It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

[mundyman]

Once again, a bit short on time as we're planning to go to the gym together this morning so I'm waiting for her to finish getting ready. I might have time to update more fully today but if with gets busy, I'll have more time tonight and this weekend to get to the questions I saw.

Update: Date night was actually really nice. I asked that we take a soft pause and told her that I really want her to just be safe. I say "soft pause" as I didn't outright mention Adam by name and mainly left it as "the city can be scary sometimes and you need to be aware of your surroundings." This isn't far off from what I've mentioned to her before whenever she gets her hair done, as whenever we've been in the city together, I'm the one looking out for potential threats while she's blissfully unaware of anything around her. But I think she understood what I was saying, as we have really great communication and we can say things without really saying things to each other.

Anyway, she put her hand on top of mine and said , "you know, I really don't have to go to the city this weekend. Say the word and I'll cancel right now."

Her willingness and gentleness in that moment told me that she's still the same sweet Lana. She also squeezed my hand and told me "I miss you too."

We ended agreeing that she should go have fun this weekend, but if at any time I want her to come home, to send her a text with a banana -rama, and without any questions having to be asked, she will immediately get an Uber and come home.

Without having to talk about Adam directly, she promised me that she'll be safe this weekend, and that Sunday will be all for us. So it goes without saying, we'll be reclaiming and reconnecting Sunday morning when she comes home.

When we got home, we opened up a bottle of wine and just listened to music with the dogs on the balcony. Eventually we ended up in bed, only this time, we just held each other. It oddly reminded me of the night before Shawn and her were going to fuck in our bed. Like it was a bitter sweet moment as we both knew this weekend, she'll be with Adam.

After about an hour, her phone started vibrating, and even though she was still awake, she never made a motion to check it. "Aren't you going to see who it is?" "No, I'm good right here."

All sounds good for now.
I wonder if her resolve will remain the same once she is with him and under the spell of that big cock?
Will she really leave to come to be with you on Sunday, or will Adam’s skill of persuasion and Lana’s cock drunk need to have more of his huge cock cause her to come home later than you expect on Sunday.
Of course cheating wives have ‘friends’ who develop “personal ‘crisis’” that require them to stay with her ‘friend’ and help and support them through the crisis.
I can’t wait to see what she uses as her excuse to spend more time with him on Sunday.

[leander99]

“I get what you're saying between the two scenarios of a giant gang bang and her falling in love with him, as you're drawing out the contrast between two polar opposite hypotheticals in an effort to show me that the major consequence is that of her emotions being drawn in. I'm hoping that with the resetting and pause after the weekend, that it won't be enough time on her part to actually develop deep feelings for him, so on that side of it, I think we're safe. For now.”

I hate to tell you but feelings are already being developed. What do you think is happening as they text, FaceTime, and talk to each other this entire week. They are getting to know each other, intimately, without even being physically present with each other. What do think is going to happen when they finally connect physically again.
I’m willing to bet the farm that Lana is developing a raging case of NRE for Adam, and I’m not sure there’s anything you can do at this point to put it out.
Ask yourself this: if right now you asked her not to go into the city this weekend, would she not go? If she didn’t, how long would she be mad at you. Or would she go anyway telling you that you started this and now you’ll have to wait until it plays out.

Spot on.

That ship is sailing. Nothing w770 will say or do will stop that now. He can only hope she's coming back after the fact.

She will. Adam is a great fuck, but not someone to grow old with. She knows that. They all know.

Still, it takes a really strong marriage to ride this wave. It's what w770 wants, he's made his choice to go this close to the fire. I don't think he'll be badly burned, but it should be clear to everyone involved that this is a dangerous game.

Except for Adam maybe, he doesn't seem to care much if he burns down the house. I wonder if Lana still thinks he's a "nice guy, really" after humiliating w770 as he did.

There's a very real danger Adam will burn fown the house in the end, just for kicks. Once the affair ends he is likely to try and murder w770 and Lana's marriage, just to prove that he can. If I was w770 I'd be ready for whatever mess Adam may try to make of it. Those videos and messages are just a small taste of what he maybbe capable of.

[michael8401]

That's a good night. You both know she is denying you which is hot yet not directly discussed. Will this be her first time doing anal? I forget if she has before

[w770]

She’s a good woman.

And I'm a lucky guy.

You can watch her today with your phone to see her interaction with Adam in her office. I believe this is a fantasy she wants to act out but gave you the option to pull the plug. I still think you should of mentioned the contact with Adam to see if that news had an impact on her. You will have major angst this weekend and I am sure you will be glued to the phone tracking to see where she might be.

She's been pretty occupied all morning with work it seems. She was on her phone earlier, but there was no FaceTime. I was questioning whether I should have brought up the messages from Adam or not last night, but I think my point of it was to show her that Adam may not be the sweet person she thinks he is. Ultimately, she understood my concern for her to be safe, so in the end, the same essence was communicated. At least I hope.

This sounds like a great relationship-affirming evening, although it looks like you held off on showing her the texts you received from Adam. Its going to be a hard 2 days going forward for you W. I wonder if Adam is going to continue sending you videos of all the deeds and positions he's going to coerce Lana into doing! And I'm going to agree with everyone here that after this weekend, you and Lana should take at least a week break to regroup, have an honest accounting of everything that's happened so far, and let that raging NRE subside a little.

Right, after the weekend reconnecting will be really important. The fact that I originally thought I could possibly withstand months of this shows how naive I was.

Once again, a bit short on time as we're planning to go to the gym together this morning so I'm waiting for her to finish getting ready. I might have time to update more fully today but if with gets busy, I'll have more time tonight and this weekend to get to the questions I saw.

Update: Date night was actually really nice. I asked that we take a soft pause and told her that I really want her to just be safe. I say "soft pause" as I didn't outright mention Adam by name and mainly left it as "the city can be scary sometimes and you need to be aware of your surroundings." This isn't far off from what I've mentioned to her before whenever she gets her hair done, as whenever we've been in the city together, I'm the one looking out for potential threats while she's blissfully unaware of anything around her. But I think she understood what I was saying, as we have really great communication and we can say things without really saying things to each other.

Anyway, she put her hand on top of mine and said , "you know, I really don't have to go to the city this weekend. Say the word and I'll cancel right now."

Her willingness and gentleness in that moment told me that she's still the same sweet Lana. She also squeezed my hand and told me "I miss you too."

We ended agreeing that she should go have fun this weekend, but if at any time I want her to come home, to send her a text with a banana -rama, and without any questions having to be asked, she will immediately get an Uber and come home.

Without having to talk about Adam directly, she promised me that she'll be safe this weekend, and that Sunday will be all for us. So it goes without saying, we'll be reclaiming and reconnecting Sunday morning when she comes home.

When we got home, we opened up a bottle of wine and just listened to music with the dogs on the balcony. Eventually we ended up in bed, only this time, we just held each other. It oddly reminded me of the night before Shawn and her were going to fuck in our bed. Like it was a bitter sweet moment as we both knew this weekend, she'll be with Adam.

After about an hour, her phone started vibrating, and even though she was still awake, she never made a motion to check it. "Aren't you going to see who it is?" "No, I'm good right here."

All sounds good for now.
I wonder if her resolve will remain the same once she is with him and under the spell of that big cock?
Will she really leave to come to be with you on Sunday, or will Adam’s skill of persuasion and Lana’s cock drunk need to have more of his huge cock cause her to come home later than you expect on Sunday.
Of course cheating wives have ‘friends’ who develop “personal ‘crisis’” that require them to stay with her ‘friend’ and help and support them through the crisis.
I can’t wait to see what she uses as her excuse to spend more time with him on Sunday.

It's another thing that I learned from the Shawn experience, in that in the heat of the moment, her decision making can be compromised. We had a discussion about this before we agreed to open up communication with Adam again earlier in the week, but there's what you plan for and what the moment dictates. All I can do now is hope she can retain some clarity of mind, even while getting pounded by her hung lover.

“I get what you're saying between the two scenarios of a giant gang bang and her falling in love with him, as you're drawing out the contrast between two polar opposite hypotheticals in an effort to show me that the major consequence is that of her emotions being drawn in. I'm hoping that with the resetting and pause after the weekend, that it won't be enough time on her part to actually develop deep feelings for him, so on that side of it, I think we're safe. For now.”

I hate to tell you but feelings are already being developed. What do you think is happening as they text, FaceTime, and talk to each other this entire week. They are getting to know each other, intimately, without even being physically present with each other. What do think is going to happen when they finally connect physically again.
I’m willing to bet the farm that Lana is developing a raging case of NRE for Adam, and I’m not sure there’s anything you can do at this point to put it out.
Ask yourself this: if right now you asked her not to go into the city this weekend, would she not go? If she didn’t, how long would she be mad at you. Or would she go anyway telling you that you started this and now you’ll have to wait until it plays out.

Spot on.

That ship is sailing. Nothing w770 will say or do will stop that now. He can only hope she's coming back after the fact.

She will. Adam is a great fuck, but not someone to grow old with. She knows that. They all know.

Still, it takes a really strong marriage to ride this wave. It's what w770 wants, he's made his choice to go this close to the fire. I don't think he'll be badly burned, but it should be clear to everyone involved that this is a dangerous game.

Except for Adam maybe, he doesn't seem to care much if he burns down the house. I wonder if Lana still thinks he's a "nice guy, really" after humiliating w770 as he did.

There's a very real danger Adam will burn fown the house in the end, just for kicks. Once the affair ends he is likely to try and murder w770 and Lana's marriage, just to prove that he can. If I was w770 I'd be ready for whatever mess Adam may try to make of it. Those videos and messages are just a small taste of what he maybbe capable of.

If I had to guess, I would think that Adam won't try to burn the house down until he feels like he's gotten all he can get out of fucking Lana. Once he feels sure that it's over (again) with her, I'm fully anticipating a barrage of texts and screenshots of their conversations, just to rub it in my face.

That's a good night. You both know she is denying you which is hot yet not directly discussed. Will this be her first time doing anal? I forget if she has before

She's never done anal and has always maintained that she really isn't into it.

Update: She's leaving tonight after work for her "girlfriend's" place. Apparently, they're going to dinner and then back home, but I'm wondering if that means she's going to have dinner with Adam, or have dinner with her friend followed by Adam's place. Lana is still adamant about none of our friends knowing about our lifestyle, so I highly doubt that she'll have Adam come out and meet her friend.

[TheHammer]

You are blessed with quite a wife!

Did anything else of note make it into the overnight bag?

[leander99]

If you're gonna let her get anal this weekend, at least make sure she eats tacos tonight.

I just snorted loudly.

[tojanman]

Oh man W. The count down begins now. Good or bad I feel like this is going to be a transformative weekend for both you and Lana! Do you feel that pit in your stomach growing yet? You know that Adam is going to do everything in his power to make Lana his over the next 2 days… And Lana probably can’t wait to let him take her.

[newUK]

You are a braver man than me W!

I honestly couldn’t stomach such a douche bag being allowed to have more fun with her after how he reacted to the rejection the first time round.

But why oh why am I feeling all angsty as well?!

If this was my L I’d honestly have had to tell her I couldn’t stomach it. I’m gonna struggle imagining being in your shoes the next couple of nights.

Good luck buddy. Hope it’s all you wish for.

[leander99]

What I don't like is the dishonesty between Lana and w770.

Lana I can understand. In the heat of the moment rules will be broken and she may be hesitant to tell the full truth. Same thing (going bareback despite prior agreements) happened to me and several other cuckolds on this forum. And likely more who are still unaware to this day. I think this type of transgression is to be expected and I dont think to much of it, honestly.

But then there is w770 who is secretly filming his wife with an old phone. He too is not telling his wife things that she has a right to know!

However in the case of the cuckold, the deceit is not happening in the moment but it is instead well thought out and planned.

A cuckold should not act secretly behind his wife's back in such a manner.

It is not his place. If you accept to be her cuckold, then you should accept the choices that she makes. Second guessing her or putting listening device is not done imho.

Yes, I know this sounds harsh but I say w770 deserves a public flogging for trying to spy on her aas he did, instead of just accepting what is happening.

The cuckold needs to be the rock in the relationship. While she goes wild, he needs to provide the anchor. He need to be the stable home she can return to safely after her thrysts. Keeping secrets from her is the opposite of what he should be doing.

Yeah, I'm exaggerating but still... be the stable rock she can lean on, not someone keeping secrets from her. A cuckold marriage cannot survive if there is no trust.

So just trust her to know what she's doing. And meanwhile simply hold on to your precious hat and wait quietly in the corner to see if she comes back.

[w770]

You are blessed with quite a wife!

Did anything else of note make it into the overnight bag?

I haven't checked since yesterday, but honestly, I don't really know what else she would pack. I saw that she packed her birth control pills in her purse, so that's good.

Oh man W. The count down begins now. Good or bad I feel like this is going to be a transformative weekend for both you and Lana! Do you feel that pit in your stomach growing yet? You know that Adam is going to do everything in his power to make Lana his over the next 2 days… And Lana probably can’t wait to let him take her.

Yeah , my stomach is feeling a bit of a knot, but I'm trying to stay busy with work. My earpiece is constantly in now, just to see if Lana gets on Facetime with Adam, but so far, she's just been on work calls and typing.

You are a braver man than me W!

I honestly couldn’t stomach such a douche bag being allowed to have more fun with her after how he reacted to the rejection the first time round.

But why oh why am I feeling all angsty as well?!

If this was my L I’d honestly have had to tell her I couldn’t stomach it. I’m gonna struggle imagining being in your shoes the next couple of nights.

Good luck buddy. Hope it’s all you wish for.

Thank you. I'm glad I have the banana-rama text to use as a backup if it all becomes too much, so that is putting my mind at east slightly.


Update: I'm thinking that I'll probably text Lana at some point tonight to see if she wants to FaceTime as I'm going to bed. It'll be interesting to see what happens if she's in the middle of getting fucked in Adam's bed when that call comes in.

[w770]

What I don't like is the dishonesty between Lana and w770.

Lana I can understand. In the heat of the moment rules will be broken and she may ne hesitant to tell the full truth. Same thing, going bareback despite prior agreements, happened to me and several other cuckold. And likely more who are still unaware to this day. I think this type of transgression is to be expected and I dont think to much of it, homestly.

But then there is w770 who is secretly filming his wife with an old phone. He too is not telling his wife things that she has a right to know.

But in the case of the cuckold, the deceit is not happening in the moment but is well thought out and planned.

A cuckold should not go behind his wife in such a fashion. It is not his place. If you accept to be her cuckold, then you should accept the choices that she makes. Second guessing her or putting listening device is not done imho.

Yes, I know this sounds hash but I say w770 deserves a public flogging for such trying to spy on her, instead of just accepting what is happening.

The cuckold needs to be the rock in the relationship. While she goes wild, he needs to provide the anchor. He need to be the stable home she can return to safely after her thrysts. Keeping secrets from her is the opposite of what he should be doing.

Yeah, I'm exaggerating but still... be the stable rock she can lean on, not the guy keeping secrets from her. A cuckold marriage cannot survive if there is no trust.

So just trust her to know what she's doing. And meanwhile simply hold on to your precious hat and wait quietly in the corner to see if she comes back.

I completely understand the sentiment of your comment and I can't say that I wouldn't give someone else the same advice. But the only reason why I feel okay with recording her is that I know that after this weekend, when I call the game to be paused, all text message conversations, all picture and videos, and everything else will be brought to light. I also know that Lana will not be upset in the slightest. We've looked through each others phones and emails before, we freely and openly communicate with each other. But this situation is slightly different because there is a delay in our actions and the dialogue as we are playing a longer form drawn out "game" of sorts. I never had any intention of keeping this from her indefinitely.

[TheHammer]

Update: I'm thinking that I'll probably text Lana at some point tonight to see if she wants to FaceTime as I'm going to bed. It'll be interesting to see what happens if she's in the middle of getting fucked in Adam's bed when that call comes in.

You may just want to text her a “good night, love you” text tonight as she may completely in her sub slut space. I think you should just let her be free for the weekend with little to no communication to make the most of the weekend experience for both of you without you regularly “checking in”. It will make the angst and then the reclamation and you hearing what she did that much hotter when she returns. Just some food for thought for the entire experience.

[vicg]

First of all … hi w770. I'm new to commenting on this thread … I don't know how I missed it for so long, but I have devoured the whole thing over the past couple of days and love it. What a ride you two are on!

She's never done anal and has always maintained that she really isn't into it.

True … but she also loves to be submissive to a dominant man, and in her other encounters the men weren't pushing anal either. I think if Adam wants it, she'll give it to him … and love doing it, because of the slutty, submissive thrill of it.

Update: She's leaving tonight after work for her "girlfriend's" place. Apparently, they're going to dinner and then back home, but I'm wondering if that means she's going to have dinner with Adam, or have dinner with her friend followed by Adam's place. Lana is still adamant about none of our friends knowing about our lifestyle, so I highly doubt that she'll have Adam come out and meet her friend.

I share the same questions. You've said in the past that the two of you have trackers on each others' phones. Are you planning to check where she goes?

[SixInchDick]

I was just thinking... this Adam guy ticks a box on the bucket list for "Wife gets used & dominated by asshole bully who is superior in bed". That's been a fantasy of mine. Some guy who is a cocky prick and gets free access to my wife's pussy and mouth, with no condom, and she loves it. What do you think about that concept?

[Mattmattiass]

You are a braver man than me W!

I honestly couldn’t stomach such a douche bag being allowed to have more fun with her after how he reacted to the rejection the first time round.

But why oh why am I feeling all angsty as well?!

If this was my L I’d honestly have had to tell her I couldn’t stomach it. I’m gonna struggle imagining being in your shoes the next couple of nights.

Good luck buddy. Hope it’s all you wish for.

I feel the same way. Couldn’t do it. I feel angst for you.

[w770]

First of all … hi w770. I'm new to commenting on this thread … I don't know how I missed it for so long, but I have devoured the whole thing over the past couple of days and love it. What a ride you two are on!

She's never done anal and has always maintained that she really isn't into it.

True … but she also loves to be submissive to a dominant man, and in her other encounters the men weren't pushing anal either. I think if Adam wants it, she'll give it to him … and love doing it, because of the slutty, submissive thrill of it.

Update: She's leaving tonight after work for her "girlfriend's" place. Apparently, they're going to dinner and then back home, but I'm wondering if that means she's going to have dinner with Adam, or have dinner with her friend followed by Adam's place. Lana is still adamant about none of our friends knowing about our lifestyle, so I highly doubt that she'll have Adam come out and meet her friend.

I share the same questions. You've said in the past that the two of you have trackers on each others' phones. Are you planning to check where she goes?

I agree with you that if Adam wants to fuck her ass, she'll let him, as she's clearly smitten with him. As far as tracking her tonight and this weekend, I think I'm going to try and hold off on checking, but I have no idea if I'll be able to resist. It would be pretty hot to check and see that her location is in the Lower East Village - as I know that's the general location of where he lives.

Update: I'm thinking that I'll probably text Lana at some point tonight to see if she wants to FaceTime as I'm going to bed. It'll be interesting to see what happens if she's in the middle of getting fucked in Adam's bed when that call comes in.

You may just want to text her a “good night, love you” text tonight as she may completely in her sub slut space. I think you should just let her be free for the weekend with little to no communication to make the most of the weekend experience for both of you without you regularly “checking in”. It will make the angst and then the reclamation and you hearing what she did that much hotter when she returns. Just some food for thought for the entire experience.

I remember back when Shawn was fucking her in our bed and I was at work, I called her and I remember thinking about how hot it was knowing that she was trying to maintain a calm tone while simultaneously having his giant horse cock in her pussy. So that's my thinking in possibly calling her tonight, but we'll see. She might just text me back saying she's at a loud restaurant and that she wouldn't be able to hear me.

I was just thinking... this Adam guy ticks a box on the bucket list for "Wife gets used & dominated by asshole bully who is superior in bed". That's been a fantasy of mine. Some guy who is a cocky prick and gets free access to my wife's pussy and mouth, with no condom, and she loves it. What do you think about that concept?

It's definitely a major turn on at this point. Lana has also been very attracted to younger guys, so that's what makes the whole Adam thing so appealing, knowing that she's really turned on by it.

You are a braver man than me W!

I honestly couldn’t stomach such a douche bag being allowed to have more fun with her after how he reacted to the rejection the first time round.

But why oh why am I feeling all angsty as well?!

If this was my L I’d honestly have had to tell her I couldn’t stomach it. I’m gonna struggle imagining being in your shoes the next couple of nights.

Good luck buddy. Hope it’s all you wish for.

I feel the same way. Couldn’t do it. I feel angst for you.

Every time I look at the clock, my stomach turns a little more.

[tojanman]

Has Lana appeared nervous at all? Either Last night or today?

[scarlettscuck]

Wow. This buildup is intense! Hang in there W, enjoy the ride and know Lana will be back in your arms soon. I for one, can’t imagine how I’d handle this but we love pushing boundaries. She needs this. You need this. We are all here to support you fellow cuck!

[shawnm]

W,
- how many times has Lana likely slept with Adam so far?
- As per your talks with Lana, what all kinky stuff has been done by them?
- does Sebestian still contact?
- Is Shawn still around chatting? Do you chat with him?
- That Shawn's friend of 3some. I wonder how can someone resist fucking Lana. Shouldn't he have tried to reconnect with Lana atleast a few times and try to get back with jet?
-

[leander99]

Poor Sebastian, he did all the preparations but no pussy for him. I'm not sure which of the two is getting cucked the hardest right now, w770 or Sebastian

[TheHammer]

Is the angst starting to build? Remember, you will be reclaiming her wrecked pussy in 48 hours so hang in there. It will be worth it in the end when she shares everything with you.

[w770]

Has Lana appeared nervous at all? Either Last night or today?

I wouldn't say that she seems nervous. If anything, it's been business as usual with her today. We're about to go out to lunch together. I can't wait to do simple things like this with her again after this weekend.

W,
- how many times has Lana likely slept with Adam so far?
- As per your talks with Lana, what all kinky stuff has been done by them?
- does Sebestian still contact?
- Is Shawn still around chatting? Do you chat with him?
- That Shawn's friend of 3some. I wonder how can someone resist fucking Lana. Shouldn't he have tried to reconnect with Lana atleast a few times and try to get back with jet?
-

How many times have Adam and Lana slept together - From what I know, it was about once, and sometimes twice a day for about a week and a half when we were in CT. But from what I heard the other night of their conversation, they apparently have slept together in our car at least once, which I didn't know about, so there may be others times that I don't yet know about either.

As far as kinky stuff - I guess it depends on how you define the concept. I know that he likes to spank her and have her worship and beg him, but I don't really know if that qualifies as kinky, but that's all I have at the moment.

Regarding Shawn and Sebastian - they would text with her if they were to reach out, and she hasn't mentioned either one of them in a bit.

Shawn's friend, Eric - I think Shawn had some sort of "claim" to Lana that maybe he knew not to cross?

[w770]

Poor Sebastian, he did all the preparations but no pussy for him. I'm not sure which of the two is getting cucked the hardest right now, w770 or Sebastian

I really liked him too. I had imagined that the past 3 day weekend would be full of the three of us laying around naked in bed together.

Is the angst starting to build? Remember, you will be reclaiming her wrecked pussy in 48 hours so hang in there. It will be worth it in the end when she shares everything with you.

I'm definitely getting that feeling in my throat right now.

[Novice1980]

W.... Keep the goal in sight

Sunday with what she can remember and you fucking that sweet pussy.

[Topnotch]

Go check unclecucks post in the hotwife section. Could be a good place for you tonight. Just saying