Mrs. R., from the perspective of your hubby, in one sense I get this - he gets to spend every moment he's not with you thinking about what you could be doing... even if the reality is you tossing your panties in the wash and not on a lover's bedroom floor. But I also get the distinct impression that he gets as turned on as the rest of us at hearing all the sordid details of your experiences. So do you plan on telling him after the fact - well after the fact in the case of any affair? And/or do you plan on making him guess, perhaps dropping him some subtle hints?mrs_reese wrote:I do know that hubby promised me that I have his permission to be with Michael one on one without his knowledge or interference from now on. I also know that I am free to find another lover when the time is right on my own, without hubbys knowledge. I know deep down he wants me to carry on an affair, one where he has no idea or input on anything.
I still love the idea of a cheating wife, and I do plan moving in that direction one day.
Of course, you can also start making a habit of wearing your shortest skirts to do routine, boring errands.
All that said, I hope you've both been able to fully express your thoughts and feelings on the other night's events to each other, and that you both have an incredibly romantic and - in its own way - equally erotic time together tonight.
I'd probably avoid that particular restaurant for a while, though.
CG