As a Cuckold what is your true status

[gulfcpl]

We have been in the lifestyle for 26 years and are still very active.

[pm6hnd]

I have read a lot of post on this forum I was curious to see where everyone really stood as a Cuckold so created a poll and hope everyone will answer to the best of their ability. I hope the poll is thorough enough to hit everyone's status.

I’m in my cage, in a hotel room I just booked, and waiting for
Her and her lover to arrive. I may get sent away to finish Christmas shopping if she wants to fuck longer. I’ll pick her up on the way home. Not sure where that is on the poll.

[canadianwittol]

I have been cuckolded for thirteen years by dozens and dozens of different men. Three years ago, I permanently surrendered my male underwear and now wear only women's panties. My wife has two regular long-term bulls and still occasionally throws in a one night stand she'll meet on Tinder. When that happens, I'm usually listening from the next room - including sometimes hearing guys ask my wife who fucks her better, to which in the heat of the moment she'll delight in telling them that they are fucking her SO MUCH better than her husband does. Many of my wife's friends know that I'm a cuckold, and it is a source of some gentle teasing. Some of her harder-edged friends who share her slavic background just cannot believe that any many would live as I do and think of me as nothing more than a total wimp. In the last 3-5 years especially, I have learned to live with and accept ongoing (and occasionally public) humiliation.

So what is my true status? My true status is that I am a loving and very loved husband of more than 13 years. My wife is my best friend and we are each other's co-conspirators in whatever we do in life, whether it involves cuckolding or not. We support each other through one another's ups and downs and those moments of true intimacy between two individuals are reserved just for us. My true status is that my wife treasures the freedom I have provided her and I treasure her willingness to indulge my fetish which even after all this time has never gotten old. It continues to be exciting even as it continues to evolve (or perhaps because it does).

My true status is that I am one of the luckiest men in the world. My friends comment that my 40-year old wife still looks 30 - while their wives cut their hair ever shorter and put on more and more weight, mine still looks like she could model swimsuits. What they don't know of course is that part of that is so she can continue to attract the studs that she does, but even so -I am the envy of almost all of them.

My true status is that I am the luckiest man you will ever meet!

[Cuckvv]

We have been in just over a year. She is seeing one guy pretty regularly but he knows that she plays with others, especially at parties. Its had ups and downs along the way but far more positives than negatives for us

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum Cuckvv.

[AgegapCuck]

I am similarly fortunate. I’m 61 and happily married to my 40 year old Hotwife. She is very glamorous, in great shape and enjoys seeking out and fucking well endowed guys. I’m her be partner in crime and best friend. She knows I enjoy the humiliation of being b beta to the alpha studs she enjoys. I know she craves superior cock and the adoration of men who treat her in the masterful way I can’t.
My status is I’m privileged.

[mrdnrm]

I have read a lot of post on this forum I was curious to see where everyone really stood as a Cuckold so created a poll and hope everyone will answer to the best of their ability. I hope the poll is thorough enough to hit everyone's status.

I’m in my cage, in a hotel room I just booked, and waiting for
Her and her lover to arrive. I may get sent away to finish Christmas shopping if she wants to fuck longer. I’ll pick her up on the way home. Not sure where that is on the poll.

Just read the poll again you fit in there between the 4th one and the 11th one

[mrdnrm]

So what is my true status? My true status is that I am a loving and very loved husband of more than 13 years. My wife is my best friend and we are each other's co-conspirators in whatever we do in life, whether it involves cuckolding or not. We support each other through one another's ups and downs and those moments of true intimacy between two individuals are reserved just for us. My true status is that my wife treasures the freedom I have provided her and I treasure her willingness to indulge my fetish which even after all this time has never gotten old. It continues to be exciting even as it continues to evolve (or perhaps because it does).

My true status is that I am the luckiest man you will ever meet!

is it not the way it should be? I bet you will find most of the Cuckolds on here that choose one of the situations from 4 down could say the same thing. It is absolutely wonderful what you wrote. I have been married nearly 35 years now and we have been a Hotwife and Cuckold couple since 2003. When my wife, best friend and soulmate was 49 years old we meet a young man in the military who was 19 at the time that she started dating him, that continued for over four years. My wife is now 62 years old and still turns a lot heads. https://www.flickr.com/photos/mrdnrm12/ ... ateposted/ I am always thrilled to be with her and a very proud man to be her very loved Chastity Caged Cuckold. I believe a lot of men on here could give you a good run for your money for that title of "luckiest man". How long have you two been married?

[mrdnrm]

I am similarly fortunate. I’m 61 and happily married to my 40 year old Hotwife. She is very glamorous, in great shape and enjoys seeking out and fucking well endowed guys. I’m her be partner in crime and best friend. She knows I enjoy the humiliation of being b beta to the alpha studs she enjoys. I know she craves superior cock and the adoration of men who treat her in the masterful way I can’t.
My status is I’m privileged.

I think that is awesome, the status question of the poll was about activity not how much you love or are being loved but rather how active you are in the lifestyle. The intention was never to humiliate of say one does not have a good strong bonding relationship.

[AgegapCuck]

Status is straightforward. I’m a settled cuck. My wife has lovers who she sees on a weekly basis and I am fully aware of and excited by all her exploits.

[SmallHubbyTexas]

We just had our 4 year anniversary for this journey last week, it was her birthday present to me 4 years ago. She currently has 3 boyfriends and has locked up my little cock. We are both enjoying this experience.

[nevertoolate]

My wife and I are a seasoned couple and she is still very active and I love it.

So do I love it; you are legend.

[rypmar7]

My wife and I are a seasoned couple and she is still very active and I love it.

So do I love it; you are legend.

I am? Thanks!

[ucaneffher]

My girlfriend is aware of my fantasy and is on board with having a one way open relationship where she dates and sleeps with other men. She has already gone on roughly 10-12 dates with 6 men. She has kissed three and has been stripped down by two.

At this point I am just on stand by waiting for the day where my girlfriend tells me that she has a date or gives me the news that she already slept with another man. She knows I'm a cuckold and we both know that it's just a matter of her making it official. No rush from me as we are both on the same page.

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

Wife has had the same bf for 17 years, now. Lot's of emotional attachment......may as well be her second husband. Lots of sex over the years, spontaneous threesomes, planned threesomes, lots of couple sex. Nothing between me and him. (We're straight. He's strictly straight. He's just not into it.)

Now, she's saying that she feels the relationship with him is coming to its natural end WHILE she's flirting with an attractive younger guy at work who would love nothing more than to get into her pants. (He has said as much to other coworkers.) (It's rumored he has a huge cock!)

The new guy knows he has my green light. (She told him we're a "progressive couple" and that I'm not a jealous man.)

She has said she wants a good fuck with less emotional attachment.

He doesn't know that I like to watch yet. They're still in the flirting, get-to-know-ya, would-you-be-down-for-some-fun-in-the-sheets stage. She'll eventually ask him if he'd mind if I watch/hold her hand/kiss her while he bangs her, but that's down the road. After all, she likes when I watch!

We'll see where it goes.

[Des 31]

My wife and I are a seasoned Hotwife and Cuckold couple and are still very active. She says she does it for me but "mostly" for her. That's a running joke of hers, but it's an accurate description for us.
~ Des

Sounds like you two have been listening in on the interior of our bedroom. For years my wife has said that, I am only doing it for you because I know it turns you on. Yup, okay.... I never seen you attack my cock like you did to ...I never had you ride cowgirl on me like you did.... I don't remember ever me getting you to curl your toes while you pumped your legs up towards the ceiling screaming at the top of your lungs. ....And then I remind her, what about all the times we go out for a drink and we are just standing next to the bar and you start flirt with guys and then you turn to me and say let's go, we are taking him home and I going to fuck him, I never set that up or arranged for that to happen. Yup she only does it for me
https://www.flickr.com/photos/mrdnrm12/ ... ateposted/

The good part is that it's almost always more exciting for the wife with another man than with the husband she lives with every day. I like that.

[desertsub]

My wife and I are a VERY well seasoned cuckold/hotwife couple and still active. My first wife cuckolded me and I told my current wife all about it before we were married. We were living together and she then fucked another guy for two months before we got married.

She stayed monogamous for about the first two years of our marriage but then she started going out clubbing with her girlfriends and started cuckolding me. She has continued to do so all through our 35 years of marriage, with a break of several years while our kids were growing up.

As soon as our youngest left home she started again. As we've gotten older she has slowed down quite a bit compared to the early years but she now mostly fucks other guys and I am rarely allowed to even penetrate Her.

She has told me that if something were to happen to me she would never remarry. She would just fuck whoever she wanted and stay single.

[edcvfrxsw]

We are both 23 and it came up one day out of the blue. I feel I had been subconsciously building up to it, for example encouraging her to expose herself in public.

Anyways she was superrrr into it, we teased with the idea for a couple of weeks only, and went all the way. Unfortunately we fell ill and everything just came to a screeching halt. Could be because of school too, not sure. But I am craving it so bad now and while she entertains it a bit, it’s not even 1% of the desire she previously had.

In fact, now the focus is all on me, which kinda sucks because we had just gotten started and I feel lacking because there is so much more to explore! I wish she would openly communicate her thoughts about it all to me

[subguy80]

We are both 23 and it came up one day out of the blue. I feel I had been subconsciously building up to it, for example encouraging her to expose herself in public.

Anyways she was superrrr into it, we teased with the idea for a couple of weeks only, and went all the way. Unfortunately we fell ill and everything just came to a screeching halt. Could be because of school too, not sure. But I am craving it so bad now and while she entertains it a bit, it’s not even 1% of the desire she previously had.

In fact, now the focus is all on me, which kinda sucks because we had just gotten started and I feel lacking because there is so much more to explore! I wish she would openly communicate her thoughts about it all to me :(

I'd stay hopeful. The fact that she was on board earlier means she'll probably be receptive again. It could happen spontaneously, like sometime when you're on vacation and a guy flirts with her; or she might meet a guy in a bar or social setting. She might surprise you. I think the "foundation" has been set, just waiting for the right time. Good luck!

[TDhotwife]

My wife has been cuckolding me for about 15 years. The last 12 she has a boyfriend that is 11 years younger than her and she sees him twice a week for amazing sex. One night a week we both go to her boyfriend's apartment and not only do I get to watch but I video record it... 12 years of recording. The second visit is on Saturday morning for about 5 hours by herself. Sometimes she leaves to stay over night on Friday. My wife does take care of me once a week laying naked next to me kissing me while I masturbate. I get vaginal sex once per year.. or less.

[danman71]

Ive been with my fiancé and in the lifestyle since 2020 so I wouldn't say seasoned yet but we certainly jumped in with both feet and don't see any end in sight.

[BFofGF]

My GF currently has 5 regulars who each fuck her bareback about once a month !

[ucaneffher]

My wife has been cuckolding me for about 15 years. The last 12 she has a boyfriend that is 11 years younger than her and she sees him twice a week for amazing sex. One night a week we both go to her boyfriend's apartment and not only do I get to watch but I video record it... 12 years of recording. The second visit is on Saturday morning for about 5 hours by herself. Sometimes she leaves to stay over night on Friday. My wife does take care of me once a week laying naked next to me kissing me while I masturbate. I get vaginal sex once per year.. or less.

Vaginal once a year or less. So it's safe to say that her boyfriend is her primary? Curious to read more about your arrangement if you don't mind sharing

[mrdnrm]

not only do I get to watch but I video record it... 12 years of recording.

do you post any of your videos online someplace, if so can you share with everyone?

[TDhotwife]

i have not... i would have to hide her face...Is there an easy, windows based app that would be simple to hide her face?