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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by Aynsley » Mon Aug 02, 2010 9:01 am

mrs_reese wrote:lol doitfor her.

Michael can not make it tonight.
I think I am going to the gym to work out. ;)
...hmmmm....maybe you can find someone to flirt with at the gym :whip:

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Unread post by kcpa » Mon Aug 02, 2010 9:51 am

mrs_reese wrote: Michael can not make it tonight.

This reminds me of a question I thought about over the weekend. From reading the thread it seems you and Michael get together on average once or twice a week? What does he do with his time when not spending with you?

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Mon Aug 02, 2010 12:07 pm

mrb,
not close, i drive a 08 vette, it is actually both of ours to drive, but i drive it more than hubby. electron blue. one of a kind.
i also have an escape that i drive in the winter.
hubby drives an expedition,

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Mon Aug 02, 2010 12:13 pm

Michael better BE faithful to me or wear a condom, he promised that to me.
He is exclusive to me, hence the reason why we need to make love more each week.
If I wait more than 3 days to be with him, he is going crazy, just like hubby.
Michael has a key to come to our house now, anytime he wants to come over, all he has to do is text or call me first to make sure everyone is asleep.

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Mon Aug 02, 2010 12:21 pm

well MRB, if anyone can look good in a blue 08 vette, I can! ;)

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Mon Aug 02, 2010 12:22 pm

oh, and hubby does drive a harley softail, black with a lot of chrome.

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Mon Aug 02, 2010 12:51 pm

corvette of course.

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Tue Aug 03, 2010 5:25 am

Goin to the club today to work on my :cool:

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Unread post by BallSpanking » Tue Aug 03, 2010 5:33 am

Your :cool: ?

What's that? ;)
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Unread post by aemn711 » Tue Aug 03, 2010 2:37 pm

mrs_reese wrote:corvette of course.
Oh Mrs R - Your burst my fantasy - Nothing looks better than a hot blonde in a black Ferrari F355 converible unless its a 360 or a 430.

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Tue Aug 03, 2010 2:38 pm

Went to the club today, had a great workout and more! ;)
Michael wants to comeover tomorrow night. I told him that I need for him to cum for me! That's impt if he is to stay faithful to me. Hubby will be home too. This could be fun! But one thing is for sure, hubby knows that it's my time with Michael so he needs to stay busy with football or something else. :roll:
xoxo

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Tue Aug 03, 2010 2:39 pm

hi aemn,
well if everyone wants to make a donation, i will drive a ferrari, xoxo :cool:

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Unread post by aemn711 » Tue Aug 03, 2010 2:43 pm

Mrs R - I sent you a PM with an offer you can't refuse LOL

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Unread post by BallSpanking » Tue Aug 03, 2010 4:29 pm

Somehow, my dear Ms Reese, I can't quite picture you as a charity case... lol
Although I can see why there would be plenty of interest in being a .... 'benefactor'... (yeah, right!)

I fully support, however, anything that makes you look hotter (if that's possible)...
So if you want a Ferrari, maybe there's a sugar-daddy out there that will be happy to spoil you... :cool:
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Unread post by mrs_reese » Wed Aug 04, 2010 7:07 am

Thanks BS, I would never be a charity case.

Michael will be visiting today. We planned on going out to dinner, casual setting then back to my bed, hubby is on his own today.He understands our arrangement. If I am to be his hotwife, Michael comes first at least 2 times a week.
What can I say, Michael is in love with me and understands my marriage. I am a very lucky girl.
Hubby is a very lucky hotwife husband. ;) Plus, I am craving my Michael. NO one fills me like he does.
xoxoxo.

Ps.....to my husband. I love you so much! ;)

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Unread post by doitforher » Wed Aug 04, 2010 7:17 am

Mr. Reese probably isn't able to focus on work much today with the upcoming drafts and all. Oh yeah the image of his beautiful wife being swept off her feet and completely taken by stud Michael might be distracting him a little also.
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Unread post by BallSpanking » Wed Aug 04, 2010 9:19 pm

The word 'feind' can apply to someone who's has a habit or is hooked...
More commonly people in the 420 community say you are 'fein-ing' when you are jones-ing for weed...
Me... I'm fein-ing for an update from Ms Reese! ;)
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Unread post by mrs_reese » Fri Aug 06, 2010 5:52 am

Hey everyone,

Michael came over on Wednesday night, and hubby was in a weird sexual mood. He was on edge badly. He told me all day how he needed sex with me but I was edging him, telling him NO pussy for him, it's Michael's tonight.
Well, this was a hotwife moment that I dont usually write about but I will.
Hubby came home on Wednesday from work, he was pushy, constantly pulling me into him, telling me how much he wanted to fuck me. We played, I kept teasing him by being very playful but denying him. After dinner, we were cleaning the kitchen, all the while I would lean up against the counter telling hubby how badly i wanted Michael in me. I would raise my foot up and tell hubby to kiss it, or breath in my scent which drives him crazy. I would put my finger in my wet pussy and tell him to lick it. Little did I know, but this was driving him crazy. I really wanted to save myself for Michael. I told hubby to back off after a while, explaining to him how I was really hoping to stay fresh for Michael.
Hubby seemed frustrated but I sensed him mood like it usually is, kept on edge until Michael is finished with me; then I am left for hubby to clean up and reclaim me.
Jumping ahead, Michael came over, and we immediately went into the hottub with wine and music.
Soon, Michael and i were having sex in the hottub, me on top of him. Hubby came out on the patio and he wasnt in his usual "I wanna watch me mode". I felt uncomfortable and so did Michael.
I asked hubby if he was alright and he mumbled something and that was it.
I told MIchael to continue fucking me as I really wanted to feel him in me. I asked hubby if he wanted to join us and he said NO! After a few minutes, Michael and I left to go into the bedroom after drying off. We were naked as we went into the bedroom. I was feeling very naughty from my wine buzz. I left hubby outside as he continued to stay silent.

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Unread post by BallSpanking » Fri Aug 06, 2010 5:54 am

Ooops?? :???:
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Unread post by mrs_reese » Fri Aug 06, 2010 6:31 am

In the bedroom, hubby walked in and told Michael that he needed to move aside. I was confused as hubby lay me down against our bed and started to insert his penis from behind in me. Hubby held my head down against the bed with his hand. Hubby is in great condition and he knows how much I love the force of him being manly,and that he was.
He basically took control, telling me that I am his slut(again, knowing how much i love when a man tells me that).
I had no sense of where Michael was as I loved the moment of intensity. The role reversal turned me on so much.
Hubby must have known that it was time to take his wife back. After he orgamsed, he inserted his finger in me and licked my clit, as he fingered me, i could feel his cum leaking out. I orgasmed very hard, so intensely out of control that I had to push hubby away, I lay on the bed and collapsed.
It was an awkward moment as I told Michael that I was sorry, but I was so out of the mood for sex after that wild moment with hubby. I asked hubby if Michael and I could have a few minutes so he left.
I basically told Michael that I am a wife to my husband and that I am sorry if he felt left out or if he was confused. That there will be moments like this and to be patient with me. I told michael that I loved him and there will be other days.
Michael was great, he understood and was worried that hubby was pissed off at him. I told him not to worry about hubby, I know him well and that he was just being a man and was in a weird mood. Later that night and last night as well, hubby and I talked and we reconnected. Hubby was embarrassed over his behavior and I told him that this lifestyle is intense and unpredictable at times. We both agreed and realized that we survived a moment that could've caused hurt feelings. I think we handled that moment well.

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Fri Aug 06, 2010 6:37 am

I just want everyone to know that a lot of us always write about the fun things that happen with this lifestyle but there will be moments like I experienced. Hubby and I are in a great place, but it takes a lot of work. You have to be really sensitive to your man and his feelings if you are a woman who plays with other men. At times, I forget to think about hubby. I tease him so much, put him on edge more often than i ever have before.
What happens to us is that I have a man who has a high sex drive, a man who is dominant. Taking that man and making him become a cuckold is not an easy thing to do. Sometimes that man crashes and loses his control.

I love my husband. And I am his slave.
xoxo

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Unread post by BallSpanking » Fri Aug 06, 2010 6:58 am

You are ;) such a babe!
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Unread post by doitforher » Fri Aug 06, 2010 8:19 am

You two really seem to be in tune with each other. I think that's why you can play at such intense levels. Very hot from my vantage point. As a big bonus it seems that Michael is very aware of his role in this relationship and willing to up the intensity when needed and know when to back off. At least from what I've read on here. Thanks again for letting us into a little of your world. DFH.
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Unread post by Mrs_sflcpl1 » Fri Aug 06, 2010 12:28 pm

Well......from my point i only wish he got over it...
There are some signs which i never ever ignore...

If my hubby reacts like that,i know certanely something is not right..even if he would tell me next day!
I know my hubby to well and i am sure you do as well...
Just the " michael and i where feeling uncomfortable" says it all...

Did you have another date with Michael after?

I am just curious ...
From one HW to the other....

xoxo
Nadine

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Fri Aug 06, 2010 1:01 pm

Hey everyone.
Mr.Bear, weird mood meaning he was having a rough day at work and didnt tell me about it until after we talked. Hubby knows that he can us the "out" word anytime. I will always back off.
We have progressed as a hotwife couple and there are times that I simply take for granted that everything is ok.
This is a learning as we go along thing sometimes. But one thing if for certain, I knew after a while that hubby needed me and wanted me without Michael and that is what happened.

Mrs sflcpl1, thanks for contributing your thoughts.
No, I havent seen Michael since. Hubby has assured me that he is still good with everything. It was a combination of a shitty day at work, stress, and sexual denial. Hubby wants me to plan dates without asking for his permission, it is his request and I try to honor that. With that in mind, I am not always in tune with hubbys day or mood if I am planning a date. It isnt easy trying to determine if hubby is ok with me doing this on a certain day unless he tells me his feelings.
But since he doesnt want to know, I do my thing and hope for the best.
It was so much easier for me when hubby and I planned a date around a lover together. Since those early days, we have moved forward as we do now.

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