Off limits acts

[AmyRich]

None that are exactly 'off limits' but with us it is more a question of frequency. Her one bull told me before the first meeting that he like to have his ass licked and always wants to cum on her face. When I relayed this to my wife she smiled and said "I think I can work with that" and now every single time we meet up she spends a lot of time licking his ass, and every single time he pulls out and finished by jacking off onto her face.
She will lick my ass and let me cum on her face but it is not very often at all.

[Wifesharing]

There is plenty my wife does that we don't often do do or and never done. A lot of it has to do with me not really being able to do those things to my wife. by that i mean it feels like degrading or using a women and I just cant do it even though I know she enjoys and craves those things. I am fully aware that if i asked for something she would give it to me. However I don't want to have to ask sex turns out the way it does we don't plan it with some men she just goes places naturally that it does not go with me or others. I really can't explain why something just seem natural with some and with others including me she just would not think of doing. So nothing is of limits but I know who I am and what i can do for her sexually and stay in my lane.

[sherulestherooster]

I really can't explain why something just seem natural with some and with others including me she just would not think of doing. So nothing is of limits but I know who I am and what i can do for her sexually and stay in my lane.

This resonated with me as my ex hotwife definitely was more comfortable with her bulls being more aggressive with her sexually than she would ever want from me, at least from her descriptions. her last bull would not even say “hi” to her, no small talk, he’d immediately start taking off her clothes and they’d have their first round of sex. Only then would they cuddle and talk and share. She’d never let me get away with that.

[Wifesharing]

There is another part not talked about a lot is also like with my wife she knows what I like and what she has to do to get me off, and knows i am coming back for more. With other men they get together less often or are new and she goes a bit more into empress mode. She wants to make sure he likes her and wants to come back. She doesn't already know like she does with me that I am just as happy get a few licks then fucking, with others she goes ahead and finishes that blow job and swallows then gets him hard for another round inside her.

[leo-cpl]

Nope.....off limits are same for me and the other guy LOL

[blkmale66]

I'm a off and on again bull. One of my wives likes to lick and suck my ass, but would never get near her husband's

[matthewscott77]

Cumming inside my soulmate is a privilege that’s reserved for me. Also, anal is something she has tried with other guys but not with me. She will only try with small cocks but even then it’s usually too uncomfortable for her.

[Triceratops]

Bulls can fuck her in front of strangers, not permitted for me
Bulls can have her asshole
Bulls can pass her around

[Tank Turner]

We have no rules.

Neither one of us will engage in degrading and dehumanizing sex acts.

[ucaneffher]

The ex and i started the lifestyle right after high school at 19 years old and as a hot wife couple, in her case she was a 19 year old hot-girlfriend and i was a stag but we had discussed her dating other men as early as sophomore year of high school when we were 16, so lifestyle talk and planning wasn't new to us. The more we played the riskier both her and i wanted it to be

My girlfriend had no limits for me initially other than anal sex and she also didn't have any limits for her friends-turned-lovers. As time passed the restrictions started coming in for me while more openly giving herself to other men entirely.

Right around the 2 year mark into the lifestyle, as a result of our dynamic and all the restrictions we found ourselves setting and enjoying, we transitioned into a non-submissive cuckold relationship. I'm more of assertive man but we both craved her withholding from me and giving herself to other men instead. That worked very well for us and that is where I lost the benefit to live with my 21 year old girlfriend after living with her for years. Her then boyfriend took the prize for himself and had full access to her whenever he wanted her while we only talked on phone/texted and we saw each other less frequently.

I know that latter example was more after we transitioned into cuckolding but as a hot girlfriend couple, she was fully single and available to date and fully unrestricted for other men while i was off limits to anal. It was a tease knowing that she was planning on surrendering her anal virginity after high school to her lover and did not intend to ever let me experience it, ever.

[gruenberg]

While I appreciate trying to keep the varying degrees of the lifestyle separated by forum category, and the gentile reminder of such by the OP. I find the elitist comments made by some members of this section to be absurdly amusing. It's like you've joined a cupcake forum to post in the muffin section. And the moment someone mentions frosting, you immediately lose your shit "there's no frosting on a muffin, get your cupcake ass out of here." Like yes, they shouldn't be talking about frosting in the muffin section, but Jesus Christ. I think those posters hate the reminder that despite wanting to seem different or better... they're still just another kind of fucking cupcake.

well said

[Hotwifejoy]

Originally, I thought I would never let a bull fuck me bareback....and I would never give a guy a bj....or let a guy give me a creampie...but over time, I relaxed all of these restrictions...and I now regularly give guys bjs, let them fuck me bareback, and many creampies...
I really don't enjoy anal, but with the right guy, maybe I would allow this (hubby tried it a few times, but he is waaaay too thick, so it is painful, and actually caused tears...so no more for him). I am very close to kissing one of my fav bulls...probably the most intimate thing for me, but I am excited about the possibility...so not quite the answer to the question, other than anal...but the only reason for that is hubby is too thick.

[Ed_Vic]

It's interesting to me how every couple approaches this differently. Everyone seems to have their own take on things, their own boundaries, and their own definitions and preferences for the various terms. Regardless, I'm reluctant to assign labels. So instead, I'll just describe what we do.

We are very trusting of one another and we both love when the other plays. Vicky loves to have her neck kissed and she loves when I do it. So I am not allowed to kiss another woman's neck. We also follow that in reverse sometimes so other guys are not really allowed to kiss her neck, however, there have been times during a threesome where I told the guy to do it. She loved this because, a) he was kissing her neck, b) it felt like me giving permission to her AND the guy to do it and enjoy it, and c) she loves when I'm dominant and give direction. I'm really fine with making an exception because it's not really my rule. It's hers. But this rule is also nice because it can remain subtle and between us and we've never told anyone we've played with about it. Mentioning it on here is the first time it's ever been mentioned but somehow, being anonymous on here, doesn't feel like I'm revealing much.

My rule for her is that no one gets to fuck her ass. That's for me. Anal is not something we do very often, but I can say that each time we do it, she enjoys it more and more. There have even been some nights when the two of us are playing together and the proper mood struck and she literally begged me to fuck her ass. She's had guys ask for it and I love when she denies them and tells them that's her husband's. I have told her, however, that if she was ever with a guy and wanted him to do it that badly, she would have to call me on the phone and ask for permission. Not text. Not do it and tell me afterwards. She would actually have to call and ask me for it. I'm pretty sure she would never get to that point. But if she did, it would probably be pretty fucking hot and twisted enough that I might just consider it. Maybe!

She does not have the anal rule for me though. I have had anal sex with one of my partners and Vicky thought it was ridiculously hot.

Speaking of rules, I will also add that there was woman I played with a bunch of times who was married and playing with her husband's permission. His rule for her though was that I couldn't cum inside her in any way, and that we couldn't have anal. What that woman got off on though, was "being bad" and breaking rules. So needless to say, after the first time of her being "good," there were no condoms used. I came in her pussy or her mouth every time we were together. And even though she had an absolutely amazing ass, she had never given it up to anyone, including her husband. She told me she wanted me to be the first to take that but unfortunately, that was in March of 2020 and the fucking pandemic cock-blocked me! And unfortunately,like so many other things, that opportunity didn't survive the pandemic. Oh well!

[Dutch]

No anal, she not into it, nor am I.

[CuckHusband11]

My wife and I have what we refer to as “husband sex” which is ultra vanilla, we don’t do anything more than PIV sex missionary style and I am encouraged to cum as quickly as possible, everything else is pretty much off limits. Her boyfriend and other men she meets have very different rules

[LuPa2]

No, my wife does everything she does with her dates with me. She only lets me cum in her mouth though and not them but I think she would do it on request. She also insists on condoms with them, for everything except oral.

Quite a lot has changed since this response. Wife has gone bareback with both her regulars and has had them cum in her pussy. One has cum in her bum. This was preceded by him asking where to come and her reply was “you have at least three options”. So clearly cum in the mouth is on offer now too.

[kort677]

my wife refuses to allow anything regarding her anus and if you cum in her hair you are in deep trouble

[SRKnight]

Since this has happened

viewtopic.php?f=5&t=69636&p=1410722#p1410722

My HW will only deep kiss her Long term boyfriend.

[HWJRJ18]

Why does every forum become a cuck forum? Isn't the cuckold forum enough?

I HOPE it's because they look at the "New Posts" and ignore the actual section they are posting in but I agree it's annoying. A Stag/Vixen section was added to try and limit this, as the Hotwife section is overrun, but alas they will just not stop.

[HWJRJ18]

Jesus....some of these responses....not shaming anyone's kink, I just couldn't play that way.

We have quite the opposite dynamic here.

Most BDSM activities are off limits to her toys.

She asks permission first.

She calls me Sir.

When texting about her toys, she uses a lowercase "h" for him and uppercase for me.

They may hang out and have a drink or bite to eat before sex, but after sex, she leaves immediately and comes home.

She tells me what she enjoyed and says "thank you."

I get whatever I want, whenever I want, while staying respectable and in bounds.

I approve all play partners.

This is why we kinda fell away from this forum, but I still peek in from time to time. To us at least, the Stag/vixen thing is defined by Dominant male / submissive female. With cuck / HW being the opposite. But dynamics like ours seem to be few and far between.

I see Stag/Vixen as more of equal play rather than DM/SF, but otherwise agree 100% and also lurk more than post because it's overrun with cuckolds. When I first got into this lifestyle in 2018, my then-wife and I enjoyed a S/V couple that would post, we called them the 80's hair couple as I can't remember the screenname, and had our same dynamic- very equal play, focused on the F, no humiliation or cuckold stuff he loved to watch her fuck. I think it's been long since pruned.

To the OP, we don't have any off-limits acts- She's always allowed to do anything sexually she wants too. We limit anal to only with her permission as most of her partners are too large to make it enjoyable. Non-sexual acts are just those that would compromise safety or the relationship, and we use a Burner number for communication. I typically vet her partners as she's typically too busy and though I encourage her to pick up strangers or take advantage of situations that may present themselves, she has yet to do so. It works for us.

[CaliLondon]

Playing alone on a date with her playmate or her having private online chats - both of our off limit acts. She sees her playmate as just that, a playmate, and leaves it to me to arrange when and where we meet up.

What we do, however, sometimes is for me to be upstairs in my study and to let them have fun for about 30 minutes, with me listening in while pretending to work.

My wife's own personal ones all have to deal with anal play - no way, no how.

[Iahotwifeshusband]

My wife has swallowed several loads from her friends but hasn’t swallowed for me in quite a long time. To be fair, she has offered a couple of times, but I know she would much rather feel me spurt inside her pussy and I enjoy that as well.

[wwatcher]

Not exactly off limits, but I don't much care for anal, but her BF loves it and she lets him into her ass regularly. I've never had her ass - not that I mind - but I find it fascinating that her BF gets to enjoy a part of her that I have never experienced!

[Johnann2227]

My wife can do anything she wants with her boyfriends except go bareback or develop feelings. This is because we reserve bareback for me and our swinger group. No feelings allowed because our hotwifing is purely about sex and excitement for our marriage.
As a stag nothing is off limits for me. As a couple we are not into BDSM or watersports.

[Tank Turner]

My wife won’t swallow me but will swallow her long-term FWB. She doesn’t like the taste of me but likes the taste of him.

Eat more pineapples, it helps alot.

My wife told me that some of her long ago boyfriends and fuck buddies tasted horrible. She believed that weed, cigarettes, hard drugs, and hard alcohol caused cum to have a bad taste.