Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

[rickyg]

Wow can’t wait for this update! I want to know everything from the car to the house!

[slenderfish]

I should add here, that I've been observing SW interacting with this guy Mr. L, over the past couple of years. He is quite a personality. I'm best friends with his best friend from their childhood. We have known him and his wife for at least 10 years now. His wife tends to not attend social events because she volunteers to stay behind and hang with their three kids. Both are fabulous people. SW has been having a bit of extra energy toward him, like I said, for the past couple of years. Very subtle, not even sure she realizes it. Of if she does, she believes it's not noticed by anyone, including me.

Kind of how she had that extra energy in 2019 toward Mr. B. But more subtle.

Therefore, I was not in the least bit surprised that a) he RSVP's for her party with his wife and b) he ended up attending alone. Nor was I surprised when he got blasted and then suggested we all walk over to an after-party at the honky tonk bar. That is, if anyone else has suggested it, there's no way it would have happened; instead, SW would have declined and said we should all go home. That kind of bar is so against her style. As a matter of fact, we did go that place once, several years ago, and she said "never again" after that. Finally, when we ended up chasing him down (it was his best friend from childhood who remembered where Mr. L's car was parked and blocked him), I also purposely asked SW to get out of our car and drag him into the back seat. Until SW's entreaties, he would not change his plan to drive, even in the face of the police spotlight.

So when SW pushed him into the back seat, I held the front passenger door for her to come up front. She instead deliberately went into the back seat with Mr. L. I said to myself that this was unexpected, and wondered what might be behind it all. And, without hesitation, closed the doors and, without any pause, jumped back into the driver's seat and off we went!

[rooster444]

Before you find out, what's your thought as to what happened? In the back seat, bathroom break? Someone mentioned oral, fingers then the full Monty for the bathroom break? It will be interesting to hear the assumptions and then hopefully the facts.

[Mr Mrs Cream]

Looks like SW was trying to move you into ”cuck place”.
By saing that I mean, you waiting for her and having your trophy.
I’m not sure if she would like to have unprotected sex, but also not sure if she have condoms in her bag.
Maybe there is a place to give her one, just for such game which she gave you starting it with the panties…
Does she read a books? Especially when you are outside home?
If so you may buy her some with cuckold topick.
If not you may prepare a list of mainstream movies (to watch) which you wants to talk about after you come back.
So you would have a topic to talk.

[slenderfish]

Before you find out, what's your thought as to what happened? In the back seat, bathroom break? Someone mentioned oral, fingers then the full Monty for the bathroom break? It will be interesting to hear the assumptions and then hopefully the facts.

I was thinking exactly this.

[slenderfish]

Looks like SW was trying to move you into ”cuck place”.
By saing that I mean, you waiting for her and having your trophy.
I’m not sure if she would like to have unprotected sex, but also not sure if she have condoms in her bag.
Maybe there is a place to give her one, just for such game which she gave you starting it with the panties…
Does she read a books? Especially when you are outside home?
If so you may buy her some with cuckold topick.
If not you may prepare a list of mainstream movies (to watch) which you wants to talk about after you come back.
So you would have a topic to talk.

Thanks, all these are great suggestions. We've been through a lot of the concepts, and she is generally not wanting to talk about it. But we've seen over the years, her suppressed thoughts and desires do come out when she's been drinking red wine. Often in a fun, wonderful way, and sometimes in a sad, unhappy way. We were going for fun, wonderful SW on her birthday, and that's who we received!

[afagehi7]

Looks like SW was trying to move you into ”cuck place”.
By saing that I mean, you waiting for her and having your trophy.
I’m not sure if she would like to have unprotected sex, but also not sure if she have condoms in her bag.
Maybe there is a place to give her one, just for such game which she gave you starting it with the panties…
Does she read a books? Especially when you are outside home?
If so you may buy her some with cuckold topick.
If not you may prepare a list of mainstream movies (to watch) which you wants to talk about after you come back.
So you would have a topic to talk.

Thanks, all these are great suggestions. We've been through a lot of the concepts, and she is generally not wanting to talk about it. But we've seen over the years, her suppressed thoughts and desires do come out when she's been drinking red wine. Often in a fun, wonderful way, and sometimes in a sad, unhappy way. We were going for fun, wonderful SW on her birthday, and that's who we received!

It would be killing me to know what happened. You have much patience...

[ResponsibullCummings]

It seems like when she is drunk she is possibly being at hotwife. This recent event oluscthe time she went away with that guy and hurt her knee and left him with lipstick. You never ask foe details at that point in time when she is still drunk and most likely willing to admit it. When the morning comes and she is sober she is probably embarrassed and less willing to tell you. Where there is smoke there is probably fire. Next time she does something like like pretend it happened and ask her how it was. Then she will either admit it or lie about it. There next day she's more likely to lie. I would be shocked if she hasn't done something with her trainer when they are training alone. Especially when she admitted to being in the men's change room with him. Why would she sit in the back seat with him but then lean into the front seat unless he was doing something to her she wanted to keep you from seeing? I could be wrong of course but things aren't adding up when she is drunk.

[afagehi7]

It seems like when she is drunk she is possibly being at hotwife. This recent event oluscthe time she went away with that guy and hurt her knee and left him with lipstick. You never ask foe details at that point in time when she is still drunk and most likely willing to admit it. When the morning comes and she is sober she is probably embarrassed and less willing to tell you. Where there is smoke there is probably fire. Next time she does something like like pretend it happened and ask her how it was. Then she will either admit it or lie about it. There next day she's more likely to lie. I would be shocked if she hasn't done something with her trainer when they are training alone. Especially when she admitted to being in the men's change room with him. Why would she sit in the back seat with him but then lean into the front seat unless he was doing something to her she wanted to keep you from seeing? I could be wrong of course but things aren't adding up when she is drunk.

Perhaps she wants to do something when she is drunk but just doesn't push through the wall and do it? I think this is a possibility...

[Mr Mrs Cream]

Looks like SW was trying to move you into ”cuck place”.
By saing that I mean, you waiting for her and having your trophy.
I’m not sure if she would like to have unprotected sex, but also not sure if she have condoms in her bag.
Maybe there is a place to give her one, just for such game which she gave you starting it with the panties…
Does she read a books? Especially when you are outside home?
If so you may buy her some with cuckold topick.
If not you may prepare a list of mainstream movies (to watch) which you wants to talk about after you come back.
So you would have a topic to talk.

Thanks, all these are great suggestions. We've been through a lot of the concepts, and she is generally not wanting to talk about it. But we've seen over the years, her suppressed thoughts and desires do come out when she's been drinking red wine. Often in a fun, wonderful way, and sometimes in a sad, unhappy way. We were going for fun, wonderful SW on her birthday, and that's who we received!

I hope to see a photo session with SW.
Pictures of her sexy site.
And may a picture of her with a condom in her fingers.
Could you arange a game and ask her to show you how she would like to put a condom on the bull cock.
Maybe using mouth?

[slenderfish]

Continuing last weeks aftermath of SW's bday party.

I was up early and hosted the big business call. It was a non-stop morning with other calls, work, etc. and by noon or even a bit later, my body told me I should eat. I was also curious about SW's sleeping, and when she would finally get up to greet the day.

And I remembered that I wanted to get my hands on those panties, if they were anywhere around.

So I went upstairs and heard a bit of activity coming from the bedroom, and when I entered, saw that SW was awake and starting her morning routine in the bathroom. Washing her face, etc. I scanned around for panties and other evidence from the night but those were nowhere to be seen. I realized that if there was going to be any evidence, time was not my friend.

I decided the best bet is to go directly to sex. Do not pass Go, do not Collect $200. My rationale was based on long-shot thinking. If she had a quickie at Mr. L's house (downstairs, in the bathroom or similar), there may be some residual evidence "down there" or similar. And/or that she would defer or avoid if she had anything to hide.

Let's remember that we are essentially playing this cat and mouse game. SW knows I would love for her to play the hotwife and have a casual encounter (either in front of me, or in secret and bring home the evidence and/or story), but she has historically preferred to do so on her own terms and the telling and reclaiming tend to happen some days later, when she's ready.

I noted that she hadn't yet received the "Birthday Sex" that she was due, that I'd thought she would want to get lucky upon our late return the night before. She said that she had also expected that, but ultimately got distracted by caring for the dog and when she did get into the bedroom, she was too sleepy etc.

She took me up on my offer to start some frisky action, and came to the bed as I was discarding my clothes. She pulled off her pajama bottoms and jumped into bed. She laid with her back to me, and asked me to initially hold her for a bit.

She then referred back to the night before, and said that Mr. L seems to have been married for too long, and that his interest in his wife has apparently waned. I asked her to continue, and she told me that he was all over her in the back seat of the car, touching her arm, all handsy, etc. I said that I can understand how he would be attracted to her, in that she is so fabulously attractive and sexy, especially for her birthday party.

I asked her about her leaning forward into the front compartment while I was driving, and she said she was doing that in order to remind him that she is "with me" and married. I said that if it were me, I would take that leaning and blocking of my view as an encouragement to touch her and stroke her bare legs and ass, especially with such a short dress. She said he was certainly being "very forward" during that time. I reminded her that I was uncertain if what was going on was wanted by her, or not, and that I'd actively reached my hand back behind the center console, between her legs, to find out what was happening and to block his hand if anything was happening, but that she had grabbed my arm and put it back toward the steering wheel. And it was at that time she started saying about how she had to get to a bathroom and pee. And that Mr. L was clearly still awake and drunk.

The I recounted how we'd stopped at his house, she asked me to wait in front while she ran to the front door. That he had run up behind her and let her into the house with his key, and followed her inside. That she (and he) were in there for quite a bit longer than usual for a quick pee. And that when she did come out, she stumbled toward the car while I jumped out and helped her into the seat, and I'd noticed something in her closed hand while she was getting seated. Finally, that once we were under way, she handed me her panties.

She then asked me to stop talking and start making love to her,

[regular3]

Love the anticipation

[rickyg]

Continuing last weeks aftermath of SW's bday party.

I was up early and hosted the big business call. It was a non-stop morning with other calls, work, etc. and by noon or even a bit later, my body told me I should eat. I was also curious about SW's sleeping, and when she would finally get up to greet the day.

And I remembered that I wanted to get my hands on those panties, if they were anywhere around.

So I went upstairs and heard a bit of activity coming from the bedroom, and when I entered, saw that SW was awake and starting her morning routine in the bathroom. Washing her face, etc. I scanned around for panties and other evidence from the night but those were nowhere to be seen. I realized that if there was going to be any evidence, time was not my friend.

I decided the best bet is to go directly to sex. Do not pass Go, do not Collect $200. My rationale was based on long-shot thinking. If she had a quickie at Mr. L's house (downstairs, in the bathroom or similar), there may be some residual evidence "down there" or similar. And/or that she would defer or avoid if she had anything to hide.

Let's remember that we are essentially playing this cat and mouse game. SW knows I would love for her to play the hotwife and have a casual encounter (either in front of me, or in secret and bring home the evidence and/or story), but she has historically preferred to do so on her own terms and the telling and reclaiming tend to happen some days later, when she's ready.

I noted that she hadn't yet received the "Birthday Sex" that she was due, that I'd thought she would want to get lucky upon our late return the night before. She said that she had also expected that, but ultimately got distracted by caring for the dog and when she did get into the bedroom, she was too sleepy etc.

She took me up on my offer to start some frisky action, and came to the bed as I was discarding my clothes. She pulled off her pajama bottoms and jumped into bed. She laid with her back to me, and asked me to initially hold her for a bit.

She then referred back to the night before, and said that Mr. L seems to have been married for too long, and that his interest in his wife has apparently waned. I asked her to continue, and she told me that he was all over her in the back seat of the car, touching her arm, all handsy, etc. I said that I can understand how he would be attracted to her, in that she is so fabulously attractive and sexy, especially for her birthday party.

I asked her about her leaning forward into the front compartment while I was driving, and she said she was doing that in order to remind him that she is "with me" and married. I said that if it were me, I would take that leaning and blocking of my view as an encouragement to touch her and stroke her bare legs and ass, especially with such a short dress. She said he was certainly being "very forward" during that time. I reminded her that I was uncertain if what was going on was wanted by her, or not, and that I'd actively reached my hand back behind the center console, between her legs, to find out what was happening and to block his hand if anything was happening, but that she had grabbed my arm and put it back toward the steering wheel. And it was at that time she started saying about how she had to get to a bathroom and pee. And that Mr. L was clearly still awake and drunk.

The I recounted how we'd stopped at his house, she asked me to wait in front while she ran to the front door. That he had run up behind her and let her into the house with his key, and followed her inside. That she (and he) were in there for quite a bit longer than usual for a quick pee. And that when she did come out, she stumbled toward the car while I jumped out and helped her into the seat, and I'd noticed something in her closed hand while she was getting seated. Finally, that once we were under way, she handed me her panties.

She then asked me to stop talking and start making love to her,

There’s gotta be more. Why would you do this to us SF?

[fraktastic]

Can’t wait to hear more! Glad things are heating up for you, whether it’s fantasy talk on her part or she really did it it’s a good sign for future adventures.

[slenderfish]

There’s gotta be more. Why would you do this to us SF?

Getting killed with not enough time in the day. I missed the deadline on the huge project, even though I cancelled my plans to join some buddies on a ski outing this past weekend and instead working until the wee hours of the morning every night. Should've been fired (and the whole team) but was able to pull it out of the shitter and get another crack at it. Kind of have to reset and restart, at the back of the tunnel. It'll be at least four weeks until I might be seeing light at the end of this new tunnel/effort.

In the meantime, SW and I are getting geared up for a ski weekend, leaving tomorrow late morning. Tough to fit everything into the day. This ski trip, SW's birthday last week, and the Hawaii trip in late January, are really messing up my work flow. I'd assumed the project would be completed in December or early January. Things don't always work out as planned.

We'll figure it all out!

[Mr Mrs Cream]

Kross fingers for your work delivery.

You mentioned about SW pool dance lessons.
Any news about it?

[slenderfish]

Kross fingers for your work delivery.

You mentioned about SW pool dance lessons.
Any news about it?

SW has a new friend who moved into town to be with her new boyfriend, on of my friends. We went out with this new couple on a double date on Valentine's Day this week.

This new friend, let's call her Ms. W, is an attractive brunette who loves to dress classy/sexy and matches up well with SW. And she has strong interest in pole dancing!

So I've suggested those two girls start a weekly girls' night that starts with a pole dancing class. This will be more fun for both of them, and will also encourage a regular process for the pole dancing.

[Mr Mrs Cream]

Kross fingers for your work delivery.

You mentioned about SW pool dance lessons.
Any news about it?

SW has a new friend who moved into town to be with her new boyfriend, on of my friends. We went out with this new couple on a double date on Valentine's Day this week.

This new friend, let's call her Ms. W, is an attractive brunette who loves to dress classy/sexy and matches up well with SW. And she has strong interest in pole dancing!

So I've suggested those two girls start a weekly girls' night that starts with a pole dancing class. This will be more fun for both of them, and will also encourage a regular process for the pole dancing.

Great that the new couple is open for such fun.
I'm not sure if her boyfriend is openminded, but I think if he will see SW with someone else closer (when you are around and joking) may be confused.
Maybe a quick introduction that there are couple who are into and in your case this i a kind of foreplay to go to bed horny as hell.
Such guy may be very open to see Mr. W with SW together, but not with another guy.

[william70]

So with all this work you have and all these trips your taking, who's steering this boat? Looks to me like this boat is about to hit the rocks.

[william70]

So with all this work you have and all these trips your taking, who's steering this boat? Looks to me like this boat is about to hit the rocks.

[slenderfish]

Cancelled the trip at the last minute, and had to absorb several thousand in nonrefundable bookings (hotel, etc). I'll finish the story of the birthday night soon, now that I have a bit more time.

[slenderfish]

Just realized I may have mentioned Mr. L in a prior update. He was the one that remained with SW super late that night when we were on a ski trip over New Year's 2022/2023, while they watched a movie. I'd wondered if I should head upstairs and leave them alone. My hotwife husband senses were activated that night. I ultimately elected to remain in the room with them, kind of like a chaperone. I didn't think it would be a good idea if something transpired there under the roof of our hosts, even if I was kind of hoping it might.

That was the night, or should I say morning after, when I got up to greet our host over an early coffee in the kitchen. He immediately pointed to a bottle of wine that had been opened somewhere during the night, with about one modest glass of wine missing, sitting without any cork. It was ruined. It was a $650 bottle of wine. Nobody knows who opened it. Even as of today.

[afagehi7]

Just realized I may have mentioned Mr. L in a prior update. He was the one that remained with SW super late that night when we were on a ski trip over New Year's 2022/2023, while they watched a movie. I'd wondered if I should head upstairs and leave them alone. My hotwife husband senses were activated that night. I ultimately elected to remain in the room with them, kind of like a chaperone. I didn't think it would be a good idea if something transpired there under the roof of our hosts, even if I was kind of hoping it might.

That was the night, or should I say morning after, when I got up to greet our host over an early coffee in the kitchen. He immediately pointed to a bottle of wine that had been opened somewhere during the night, with about one modest glass of wine missing, sitting without any cork. It was ruined. It was a $650 bottle of wine. Nobody knows who opened it. Even as of today.

Major party foul. Hopefully whomever did it feels terrible. I can't believe just one person would open a bottle for one glass. In their defense, a $650 bottle shouldn't have been in genpop

[rickyg]

Cancelled the trip at the last minute, and had to absorb several thousand in nonrefundable bookings (hotel, etc). I'll finish the story of the birthday night soon, now that I have a bit more time.

Sorry to hear SF. I am assuming work took precedence.

Looking forward to the rest of the birthday night story though.

[slenderfish]

Just realized I may have mentioned Mr. L in a prior update. He was the one that remained with SW super late that night when we were on a ski trip over New Year's 2022/2023, while they watched a movie. I'd wondered if I should head upstairs and leave them alone. My hotwife husband senses were activated that night. I ultimately elected to remain in the room with them, kind of like a chaperone. I didn't think it would be a good idea if something transpired there under the roof of our hosts, even if I was kind of hoping it might.

That was the night, or should I say morning after, when I got up to greet our host over an early coffee in the kitchen. He immediately pointed to a bottle of wine that had been opened somewhere during the night, with about one modest glass of wine missing, sitting without any cork. It was ruined. It was a $650 bottle of wine. Nobody knows who opened it. Even as of today.

Major party foul. Hopefully whomever did it feels terrible. I can't believe just one person would open a bottle for one glass. In their defense, a $650 bottle shouldn't have been in genpop

Well, I failed to add the detail that the bottle had been retrieved from a wine cellar that held about 100 bottles of red. This was the nicest one in the cellar and only a few people at the house that night would have known to choose that precise bottle. My point is that if it was somebody grabbing a bottle at random in the middle of the night, the odds of them accidentally grabbing that specific bottle was extremely low.