You know you're a cuck when...

[LongTermHubby]

When you're wife leaves her panties on top of the washer, after coming home very late, to show how wet and full of cum she is from her new BBC bull....but gives no other details other than that

Oh, man I’d be sniffing those rich, fragrant panties as I stroked out a big load.

I generally make a point of "inspecting" my wife's clothes hamper after she returns home from being with a lover.

[Long Lurker 34]

I have a large collection of sexy pictures of my girlfriend in lingerie, nude, in sexy underwear, and most of her sexy going out mini dresses...

That being said, I know that I'm a cuckold because I would love to discover myself no longer getting to take sexy pictures of my own girlfriend but instead realizing that all of the sexy photos i have of my girlfriend are now taken by other men and/or selfies taken by my girlfriend at different men's houses.

Last year when my gf started dating, she would excuse herself and would always go take pictures of herself in her dates bathroom if at his home or if on a date, from the bathroom where she was with her date. Ideally would love for my picture collection of her to be of her posing semi nude with lingerie on random beds of men she fucks.

That is extremely exciting to read and imagine….it just shows that you are a real cuck…

In the past my ex would send pics of herself in her lovers' kitchens wearing her thong and a tanktop the following morning after spending the night, several topless with only her thong while on her knees on lovers beds standing up right, the naughtiest were of her completely naked in her boyfriend's SUV.

I really want my current gf to follow the tradition to have lovers, get a full time boyfriend, go on vacations with them, and send me pictures of her adventures while being away with other men. She has agreed to date so far and i hope she picks up the pace soon. While i refuse to push her, i am dying to hear her tell me that she met someone, is talking to someone, or has a date this weekend.

I can't wait to get to the point where her dating is excessive and I mention it only to have her tell me that it's what i wanted and now I have to deal with it. There's something so erotic about your woman telling you that she will not stop fuckin other men and makes you get used to it. Happened before, didn't like it much while living it but looking back I realize that it's something that i simply want to be made to accept by my gf or wife. I want to be taught to like it since i wanted it before but didn't kike it then, a second time should teach me to accept and like it.

UC - Any chance of a small update of how things are going with the current GF? As you related above things are going slowly, is there any more beyond that?

[ucaneffher]

Absolutely stagnant. The closest is us pointing out men checking her out, both of us catching it and call it out but that's the most action.

She has a bunch of new ridiculously provocative and revealing outfits that she just got and is waiting for us to go out so she can wear them. These are guaranteed attention getters from every single man, woman, and transgender wherever we may walk into.

These outfits are all borderline too extreme for my comfort in public but I no longer interfere with her choice of attire or the amount of skin she chooses to reveal so now I just accept what she wears, compliment, and give her all the support in the world even if we she's half naked with only a pair of pasties over her nipples lol. In the beginning I'd ask her to change or make comments and she would get hot and bothered and would tell me that I needed to learn to accept her going out semi nude.

It took several very, very, very extreme outfits to public places for her to break me down to where I am today. I think that realizing that the entire night we had eyes on her from the time we walked in until we left and men befriending us left and right just to get close to her just lust did it for me and helped me ease into it, especially when I am trying to make my way back to cuckold territory.

My woman leaving nothing to the imagination is a sure way to have men approach us and believe me, this summer when she starts wearing those outfits out and we are at a bar or club, i will be certain to have take extra long bathroom breaks or perhaps lose my wallet in the car and run out to look for it while giving her a good 15-20 minutes alone, i know that i will return to a man talking to her and as a result I will follow my instructions of falling back and letting them talk until she gives me a signal. This will be unplanned and not discussed with her but merely a gentle nudge and opportunity while I'm away for a short time. It will remind her how hot she is and that she was the liberty to engage as far as she chooses.

Maybe for my birthday this summer I will get to watch a man take my woman away from me right before my eyes and leave me celebrating alone at the bar while he has my gf dancing and spending the rest of my birthday outing with him, just leaving me there by myself watching as he gets to know my gf and her skimpy little outfit that barely covers her gorgeous body. wish me luck!

[aracuckold]

When your wife's boyfriend's cock is stiff and erect and your wife stares at you with a sly smile and tells you she loves you

[Long Lurker 34]

Absolutely stagnant. The closest is us pointing out men checking her out, both of us catching it and call it out but that's the most action.

She has a bunch of new ridiculously provocative and revealing outfits that she just got and is waiting for us to go out so she can wear them. These are guaranteed attention getters from every single man, woman, and transgender wherever we may walk into.

These outfits are all borderline too extreme for my comfort in public but I no longer interfere with her choice of attire or the amount of skin she chooses to reveal so now I just accept what she wears, compliment, and give her all the support in the world even if we she's half naked with only a pair of pasties over her nipples lol. In the beginning I'd ask her to change or make comments and she would get hot and bothered and would tell me that I needed to learn to accept her going out semi nude.

It took several very, very, very extreme outfits to public places for her to break me down to where I am today. I think that realizing that the entire night we had eyes on her from the time we walked in until we left and men befriending us left and right just to get close to her just lust did it for me and helped me ease into it, especially when I am trying to make my way back to cuckold territory.

My woman leaving nothing to the imagination is a sure way to have men approach us and believe me, this summer when she starts wearing those outfits out and we are at a bar or club, i will be certain to have take extra long bathroom breaks or perhaps lose my wallet in the car and run out to look for it while giving her a good 15-20 minutes alone, i know that i will return to a man talking to her and as a result I will follow my instructions of falling back and letting them talk until she gives me a signal. This will be unplanned and not discussed with her but merely a gentle nudge and opportunity while I'm away for a short time. It will remind her how hot she is and that she was the liberty to engage as far as she chooses.

Maybe for my birthday this summer I will get to watch a man take my woman away from me right before my eyes and leave me celebrating alone at the bar while he has my gf dancing and spending the rest of my birthday outing with him, just leaving me there by myself watching as he gets to know my gf and her skimpy little outfit that barely covers her gorgeous body. wish me luck!

UC - Thanks for the update, and WA WHOO bring on the summer.
Actually, while you may be thinking things have been moving slowly I beg to disagree. For a start your GF bought all these outfits (lures). So she clearly is thinking ahead. Then, so I took it, she wore some out to desensitize you to how aggressively she was going to be dressing in the future (casting). In a few short days/weeks she will be out with you some place and will be leaving on the arm of another guy (reeling in the catch). Then, possibly when you least expect it, it won't be a catch and release any more.

No UC, while you have been thinking things have been drifting along, your GF has been crafting a plan based on what you have set in motion. Remember to hold onto your hat.

[ucaneffher]

Lurker i really hope that you are right! The mini sample i got last year of her spending the entire night talking to a man at the club while ordering drinks on her own was intoxicating and i want that and more, i want to see that escalate.

I stayed at the table while she walked a good 20ft to the bar and while in the crowd waiting for the bartender, she was approached and hit on. She responded and they clicked. No more than 10 - 15 minutes of talking into each other's ears due to loud music, they end up super close and hugging and eventually him grabbing my girls ass as she willingly positions herself to make it easier for him to hold her and feel her up.

I want that scenario to become a normal scenario when we go out together and even when she's out with friends. I am getting antsy and hope that each time it gradually becomes more intense.

[ucaneffher]

You know you're a cuckold when you have absolutely zero rights or zero say when your girlfriend is getting hit on. All you can do is follow as she instructed you to do when she told you that she was going to start talking to other men.

She introduces you as a friend and from that point on all you can do is just step out of the way and let the other man do his work in hopefully seducing your woman. And just like a friend, you can't cock-block or scare men away so you actually end up being a really good friend and often times her wingman. Ensuring she can drink and have fun but staying safe.

I was once given a credit card to go buy us all drinks while he felt my girl up, would love to relive that. Nothing like getting back with drinks to find your girl sitting on his lap!

"Babe remember that if I step away from you and if you see a man approach me or me walk up to a man, I just ask that you give me space. The moment I am engaging with another man is your sign to fall back until I'm ready. Be patient, I will eventually come back and if I bring him back with me, just smile and go along with my story. Remember that you and I are just friends."

[stonemtncouple]

Nothing says Im a Cuckold like moving my own clothes out of my bedroom closet to my daughters pink bedroom closet so my Hotwife’s Bull has more room for his clothes while staying with her in our bedroom. My wife even helped move all my things out. She was very eager to have the house in perfect order for her fucking vacation with her Bull.
I felt truly Cucked!

[ucaneffher]

Nothing says Im a Cuckold like moving my own clothes out of my bedroom closet to my daughters pink bedroom closet so my Hotwife’s Bull has more room for his clothes while staying with her in our bedroom. My wife even helped move all my things out. She was very eager to have the house in perfect order for her fucking vacation with her Bull.
I felt truly Cucked!

Always wondered what it would feel like to have my girlfriend move my belongings (and me) out of our room in order to move her boyfriend into our home and into their now room... I do remain hopeful that one day I will live under the same roof as my wife and her new main partner.

[Anax81]

You know you're a cuckold when you're infertile and she's pregnant without IVF.

[CuckHusband11]

… when you are taking your wife to a pharmacy to buy the morning after pill despite the fact you haven’t had sex in the last 6 weeks.
… when your wife tells you that she has been doing anal with her boyfriend she’s known for 3 weeks and in 12 years together it’s been a hard no for you and still is a hard no.
… when your wife has a draw of sexy underwear she wouldn’t wear for you.

[centralillinoisboi]

You had a vasectomy five years ago but she still has an IUD.

[Cuckyboy3]

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… when your wife has a draw of sexy underwear she wouldn’t wear for you.

Love this. Even better if you are not allowed to even see the naughty lingerie reserved exclusively for the lover.

[CuckHusband11]

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… when your wife has a draw of sexy underwear she wouldn’t wear for you.

Love this. Even better if you are not allowed to even see the naughty lingerie reserved exclusively for the lover.

They are exclusively for him and although I’ve seen them in her draw I’ve never seen her wearing them and never will. They have talked about this and came to agree that they need things exclusively just for them and as time goes on her boyfriend wants more things to be exclusively for him only.

[stonemtncouple]

Nothing says Im a Cuckold like moving my own clothes out of my bedroom closet to my daughters pink bedroom closet so my Hotwife’s Bull has more room for his clothes while staying with her in our bedroom. My wife even helped move all my things out. She was very eager to have the house in perfect order for her fucking vacation with her Bull.
I felt truly Cucked!

Well it felt exciting in anticipation of her having her Bull fuck her brains out for the next 4 days and nights. Then while Im in bed alone in my daughters room it felt lonely, with a raging hard dick in my hand. Then I felt anxiety ridden and lonely and sexually aroused. Luckily I only had to deal with it for two nights then I left home for work and have been in a hotel the last two days and nights.

[ucaneffher]

… when you are taking your wife to a pharmacy to buy the morning after pill despite the fact you haven’t had sex in the last 6 weeks.
… when your wife tells you that she has been doing anal with her boyfriend she’s known for 3 weeks and in 12 years together it’s been a hard no for you and still is a hard no.
… when your wife has a draw of sexy underwear she wouldn’t wear for you.

Oh man this one hits hard!

During the 8 months of not being able to go inside of my girlfriend...we had to get her the morning after pill quite a few times because she got off birth control the minute she cut me off. The thing is that in the heat of the moment when she was cumming together with her boyfriend, she would literally beg him to cum in her and she admitted to wrapping her legs and holding him in her. Of course the man not getting any pussy is the one out getting plan b...

"I need plan B, Unless you want to see your little girlfriend pregnant by someone else, honestly I'm ok having a cute little baby girl with him"

[Cuckyboy3]

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… when your wife has a draw of sexy underwear she wouldn’t wear for you.

Love this. Even better if you are not allowed to even see the naughty lingerie reserved exclusively for the lover.

They are exclusively for him and although I’ve seen them in her draw I’ve never seen her wearing them and never will. They have talked about this and came to agree that they need things exclusively just for them and as time goes on her boyfriend wants more things to be exclusively for him only.

As it should be. Lingerie apparel are often referred to as “intimates” which implies it is meant for sharing exclusively with someone who has an intimate relationship.

By extension such exclusivity could extend to viewing and touching too. In a cuckold household, given the proximity of the threesome to each other on a daily basis, it becomes important to set boundaries to prevent friction. For example, the bull may need to set rules that a cuckold husband is not allowed to look at his woman lustfully or to touch or ogle her body in a sexual manner.

It’s a subjective call on what constitutes such behavior but generally the wife will know when she’s being looked at inappropriately by her husband. It should be left to the wife to determine when she has been violated, and a suitable punishment should be implemented immediately to prevent such behaviors from getting out of hand.

For example, if a cuck stares at his wife’s cleavage or peeks at her in the shower or comments inappropriately on how good a dress looks on her figure, the bull would be within his rights to give his ass a good hard whipping with a heavy belt. That’ll quickly teach the cuck to control his gaze.

[Cub14]

I know when, as I write this, I’m sitting on a bench outside of the fitting room in a lingerie shop while my wife tries on new sexy outfits to wear on a first date tonight. I have to buy her new lingerie for every date and I’m never the first to see her in them or take them off. I just hand wash them after. I think it’s in the hand washing after her date that I know I am indeed a cuck.

[beta boy]

When you come home and find all your stuff outside the bedroom on the hallway floor with a note that says: "Honey, I love you but I need a "real" man in my bed and so you are permanently expelled. Your new place to sleep will be in the small walk in closet accross the hall. Tomorrow you will clean it out and move in. We will get you a youth bed and a small dresser that will fit in there. For tonight you can stay in the guest room. I'm in the master bedroom with Robert,you remember him don't you? We don't want to be disturbed the rest of the night.One of your new jobs around here will be to cook and serve us breakfast.I will call you in the morning to give you further instructions so keep your phone nearby. P.S. notice that I left a chastity cage with your stuff, I expect you to put it on immediately and send me a pic. The lock is open and will slip right on and re lock.I have the key which I'll be wearing on a nice chain necklace along with my wedding band which I decided not to wear anymore. Robert gave me a nice lovers ring to wear in it's place. Kinda like he's replacing you ha ha. So have a nice evening,I know I will,and don't forget to send me that pic,I wouldn't want to send Robert out there set your ass straight.

[beta boy]

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… when your wife has a draw of sexy underwear she wouldn’t wear for you.

Love this. Even better if you are not allowed to even see the naughty lingerie reserved exclusively for the lover.

They are exclusively for him and although I’ve seen them in her draw I’ve never seen her wearing them and never will. They have talked about this and came to agree that they need things exclusively just for them and as time goes on her boyfriend wants more things to be exclusively for him only.

As it should be. Lingerie apparel are often referred to as “intimates” which implies it is meant for sharing exclusively with someone who has an intimate relationship.

By extension such exclusivity could extend to viewing and touching too. In a cuckold household, given the proximity of the threesome to each other on a daily basis, it becomes important to set boundaries to prevent friction. For example, the bull may need to set rules that a cuckold husband is not allowed to look at his woman lustfully or to touch or ogle her body in a sexual manner.

It’s a subjective call on what constitutes such behavior but generally the wife will know when she’s being looked at inappropriately by her husband. It should be left to the wife to determine when she has been violated, and a suitable punishment should be implemented immediately to prevent such behaviors from getting out of hand.

For example, if a cuck stares at his wife’s cleavage or peeks at her in the shower or comments inappropriately on how good a dress looks on her figure, the bull would be within his rights to give his ass a good hard whipping with a heavy belt. That’ll quickly teach the cuck to control his gaze.

Its like you've been living in our house. Thats' one of the things that is required of me. I've been told that my wife now belongs him. He gave me the chance to challange him and keep my wife and my dignity but since I'm a pathetic weakling I knew I didn't have a chance against an Alpha like him. I was scared and chickened out and wet my pants right in front of my wife and her gfs.That's when she lost all respect for me as a man and began to cuckold me. Now when he comes over he is the man of the house and I"m just a nancy-boy. Just as in your post he told me I'm no longer allowd to sleep with look at or in any way enjoy my wifes beauty. I'm to keep my eyes downcast and my head bowed.I do secretly enjoy looking at her sexy feet in her stilettos but I don't think they know whats going on.Really it only makes me horny and I'm in a chastity cage so I only suffer. Sometimes she does let me kiss and lick her feet. If I get caught ogleing her he will whip my ass with his belt. She loves watching and she often lies about me looking at her just so she can enjoy seeing me get punished. She just ordered a metal cock cage for me that delivers an electric shock using a remote. The remote has two settings one for voltage and one for time. The voltage setting has ten levels it can be set at and the time setting has number of seconds the shock lasts and can be put into one time shock or pulse mode every minute.She can also get an app for her phone so she can shock me anytime anywhere like when I'm at work. She intends to use that on me if I'm caught looking at her when her lover isn't around to whip me but she said I would still get reported.

[ucaneffher]

You know you're a cuck when you realize that your girlfriend/wife is and has been 'silently' conditioning you to her desired level. By silently i mean that she is conditioning me without prior discussion as to what her end goal is with said conditioning.

Example:
My first girlfriend began by very slowly introducing limitations. At first we wouldn't have sex the day of her dates so she could be fresh for her other man, then it was the day before, then the days before, then she started adding no sex after she came home (sore) and just like that she kept extending days before and after until she altogether conditioned me and cut me off completely.

Another example with my current gf:
She began dressing reserved but sexy when we went out, and with each outing we had she would turn the heat up. Covered but tighter and sexier, makeup and hair more meticulous. Then she started covering less, and less, and less until she essentially became the center of attention wherever we went. Men drooling and women giving dirty looks.

Currentl gf also would ignore any men flirting or making gestures while next to me but as her clothing became less covered, so did her interactions. She began slowly acknowledging. She would smile back at men , then she thanked them for compliments, then she began entertaining and talking to them while i sat next to her quietly with my drink, and the peak now is that she is walking away and having full out interaction with drinks and hugging. All this was her doing and incremental with each outing or every other outing. I can't wait for the next level. I am almost conditioned!

Another one that both my ex gf and current gf have done is that they both have taken the initiative to be less and less clingy to me in public. When we go to bars, clubs they create a little more distance, less hand holding, less pda, both put me in a friend zone while out in public. Last year my current gf brought a guy back to our table and introduced me as her friend and sat on his lap while getting to know him over drinks in front of me..

None of the above mentioned scenarios were planned but both of them followed through with them and by the time I realized what they were doing, it was too late and i was already conditioned to what they were trying to achieve. I was already cut off, i was already seeing my gf half naked in public, i was already watching her flirt and talk to men in front of me, and I loved it.

[Long Lurker 34]

You know you're a cuck when you realize that your girlfriend/wife is and has been 'silently' conditioning you to her desired level. By silently i mean that she is conditioning me without prior discussion as to what her end goal is with said conditioning.

Example:
My first girlfriend began by very slowly introducing limitations. At first we wouldn't have sex the day of her dates so she could be fresh for her other man, then it was the day before, then the days before, then she started adding no sex after she came home (sore) and just like that she kept extending days before and after until she altogether conditioned me and cut me off completely.

Another example with my current gf:
She began dressing reserved but sexy when we went out, and with each outing we had she would turn the heat up. Covered but tighter and sexier, makeup and hair more meticulous. Then she started covering less, and less, and less until she essentially became the center of attention wherever we went. Men drooling and women giving dirty looks.

Currentl gf also would ignore any men flirting or making gestures while next to me but as her clothing became less covered, so did her interactions. She began slowly acknowledging. She would smile back at men , then she thanked them for compliments, then she began entertaining and talking to them while i sat next to her quietly with my drink, and the peak now is that she is walking away and having full out interaction with drinks and hugging. All this was her doing and incremental with each outing or every other outing. I can't wait for the next level. I am almost conditioned!

Another one that both my ex gf and current gf have done is that they both have taken the initiative to be less and less clingy to me in public. When we go to bars, clubs they create a little more distance, less hand holding, less pda, both put me in a friend zone while out in public. Last year my current gf brought a guy back to our table and introduced me as her friend and sat on his lap while getting to know him over drinks in front of me..

None of the above mentioned scenarios were planned but both of them followed through with them and by the time I realized what they were doing, it was too late and i was already conditioned to what they were trying to achieve. I was already cut off, i was already seeing my gf half naked in public, i was already watching her flirt and talk to men in front of me, and I loved it.

UC - Regarding the conditioning with the current GF, as your friends have seen you go down this road before, have there been any comments or warnings about how your current GF is behaving?

[LongTermHubby]

You know you're a cuck when you get a note from your wife's lover calling you "the best sherpa ever" after you ferry them around town during his visit from abroad.

[ucaneffher]

You know you're a cuck when you realize that your girlfriend/wife is and has been 'silently' conditioning you to her desired level. By silently i mean that she is conditioning me without prior discussion as to what her end goal is with said conditioning.

Example:
My first girlfriend began by very slowly introducing limitations. At first we wouldn't have sex the day of her dates so she could be fresh for her other man, then it was the day before, then the days before, then she started adding no sex after she came home (sore) and just like that she kept extending days before and after until she altogether conditioned me and cut me off completely.

Another example with my current gf:
She began dressing reserved but sexy when we went out, and with each outing we had she would turn the heat up. Covered but tighter and sexier, makeup and hair more meticulous. Then she started covering less, and less, and less until she essentially became the center of attention wherever we went. Men drooling and women giving dirty looks.

Currentl gf also would ignore any men flirting or making gestures while next to me but as her clothing became less covered, so did her interactions. She began slowly acknowledging. She would smile back at men , then she thanked them for compliments, then she began entertaining and talking to them while i sat next to her quietly with my drink, and the peak now is that she is walking away and having full out interaction with drinks and hugging. All this was her doing and incremental with each outing or every other outing. I can't wait for the next level. I am almost conditioned!

Another one that both my ex gf and current gf have done is that they both have taken the initiative to be less and less clingy to me in public. When we go to bars, clubs they create a little more distance, less hand holding, less pda, both put me in a friend zone while out in public. Last year my current gf brought a guy back to our table and introduced me as her friend and sat on his lap while getting to know him over drinks in front of me..

None of the above mentioned scenarios were planned but both of them followed through with them and by the time I realized what they were doing, it was too late and i was already conditioned to what they were trying to achieve. I was already cut off, i was already seeing my gf half naked in public, i was already watching her flirt and talk to men in front of me, and I loved it.

UC - Regarding the conditioning with the current GF, as your friends have seen you go down this road before, have there been any comments or warnings about how your current GF is behaving?

Not for the current girlfriend. We typically keep all outings between her and I although we do tend to post a picture of us together here and there all dressed up. Typically I'll wear a nice outfit while she is beside me in a skimpy short dress with her tits spilling out or her ass very prominently displaying it's curves. Many friends and colleagues have seen her and think she is hot "as fuck" and to not ruin it with this hottie lol.

I wish we had a small group to go out with to bars and clubs... ideally her and other hot girlfriends but I guess this works our so she can be herself and not hold back when men approach her. We are going dancing soon and i can tell you that i will be giving her a lot of space while i run to the bathroom wink wink.

[ucaneffher]

You know you're a cuck when instead of waking up next to your woman, you constantly wish you would receive "good morning" texts/pictures of her in some little booty shorts/boy short underwear or sexy pajamas on some random bed or man's house so you can see what this other man woke up to with your girlfriend.

Would literally prefer to sleep alone as long as I get the daily morning text from her from another man's home. Maybe receive a pic of her making breakfast in nothing but a little thong in his kitchen or one of her posing on his bed telling me he just gave her her breakfast sausage, or some goofy caption letting me know she just got her daily dose of cream stuffing inside of her to start her day right.

I so can't wait for the nights when my girlfriend will head out and not come home entire weekends.