It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

[avid fan]

When he’s leaving shake his hand and tell him to enjoy his lonely night. Poke the bear a little bit. Lol

... because that will obviously show you're the bigger man....

[mundyman]

How did she, and you, feel about his dominant reply of “good girl Lana”?
Did she get wet??
You hard?

[w770]

How did she, and you, feel about his dominant reply of “good girl Lana”?
Did she get wet??
You hard?

She showed me the message and his picture and we both touched ourselves for a short while until we abruptly stopped. We're really trying to tease each other by denying any opportunity for either one of us to cum.

[william70]

I apologize. I let myself get caught up in some of these stories. In reality we don't know if their real or someone's awesome imagination. I personally tend to believe the ones written over in the "Hotties" section. But those can be faked to. The only ones I really believe are those where the wife has been confirmed.

[GuruTravelMonkey]

Would you consider either being asked to wear a condom until he leaves… or being denied access to penetration or blow jobs? If it came up.

[william70]

Just read the thread "Father Knows Best. Have you read it?

[hiki]

She also told him that she denied me sex yesterday because it's "his pussy" which he responded with a picture message of him completely naked, sporting a massive erection with the caption, "good girl, Lana."

I wonder if she would now say it's her favourite cock!

[w770]

She also told him that she denied me sex yesterday because it's "his pussy" which he responded with a picture message of him completely naked, sporting a massive erection with the caption, "good girl, Lana."

I wonder if she would now say it's her favourite cock!

She hasn't said that specifically but she has mentioned that he is by far the best she's had.

We're headed to dinner soon and we're already a couple glasses of wine in. Should be in for an interesting night lol

[hiki]

I wonder if it would be best to keep it secret from both Lana and Shawn how much denial turns you on.

[Texas Jack]

We're headed to dinner soon and we're already a couple glasses of wine in. Should be in for an interesting night lol

I'm guessing I'm not the only one looking forward to hearing ALLLLLL about it!

Thank you for sharing your journey with us. This thread is fucking awesome.

[william70]

It will be interesting to see if lana and spmn can stay separated before tomorrow evening.

[w770]

We're headed to dinner soon and we're already a couple glasses of wine in. Should be in for an interesting night lol

I'm guessing I'm not the only one looking forward to hearing ALLLLLL about it!

Thank you for sharing your journey with us. This thread is fucking awesome.

It will be interesting to see if lana and spmn can stay separated before tomorrow evening.

It's actually been quite the emotional night. We have this semi tradition of listening to 90s music over dinner on Friday nights, with both of us alternating choices of songs. She loves the gangsta rap while I'll put on more emo music, which she makes fun of me for. But tonight during one of my songs, I looked over and noticed in her body language that she was really emotional.

"Being beige" by the smashing pumpkins for anyone interested. The main line being "the world's on fire." I think that line got to her for some reason.

She fell asleep not too long ago. We didn't have sex or even teased each other. I think she just wanted a nice sweet calm night. I can't say that I disagree. It was nice not talking about Shawn or sex or anything even closely related. I almost don't want tomorrow to come because I'm enjoying the peace in this moment.

[w770]

Now I'm left with my thoughts while she sleeps. At this time tomorrow, we'll be in a different stage in this experience and our marriage. I've been reading as many other threads as I can to mentally prepare myself but it feels daunting nevertheless. A part of me wishes we never started down this path and another part of me wants to explore further. I'm assuming it's the conflict that everyone that's gone down this journey has felt but it's still nerve wracking. I'm scared for it to be "real" by listening in, and at the same time I'm excited for it to happen. I've always attributed conflicting emotions with Lana's propensities so it's odd being the one going back and forth for once.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum GuruTravelMonkey.

[w770]

Would you consider either being asked to wear a condom until he leaves… or being denied access to penetration or blow jobs? If it came up.

I haven't thought of that, but thinking it over now, I don't feel like I would accept it mainly out of a need to reconnect with her.

[FadermanL20]

How is this going to go down tonight? His place or yours?

Are they going to fuck in your bed? In your spot?

Are you going to be posting your impressions in real time, like in your office?

What if the neighbors complain about the noise?

How will it end? Are you going to show him the door when they're done? I imagine Lana will be rather indisposed...

If you're in the living room and they come out to interact, how will you react to seeing her ravaged and dripping? What if he wants to talk to you?

I can't see them only going one round. If this goes into the wee hours, will you sleep on the couch?

You know he's going to taunt you. Are you going to respond in kind, or just suffer the humiliation?

She's going to need some aftercare? Are you prepared?

All the best for you two. Remember, every decision you've made has led you to this. This is what you wanted!

[w770]

How is this going to go down tonight? His place or yours?

Are they going to fuck in your bed? In your spot?

Are you going to be posting your impressions in real time, like in your office?

What if the neighbors complain about the noise?

How will it end? Are you going to show him the door when they're done? I imagine Lana will be rather indisposed...

If you're in the living room and they come out to interact, how will you react to seeing her ravaged and dripping? What if he wants to talk to you?

I can't see them only going one round. If this goes into the wee hours, will you sleep on the couch?

You know he's going to taunt you. Are you going to respond in kind, or just suffer the humiliation?

She's going to need some aftercare? Are you prepared?

All the best for you two. Remember, every decision you've made has led you to this. This is what you wanted!

The plan is for him to come over later tonight. He's meeting up with some friends in the afternoon and we're spending the day trying to be as normal as possible meaning cleaning, errands, walking the beach with the dogs, maybe some Christmas shopping and lunch.

I'll update as I can but I'm not sure how things will play out. The other time in my office, I couldn't take my dick out and stroke off, and posting in real time definitely kept me sane during that time. But when I touch myself, I tend to use my left to cup my balls while stroking with my right, so posting might be difficult.

From what I can tell, I think a lot of our neighbors on our floor are gone as I haven't seen any of them around lately so noise shouldn't be an issue. In fact, I've been running in the halls with the dogs the last few days since it's been raining and they hate walking around when it's wet, and I haven't heard anyone's TV so I'm pretty sure most of the neighbors have left until the warm season.

As far as how it will end, Lana's told him that her and myself will need some time to each other afterwards so I'll show him out when it's done. I'm a bit nervous of this short interaction as it's unavoidably awkward.

If they come out of the bedroom and interact, how I'll respond - I'm not really sure. I actually haven't thought of this so I haven't mentally prepared, but Lana has told Shawn that interaction between him and myself should be very much limited so I don't see much of a conversation there.

What if it goes into the late hours - you know, I hadn't thought of this. I just assumed that they would go a few rounds and then Lana would tell him that her and I need time together. But I'll ask her about this specific scenario and how we should handle it.

As far as him taunting me - I think I'll likely suffer the humiliation, but I'm not expecting much outside of the dirty talk he'll be using with Lana in the bedroom for me to hear, and his interaction with me man to man will be fairly limited.

In terms of Lana's aftercare, I'm already hard thinking about reclaiming her.

Thanks for your message. I woke up fairly wrecked with nerves but writing down my thoughts has helped ease them a bit. Her phone buzzed a few times in the middle of the night, and I saw the pop-up notification that it was him sending her a picture message but I didn't want to open it to see even though we both have free access to each other's phones. I think seeing the other picture of him stark naked really gut punched me yesterday because I had foolishly assumed that Lana's descriptions of the size of his manhood were exaggerated, but seeing how grossly mistaken I was really brought things to light at how under equipped I am compared to him.

[Open2it]

Don’t overthink it. The more you focus on if it will be humiliating, the more humiliating it will be. Consider the fact that you are the one who offered your wife the gift of an extramarital sexual partner. It takes a lot of confidence in yourself, your wife, and your marriage to do that. Not every husband would do that. So, hold your head high and enjoy her pleasure. Own it and enjoy it as a spice to your marriage rather than a threat to your manhood.

Trying to script sex rarely works. It occurs in the moment. Forget labels except for loving and supportive husband, loving and supportive wife, and temporary fuck buddy. Those are all that matters. I seriously doubt she would move in with him because he has a bigger cock. He doesn’t sound like the type who can give her what you give her on a daily basis.

Have fun tonight because sex is fun regardless of who’s doing what to whom.

[gulfcpl]

Don’t overthink it. The more you focus on if it will be humiliating, the more humiliating it will be. Consider the fact that you are the one who offered your wife the gift of an extramarital sexual partner. It takes a lot of confidence in yourself, your wife, and your marriage to do that. Not every husband would do that. So, hold your head high and enjoy her pleasure. Own it and enjoy it as a spice to your marriage rather than a threat to your manhood.

Trying to script sex rarely works. It occurs in the moment. Forget labels except for loving and supportive husband, loving and supportive wife, and temporary fuck buddy. Those are all that matters. I seriously doubt she would move in with him because he has a bigger cock. He doesn’t sound like the type who can give her what you give her on a daily basis.

Have fun tonight because sex is fun regardless of who’s doing what to whom.

Exactly.

[mundyman]

Good luck today. It would be more worrisome if you didn’t have nerves at this moment. You and your wife sound like planners who like the structure and predictability of the events in your life. But as stated by others this is something you cannot micromanage. That will lead to disaster.

At some point you are going to have to let go and let this session tonight play out. It is wise that you and Lana have some guidelines tonight and some type of idea of how you WANT the night to go.

However once things start rolling you know that all that could go out the window. You can view this as a positive or negative. I would suggest you realize that once she starts, Lana will be thinking with her lizard brain and her pussy. She’s going to want to have that cock every way she can for as long as she can. In the moment, if how you describe it is accurate, you won’t be front and center in her mind, his cock will be. She’s going to want it so bad that she won’t be able to walk right for a week.

And Shawn, you know he’s going to be trying to pound her through the mattress. To get her to admit over and over that he’s the best and how much she loves his cock over yours. He will be trying to ruin that pussy.

Just go with it. Live in the moment, the sights, the sounds, the smells. Experience your emotions and feelings. Enjoy the moment of your wife getting something that she really wants and enjoys. Much like when you see her enjoying a fine dinner or movie, or some other thing she really likes to do.
If it gets to be too much, go walk the dogs. Freaking out, interrupting them, will make things worse not better. In fact you might want to poke your head in and egg him on, such as
“Is that the best you’ve got?”
“I thought you fucked her a lot harder than that.”
“I love the sound of your balls slapping against her ass, or clit” depending on what position they are in.
“Can you imagine what your friends would be saying right now if they could see you fucking her like this.”
“Own that pussy Shawn!”
and
“I bet you can’t wait to get your big cock in her during your party next week. Where will you fuck her Shawn, in the bathroom, in your bedroom, or somewhere else? Maybe you’ll MAKE her give you a blowjob during the party and come all over her face.”

Maybe for your wife:
“Take it all baby!”
“Take him balls deep for me.”
“Is that all you can get in your mouth, I thought you could get more in then that!”
“I love the way your ass looks when he’s doing you doggie honey. Your asshole looks so inviting.” Doesn’t her ass look so hot Shawn? So inviting.”

Perhaps by doing something like this you can regain some measure of control in their fucking.

Hopefully you can enjoy the moment and control your nerves and angst.

And most importantly, HAVE FUN!!!

[w770]

Don’t overthink it. The more you focus on if it will be humiliating, the more humiliating it will be. Consider the fact that you are the one who offered your wife the gift of an extramarital sexual partner. It takes a lot of confidence in yourself, your wife, and your marriage to do that. Not every husband would do that. So, hold your head high and enjoy her pleasure. Own it and enjoy it as a spice to your marriage rather than a threat to your manhood.

Trying to script sex rarely works. It occurs in the moment. Forget labels except for loving and supportive husband, loving and supportive wife, and temporary fuck buddy. Those are all that matters. I seriously doubt she would move in with him because he has a bigger cock. He doesn’t sound like the type who can give her what you give her on a daily basis.

Have fun tonight because sex is fun regardless of who’s doing what to whom.

This is incredibly helpful and encouraging, thank you. It was actually the first thing I read after my run and cold plunge into the ocean. And I'm not sure if it's the effect of the cold or the runner's high, but your advice really hit home for me, especially the part about him not being able to give her what I do on a daily basis. It kinda took the stress of whatever I was feeling away., so thank you again.

Good luck today. It would be more worrisome if you didn’t have nerves at this moment. You and your wife sound like planners who like the structure and predictability of the events in your life. But as stated by others this is something you cannot micromanage. That will lead to disaster.

At some point you are going to have to let go and let this session tonight play out. It is wise that you and Lana have some guidelines tonight and some type of idea of how you WANT the night to go.

However once things start rolling you know that all that could go out the window. You can view this as a positive or negative. I would suggest you realize that once she starts, Lana will be thinking with her lizard brain and her pussy. She’s going to want to have that cock every way she can for as long as she can. In the moment, if how you describe it is accurate, you won’t be front and center in her mind, his cock will be. She’s going to want it so bad that she won’t be able to walk right for a week.

And Shawn, you know he’s going to be trying to pound her through the mattress. To get her to admit over and over that he’s the best and how much she loves his cock over yours. He will be trying to ruin that pussy.

Just go with it. Live in the moment, the sights, the sounds, the smells. Experience your emotions and feelings. Enjoy the moment of your wife getting something that she really wants and enjoys. Much like when you see her enjoying a fine dinner or movie, or some other thing she really likes to do.
If it gets to be too much, go walk the dogs. Freaking out, interrupting them, will make things worse not better. In fact you might want to poke your head in and egg him on, such as
“Is that the best you’ve got?”
“I thought you fucked her a lot harder than that.”
“I love the sound of your balls slapping against her ass, or clit” depending on what position they are in.
“Can you imagine what your friends would be saying right now if they could see you fucking her like this.”
“Own that pussy Shawn!”
and
“I bet you can’t wait to get your big cock in her during your party next week. Where will you fuck her Shawn, in the bathroom, in your bedroom, or somewhere else? Maybe you’ll MAKE her give you a blowjob during the party and come all over her face.”

Maybe for your wife:
“Take it all baby!”
“Take him balls deep for me.”
“Is that all you can get in your mouth, I thought you could get more in then that!”
“I love the way your ass looks when he’s doing you doggie honey. Your asshole looks so inviting.” Doesn’t her ass look so hot Shawn? So inviting.”

Perhaps by doing something like this you can regain some measure of control in their fucking.

Hopefully you can enjoy the moment and control your nerves and angst.

And most importantly, HAVE FUN!!!

You've definitely got us correctly pegged as planners. This has been the most spontaneous thing we've ever done even though we've been planning and scripting it as much as we've been able to control. The loss of control is both terrifying and exhilarating, much like what I would think skydiving is like.

I've been wondering if his humiliating dirty talk about me will change given that I'm listening in. Lana has told him that it's okay just as long as he doesn't go too far - how he chooses to interpret that will be left for us to see.

Not sure I'll be able to egg them on like you're suggesting as I've been pretty frozen in my tracks the times I've listened in on them so far but if Lana and I progress in this experience, I might get to the point where I'm an active verbal participant.

Thank you for the reminder to live in the moment. I think I'm normalizing the angst right now with the knowledge that there won't be a relative calm until maybe 12 hours from now.

Slight Update: Superman is at breakfast with some friends and he's told all of them about our plans for tonight. Basically all of them will be at the party next week.

[gulfcpl]

It should be one hell of a party!

[slenderfish]

Exciting day, a "first" so perhaps if you do have the time, it will be cathartic and also productive to continue posting as you are able. Then you will have a record of the anticipation, the feelings, etc. that you may refer back to in the future, to relive it in a more realistic way.

Let's remember that at least half of the fun of all thing sexual (browsing the girlie magazine collection in our youth, trying to decide which video to rent, scanning the porn site, etc.) is in the anticipation. So if you can also capture that, you have captured half of the experience on the record.

And it will help you to cope and to keep yourself in check.

It worked for me in my time of need, while SW was playing.

[setv4]

Don’t overthink it. The more you focus on if it will be humiliating, the more humiliating it will be. Consider the fact that you are the one who offered your wife the gift of an extramarital sexual partner. It takes a lot of confidence in yourself, your wife, and your marriage to do that. Not every husband would do that. So, hold your head high and enjoy her pleasure. Own it and enjoy it as a spice to your marriage rather than a threat to your manhood.

Trying to script sex rarely works. It occurs in the moment. Forget labels except for loving and supportive husband, loving and supportive wife, and temporary fuck buddy. Those are all that matters. I seriously doubt she would move in with him because he has a bigger cock. He doesn’t sound like the type who can give her what you give her on a daily basis.

Have fun tonight because sex is fun regardless of who’s doing what to whom.

This is incredibly helpful and encouraging, thank you. It was actually the first thing I read after my run and cold plunge into the ocean. And I'm not sure if it's the effect of the cold or the runner's high, but your advice really hit home for me, especially the part about him not being able to give her what I do on a daily basis. It kinda took the stress of whatever I was feeling away., so thank you again.

Good luck today. It would be more worrisome if you didn’t have nerves at this moment. You and your wife sound like planners who like the structure and predictability of the events in your life. But as stated by others this is something you cannot micromanage. That will lead to disaster.

At some point you are going to have to let go and let this session tonight play out. It is wise that you and Lana have some guidelines tonight and some type of idea of how you WANT the night to go.

However once things start rolling you know that all that could go out the window. You can view this as a positive or negative. I would suggest you realize that once she starts, Lana will be thinking with her lizard brain and her pussy. She’s going to want to have that cock every way she can for as long as she can. In the moment, if how you describe it is accurate, you won’t be front and center in her mind, his cock will be. She’s going to want it so bad that she won’t be able to walk right for a week.

And Shawn, you know he’s going to be trying to pound her through the mattress. To get her to admit over and over that he’s the best and how much she loves his cock over yours. He will be trying to ruin that pussy.

Just go with it. Live in the moment, the sights, the sounds, the smells. Experience your emotions and feelings. Enjoy the moment of your wife getting something that she really wants and enjoys. Much like when you see her enjoying a fine dinner or movie, or some other thing she really likes to do.
If it gets to be too much, go walk the dogs. Freaking out, interrupting them, will make things worse not better. In fact you might want to poke your head in and egg him on, such as
“Is that the best you’ve got?”
“I thought you fucked her a lot harder than that.”
“I love the sound of your balls slapping against her ass, or clit” depending on what position they are in.
“Can you imagine what your friends would be saying right now if they could see you fucking her like this.”
“Own that pussy Shawn!”
and
“I bet you can’t wait to get your big cock in her during your party next week. Where will you fuck her Shawn, in the bathroom, in your bedroom, or somewhere else? Maybe you’ll MAKE her give you a blowjob during the party and come all over her face.”

Maybe for your wife:
“Take it all baby!”
“Take him balls deep for me.”
“Is that all you can get in your mouth, I thought you could get more in then that!”
“I love the way your ass looks when he’s doing you doggie honey. Your asshole looks so inviting.” Doesn’t her ass look so hot Shawn? So inviting.”

Perhaps by doing something like this you can regain some measure of control in their fucking.

Hopefully you can enjoy the moment and control your nerves and angst.

And most importantly, HAVE FUN!!!

You've definitely got us correctly pegged as planners. This has been the most spontaneous thing we've ever done even though we've been planning and scripting it as much as we've been able to control. The loss of control is both terrifying and exhilarating, much like what I would think skydiving is like.

I've been wondering if his humiliating dirty talk about me will change given that I'm listening in. Lana has told him that it's okay just as long as he doesn't go too far - how he chooses to interpret that will be left for us to see.

Not sure I'll be able to egg them on like you're suggesting as I've been pretty frozen in my tracks the times I've listened in on them so far but if Lana and I progress in this experience, I might get to the point where I'm an active verbal participant.

Thank you for the reminder to live in the moment. I think I'm normalizing the angst right now with the knowledge that there won't be a relative calm until maybe 12 hours from now.

Slight Update: Superman is at breakfast with some friends and he's told all of them about our plans for tonight. Basically all of them will be at the party next week.

Talk to SM and tell him that what is going between all of you is something Special, and that it's being done to increase Your Wife's Pleasure and it will Not be at the Expense of Your marriage to her. That He is a gift to Her , from You and that He needs to treat her as a gift, and also treat You with respect.

Also tell him that it's supposed to be Fun for All of You, and that He is Very Lucky that You Both are allowing Your Wife to be "Shared" with him.
Have Fun and Enjoy it as You see fit. If being there watching part of the time, all of the time or just listening, whatever you choose will be fine.

I've been trying to give my wife the opportunity to do just what you guys are doing, and it's been (years) a long and slow process, with her doing some playing a few times with a Friend, with me present and encouraging it.

I hope to watch her in the future, finally allowing another man, or men, to bang her good.

Best Wishes for a Hot and Special night tonight, may your wishes and her's come True, just the way you want them to.

If things go Very Well tonight, have your Wife dressing in some sexy undies, laying under your Christmas tree, on Christmas morning, gift tagged for SM for one under-tree banging. Then sit back with some hot chocolate and watch them go at it...
...then You do her under the tree next.

[FadermanL20]

Some more arrows for your quiver in case he gets out of line:

All that time in the gym and all those steroids and you can't fuck her any better than that? Jesus, dude.

She's had big dick before you and she'll have big dick after you.

You are one injury away from being a has-been

Enjoy this while it lasts. But gather your nuts wisely, little squirrel. Winter's coming.

After New Year's we are going to start auditioning some new designated hitters. Know anybody?

God gave you a real gift with that cock, boy. Better hope He never takes it back.

I've known all along. We're doing this for her. You didn't get her to cheat, boy. We're using you. One day soon we'll throw you away.

You are just an accessory-like a new purse.

That was fun. Now go home and sleep alone in your parents house.

How much did you pay for that Viagra anyway?

Dionysus would weep. (head shake)

For Lana:

You're going to get fucked tonight, girl.

Ready for that dick?

Pussy getting wet?

You going to swallow me after?

You need to be ready, dude. Don't let him totally dominate you.