Figuring it out

[Lookingforadventure]

I’m in the eastern part of the US. Will definitely be thinking of you when I get up in the morning, wondering just how far away you are.

I'll wave from the air

[Lookingforadventure]

If you don't know, the smaller clips actually bite a fair bit harder than the larger clips.

I've learned that! Do you know from personal experience?

[Seekingmore12]

At this very moment lfa is over Virginia…for those tracking her

[IowaGent]

I'm very excited for you and LFA! I hope you two have a wonderful time being together and being a couple. I'm looking forward to hearing more about your shenanigans! Hopefully there might be an image or two to share also.

[Fox]

At this very moment lfa is over Virginia…for those tracking her

Crazy how close that was to me. I was just arriving at an installation at that time

[airhorn]

If you don't know, the smaller clips actually bite a fair bit harder than the larger clips.

I've learned that! Do you know from personal experience?

I do so. It was a startling discovery.

[Lookingforadventure]

Yesterday, I returned from a few glorious days of vacation. My wonderful boyfriend had invited me to join him in Florida while he was vacationing with a friend. My amazing husband was very supportive of the idea and covered everything at home so that I could go. I had a few nerves about going (I'll explain that in a future post) but I'm so glad that I went. I had the most wonderful time.

It may take me a bit of time to bask in the memories and figure out what I want to share, but for now I want to comment on a few of the intimate parts. I know that this type of stuff might cross lines for how some couples approach the hot wife lifestyle. I recognize that some people are looking for a one night stand or a fuck buddy that is "just sex." Truthfully, I think that's what I thought the hot wife lifestyle was all about when Adventurer first talked to me about it. But I also recognize that each couple finds their own way forward that works for them. For me, having a special relationship with a special man who gives me "all the feels" has been perfect, and this trip had a lot of those sorts of moments to it.

For example, G met me inside the airport at arrivals. I recognized his shoes at the bottom of the escalator and was smiling before we even made eye contact. Then we kissed like long-lost lovers as other travelers walked around us.

I also loved falling asleep and waking up in bed with him, holding his hand as we walked on the beach, and cuddling on the couch in our downtime. One of my favorite things (and I recognize that this may seem silly) was that when we'd sit on the couch, I would sometimes rest my hand on his leg above his knee. My fingers would absentmindedly stroke his skin as we chatted with his friend or watched tv. Sometimes he'd shift to pick up his drink or I'd turn to do something, and I'd remove my hand. G always reached right back over to take my hand and move it back (I think he liked me touching him in a sweet and innocent way, and that made me smile every time).

And since I'm sharing intimate parts of the trip (as opposed to sexy parts, which will come later), I also really appreciated how respectful G was if I needed to check in with my kids or chat with Adventurer. He never asked questions or seemed put off by it. Family came first, and he'd give me time and space.

Adventurer had asked G to show me a good time and take good care of me, G did that in spades. He made me coffee every morning, he ensured that my needs were well taken care of, he even insisted on walking on the traffic side of me if we went to explore the neighborhood. (I laughed at him, but he said he was raised to be a gentleman. )

Our only disagreement was that he kept picking up the check before I could get it. I'm going to have to work on developing quicker reflexes.

[jane]

that's very beautiful

[Lookingforadventure]

that's very beautiful

Thank you. I found the whole experience quite beautiful. I'm glad that came through.

[Farmgirl]

My friend, I love this for you !!
For me, having that connection, a love, is what makes it special and oh so wonderful. Like you, I know it scares the britches off of many husbands here, but you have an amazing husband.
Beautiful!

[Lookingforadventure]

My friend, I love this for you !!
For me, having that connection, a love, is what makes it special and oh so wonderful. Like you, I know it scares the britches off of many husbands here, but you have an amazing husband.
Beautiful!

Thank you friend. I do really have an amazing husband!

[Long Lurker 34]

LFA - Glad you had a terrific time, very pleased for you and for G.
Had you met G's friend before? How was he with you and G being together. I'm assuming he knows you are married.

[Lookingforadventure]

LFA - Glad you had a terrific time, very pleased for you and for G.
Had you met G's friend before? How was he with you and G being together. I'm assuming he knows you are married.

That's a very insightful question, and gets at one of my biggest fears about the trip. Thank you for asking it.

One of my biggest flaws (at least according to my own self assessment) is that I can overthink things. I did that about this friend. Most years, G goes to Florida to visit a friend. They play golf and do guy things together for a few weeks. The friend knows about me (I had given G permission to share with this friend that I existed, that I'm married, and that G and I have an ongoing hot wife relationship). Last year, the friend told G that he would be ok with me coming to join them for a few days. This year, G passed along the invitation.

I was excited about the trip and about spending time with G, but the friend caused me to worry. I had never met him, but I did know that he wasn’t super familiar with a non-traditional sexual lifestyle. While I trusted G to be a good judge of character when it came to friends, I also recognize that someone who is a good golf buddy and guy friend might not be someone who understands what a hot wife is.

Since there is so much stigma around being a sexually active woman, I was worried. What if the friend expected to have sex with me? (That wasn’t going to happen). What if he called me a slut, or looked at me like he thought I was one? (I’m trying to reclaim that word for myself, but I certainly don’t want a stranger calling me that when I first meet him). What if he leered at me, or treated me like I was some sort of glorified escort? (I would not be able to handle spending several days there).

The “what if’s” abounded, but I decided to take a chance. It ended up working out really well.

The friend came along to pick me up at the airport (He waited outside and pulled the car around once G and I were on the curb). I sat in the front seat with him and we got to know one another on the drive to the house. He was very nice and respectful.

At the house, the men gave me a tour and then the friend made up some excuse to go do errands . (G and I made good use of that time, but I’ll share about that some other time).

In fact, the friend was pretty awesome. We had most meals together, and would hang out in the evenings, or drink daiquiris by the pool together in the afternoon. At the same time, the friend often found reasons to go out for a bit. I’m sure he knew what was going on as soon as he left, but he never made me feel weird about it.

He made one joke about shrinkage when G was getting in the pool with me , and he also commented, “Are you two canoodling again!” when he came in and we were cuddling on the couch, but both of those comments made me laugh, not feel weird. All in all, I give him an A+ rating as a host to a hot wife and her boyfriend

I will say that the friend being there added an extra level to our time together. On the one hand, we decided not to pursue several of our planned activities (skinny dipping in the pool, sex on the green of the local golf course at night, etc) because we didn’t want to risk offending the neighbors and leaving the friend to pay the consequences. On the other hand, fooling around every time we were alone had a “horny teenagers sneaking around behind their parents” vibe to it that I really enjoyed.

[afagehi7]

I'm guessing that the friend understands. It's really a good situation for G. He gets all the benefits of a gf but on a part time basis without the stress of worrying about marriage or finances. For a single guy not looking for marriage, it's really an awesome situation.

[Adventurer]

My friend, I love this for you !!
For me, having that connection, a love, is what makes it special and oh so wonderful. Like you, I know it scares the britches off of many husbands here, but you have an amazing husband.
Beautiful!

Thank you. I really appreciate the compliment and it coming from you as I admire the relationship you and your husband have.

And my britches are very much not scared off, lol. LFA and I have an amazing relationship and I know her experiencing "all the feelings" for G in no way diminishes her love for me.

Plus her post vacation with her boyfriend glow is intoxicating and led to fantastic sex. Thinking about it now is turning me on again - LFA is going to get fucked hard today.

[Lookingforadventure]

Plus her post vacation with her boyfriend glow is intoxicating and led to fantastic sex. Thinking about it now is turning me on again - LFA is going to get fucked hard today.

Woooooooohooooooo! I'll wear my special Florida hoodie

[Lookingforadventure]

I'm guessing that the friend understands. It's really a good situation for G. He gets all the benefits of a gf but on a part time basis without the stress of worrying about marriage or finances. For a single guy not looking for marriage, it's really an awesome situation.

I think you are partly right.

In most of life, I'm a very trusting person. I assume the best of people until they prove me wrong. For some reason, in this lifestyle I'm much more skeptical. It might just be my own issues about shame and guilt coming through. In any case, I think the friend (let's just call him Brian) is just a good guy and I shouldn't have worried. He seems pretty laid back and not judgemental of others.

But I also agree with you. I think Brian values his friendship with G and that led to him wanting to treat me well.

[afagehi7]

I'm guessing that the friend understands. It's really a good situation for G. He gets all the benefits of a gf but on a part time basis without the stress of worrying about marriage or finances. For a single guy not looking for marriage, it's really an awesome situation.

I think you are partly right.

In most of life, I'm a very trusting person. I assume the best of people until they prove me wrong. For some reason, in this lifestyle I'm much more skeptical. It might just be my own issues about shame and guilt coming through. In any case, I think the friend (let's just call him Brian) is just a good guy and I shouldn't have worried. He seems pretty laid back and not judgemental of others.

But I also agree with you. I think Brian values his friendship with G and that led to him wanting to treat me well.

G wouldn't have brought you around Brian if he didn't think he'd treat you right. You had nothing to worry about but I understand that saying that and feeling that are two different things.

A decent friend would never disrespect a girlfriend. Bro code.

Hopefully you can share some pics of your vacay

[Long Lurker 34]

Plus her post vacation with her boyfriend glow is intoxicating and led to fantastic sex. Thinking about it now is turning me on again - LFA is going to get fucked hard today.

Woooooooohooooooo! I'll wear my special Florida hoodie

LFA - Thanks for the reply, above. So glad you had a great time and the friend was not an issue.
Insightful questions. Yes I'm rather known for those and I've gotten alot of strange and dirty looks for those and in no small amount of trouble a few times.
Oh yes today's LFA soundtrack is, an oldy and a goody (despite the weather outside) by Katrina & The Waves - Walkin' On Sunshine.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPUmE-tne5U

[Lookingforadventure]

G wouldn't have brought you around Brian if he didn't think he'd treat you right.

Excellent point... and is ultimately why I decided to go for it. I'm glad I did.

More stories (not sure about pics) will be forthcoming soon.

[Lookingforadventure]

Oh yes today's LFA soundtrack is, an oldy and a goody (despite the weather outside) by Katrina & The Waves - Walkin' On Sunshine.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPUmE-tne5U

This is one of my favorite road trip songs. It is very sing-along-able. Thanks for getting it stuck in my head today .

Walking on sunshine is exactly how I feel (even after hours of Ontario drizzle).

[Lookingforadventure]

I mentioned that being in Florida ended up having a surprise “sneaking around behind our parents’ back” feeling because of the friend (hereafter named “Brian”) being there. I thought I’d share an example:

One day, G and I went out for breakfast, then explored the town together. We walked over to the beach, kissed on a park bench, held hands as we walked along the boardwalk pier, and sat and watched some surfers for a while. We returned to the house a few hours later, eager to move beyond the kissing and groping we had been able to do in public. But, when we got home Brian was getting back from his morning activities.

We chatted a bit and I said that I was going to go for a dip in the pool. Brian decided to take a nap, and G went to make some sandwiches for lunch. After toweling off and eating, I told G that I was going to go get changed out of my wet suit. By this time, Brian had woken up from his nap. He had received a call from a potential vendor and needed to go meet him to discuss business.

G followed me into the bedroom and asked if maybe I needed help taking the suit off. I laughed. We heard Brian leave and that was when G pushed a now naked me back on the bed and made a move to get between my legs. I warned him that I was likely to taste like a combination of salt water and sunscreen, but he didn’t care. His tongue found my pussy and I was in heaven.

With Brian out of the house, I didn’t even have to try to be quiet like I had been doing for most of the visit. I allowed myself to moan my pleasure, and then express a very satisfied “Oh, fuck!” as G repositioned himself and slid his cock into me. We let the headboard bang against the wall. I even expressed a few “Oh yes! Right there! Don’t stop” kind of sentiments.

I think I came four or five times in the next 30 minutes - from him eating my pussy, fucking me, playing with my clit as he fucked me, I think I even came as he kissed the side of my neck as I ground against him while we lay on the bed making out.

I got on my knees to suck G’s cock and he was rock hard for me. He pulled me to the side of the bed, and then stood up so that he could fuck me while he was standing between my legs.

“I am going to pump you so full of cum,” he told me…just as we heard the outside door open!

Brian was home.

Poor G.

I offered to finish him off quietly with my mouth or my hand, but he felt like it was too conspicuous for both of us to be in the bedroom. He said that he’d get dressed and go be sociable. He pulled on some clothes, kissed me goodbye, and went out to the living room to say hello. I took a few minutes to look presentable, then followed him out.

“I promise to make it up to you later,” I whispered in G’s ear. He smiled and said that he had no doubt.

The rest of the afternoon was a mix of the three of us hanging out (drinking daiquiris, having dinner, and watching tv) and G and I behaving like horny teenagers in secret. Whenever Brian left the room, G’s hands would stroke my thigh and slide up my short skirt; or I’d kiss him deeply and he’d whisper “I so want you right now.” At one point, I was stroking G’s cock through his shorts while Brian was in the kitchen. I said that if I had more time, I would suck him right there. That made his erection stand up even higher.

Alas, opportunity did not allow more than a few stolen kisses and groping until late in the evening. Around 10, Brian said that he was going to go to bed. We wished him goodnight as we stayed on the couch. He went to brush his teeth and get ready for bed and walked by one last time before going into his bedroom.

The second the door closed, G pulled me towards him. He kissed me deeply and his hands began to play with my breasts. At one point he even slid a hand down my v-neck t-shirt to roll my nipple between his fingers. I was practically purring as I moved my hand over to his crotch. He was already hard for me and I began to undo his shorts.

I got on my knees in front of the couch…knowing full well that Brian could walk back out at any moment….and took G deep in my mouth. He moaned (quietly). After he couldn’t take it anymore, he whispered to ask if I wanted him to fuck me right there on the couch or if we should move to the bedroom. I told him it was his call since Brian was his friend.

He smiled mischievously at me and told me to come sit on his lap.

I pushed my mini skirt up around my waist and pulled my panties to the side as I slid down on his amazing cock. I tried not to be too loud as I rode him, my hands on the back of the couch. His hands began to play with my breasts again and I knew that I was going to orgasm quickly. He grabbed my hips and began to thrust up into me hard. I apologized for being selfish as I allowed myself to spasm around him.

Then we decided to move to the bedroom. He got naked and lay back on the bed. I stripped for him and then took him in my mouth. I hope it isn’t bragging to say that I think the blow job was worth the wait.... he made the most satisfied sounds and then came really hard in my mouth!

We lay back together and cuddled for a while to recuperate. That is when we realized that we still had to turn off the lights and make sure the doors were locked. LOL. I guess we were a little preoccupied. (Don’t worry, G pulled on some shorts and took care of it).

[Long Lurker 34]

Oh yes today's LFA soundtrack is, an oldy and a goody (despite the weather outside) by Katrina & The Waves - Walkin' On Sunshine.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPUmE-tne5U

This is one of my favorite road trip songs. It is very sing-along-able. Thanks for getting it stuck in my head today .

Walking on sunshine is exactly how I feel (even after hours of Ontario drizzle). Called it.

[Long Lurker 34]

I mentioned that being in Florida ended up having a surprise “sneaking around behind our parents’ back” feeling because of the friend (hereafter named “Brian”) being there. I thought I’d share an example:

One day, G and I went out for breakfast, then explored the town together. We walked over to the beach, kissed on a park bench, held hands as we walked along the boardwalk pier, and sat and watched some surfers for a while. We returned to the house a few hours later, eager to move beyond the kissing and groping we had been able to do in public. But, when we got home Brian was getting back from his morning activities.

We chatted a bit and I said that I was going to go for a dip in the pool. Brian decided to take a nap, and G went to make some sandwiches for lunch. After toweling off and eating, I told G that I was going to go get changed out of my wet suit. By this time, Brian had woken up from his nap. He had received a call from a potential vendor and needed to go meet him to discuss business.

G followed me into the bedroom and asked if maybe I needed help taking the suit off. I laughed. We heard Brian leave and that was when G pushed a now naked me back on the bed and made a move to get between my legs. I warned him that I was likely to taste like a combination of salt water and sunscreen, but he didn’t care. His tongue found my pussy and I was in heaven.

With Brian out of the house, I didn’t even have to try to be quiet like I had been doing for most of the visit. I allowed myself to moan my pleasure, and then express a very satisfied “Oh, fuck!” as G repositioned himself and slid his cock into me. We let the headboard bang against the wall. I even expressed a few “Oh yes! Right there! Don’t stop” kind of sentiments.

I think I came four or five times in the next 30 minutes - from him eating my pussy, fucking me, playing with my clit as he fucked me, I think I even came as he kissed the side of my neck as I ground against him while we lay on the bed making out.

I got on my knees to suck G’s cock and he was rock hard for me. He pulled me to the side of the bed, and then stood up so that he could fuck me while he was standing between my legs.

“I am going to pump you so full of cum,” he told me…just as we heard the outside door open!

Brian was home.

Poor G.

I offered to finish him off quietly with my mouth or my hand, but he felt like it was too conspicuous for both of us to be in the bedroom. He said that he’d get dressed and go be sociable. He pulled on some clothes, kissed me goodbye, and went out to the living room to say hello. I took a few minutes to look presentable, then followed him out.

“I promise to make it up to you later,” I whispered in G’s ear. He smiled and said that he had no doubt.

The rest of the afternoon was a mix of the three of us hanging out (drinking daiquiris, having dinner, and watching tv) and G and I behaving like horny teenagers in secret. Whenever Brian left the room, G’s hands would stroke my thigh and slide up my short skirt; or I’d kiss him deeply and he’d whisper “I so want you right now.” At one point, I was stroking G’s cock through his shorts while Brian was in the kitchen. I said that if I had more time, I would suck him right there. That made his erection stand up even higher.

Alas, opportunity did not allow more than a few stolen kisses and groping until late in the evening. Around 10, Brian said that he was going to go to bed. We wished him goodnight as we stayed on the couch. He went to brush his teeth and get ready for bed and walked by one last time before going into his bedroom.

The second the door closed, G pulled me towards him. He kissed me deeply and his hands began to play with my breasts. At one point he even slid a hand down my v-neck t-shirt to roll my nipple between his fingers. I was practically purring as I moved my hand over to his crotch. He was already hard for me and I began to undo his shorts.

I got on my knees in front of the couch…knowing full well that Brian could walk back out at any moment….and took G deep in my mouth. He moaned (quietly). After he couldn’t take it anymore, he whispered to ask if I wanted him to fuck me right there on the couch or if we should move to the bedroom. I told him it was his call since Brian was his friend.

He smiled mischievously at me and told me to come sit on his lap.

I pushed my mini skirt up around my waist and pulled my panties to the side as I slid down on his amazing cock. I tried not to be too loud as I rode him, my hands on the back of the couch. His hands began to play with my breasts again and I knew that I was going to orgasm quickly. He grabbed my hips and began to thrust up into me hard. I apologized for being selfish as I allowed myself to spasm around him.

Then we decided to move to the bedroom. He got naked and lay back on the bed. I stripped for him and then took him in my mouth. I hope it isn’t bragging to say that I think the blow job was worth the wait.... he made the most satisfied sounds and then came really hard in my mouth!

We lay back together and cuddled for a while to recuperate. That is when we realized that we still had to turn off the lights and make sure the doors were locked. LOL. I guess we were a little preoccupied. (Don’t worry, G pulled on some shorts and took care of it).

LFA - On one hand, Brian, knowing about you and G etc, I am certain he would have thoroughly expected you two have disappeared into your bedroom and been 'busy' for various periods, and it wouldn't have bothered him. On the other hand, as you put it, it had the feel of being a teenager and sneaking around, which while being somewhat constricting also kept it fresh, fun and light.
It must have been a nice change, that bed, from car seats.

[Lookingforadventure]

Lol. Long Lurker, you need to remember that car sex is just the added bonus to my times with G. Our regular rhythm was hotel sex once a month....we just started getting a bit eager for more than that

Also, I'm glad you enjoyed my write up about sneaking around in Florida. I wasn't sure anyone read it, but it sure was fun for me to remember.

This morning I texted with G. He's still in Florida. I asked him what his favourite sex memory from my visit was. He said, "the time you woke me up with a blow job".

(He may have been biased in his answer, since he was just waking up in bed when I texted and I think he wished I was there for another wake up).

It has me thinking about my own favourite. The sex on the couch that I've already described is one of them, but I think my ultimate favourite was the first sex we had there. It was very sensual and intimate. I'll try to write about that later today if I can adequately capture it.