It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

[Open2it]

Do you think Lana has reached the point where she regrets saying no for so long? It certainly sounds like she really enjoys your new dynamic.

[w770]

While this thread is epically hot, the common thread in Shawn and Adam is outright disrespect for W.
Different strokes for different folks but I think that is quicksand for you and your relationship with Lana.
I hope you can control the situation but looks like Shawn 2.0 and the only reason you may have survived that was a few thousand miles.
Lana allowing Adam to disrespect you as he does is disrespectful in its own right.
I don't think you see the train coming but I may be wrong.

You may be right, but for now, I'm hoping to see this weekend play out as I think it might and see where things go from there. But thank you for the insight on what you believe is a red flag.

You and Lana are the perfect pair for each other, you are both getting off on her being a complete slut.

Is she giving you any bits and pieces of any of her texting with Adam?

She hasn't outright said anything about texting Adam, although I have no doubt that she would divulge every detail if I asked. However, in a way, I like the frustration and mystery of the last few days.

This thread has certainly heated up in the last week or so.

W770, what is your feeling about sexual denial? I seem to recall that it was not something that was an interest of yours before, but it sounds like it is a turn on now.

It's been a huge attraction for me for a long time, so I'd like to hear any thoughts you have, especially if your views have evolved.

Thanks.

I think you're right in that it wasn't something I was initially into but have since grown to be turned on by. There's an aspect of being denied my wife's pussy while a younger, well hung lover freely gets it that's really humiliating and irresistible to me.

Do you think Lana has reached the point where she regrets saying no for so long? It certainly sounds like she really enjoys your new dynamic.

Well I think what eventually got her to change her mind about having sex with other men was Shawn and how he was really a perfect fit in a lot of ways. Before him, I don't think there was a guy or a situation that she found to be just right, enough so where she would actually say yes to doing it. Plus our marriage had to be in the right place, our circumstances had to be perfectly situated, etc. There were so many things that had to align in order for us to handle the inherent threats that this lifestyle brings, so even if she had wanted to earlier, it may not have been the right time to do it.

Update: She eventually came back to bed and cuddled up next to me, and I put my arm around her. I was still pretty hard, and with her tight little ass pressed up onto my erection, she could feel how badly I wanted it. So I started softly thrusting against her and feeling her legs, eventually moving my hands up under her nightie to feel her breasts when she said "it's a little late, isn't it? We should try and get some sleep, baby."

And with that, she drifted off to sleep. The denial was so apparent that I couldn't help but continue to stroke my hard dick. It's then that her phone vibrated on her night stand, and I looked over to see a pop up notification from Adam saying " that was so hot . Goodnight Lana..."

It took a Herculean effort to resist looking though her phone, and instead I masturbated to the realization that I was being completely cucked and dominated by this guy that's over ten years younger than me, and he's effectively cut me off from my wife's pussy.

[mastiff]

Am glad you were able to turn a negative into a positive.

[KevDi69]

That is so hot. You have clearly been cut off. What if it continues after the weekend? How long do you think you can go before you have to discuss your sex life? Right now you two are playing out the cheating wife game much like you did with Shawn. But that went from play cheating to real cheating (withholding info & emotional attachment) in a short time. This could quickly be the case now that she has the green light to do as she pleases and not tell you.
Adam knows how to play her body and mind. He has her denying you. When they are together this weekend (or during those closed office door sessions) he is likely ramping up her arousal and need to orgasm as high as possible before giving permission to cum only after she makes promises that he owns her pussy and you cannot have it. Maybe even denying you BJs or handjobs as well. He will quiz her on her compliance with his demands and she will fall in line. Then it will be real and may be too hard to stop. Just like it was with Shawn. Be prepared to call for a stop to it and hope that she will. How long do you think she will continue to deny you? Until after the weekend? Weeks? A month or more? Enjoy the thrill ride but keep the safety bar in place.

[mundyman]

Exciting details. Thank you for sharing.
In an earlier post you said Adam was 29, 10 years younger than your wife, which isn’t much. What does Adam do for work? What’s his background? Does he live in NYC proper?
Lana’s infatuation with Adam is shining through. Given what she was willing to do for Shawn, I wonder what depths, or heights?, she will go to for Adam. She has already proven with Shawn that she is willing to do almost anything to keep her huge cocked lovers happy and satisfied seeing how they make her feel when they fuck her.
When she sees him this weekend, is there really any doubt, will he send you video of their activities? There’s no doubt Lana will be totally wound up by this time and totally excited to see him. It will be interesting to see how wanton she gets, how far down the guardrails will have dropped, what would normally be off the table activities, she will do.
I can’t wait to hear what excuse/story she gives you for staying the night and possibly two nights in the city just to be with him.
I can’t wait to hear you describe what her pussy and ass look like when she returns home and will he have marked her in any other ways.
So many possibilities.
Be careful my friend.

[edgedndenied]

W
About Lana playing the cheating wife role with Adam it is hard to believe Adam would not think you know what is going on with the continued affair between them. He rubed your knose in the affair and mocked you about it. Any reasonable husband would have there wife on a tight leash and monitor what she is doing. To let her sext and text as much as she is and letting her go to NYC where Adam lives within a week of exposing the affair would not seem reasonable. I think this gives Lana the time to do what she wants with Adam and keep you out of the loop. You have given her permission to keep you in the dark. It is a nice facade but Adam will see through it. I would not be surprised if Lana and Adam have already discussed that you know about the affair but want to be kept in the dark.

[michael8401]

God that's so hot! It's one thing when a wife just turns you down because she just doesn't want to fuck you right then, it's another thing all together when that affection is going to someone else is just beyond hot

[w770]

That is so hot. You have clearly been cut off. What if it continues after the weekend? How long do you think you can go before you have to discuss your sex life? Right now you two are playing out the cheating wife game much like you did with Shawn. But that went from play cheating to real cheating (withholding info & emotional attachment) in a short time. This could quickly be the case now that she has the green light to do as she pleases and not tell you.
Adam knows how to play her body and mind. He has her denying you. When they are together this weekend (or during those closed office door sessions) he is likely ramping up her arousal and need to orgasm as high as possible before giving permission to cum only after she makes promises that he owns her pussy and you cannot have it. Maybe even denying you BJs or handjobs as well. He will quiz her on her compliance with his demands and she will fall in line. Then it will be real and may be too hard to stop. Just like it was with Shawn. Be prepared to call for a stop to it and hope that she will. How long do you think she will continue to deny you? Until after the weekend? Weeks? A month or more? Enjoy the thrill ride but keep the safety bar in place.

That's the big question, really, with how long can I keep up with the game and resist asking her about it. I'm really wondering how this weekend will play out as I'm pretty certain that she's going to the city to get pounded by her hung lover, but I'm curious if she'll turn it into an overnight. I honestly don't see myself being able to hold off much longer after this weekend with asking her to divulge all the details. As far as a safety - we've actually discussed this and at any point, whenever I want, we have a secret word to signal the end, or at least a pause, into the fantasy and that she has to stop playing the role for a moment and tell me everything.

Exciting details. Thank you for sharing.
In an earlier post you said Adam was 29, 10 years younger than your wife, which isn’t much. What does Adam do for work? What’s his background? Does he live in NYC proper?
Lana’s infatuation with Adam is shining through. Given what she was willing to do for Shawn, I wonder what depths, or heights?, she will go to for Adam. She has already proven with Shawn that she is willing to do almost anything to keep her huge cocked lovers happy and satisfied seeing how they make her feel when they fuck her.
When she sees him this weekend, is there really any doubt, will he send you video of their activities? There’s no doubt Lana will be totally wound up by this time and totally excited to see him. It will be interesting to see how wanton she gets, how far down the guardrails will have dropped, what would normally be off the table activities, she will do.
I can’t wait to hear what excuse/story she gives you for staying the night and possibly two nights in the city just to be with him.
I can’t wait to hear you describe what her pussy and ass look like when she returns home and will he have marked her in any other ways.
So many possibilities.
Be careful my friend.

I'm not too aware about the details of Adam's real life regarding profession. The conversation involving him between myself and Lana has mostly been sexual, such as how he has, as she puts it, "a gorgeous, massive and thick cock." His background is white, as he looks almost exactly like that Adrian Grienier actor. In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if his profession included something in the realm of modelling. As far as where in the city, I think he's in the lower east side - so a grittier, hipster area.

I don't really anticipate getting a video after this weekend, as I think Lana is still playing up the angle of being a cheating wife that's sneaking around. Plus, I impressed upon her the importance of getting him to delete the videos of her.

W
About Lana playing the cheating wife role with Adam it is hard to believe Adam would not think you know what is going on with the continued affair between them. He rubed your knose in the affair and mocked you about it. Any reasonable husband would have there wife on a tight leash and monitor what she is doing. To let her sext and text as much as she is and letting her go to NYC where Adam lives within a week of exposing the affair would not seem reasonable. I think this gives Lana the time to do what she wants with Adam and keep you out of the loop. You have given her permission to keep you in the dark. It is a nice facade but Adam will see through it. I would not be surprised if Lana and Adam have already discussed that you know about the affair but want to be kept in the dark.

I mean, I would really have to see the conversation between them to really determine this, but I fully plan on reading their entire discourse at some point, whether it be at the end of this upcoming weekend for much later down the road.

God that's so hot! It's one thing when a wife just turns you down because she just doesn't want to fuck you right then, it's another thing all together when that affection is going to someone else is just beyond hot

Especially how my attempts to make love to her seem to trigger her running to the office to sext him. I definitely think they have an arrangement in which every time I try to have sex with her, she denies me and they get off together.

Update: We went to the gym together this morning, and on the way home, she asked me if we could reschedule our regular Friday night date to Thursday night, as one of her friends that she usually gets her haircut with wants to have a girls night out on Friday. She rationalized it by saying that they were able to get their haircuts scheduled for early Saturday morning, so it will make it easier for her to just stay over at her girlfriend's place and then get their haircut the next morning. Now I'm wondering if she's planning on spending both Friday AND Saturday night in Adam's bed, spreading her legs for him.

Oh, and the office door is locked again...

[Trickydicky69]

Just read this through over the past few days.
Really good but now I’m starting to hear alarm bells and red flags.
Admittedly, it depends how all parties are wired and respectfully getting their buttons pressed but:
I’ve read enough posts on here and had some personal experience over the years, to see some danger.
You’re not unaware of it but perhaps Lana is and especially with Adam who sounds like he’s untrustworthy at least. And Lana does seem smitten. NRE is a powerful thing, especially combined with an element of BDSM which is bubbling under the surface I suspect.
Be careful!

[mundyman]

“I mean, I would really have to see the conversation between them to really determine this, but I fully plan on reading their entire discourse at some point, whether it be at the end of this upcoming weekend for much later down the road.”

The best time to read their texting and other discourses would be this weekend while she is away in the city.
No doubt seeing him.
No doubt at his place being his little slut.
No doubt acting like the cheating whore wife she has become for HIM.
No doubt saying she will be home late on Sunday, perhaps a last minute change to early Monday morning.
And all you can do is read the texts of what he plans to do with and to her.
What she is planning on doing for him.
And all you can do is pull your cock, imagining it all.
That is if as the cheating wife she is doesn’t erase their text string leading up to their meeting.
Maybe during this weekend he will get her a Burner phone to keep you totally out of the loop.
So many possibilities.

[w770]

While this thread is epically hot, the common thread in Shawn and Adam is outright disrespect for W.
Different strokes for different folks but I think that is quicksand for you and your relationship with Lana.
I hope you can control the situation but looks like Shawn 2.0 and the only reason you may have survived that was a few thousand miles.
Lana allowing Adam to disrespect you as he does is disrespectful in its own right.
I don't think you see the train coming but I may be wrong.

Part of me hates to say it because w770 seems like such a stand up guy, but the disrespect is what makes this thread hot. Shawn’s whole vibe seemed to be “I’m just taking what’s mine” which is incredibly hot when “what’s mine” seemed to encompass another man’s wife’s entire sexuality. Adam’s whole deal seemed to be “i’ll fuck this dude’s wife, rub it in his face” and his reward was…to continue to fuck w770’s wife. The cocky-ness levels are off the charts and it’s pretty intoxicating on this end

He definitely loved rubbing it in my face, as the comments that accompanied the videos and screenshots that he would send me made it clear that he really got off on the dynamic. He would repeatedly send me videos of Lana telling him about my small cock while he fucked her from behind, which he would spend some time editing so that there was a caption going across the top saying, "your wife loves my cock, lol."

I've already accepted that he's likely already shown all of his buddies too.

Just read this through over the past few days.
Really good but now I’m starting to hear alarm bells and red flags.
Admittedly, it depends how all parties are wired and respectfully getting their buttons pressed but:
I’ve read enough posts on here and had some personal experience over the years, to see some danger.
You’re not unaware of it but perhaps Lana is and especially with Adam who sounds like he’s untrustworthy at least. And Lana does seem smitten. NRE is a powerful thing, especially combined with an element of BDSM which is bubbling under the surface I suspect.
Be careful!

Given that a lot of starting to say that there are red flags here, I'm going to really reassess everything at the end of this weekend, see how we both feel, and if there are any real threats to the marriage.

[shawnm]

W, I think she is totally under his spell. I am willing to bet that Adam has an even greater control over Lana than Shawn. She is massively addicted and attracted to bad boys.
In the past talks about her escapades with Adam, has she detailed the things she has done with him. Does he spank her hard like Shawn used to do OR facefuck her, lift and fuck and so on.
Wondering if he wants to fuck her ass, I don't think she has a choice there. If Adam wants it, he will get it. Do ask her about all the kinks they have done once you get to it.

On the side, how about sending a message to Adam via FB telling him that Lana has profusely apologized to you and she will never meet him again. This will give him a major ego boost and he is sure to tell Lana about it. The play will that be you don't tell Lana you had messaged Adam.

This weekend, like you rightly said, she is goin to be massively pounded by him. I would love to be a fly in that room at that time.

[w770]

W, I think she is totally under his spell. I am willing to bet that Adam has an even greater control over Lana than Shawn. She is massively addicted and attracted to bad boys.
In the past talks about her escapades with Adam, has she detailed the things she has done with him. Does he spank her hard like Shawn used to do OR facefuck her, lift and fuck and so on.
Wondering if he wants to fuck her ass, I don't think she has a choice there. If Adam wants it, he will get it. Do ask her about all the kinks they have done once you get to it.

On the side, how about sending a message to Adam via FB telling him that Lana has profusely apologized to you and she will never meet him again. This will give him a major ego boost and he is sure to tell Lana about it. The play will that be you don't tell Lana you had messaged Adam.

This weekend, like you rightly said, she is goin to be massively pounded by him. I would love to be a fly in that room at that time.

Funny, I just thought the same thing regarding anal. Never once has she ever wanted to do it, but I agree with you on this one - if Adam wants it, she's going to let him fuck her ass.

This is the second time that this board has suggested that I reach out to Adam to further the angle that Lana and I are on solid footing, just to boost his ego more. I'm considering it now just out of sick curiosity.

“I mean, I would really have to see the conversation between them to really determine this, but I fully plan on reading their entire discourse at some point, whether it be at the end of this upcoming weekend for much later down the road.”

The best time to read their texting and other discourses would be this weekend while she is away in the city.
No doubt seeing him.
No doubt at his place being his little slut.
No doubt acting like the cheating whore wife she has become for HIM.
No doubt saying she will be home late on Sunday, perhaps a last minute change to early Monday morning.
And all you can do is read the texts of what he plans to do with and to her.
What she is planning on doing for him.
And all you can do is pull your cock, imagining it all.
That is if as the cheating wife she is doesn’t erase their text string leading up to their meeting.
Maybe during this weekend he will get her a Burner phone to keep you totally out of the loop.
So many possibilities.

I really hope she comes home before Monday morning as I'm really going to need to reclaim her or at the very least, lick her worn cum filled pussy.

Update: She's come out of the office a few times today and has started packing her overnight bag for her "friend's" place. Once she went back into the office, I couldn't help myself, and rummaged through. I saw the sexy lingerie that she recently ordered (a red lacey corset with straps that latch onto a pair of red lace silk panties), a black lacy thong, and a pair of heels. I don't know why, but this just seems so different than with Shawn. I'm getting a deep lump in my throat and that familiar punch to the gut feeling.

[BurstLily27]

How connected do you want to be this weekend? Do you expect her to keep up the haircut story until she gets back?

[edgedndenied]

You are being left on the sideline with no input

[TheHammer]

What other types of clothes/items did she pack?

[w770]

What other types of clothes/items did she pack?

I saw some dressy clothes like one of her low cut, short black dresses which she looks absolutely stunning in, jeans, shorts, and some workout clothes. I have so many questions such as if she's actually going to meet up with her girlfriends, if she would actually bring him around them, if they're going to do romantic "couple" things over the weekend like go out to restaurants, walk the streets holding hands, run in the park as a couple (something she knows I love doing with her) - or will they just be in his place all weekend fucking each others brains out.

I actually just had to take the dogs out on a walk quickly as I was feeling light headed and my hands were feeling a bit shaky. This whole "cheating wife" thing may have been too much for me, but I also feel like I should let her go through with the weekend and we can reassess together afterwards.

[TheHammer]

I actually just had to take the dogs out on a walk quickly as I was feeling light headed and my hands were feeling a bit shaky. This whole "cheating wife" thing may have been too much for me, but I also feel like I should let her go through with the weekend and we can reassess together afterwards.

That is a good idea, this way you get to experience the cheating wife fantasy but not indefinitely and you can get all the details from her on the week and weekend when he returns and then after reclaiming her and talking it out, you can reset. Either way, you should have her tell you everything when she returns so it’s not eating at you for months

[shawnm]

Just make sure that it doesn't get out of hand and it gets back on a difficult route. Monday, I feel you guys need to reconnect and she needs to tell you everyone including of she even attempted anal with him or not. Her tendency of blatantly lying till caught is something you need to be smart about and get those info trickling.

[Mattmattiass]

I don’t love the cheating because I see this lifestyle as a joint thing we would both enjoy ( I’m a forever wannabe). I realize other people feel differently, but the denial, keeping secrets, etc. just hurts me to read. I love this thread. It is my favorite and hot, but it also seems unkind sometimes. Please have fun but be careful. This is actually why I couldn’t like the characters, but read every word on xleglover’s stories.

[michael8401]

I love it and I think you guys should play it out and I have a feeling you will have massive angst, but end up loving it even more

[KevDi69]

Is Lana giving you any indication that this is just Pretend cheating when she’s denying you? Like teasing you when she says no, or is she actually acting like she does not want sex with you? From the outside it sounds like she is being a 100% real cheating wife. I’ve got to give it to Lana she is giving you the complete cuckold / cheated husband experience that I think you enjoy.
Your thoughts about what might happen when she’s in New York (acting like lovers, meeting friends, etc.) must be driving you crazy. Good luck getting her to spill all the beans on Monday. You may be facing another trickle of information about what actually has been going on or what happened over the weekend.
I believe this is going to be a very tough weekend for you. It may get to be too much as it seems to be getting there quickly. The question then becomes if you try to put a stop to it after the weekend because it’s too much will she go along with that? She may well say she can’t stop right now you gave her the permission to do this cheating with Adam and that her affair has to play out more. I hope that’s not the case but be prepared. Best of luck and thanks for the updates.

[w770]

I actually just had to take the dogs out on a walk quickly as I was feeling light headed and my hands were feeling a bit shaky. This whole "cheating wife" thing may have been too much for me, but I also feel like I should let her go through with the weekend and we can reassess together afterwards.

That is a good idea, this way you get to experience the cheating wife fantasy but not indefinitely and you can get all the details from her on the week and weekend when he returns and then after reclaiming her and talking it out, you can reset. Either way, you should have her tell you everything when she returns so it’s not eating at you for months

Just make sure that it doesn't get out of hand and it gets back on a difficult route. Monday, I feel you guys need to reconnect and she needs to tell you everyone including of she even attempted anal with him or not. Her tendency of blatantly lying till caught is something you need to be smart about and get those info trickling.

You are both right. I really need to see the entire conversation, get an idea of how deep into the fantasy she is, and if she's developing feelings for him. There's no way that I'd be able to hold off for weeks or months of this, as hot as it is.

I don’t love the cheating because I see this lifestyle as a joint thing we would both enjoy ( I’m a forever wannabe). I realize other people feel differently, but the denial, keeping secrets, etc. just hurts me to read. I love this thread. It is my favorite and hot, but it also seems unkind sometimes. Please have fun but be careful. This is actually why I couldn’t like the characters, but read every word on xleglover’s stories.

It's so different from our Shawn experience as it's hard to determine what is real and what is fantasy. And then there are the questions of whether the feelings I'm having of pain, angst, emasculation, arousal, subjugation, etc. are real or not too. It's easy to be confused in this chapter, and what makes it more difficult is that I'm navigating it solo in a way, since Lana and I were always there for each other every step of the way with Shawn, constantly going over our feelings and thoughts.

I love it and I think you guys should play it out and I have a feeling you will have massive angst, but end up loving it even more

My hope is that all I'm feeling right now is angst. I eventually got really good at handling the situation with Shawn that I forgot that the angst feels a lot like a panic attack.

Update: I just got back from a short walk with the dogs, and as I came in, I held the latch on the door in a way that it wouldn't make any sounds. And just as I thought, I heard some moaning coming from the office. As the dogs starting making noise, I heard an abrupt end to the moaning and the "end call" sound from her phone. I'm pretty sure they were on Facetime with each other. She eventually came out of the office to say hi to me and the dogs, when I decided to touch and feel her body in that certain way... "it's been a few days... what do you think about something nice a quick? I miss you..." She giggled a little and she said that she missed making love too, but also said, "maybe later tonight, okay?" while stroking my rock hard dick over my pants. The thing is, I still fully expect her to deny me again tonight. There may be a chance that Adam allows her to use her mouth, but it's clear to me that her pussy is his.

I'm also still debating whether I should reach out to him or not, as suggested by some here. I can see the benefits of boosting his ego, as I feel like he'll fuck Lana will more "emphasis" (not sure if it's the right word), but I'm just trying to analyze whether there are any apparent downsides that I'm not seeing.

[w770]

Is Lana giving you any indication that this is just Pretend cheating when she’s denying you? Like teasing you when she says no, or is she actually acting like she does not want sex with you? From the outside it sounds like she is being a 100% real cheating wife. I’ve got to give it to Lana she is giving you the complete cuckold / cheated husband experience that I think you enjoy.
Your thoughts about what might happen when she’s in New York (acting like lovers, meeting friends, etc.) must be driving you crazy. Good luck getting her to spill all the beans on Monday. You may be facing another trickle of information about what actually has been going on or what happened over the weekend.
I believe this is going to be a very tough weekend for you. It may get to be too much as it seems to be getting there quickly. The question then becomes if you try to put a stop to it after the weekend because it’s too much will she go along with that? She may well say she can’t stop right now you gave her the permission to do this cheating with Adam and that her affair has to play out more. I hope that’s not the case but be prepared. Best of luck and thanks for the updates.

I feel like she's still acting out her role that we agreed to over the last weekend, so I credit her for that. She's always been a great long term thinker so in a way, I could imagine a scenario where she's thinking that the more she denies me now, the better the next time we make love will be, whether that's in a few days, a week, a month, etc.

And regarding what you said about a situation where I try to put a stop to it and she confesses that she can't - well, I really don't think that will happen, or maybe that's just my hope. Because if it did, that might take things into a place I'm really not comfortable with.

[TheHammer]

By leaving her phone out for you to see, locking the door to her office and denying you, she is absolutely playing the game and I bet she is thinking you are loving it and the fact you are loving it is turning her on more. There is no harm letting this play out for the next four days snd then call a time out when she is back on Sunday and get all the details from her and then figure out the future. The weekend full of agonizing angst for you will be worth it.