Exactly. Ultimately, he's a horny 25 year old. It seems the rest is just noise to him.Chrislydi wrote: ↑Sun Dec 04, 2022 7:21 amI think it might well be a bit of both, he probably suspects and even knows the patently obvious but is also quite content to seem to remain in ignorance, because pretending not to know or even convincing himself that the highly unlikely is still true doesn't make much difference, the result is still the desired one, to play along or pretend to be easily fooled, it hardly matters to him.w770 wrote: ↑Sun Dec 04, 2022 6:53 amI was in the middle of responding that this may be very likely. However, Lana and him have been texting this morning. He asked her if we made love last night and if I noticed anything. She said we did make love but that the lights were off I didn't notice any marks on her. He responded with "good girl. Let's keep it that way."Chrislydi wrote: ↑Sun Dec 04, 2022 6:29 am
I'm on the same page, let's face it, it's obvious enough.right now that she's playing away, and he must know she's not married to someone with cognitive difficulties. It's as if he's shouting to him loud and clear through a megaphone that his wife is cheating and what are you going to do now then?
He knows the OP knows but it's as if there's an unofficial unwritten agreement between the three of them that noone will notice that huge pink elephant sitting right in the centre of the room. All are happy pretending they don't know the obvious and while they all get the max from it as it is - there's no need to break any of the rules of the game. Everybody is happy to go on pretending.
Chris
I'm not sure if this is really what he thinks or as you put it, he's playing the game according to the unwritten rules, but ultimately either scenario is fine with me.
Chris
They both confirmed that it was incredibly hot for them doing it in our marital bed and how it wasn't the last time.
Thanks for the post.mundyman wrote: ↑Sun Dec 04, 2022 7:25 amWow!!!! Thanks for sharing your ridiculously hot activities from yesterday. The continuous updates made me feel like I was there with you.
A couple of my reactions/questions, if you would allow:
1) my impression is that you and your wife may be running, and it’s more like a sprint at this point(LOL), into this lifestyle because you know his availability has a shelf life. He is scheduled to leave in a month or so and means that any feelings they develop for each other are somewhat futile as he lives thousands of miles away. Like a summer romance this will burn hot and they burn out as they must eventually go their own ways.
2) have you and your wife talked about feelings? At the moment their meetings have generally been quick hitters, pun intended, and then they separate. But what is her reaction to him while they are watching the WC, or having coffee? Is there enough there in him that she is developing some type of emotional connection Besides the obvious physical connection? Some women can fuck and leave, others need some type of emotional connection before having sex. Where on the scale does your wife fall?
2A) do you two ever play the what if Game about him. As in, if she was single could she ever she herself being in a permanent relationship with him, or a guy like him? If she does how does she see her life being different? Would his cockiness and sexual appetite lead to her/them possibly having an open relationship, being swingers, etc……
3) while you talk of your humiliation in this scenario, in reality you hold the position of strength. In reality you and your wife are using Superman for YOUR own benefit. In a way You are actually manipulating him to get yourselves off. Yes your wife reaps the benefits of the best, raw, physical sex of her life. She is a size queen and loves the sex from a uniquely fine male specimen. But you, my friend are orchestrating the tune, dictating when and where they meet and for how long. They may both think they are playing with your cuck angst and tendencies, but you are taking advantage of his Alpha personality quirks and weakness, and your wife’s physical and emotional needs, and weakness, to now have sex with a huge cock, “the best sex of my life”. You are actually directing Superman, and your wife in their libidinous ways. You are a strong man to do this.
4) as they enjoy their times together I can’t wait to see what his leaving does to your wife’s emotional being. Will THEY, yes they, want some final date, trip, , blow out,extended time together, emotional good-bye, closure, in the days before he is to go back home? At that point where will they be in heir physical and emotional connections to each other?
5) I think a great Christmas gift for your wife would be a new toy, dildo or vibrator that mimics the size, or is even slightly bigger, than Superman’s impressive cock, and then name it Superman. Then when you are having fun, you can ask or she can, if she wants to fuck Superman tonight? Or to increase the cuck angst, she can tell you to leave the room while she fucks Superman’s cock and screams his name for you to hear in the other room. Or even better, FaceTimes and has online sex with him while she fucks herself with ‘his’ cock.
6) or to really fuck with his Alpha persona, I believe they sell kits where you can make a mold of a man’s cock. She can tell him that she is so in love with his cock, she is!, and will miss it so much when he leaves, she will!, that she NEEDS to make a copy of it to fulfill her needs because her husband’s cock is too small to please her. My guess is that his head will pretty much explode with the thoughts of her needing a copy of his impressive cock to keep her happy. Also she could use it while sexting him, see number 5 above.
7) moving forward, do you see your wife using the gym to search for another lover, or has Superman been so perfect in physical stature, demeanor, cock size, safeness, and attitude, that finding another seems useless and too much work and outside her/your comfort zone.
8) while the fact that he lives so far away makes him more ‘safe’ from an emotional connection stand point, how long into the spring or summer will it be before they are working, yes working, to arrange some type of rendezvous, either by him or by you, or somewhere in the middle of the country to quench your wife’s all consuming thirst for his huge cock. “The best sex of her life”, that my friend is as strong of a drug as any on the face of the planet.
9) and finally as you talk about Superman’s attitude, over generalization warning here, most people I know who spend as much time on their bodies as he apparently does, and looks as hot as he seemingly does, are narcissistic to a fault and like to make sure people know how good looking hey are. Add to that his age and incredible cock size, and history of women loving his cock, is it any surprise he often acts like a dominant ass? Not really, and so far he sounds like a lovable ass.
Well this really turned into a long post. As always thank you for taking the time and effort to share. Continued good luck to you and your amazingly hot and sexy wife as continue down this path in the lifestyle.
1. Yes the fact that he is leaving in a matter of weeks naturally sets an expiration date to this current iteration of their fling, just like a summer romance, which allows them to go at the speed at which they're going.
2. and 2a. Lana and I have talked about feelings and she says that she appreciated his company yesterday when they were watching the WC, but there's a world between them in terms of life experience and maturity, coupled by the fact that he is leaving in January, we really see no threat to the marriage even if she developed a little crush, which also leaves basically no potential for any sort of relationship with him, open or otherwise.
3. Thank your for the compliment. Since the beginning of this, Lana and I have treated this as a team endeavor with the goal of enhancing our sex life, and keeping that perspective allows for the humiliation, and the acting on both of our parts to be no more than just means to that end.
4. We honestly have not thought too far ahead in how their dalliance will evolve, but I do think that there will be a nice send off before he leaves for California. She also showed me the skirt that she's getting for his Christmas present, which is the classic Santa-themed red plaid skirt, with a red and white fuzzy Christmas hat. She's mentioned to me how excited she is to be taken from behind wearing it.
5. and 6. This is a good idea and I'll bring it up to her, thank you!
7. I honestly think that Superman was such a unicorn for her and us. She's had no shortage of guys hitting on her since we've been together, and while she likes the male attention, she's never even showed the most remote interest. It speaks volumes to the hold Superman had on her given how he was able to have her do things she's never before considered in the slightest.
8. Well it seems like he comes to visit in the summers at least for a week or so on top of the winters when he watches his parents' place. So if they have a part 2, I'm anticipating it to be in the summer, likely here as they both have confirmed how hot they found having sex in our marital bed.
9. She definitely loves his dominant energy and especially getting on her knees to worship his manhood.
Right, as of now, Lana likes the cheating wife angle, and if that suits her, I'm also onboard.Wifesharing wrote: ↑Sun Dec 04, 2022 7:26 amWow what wonderful update you had of your day
I think he probably doesn’t know or think I am sure he thinks he is getting over and that appeals to him that is definite likely a 25 year old man’s way more so then thinking you are in on it. This forum being the forum it is people tend to assume most others outside this link think like us so while it is I Obvious to us it is not to him.
There are wives that cheat on their husband for years getting spanked love bites and a sore oussy and even regular cream pies and get away with it for years even with very smart attentive husbands. Same goes the other way he’ll there are men that sometimes have two family without the wife knowing.
The things that are clear to you is because you are looking for them. It is hot she found one that loves the ego boost of getting a married women that makes it so exciting and good for her
We have done the cheating wife thing about half the times we have played because shawnee has thought certain guys can’t handle it and she also doesn’t want certain people to think I am weird lol.
During those times we told two and they disappeared pretty fast and another figured it out he stuck around a bit but it was not the sane. We have had many men flirt and be trying to get her in bed and when they found out it was not a cheating thing stopped so you are right to be cautious none of what I am saying means that forsure he is not into it just means you don’t t know
Again being In The know is a different monster and has its perks and can be so exciting. You two should enjoy it how you want to enjoy and from what you have said it appears you two actually want it this way and sounds like she prefers that as well so why change it.
Slight Update: Superman texted Lana that his entire circle of friends is enamored by her at this point as they've circulated her pictures around, and he is now seen as the "top dog" amongst them all as he took her in her marital bed not long before her husband came over. His ego is currently riding a max high right now.