Figuring it out

[Lookingforadventure]

"Sir" is back in my good books. I guess he never really left, I'd just toy with cutting things off because he's never available. At the same time, he would always reach out at least once a week to chat, and we'd always have good conversations....so never in the bad books, but he's more in the good books again after today.

There are two things to report:
1. first, we have a tentative plan for an in person play time in April! Our last one was late September/early October, so I'm quite excited to play again.

2. Second, we had a great virtual play time today. (He texted while I was at the mall with my kids. We made a plan to play after I got back. I told the kids I was "napping". Lol).

Our virtual play times are essentially me masturbating with an audience (and not even a real audience. We communicate via text. So it is mostly him telling me what to do, and I say "yes sir" with the occasional photo or video), so I don't know why I enjoy it so much, but I do.

Today began with me clamped. I used pink "bear trap" kind of nipple clamps that I can control the intensity of. They also leave a fun circle imprint after they are removed.

Then sir had me insert a magic wand and hold a second on my clit. There is something about that combination that is incredibly intense for me. The combination of being stretched wide, vibrations on my gspot and all the inner nerves, as well as vibration on my external nerve endings....I orgasmed very hard, very quickly.

I guess I could masturbate like that on my own, but I never do. It is more fun to do it on command.

Sir also added some anal play. He wanted me to finger my own butt, while everything else was going on. Lol. I needed one hand to text, and one to hold the wand on my clit....plus it takes some contortion to get good access to your own butt. Sometimes his ideas just don't work.

I opted to use a cone toy we have. It is sturdy and I could "ride" it, sort of, with my hands full. It took effort to slide in with the wand already filling my pussy, but eventually i could get the tip in.

Altogether, it was an intense hour of play with lots of stretching all my holes, lots of orgasms, and lots of sexy chat about what might happen on our April date.

Is this TMI? Maybe, but I really had fun.

[regular3]

Too much information is never enough. Love reading about your adventures.

[hoping_she_will_1day]

Exciting times lay ahead! I wonder if Sir might have designs on he and Adventurer fucking you together, DP style.

[GenerallySpeaking]

Sir also added some anal play. He wanted me to finger my own butt, while everything else was going on. Lol. I needed one hand to text, and one to hold the wand on my clit....plus it takes some contortion to get good access to your own butt. Sometimes his ideas just don't work.

I opted to use a cone toy we have. It is sturdy and I could "ride" it, sort of, with my hands full. It took effort to slide in with the wand already filling my pussy, but eventually i could get the tip in.

Altogether, it was an intense hour of play with lots of stretching all my holes, lots of orgasms, and lots of sexy chat about what might happen on our April date.

Is this TMI? Maybe, but I really had fun.

You should write a book!

Contortionist Positions for Submissives

Adventurer could take pictures while you model and Sir directs. It could be a whole cottage industry.

[armyguyot1]

welcome to the forum GenerallySpeaking.

[Lookingforadventure]

Too much information is never enough. Love reading about your adventures.

Thank you Regular3. Then I will keep sharing

[Lookingforadventure]

Exciting times lay ahead! I wonder if Sir might have designs on he and Adventurer fucking you together, DP style.

Exciting times do lay ahead, but I doubt they include a DP. Sir isn't really big on PIV sex (or penis in ass for that matter). It might be that he's not a fan of condoms (and he and I don't have a relationship where bareback is an option). I think, though, that he just isn't looking for intimacy and/or having sex in front of my husband makes him uncomfortable. Whatever the reason, his penis mostly stays in his pants when we play. I suspect he gathers memories that he "enjoys" later in the privacy of his own home.

It used to bother me. Part of the enjoyment of sex for me is giving pleasure to others. It felt bad to end without him cumming. I also am a bit vain and wanted the validation that he wanted me. I've been able to move past that though.

I've learned to pay attention to details. Sir usually wears sweatpants or shorts to our play time. Over the course of three hours together, I see frequent "tenting" so I know desire is there. He does also pull out his cock (usually just once or twice) so that he can slide it deep in my throat. The sounds he makes tell me that he gets close to cumming. That helps me know that it isn't for lack of skill that he doesn't cum.

Plus, Adventurer is always there when I play with sir. He has no qualms about being with me in front of others. So he always cums in or on me, plus he kisses, cuddles and gives me the aftercare I need after a play time. It is win, win, win.

All of which is to say, I do anticipate DP play with toys during our April play time... just not with penises.

[Lookingforadventure]

You should write a book!

Contortionist Positions for Submissives

Adventurer could take pictures while you model and Sir directs. It could be a whole cottage industry.

Was this your first post on this forum? I'm honoured that you posted it here. Welcome to OHWs.

As for your book idea, please don't give Sir and Adventurer any ideas . They already enjoy a good chuckle when they scheme ideas for me. They don't need more encouragement. Lol.

Yesterday, for example, while I was having a virtual play time with Sir and was struggling to fit the cone toy in my butt while all the other things were buzzing around, he came up with this idea: at our next play date, he could strap the cone to his thigh while sitting in a chair. My arms would be bound behind me and I would have to try to lower myself onto it. Sir suggested I wear nipple clamps and if I wasn't fast enough, they could tug the chain for encouragement!!!!

The idea was simultaneously nerve-wracking and arousing. Lol.

[afagehi7]

Exciting times lay ahead! I wonder if Sir might have designs on he and Adventurer fucking you together, DP style.

Exciting times do lay ahead, but I doubt they include a DP. Sir isn't really big on PIV sex (or penis in ass for that matter). It might be that he's not a fan of condoms (and he and I don't have a relationship where bareback is an option). I think, though, that he just isn't looking for intimacy and/or having sex in front of my husband makes him uncomfortable. Whatever the reason, his penis mostly stays in his pants when we play. I suspect he gathers memories that he "enjoys" later in the privacy of his own home.

It used to bother me. Part of the enjoyment of sex for me is giving pleasure to others. It felt bad to end without him cumming. I also am a bit vain and wanted the validation that he wanted me. I've been able to move past that though.

I've learned to pay attention to details. Sir usually wears sweatpants or shorts to our play time. Over the course of three hours together, I see frequent "tenting" so I know desire is there. He does also pull out his cock (usually just once or twice) so that he can slide it deep in my throat. The sounds he makes tell me that he gets close to cumming. That helps me know that it isn't for lack of skill that he doesn't cum.

Plus, Adventurer is always there when I play with sir. He has no qualms about being with me in front of others. So he always cums in or on me, plus he kisses, cuddles and gives me the aftercare I need after a play time. It is win, win, win.

All of which is to say, I do anticipate DP play with toys during our April play time... just not with penises.

No piv. This I don't understand but I don't know much about BnD...

[Adventurer]

You should write a book!

Contortionist Positions for Submissives

Adventurer could take pictures while you model and Sir directs. It could be a whole cottage industry.

Was this your first post on this forum? I'm honoured that you posted it here. Welcome to OHWs.

As for your book idea, please don't give Sir and Adventurer any ideas . They already enjoy a good chuckle when they scheme ideas for me. They don't need more encouragement. Lol.

Yesterday, for example, while I was having a virtual play time with Sir and was struggling to fit the cone toy in my butt while all the other things were buzzing around, he came up with this idea: at our next play date, he could strap the cone to his thigh while sitting in a chair. My arms would be bound behind me and I would have to try to lower myself onto it. Sir suggested I wear nipple clamps and if I wasn't fast enough, they could tug the chain for encouragement!!!!

The idea was simultaneously nerve-wracking and arousing. Lol.

Sir has such wonderful ideas!

I was other engaged for most of LFA's playtime, but did sneak in at the end. She looked so amazing in her disheveled, exhausted "I just came more times than I can count" state. I couldn't resist playing with her sexy pussy and tits - the clamps left the sexiest marks. It was incredible how quickly she came and squirted a couple of times while I fingered her. My wife amazes me every day!

That wasn't the only virtual fun we had that day either. In the morning, I went down on her earlier while she sexted with G. I enjoy playing with power dynamics in sex - usually more dominant but sometimes I enjoy submissive play as well. Yesterday, I was very much in a cuckold mood. Licking her pussy while she sexted with her boyfriend, knowing that it was his cock she was fantasizing about when she closed her eyes hit all the right cuckold buttons for me.

Another highlight was when at the end of her chat she texted G: "In all seriousness, I know l can't see you today, but yours is the cock | want. It may be a long few weeks until Florida." Being a very giving lover and knowing my mood, she ended the playtime with my still having a raging hard-on (though I expect she would have preferred it inside her - she will admit she is not a natural at cuckold play).

[hoping_she_will_1day]

Licking her pussy while she sexted with her boyfriend, knowing that it was his cock she was fantasizing about when she closed her eyes hit all the right cuckold buttons for me.

This is something that I've offered to Mrs Curious as well, and I hope that she'll take me up on the offer someday.

[Lookingforadventure]

No piv. This I don't understand but I don't know much about BnD...

I didn't understand it at first either, but it seems not uncommon in the BDSM universe. Maybe PIV sex is reserved for his romantic relationships. I don't know.

Sir gets enjoyment out of women willingly trusting him to do things to and with their bodies, and I get enjoyment out of the things he does. So it works.

[Lookingforadventure]

Sir has such wonderful ideas!

I was other engaged for most of LFA's playtime, but did sneak in at the end. She looked so amazing in her disheveled, exhausted "I just came more times than I can count" state. I couldn't resist playing with her sexy pussy and tits - the clamps left the sexiest marks. It was incredible how quickly she came and squirted a couple of times while I fingered her. My wife amazes me every day!

That wasn't the only virtual fun we had that day either. In the morning, I went down on her earlier while she sexted with G. I enjoy playing with power dynamics in sex - usually more dominant but sometimes I enjoy submissive play as well. Yesterday, I was very much in a cuckold mood. Licking her pussy while she sexted with her boyfriend, knowing that it was his cock she was fantasizing about when she closed her eyes hit all the right cuckold buttons for me.

Another highlight was when at the end of her chat she texted G: "In all seriousness, I know l can't see you today, but yours is the cock | want. It may be a long few weeks until Florida." Being a very giving lover and knowing my mood, she ended the playtime with my still having a raging hard-on (though I expect she would have preferred it inside her - she will admit she is not a natural at cuckold play).

You are amazing. I love how you encourage all of my sexual desires. I definitely lucked out to have you for a husband

As for me humoring your kinks, if you want me to acknowledge when I'm craving another man's cock, I'm happy to do so. If you want me to start saying that you don't satisfy me nearly as well, I'll have trouble keeping a straight face. And denying you access, just denies me too.

With that said, I do enjoy teasing you a bit....so temporary denial and edging can be arranged (especially when there are other men willing to satisfy me).

[Lookingforadventure]

This is something that I've offered to Mrs Curious as well, and I hope that she'll take me up on the offer someday.

I hope she does! It is an amazing experience.... although it takes some effort to concentrate

[Seekingmore12]

2 days, 21 hours and 15 minutes…..for those that are counting

[Lookingforadventure]

2 days, 21 hours and 15 minutes…..for those that are counting

I think someone is a wee bit excited

Ok. Someone is, and it is me!

[ugcp]

No piv. This I don't understand but I don't know much about BnD...

I didn't understand it at first either, but it seems not uncommon in the BDSM universe. Maybe PIV sex is reserved for his romantic relationships. I don't know.

Sir gets enjoyment out of women willingly trusting him to do things to and with their bodies, and I get enjoyment out of the things he does. So it works.

It is true that, in the BDSM community, some folks have certain sexual activities they don't like to mix with play (like piv, or oral, or kissing, etc). For some folks, it is a completely non-sexual activity, and they don't want to mix anything at all. Everyone has their preferences and limits, and I think that's cool. But personally, I do find it difficult to fully understand due to my own views of bdsm and sexuality (tied together for me via intimacy and sensuality). And I am always glad to see other folks into bdsm that also like to mix them... otherwise I start feeling insecure that I'm the odd man out .

[Long Lurker 34]

2 days, 21 hours and 15 minutes…..for those that are counting

I think someone is a wee bit excited

Ok. Someone is, and it is me!

LFA - We are pulling for you.......

[Lookingforadventure]

If you live in the Eastern part of the United States (or Southern Ontario) and you wake up tomorrow morning and think, "Hey, is the sun shining brighter today? What is is about the sky that seems so joyful?" Look up and know that a hot wife is on her way to visit her boyfriend for a few days

[Long Lurker 34]

If you live in the Eastern part of the United States (or Southern Ontario) and you wake up tomorrow morning and think, "Hey, is the sun shining brighter today? What is is about the sky that seems so joyful?" Look up and know that a hot wife is on her way to visit her boyfriend for a few days

LFA - Hope you and G have a great time.

[hoping_she_will_1day]

If you live in the Eastern part of the United States (or Southern Ontario) and you wake up tomorrow morning and think, "Hey, is the sun shining brighter today? What is is about the sky that seems so joyful?" Look up and know that a hot wife is on her way to visit her boyfriend for a few days

That bright shining object in the morning sky will be you...out shining the morning sun!
Hope you keep Adventurer entertained with plenty of lusty details of your Hotwife/Boyfriend fun while you're away.

[Lookingforadventure]

LFA - Hope you and G have a great time.

Thank you. That is the plan. Funny story: I was so excited about seeing him that I booked a flight at "ridiculously early" o'clock. I'll need to turn in early tonight, but the time together tomorrow will be worth it.

[Lookingforadventure]

That bright shining object in the morning sky will be you...out shining the morning sun!
Hope you keep Adventurer entertained with plenty of lusty details of your Hotwife/Boyfriend fun while you're away.

Thank you kind sir. I was thinking it might just be fun vibes radiating from the plane, but my smiling face will add to it.

As for adventurer, he said his only request is that I have a great time. But I do plan to share a few surprises with him along the way.

[Fox]

I’m in the eastern part of the US. Will definitely be thinking of you when I get up in the morning, wondering just how far away you are.

[airhorn]

This week I was a bit naughty at work

So I sent "Sir" a text as well. "Hello sir, my work just got in a new shipment of these binder clips. They even match my outfit." I included a photo of my hand holding two blue binder clips just above my bare legs in the mini skirt. His response was quick. "Hello Wench. Well that's very interesting. I guess the question is, where should you put them?"

Perhaps I should mention that Sir and I had experimented with binder clips on my nipples in the past, so I knew what I was doing when I sent that first photo and he knew that I knew. After a bit of flirty banter back and forth, I decided to surprise him. I pulled my sweater up and my bra down. I attached a clip to my left nipple (ouch!). I pulled the sweater back down and then sent Sir a video of me lifting my sweater up to reveal the surprise. I was still sitting at my desk, in the open, in front of a window. It felt risky and dangerous, and I could feel myself getting wetter all the time.

Sir very much enjoyed the video. He said that he'd have to stock up on binder clips for the next time we play...a very economical sex toy, and he could think of a few other places where he could place them. I laughed. I texted that I would let him get back to work. I hadn't meant to distract him, I just wanted to let him know that the clips had brought him to mind.

If you don't know, the smaller clips actually bite a fair bit harder than the larger clips.