It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

[Novice1980]

Btw what ended up being the agreement about his phone? Leaving it a nother room?

[newUK]

Trying to put myself in W’s shoes. If I jerked off, my mental state would completely change and I’d be like “what the fuck am I doing letting her be with him”.

It’s why I’d ensure I was caged in chastity when L does her first overnight.

Hope you are doing ok W.

The team is rooting for you!

[MonaLisaOverdrive]

Some alcohol is fine. Just don’t go too crazy on the whiskey.

I am offended sir whisky is the necter of the gods

[Novice1980]

Trying to put myself in W’s shoes. If I jerked off, my mental state would completely change and I’d be like “what the fuck am I doing letting her be with him”.

It’s why I’d ensure I was caged in chastity when L does her first overnight.

Hope you are doing ok W.

The team is rooting for you!

I totally understand your point. But getting hammered serves no purpose. That only leads do dumb decisions under press/angst. But the cage would have given it all a nice twist. Adam would be in total control....

Anyway. He is sound a sleep in his tent🥰

[shawnm]

W, does her live location show Adam's area?

[w770]

...

Update: I'm having a hard time at the moment and drinking my way through this. Mostly because it's raining pretty hard in the city right now and I have an affinity for walking in the city at night in the rain. There's something about it that's always seemed comforting to me, and now Adam will likely be doing that with my wife.

I couldn't help myself and I tracked her location. She's at a restaurant right now. And I just poured myself another drink.

W, I would really recommend that once she comes back, both of you reconnect and stop this cheating wife game. I don't mean cheating wife game with Adam, but hiding things between you guys. I feel it should be like Shawn times where you are 100% on-board and in the know of what's exactly happening and also being their in person for half of the encounters.
In this episode, everything that she is doing is in secrecy. In her mind, she doesn't know that you know she is likely meeting and spending night with Adam (assuming that is true) and will be doing things that you won't mind aware about.
So basically you are also being totally cheated. Whether this is roleplay or not is irrelevant as done couple of times will become a habit. Don't go there yet, else you will spend such lonely drunken nights. If you want that, then that's another story, else post this weekend, every sexual encounter or stuff with 3rd party should be known to you as well (not under the guise of knowledge that you have access to her chats anytime, I mean actual communication).

Else you yourself are leading her on a path to cheat on you and this will be like a ticking time bomb in future. Why jeopardize your awesome relationship and stay out of the know always.

As for a thought that this is how cucks are supposed to behave, I totally don't agree! There is no University of Cuckold which has a syllabus on how cuckold are supposed to behave. You do what feels right for you both in your relationship while experience cuckoldry.

Hang in there and once you guys reconnect, please establish new rules and boundaries for a healthy relationship. Else both parties will just be cheating each other.

I think you're spot on.

Update: I just woke up. Head spinning. I drank way too much. Anyway, I checked her location, and she's in the Lower East side. Her friend that she's supposedly staying with lives on the Upper West Side. The app says she's been there for the last 5 hours.

[parmaham55]

Everyone’s version of this lifestyle is different and you two are finding your own version that works for you. W, your communication of updates and feelings really helps us all to understand. So please take any comments as just a different perspective, aimed at being supportive and helpful.

So, I’m sorry if I sound a little jaded, a little cynical of Lana in the thoughts I wish to express, but hopefully you take it in a kind spirit, always looking out for you in this.
To me, it seems like you’ve moved a very long way from that moment over six months ago now, when Shawn stared you down when he came out your own bedroom with his huge cock proudly on show after fucking Lana. They were exciting, heady days.
Since then, it feels like Lana has had it all her own way, and now unleashed, she is living exactly the lifestyle she wants without thought of involving you in it. (For a small example, surely it might have upped the excitement if she had asked you to help her pack and choose lingerie for the weekend.)

But, each to their own.

The bigger worry is trust. She has capably lied to you about the bare sex, only breaking down when Adam exposed the truth, then successfully and emotionally getting herself back onto her track and her plan.
In response to that, instead of pleading for honesty, you have joined in by spying on her without her knowledge, so now both of you are breaking trust. Also witholding from her that her lover is sending you messages - okay, she may know about that as part of the game, but there’s a reasonable chance she doesn’t, so you’re not sharing your humiliation with her. What will her thoughts of you be like if he shows her those messages today for the first time - will she laugh, or will she be embarrassed that her husband hasn’t even shared them with her?

But each to their own.

It probable that whatever she comes back and tells you about her weekend, you can at least double it, to get close to the truth of what happened, not just the sex but the entire emotional journey. It could be Adam again that exposes her lies or her economy with the truth.

I am fully agreeing with shawnm, after this weekend it’s time for a full reset for you both. Time to bare your souls. I'd say you ask her to drop Adam entirely forever, and resume the lifestyle when Shawn returns, and/or with Sebastian, and/or find new. This could be a good test. It’s not like it would have been if you had asked her to drop Shawn when you weren’t sure if she’d ever pick up this cuckoldry game ever again. You know now that she’s hooked, and can relatively easily pick up with new guys, so why not just drop Adam as a test of her commitment to you. It’s not like you’re getting much out of her relationship with him. You’ll get much more from those other situations where your involvement is much greater, and hopefully she will too.

Just my thoughts offered in good spirit. Good luck, and I hope your weekend goes well, we are all behind you, W.

[shawnm]

Ok, so Adam's balls deep in either her pussy or ass. Hope she tells about if there is any anal activity. On the side, I would also recommend you to check for signs of abuse when she comes back. Abuse like marks on ass or face or breast, etc as he seems to be very rough and dominant and I fear if he also would be into face slapping and knowing how Lana is, I am sure that she will go along with whatever he does. You need to set a hard boundary for all such probable things for future. Else, moving forward you will always feel left out and will start resenting lot of things. Strong relations are not built on such grounds.

If I were in your place, I would in fact not send any messages till she comes back, this would kind of show her that you don't approve of this lying to you and will not take you for granted in future.

Believe me Adam will try to brainwash her to another level. Shawn was different. Adam is toxic and evil.

[shawnm]

You should firstly infact not even tell her that you are aware that she is getting fucked by Adam the whole night and probably spending lover time with him. She has slyly cheated and went to have sex with adam, while telling you that she is with her friends. Check out and see if she tells you first about it. It is very important that she comes forward and tells you on her own, rather than catch her and tell her that you know about it. If it's like that, then she has likely learnt to cheat on you without your knowledge and it's a dangerous trend. So think about all this carefully. Ask her about her weekend and see whether she reveals. If not, tell her that the game of not sharing details with each other is off and then ask again how was her weekend and if she still lies, then it's time for a big discussion.

[leander99]

Everyone is saying that Lana is lying and cheating.

I don't see why. She has broken one or two promises in the heat of the moment. But that happens, as any cuckold should know. It does not make her dishonest or lying.

Everything else she is doing right now is fully in agreement with what she and w770 discussed. She is not breaking any rules right now. In fact, she is doing exactly what w770 asked her to do.

Yes, Adam is asshole, and that guy will probably turn out to be trouble. But save those worries for another day.

Everything willl be fine

Edit:

Lana knows that w770 is either strongly suspecting what is happening or that is fully aware, despite her "lies". They both are fully aware of the game they are playing. She is simply giving w770 what he wants from her, while getting her own boat thoroughly rocked as well.

[shawnm]

W, did you check the facebook/insta updates of the friend whom Lana was going to spend time with?

[Open2it]

Today will be a long day but through it all remember that you both were interested and ripe to explore this lifestyle. Lana is giving you what you both wanted and now seem to enjoy. Angst, while tough to experience in the moment, is the drug that makes the reconnection sweeter.

Knowing she’s your wife who others find incredibly sexy validates your role as a cuckold and hers as your cuckoldress. You are giving her the gift of exploring mind-bending sex with younger, dominant, well-endowed men of her choosing. That doesn’t make them better than you. She loves you and also seems to enjoy a semi-cheating type of role play. She knows you know where and who she’s with. But by not vocalizing it she can enjoy the illusion of keeping you in the dark until afterwards.

In the last six months she’s had sex with multiple guys, two at least have really rocked her world sexually. Would you have been happier if she only fantasied about others and never experienced the joy of hot, no strings sex while your sexual relationship declined over time? Would you have been happier if she had chosen to really cheat and not shared any of the details with you even knowing you had cuckold fantasies? I think not. Embrace the angst and all that it represents. Focus on the erotic and you’ll both be able to share the things that really turn you on for a long time to come.

[Whenwillshe]

W, I would send a bananarama today.
My issue with the whole thing has been the apparent totallacknof respect from Adam and Lana as well as the deception from her.
He surely doesn't deserve access to her gifts and you deserve more consideration of your feelings and needs.
It occurs to me that you fill certain needs for her but as soon as she connects with someone mentally who can also fulfill her sexually, your role may end.
I think some brakes need application and Adam needs to go.

[Mattmattiass]

Did she text at all last night. Wouldn’t she normally if she was with the girls - just to let you know what’s going on?

[shawnm]

Generally by this time, W is back from his gym. He has not logged since 5 -6 hours. So most likely, he is slept all drunk and upset. Looking forward to updates on whether he has heard back at all from Lana. I wouldn't go bananarama yet. If she intends to extend one more night i.e. Sat night with Adam, then perhaps bananarama. Or let this weekend play out as it is and post that, all the issues can be worked upon. But like some say that this is what W wanted and Lana is playing that role, I don't think so. W is clearly agitated and it seems he doesn't approve of her decisions, but he is just playing along for some time, so as to not look like a spoilsport OR fears repercussions from Lana (with respect to general drama). I think, waiting till she comes back and whether she divulges the truth is important.
Or has W received some vids from the asshole taking his devoted wife's virgin asshole.

[leander99]

The only worry I have is Adam. There's no knowing what he may try, and he has already shown that he does not respect Lana's marriage in any way whatsoever. In my view not a good candidate for this kind of play.

But I have no fear of Lana. She enjoys the game but she does know her marriage comes first.

[edgedndenied]

Lana knows that Adam knows where she is and who she is with. She knows she has the tracking app on her phone. They played the cheating wife/suspicious husband act all week. It will be interesting how things play out after this weekend. Maybe Lana will bring everything out into the open with Adam and explain that W knows everything. Then Adam can come out to Lana's and W's condo for overnights and weekends. He can then be the DOM BULL to both of them.
I do think the hidden camera phone should be kept on when she gets back. He may find out more true info listening to there conversations then she is tellng him. It would be interesting to have her dominated by both Adam and Shawn at the same time

[edgedndenied]

I ment Lana knows that W knows where she is

[StandingO1984]

Once again, a bit short on time as we're planning to go to the gym together this morning so I'm waiting for her to finish getting ready. I might have time to update more fully today but if with gets busy, I'll have more time tonight and this weekend to get to the questions I saw.

Update: Date night was actually really nice. I asked that we take a soft pause and told her that I really want her to just be safe. I say "soft pause" as I didn't outright mention Adam by name and mainly left it as "the city can be scary sometimes and you need to be aware of your surroundings." This isn't far off from what I've mentioned to her before whenever she gets her hair done, as whenever we've been in the city together, I'm the one looking out for potential threats while she's blissfully unaware of anything around her. But I think she understood what I was saying, as we have really great communication and we can say things without really saying things to each other.

Anyway, she put her hand on top of mine and said , "you know, I really don't have to go to the city this weekend. Say the word and I'll cancel right now."

Her willingness and gentleness in that moment told me that she's still the same sweet Lana. She also squeezed my hand and told me "I miss you too."

We ended agreeing that she should go have fun this weekend, but if at any time I want her to come home, to send her a text with a banana -rama, and without any questions having to be asked, she will immediately get an Uber and come home.

Without having to talk about Adam directly, she promised me that she'll be safe this weekend, and that Sunday will be all for us. So it goes without saying, we'll be reclaiming and reconnecting Sunday morning when she comes home.

When we got home, we opened up a bottle of wine and just listened to music with the dogs on the balcony. Eventually we ended up in bed, only this time, we just held each other. It oddly reminded me of the night before Shawn and her were going to fuck in our bed. Like it was a bitter sweet moment as we both knew this weekend, she'll be with Adam.

After about an hour, her phone started vibrating, and even though she was still awake, she never made a motion to check it. "Aren't you going to see who it is?" "No, I'm good right here."

Some of you nattering nabobs of negativism need to re-read W’s post above. Lana is playing the part W prescribed—free to play with Adam and to withhold the information for months if necessary. Lana is a good woman and next-level cuckoldress. When she returns—tonight or tomorrow—the reclaiming will be beyond epic.

W, our friend, take the forum’s advice with a grain of salt—at some level we’re all envious; some folks’ comments are a projection of their own empathetic angst. You’re doing great! Ride it out and never doubt Lana’s devotion to you.

[Gulfcpl]

I bite my tongue most of time on here. As I said long ago on this forum, so many want to project their own fantasy into a thread. W is a grown man and Lana is a grown woman. They’ll do what they want to do. Oh, and he can drink what he wants to drink and how much. It’s his story and fantasy, not ours.

[Trickydicky69]

My concern is always whether Lana is still playing the game within the pre-set boundaries or if she has been swept up by NRE, the unaccustomed thrill of being dominated and the attraction to his big cock.
Suddenly, old, safe and pleasant lives can be swept away by this so you do have to be mindful of it.
I’m not saying stop but I think he is right to call a soft pause and take stock.
If Lana can do that, then all ok.
If she can’t and starts lying about it, there’s a big problem.
And she has lied before.

[Open2it]

I think they’ll both be fine. This isn’t their first rodeo nor is it their first brush with NRE. Angst is a powerful emotion that fades when the date is over. Lana also offered to call off the weekend when she and W spoke on their recent date night and he demurred. Which tells me they are both playing within the boundaries they both are comfortable with. They have a safe word if things get out of hand. Each are playing their roles which can make for some intense experiences.

[TheHammer]

I think it’s a positive she has been stationary on GPS. With this cheating wife game it was effectively silently communicated that she was going to the city to be thoroughly fucked and that is what they agreed to. It would be a bad sign if the GPS showed they were on a date moving around town.

It was nearly certain she was going to the city to meet Adam. It would have been a surprise if the GPS showed her at her friends place or at Sebastian’s.

Based on the gps, this weekend is going as we all assumed it would.

The angst will be worth it when she returns and W reclaims her sexually and emotionally.

[Mr1SexyGILF]

Guessing this has been the longest night of your life.

Thank You for bringing us along for the ride.

Mr GILF

[w770]

Thanks for all of your words of encouragement, warnings and red flags, opinions and criticisms. I'm taking it all to heart and am hoping to have some stretch of time to directly respond to a lot of them today/tomorrow.

Update: spent the last 3 hours in the gym, weights, cardio, sauna, really trying to clear my head and be in the moment. Lana texted me earlier, saying that she was leaving her friend's place with the girls for their hair appointment and that they had plans to go to lunch afterwards followed up with some shopping. I checked her location and she was still on the lower east side (presumably Adam's place). So I video called her but she didn't respond. 2 minutes later, she video called me back, and I asked about her night. She was still in bed and had the covers pulled up to her shoulders, so she very well could've still been naked in bed with Adam. She definitely seemed distracted, and said that she didn't want to be late for the appointment, so the call was quick, and we ended it with "I love you's." I think it's safe to assume that Adam was right there, watching and quietly laughing at my supposed cluelessness.

She's at her hair dressers now, and will likely be there for the next 3 hours. As far as her friend's social media, she posted pictures of what looks to be a dinner date with her husband last night, so it looks like Lana and Adam had dinner together.

I'm going to call a banana rama pause tomorrow when she gets back (assuming she stays the night again with Adam) and that reconnecting conversation and hopefully reclaiming will determine if we keep going in this game, or move onto what we had before with Shawn or even Sebastian.

My mind is racing with questions. Did she do anal with Adam? How many times did they fuck? Did she make him delete any videos? Even if she did, did he secretly record her again? How "romantic" was their time last night before going back to his place? What "couple things" are they doing today after her hair appointment?

I can't drink like that again today. Being hungover hurts. I used to be able to shake them off in my 20s without too much effort. But now, they tend to last well into the afternoon.