me and our relationship by COMMUNICATING how erotic I found her to be and how it drove me to her even more.

Or, take a xanax? (JUST KIDDING).

You've been doing great, just stay cool - and get ready. Get outside and go for a walk to clear your head (the basis for EMDR - it works). Listening in now may be overwhelming and keeping yourself collected for later should be your mantra.

RR

Good advice thank you. I haven't clued her into how much I'm freaking out. I'm trying my best to be supportive and seeming excited whenever she texts me. I don't surf but I know what you mean. It's an appropriate metaphor. And yet, my angst is overriding any sense of calm I might have had.

She just texted me again. She's drunk. Superman also grabbed her ass in the kitchen when his friend wasn't looking and whispered that he wants her so bad.

randyrexxx · Unread post by **randyrexxx** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 9:46 am

Sorry for the double post. And the rain. Diversion.

She'll be talking with you soon afterwards and tell you all about it. The unfolding of the visit. Sman's moves. Etc. Trust her with her decisions. She's coming home to YOU.

w770 · Unread post by **w770** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 9:59 am

Holy shit.

Superman just told his friend that he's going to help Lana grab some extra snacks.

Oh my fucking God

w770 · Unread post by **w770** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 9:59 am

I can't bring myself to take out my ear piece

Unread post by **Wifesharing** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:01 am

This is good this is what you were waiting for it was the unknown that was getting you you are now moving to the known you know what is like when they fuck it is what you and her wanted this is good.

Soon you will be home with her again and you will see that she is more yours then ever

w770 · Unread post by **w770** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:02 am

Oh my God I hear them.

Unread post by **Wifesharing** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:03 am

Yeah I dont think I could either it is probably best to take it out but it is also hard to do plus you will know when it’s over and that will help

Unread post by **Wifesharing** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:03 am

You are likely to cum in your pants in your office

randyrexxx · Unread post by **randyrexxx** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:05 am

Another thing to remember - a lot of what you're going through right now is the release of societal conditioning. Getting rid of the strictures of the masses. The perception of "others" conditioning you've experienced consciously and unconsciously your entire life. Enlightenmnet is your release from this self-incurred image. The two of you are now making your OWN way without direction (rules) form another. Part of what you're likely feeling is that you're DARING TO THINK on your own because you have the courage to make your OWN reason, and no longer bound to others' (with apologies to Kant).

Eat the apple, one bite at a time.

Dharmadude · Unread post by **Dharmadude** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:06 am

Enjoy as long as you can. This is it!

Aynsley · Unread post by **Aynsley** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:06 am

Wifesharing wrote: ↑
Sat Dec 03, 2022 9:26 am
It might be a good idea to listen to the recording after

w770 · Unread post by **w770** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:08 am

Some of what I'm hearing:

"God you look so fucking hot today Lana."
"That's a good girl, Lana."
"Mmm. Just like that..."

She's definitely got his cock in her mouth in our bedroom now. Oh my God.

Aynsley · Unread post by **Aynsley** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:09 am

I can't help from wondering if Lana won't be talked in to giving Jimmy a pity BJ, after
being all happy from being pounded upstairs, by Superman.

leander99 · Unread post by **leander99** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:11 am

I'm trying to watch Argentina vs Australia in the world cup over here, but that's not happening very much while Lana has S'mans cock in her mouth...

lol

w770 · Unread post by **w770** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:14 am

I can hear her telling him how big he is. He also just told her to slow down. "You're going to make me cum. Slow down..."

I'm already leaking precum.

Unread post by **Wifesharing** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:17 am

Yeah I am leaking too so can totally understand you doing so

Dharmadude · Unread post by **Dharmadude** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:26 am

Wifesharing wrote: ↑
Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:17 am
Yeah I am leaking too so can totally understand you doing so

No kidding. So hot.

w770 · Unread post by **w770** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:32 am

Holy shit. I'm actually hearing my wife moan for another man right now. There were also some sounds that I didn't recognize followed up with some sounds that were similar to a pop or cracking sound. I put it together from what else was being said and I'm realizing that he's spanking her.

He's asking her if she's been a bad girl. If she likes cheating on her husband. If she likes the taste of another man's cock. Every time she would respond with "yes Daddy...." he would follow that up by spanking her.

I can't believe this is happening right now. This is something her and I never do. Not even when we're role playing.

I'm still not sure what that other sound was but I'll make sure to ask her later. My biggest struggle right now is keeping from cumming.

leander99 · Unread post by **leander99** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:39 am

Mouth

Ass

You know what is next, right?

w770 · Unread post by **w770** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:40 am

leander99 wrote: ↑
Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:39 am
Mouth

Ass

You know what is next, right?

I know....

w770 · Unread post by **w770** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:47 am

It's official. He's fucking her on our bed.

I actually heard her say "You fuck so much better than my husband" when he told her to "say it, Lana."

I've NEVER heard her moan like this before. The best way I can describe it is with the word "wild." He's also telling her how much he loves her pussy.

leander99 · Unread post by **leander99** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:48 am

OMG

I'm trying to watch Argentina vs Australia in the world cup over here, but that's not happening very much while Lana has S'mans cock in her pussy

leander99 · Unread post by **leander99** » Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:50 am

Amazing developments

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