Ask a Hotwife Thread, to be answered by VHWs only!

[Spar1330]

I'm very new to this although I've been a closeted cuck wannabe for many years, I only just had had the talk with my wife a little over a month ago. You can read my story in my signature if you like (hopefully it shows up, I just added it). My wife has been really supportive and I'm so grateful for her acceptance. It's made me want to spoil her and treat her like the goddess she is. I'm trying to make amends for years of taking her for granted and being selfish. I'm working my ass off around the house and surprising her with flowers and other little gifts. We're communicating so much better than we ever have and after 8 years of marriage, I feel like we're more in love than we ever have been, even when compared to the beginning of our relationship. So my question is if any of you ladies also experienced this change in your husbands and marriage after he had the talk with you and what was it like for you?

[armyguyot1]

My wife says there is nothing sexier than a good looking guy with a running vacum in his hand. She is joking but not completely. A few chores will get you layd.

[AndyPlays]

I have played with several hotwives over the years and have avoided being a ‘boyfriend’ to any, more a FWB or less than that.

Some of us love to play with a hotwife but without all the emotional connections of being a boyfriend. How many levels so most hotwives have levels like boyfriend, fuck buddy, random stranger etc and so any of the ‘rules’ change based on the level of the relationship. Is it a cock is a cock or more mental than that?

[Farmgirl]

I have played with several hotwives over the years and have avoided being a ‘boyfriend’ to any, more a FWB or less than that.

Some of us love to play with a hotwife but without all the emotional connections of being a boyfriend. How many levels so most hotwives have levels like boyfriend, fuck buddy, random stranger etc and so any of the ‘rules’ change based on the level of the relationship. Is it a cock is a cock or more mental than that?

No, it's not "a cock is a cock", in fact, the guy's cock isn't even close to the first thing I think about. You have to be able to turn on my mind, and it doesn't start with sexual talk.
Randoms/strangers, nope! I like to start with maybe a fuck buddy, moving into FWB, and progressing to possible boyfriend. I'm the prize, a guy has to meet my standards.
Without emotional connections, there is no great sex. I can have good sex without an emotional connection, but it's called 'rubbing one out'.

[rascalnvixen]

Would it be reasonable to expect one of our lovely VHWs to politely remind Armyguyot1 and AndyPlays about the posting without asking questions????

Rascal

[AndyPlays]

Let me ask one that will stir debate and get me in trouble with somebody on here.

If a Bull is going bare, heat of the moment or agreed upon, does the Bull need to ask if he can cum inside or just cum wherever he wants to do so.

[farmwife89]

He needs to ask. Ha Ha period, or there may not be a period.
I think it is respect and yes, he may be the bull, but he is not in charge of family planning
wife and hot wife here

[farmwife89]

Sorry broke the rules, not verified here yet, but forgive me please

[2inUPMichigan]

Uh oh! I see a few posts without questions by members without bright blue names!
Since it's the beginning of the year, I won't bring out my paddle

Please remember this is not one of our typical discussion threads.
Only one of our VHW'S can answer questions in this thread

Thank you to all of our VHW'S who volunteer to answer questions

[2inUPMichigan]

Let me ask one that will stir debate and get me in trouble with somebody on here.

If a Bull is going bare, heat of the moment or agreed upon, does the Bull need to ask if he can cum inside or just cum wherever he wants to do so.

This comes down to one word "respect".

A man should only be going bare if that is what was agreed upon. An experienced man knows he should ask before they got naked where he can cum.

[rascalnvixen]

Uh oh! I see a few posts without questions by members without bright blue names!
Since it's the beginning of the year, I won't bring out my paddle

Please remember this is not one of our typical discussion threads.
Only one of our VHW'S can answer questions in this thread

Thank you to all of our VHW'S who volunteer to answer questions

At the risk of life and limb, which ONE of the VHWs can answer questions in this thread??????

Rascal

[Des 31]

Let me ask one that will stir debate and get me in trouble with somebody on here.

If a Bull is going bare, heat of the moment or agreed upon, does the Bull need to ask if he can cum inside or just cum wherever he wants to do so.

This comes down to one word "respect". A man should only be going bare if that is what was agreed upon. An experienced man knows he should ask before they got naked where he can cum.

Hard to argue with that. But my wife says she cannot recall the question never coming up. By the time she and another guy are naked, they're busy thinking about and doing other things. (But I should mention my wife has had a tubal ligation, so pregnancy isn't a problem. As for STDs, her option is only have sex with guys she feels use common sense and aren't the type to be having sex with multiple women every week.)

[Farmgirl]

Ok guys, you need to take heed to what 2inUP said.

This thread is for the asking of questions. A question mark (?) follows a question.
Answers only come from a VHW.
Comments are not questions, therefore they don't belong here.

You can't run a muck just because some of us had other things going on.

[Salma_V]

Hi ladies!
I’m new the the site and new to the Hotwife lifestyle. My husband had brought up this fantasy of his and it got me very curious and wanting to give it a try. I’m wondering if you guys could help me figure out how I can get verified so I can get started with posting on the ladies forum and read your experiences

[Farmgirl]

Hi ladies!
I’m new the the site and new to the Hotwife lifestyle. My husband had brought up this fantasy of his and it got me very curious and wanting to give it a try. I’m wondering if you guys could help me figure out how I can get verified so I can get started with posting on the ladies forum and read your experiences

After a few posts on the open forums, you contact armyguyot1 and he will give you a verification assignment.
We'll be Happy to have you become one of us with the bright blue names !

[Liese]

Hi ladies!
I’m new the the site and new to the Hotwife lifestyle. My husband had brought up this fantasy of his and it got me very curious and wanting to give it a try. I’m wondering if you guys could help me figure out how I can get verified so I can get started with posting on the ladies forum and read your experiences

Here's the link which explains the verification process: viewtopic.php?f=5&t=53838

I look forward to greeting you in our own private forum here.

[sausageoflovers]

What is the best sensation / impression / feeling you’d had when having a lover?

[Farmgirl]

What is the best sensation / impression / feeling you’d had when having a lover?

Empowered/Freedom to be me.

[Lookingforadventure]

What is the best sensation / impression / feeling you’d had when having a lover?

When I first started, I thought I would just share sexy photos with strangers on an anonymous site. The sensation/feeling from that experience was surprise at the positive reactions and a new-found confidence in my sex appeal. It really was quite the big impression and it fueled my sex life with my husband as well.

Some of that surprise/confidence feeling still exists when I'm with a lover. It is empowering to be wanted and desired. I also like the butterflies from flirting, and the rush from doing something a bit naughty.

[long4her]

Hi ladies. Does your man have a fragrance you love smelling when you go down on him? I’m looking for something that my wife will enjoy when she goes down on me. Thanks

[Farmgirl]

Hi ladies. Does your man have a fragrance you love smelling when you go down on him? I’m looking for something that my wife will enjoy when she goes down on me. Thanks

Considering how different each of us is, it would be better to ask her.

I like a man to smell fresh and clean, even the hint of soap is nice on a man. My Number1 uses a cedar and fir scented balm after he shaves below. It has a very nice manly/woodsy smell. Allen swipes a touch of cologne across his lower abdomen after applying it to his face. I don't know what it is, but it smells really nice.
Just clean and pleasant works for me, nothing too strong, I still want them to smell like a man .

[Des 31]

Considering how different each of us is, it would be better to ask her.

I like a man to smell fresh and clean, even the hint of soap is nice on a man. My Number1 uses a cedar and fir scented balm after he shaves below. It has a very nice manly/woodsy smell. Allen swipes a touch of cologne across his lower abdomen after applying it to his face. I don't know what it is, but it smells really nice.
Just clean and pleasant works for me, nothing too strong, I still want them to smell like a man .

My wife has made that comment. Makes sense to me.

~ Des

[Farmgirl]

Considering how different each of us is, it would be better to ask her.

I like a man to smell fresh and clean, even the hint of soap is nice on a man. My Number1 uses a cedar and fir scented balm after he shaves below. It has a very nice manly/woodsy smell. Allen swipes a touch of cologne across his lower abdomen after applying it to his face. I don't know what it is, but it smells really nice.
Just clean and pleasant works for me, nothing too strong, I still want them to smell like a man .

My wife has made that comment. Makes sense to me.

~ Des

My friend, you know that not in the form of a question for this thread .

[Des 31]

Considering how different each of us is, it would be better to ask her.

I like a man to smell fresh and clean, even the hint of soap is nice on a man. My Number1 uses a cedar and fir scented balm after he shaves below. It has a very nice manly/woodsy smell. Allen swipes a touch of cologne across his lower abdomen after applying it to his face. I don't know what it is, but it smells really nice.
Just clean and pleasant works for me, nothing too strong, I still want them to smell like a man .

My wife has made that comment. Makes sense to me.

~ Des

My friend, you know that not in the form of a question for this thread .

I'll be more careful in the future. Love your writings.

~ Des

[rascalnvixen]

I don't think his response was still in the form of a question, was it???

Rascal