It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

[KevDi69]

That guy doesn’t give up!
I think it’s good that Lana wants to focus on being a Mom rather than running to him for nights of sex. I doubt that he has been exclusive to Lana lately and the risk of an STD and resulting harm to the baby is too high.

[JeffBingham]

If you don't want to block him yet, why don't you at least just turn off Read Receipts so he can't know if you've read his texts or not?

[TheHammer]

Send Adam a pic of Lana sucking on Shawn’s cock and let him know Lana has upgraded and found a better fuck buddy.

[lovethis]

Some how I think there is an air of inevitability about to happen spurred on by you. It took you years to make this happen and you are still in denial that your wife has changed focus. As you have successfully done in the past you will change her mind again. I was worried for you as are the others, but now I see that this is what you really need and are finding harder than your wife to put on hold. So all the best. I Iook forward to what comes next and continue to appreciate you, Lana and the ability to provide us with updates. This is still an amazing thread even though there is no sex at the moment. How is your sex life with Lana at the moment, if you don't mind me asking? Of course this is just my opinion and we do not have the full details only what you write. Forgive me if I am way off the mark.

[trecital]

Some how I think there is an air of inevitability about to happen spurred on by you...... As you have successfully done in the past you will change her mind again. I was worried for you as are the others, but now I see that this is what you really need and are finding harder than your wife to put on hold.

Very perceptive comment. I have always felt that this thread is more about w770's desires, than it is about Lana's.

[shawnm]

Update: So I haven't blocked Adam yet as I'm curious how this will play out. I woke up to over 10 messages from Adam - more of the same, really. Things like, "Your wife was the best fuck I've had in years. She told me the same, lol." "I fucked the shit out of her tight little pussy on your side of the bed, sorry!" "She would text me the second you left for work. Said she needed a real man's cock."

I got back to him this morning saying, "You caught her in a moment of weakness. She made a mistake. We've moved forward." Of course this prompted him to send me a barrage of messages back. "LOLOL, yeah a "mistake" is when you lose your keys. Spreading her legs for me and telling me to make her cum.... NOT a mistake." "I gotta hand it to, Lana - she can really take a pounding." and "You want me to stop? You had enough?" Let me fuck her again, but this time, in front of you."

Honestly, this intrigued me a bit, and I mentioned it to Lana, but she says she is fully done, and that she's mentally moved on.

He saw that I read his last message, and wrote, "I know you saw my message. Think it over. If not, I'm just gonna fuck her anyway, so at least this way, you get to see her actually being satisfied."

W,
- Has he really fucked her in your home, on your bed, on your side? As he claims? He even mentions that Lana used to call him once you left for office, which I am presuming he is blatantly lying as you both work from home.
- Was there any such day he may have fucked Lana in your home and your are unaware?
- Is this something hidden from you by Lana?
- Why don't you call him out on his bluff and let him know that he has never come to your home and see what he tells you.
- I think you should somehow let him know the following and see his reaction::
-- That Lana is super happy and satisfied in your sex life.
- That you both do lot of kinky stuff together.
- Somehow bring up the topic of taboo things for Lana like anal, dp that she will never do ever in her life and see what he tells you.
- Had you already seend the spanking video that he sent you or was it something new and your didn't know about it. Was her ass sore and red due to that?
- see if you receive some videos that are unaware and perhaps Lana is also unaware and that has been somehow recorded on one of his hidden cam.
- This man is a nuclear missile and if like last time, if Lana doesn't shut up with her pussy and ass, he will turn toxic and do nonsense. Not that I am telling you to do it, just an observation of his personality.
- imagine with this personality and if he believe that your kid is borne by him, you may face some real toxic shit in your life in foreseeable future. Best to safeguard family and kid.
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[w770]

He saw that I read his last message, and wrote, "I know you saw my message. Think it over. If not, I'm just gonna fuck her anyway, so at least this way, you get to see her actually being satisfied."

As a reader of this, it doesn’t matter to me what ultimately happens here so I don’t give ridiculous advice. I do know one thing for sure. It’s your responsibility as her husband to protect her and your family. He’s moving from harassment to threats. Take heed my friend. The excitement isn’t worth it.

I'm just glad that he's never been to our home and if it ever came to that sort of threatening sort of scenario, we have a pretty secure set up here with our building, doormen, and dare I say, multiple firearms in the home.

That guy doesn’t give up!
I think it’s good that Lana wants to focus on being a Mom rather than running to him for nights of sex. I doubt that he has been exclusive to Lana lately and the risk of an STD and resulting harm to the baby is too high.

Right. He definitely could get several women without much effort given his looks and bravado, but according to him he hasn't been able to stop obsessing over Lana.

If you don't want to block him yet, why don't you at least just turn off Read Receipts so he can't know if you've read his texts or not?

I didn't know that that was a possibility but will look into it now, thanks.

Some how I think there is an air of inevitability about to happen spurred on by you. It took you years to make this happen and you are still in denial that your wife has changed focus. As you have successfully done in the past you will change her mind again. I was worried for you as are the others, but now I see that this is what you really need and are finding harder than your wife to put on hold. So all the best. I Iook forward to what comes next and continue to appreciate you, Lana and the ability to provide us with updates. This is still an amazing thread even though there is no sex at the moment. How is your sex life with Lana at the moment, if you don't mind me asking? Of course this is just my opinion and we do not have the full details only what you write. Forgive me if I am way off the mark.

Some how I think there is an air of inevitability about to happen spurred on by you...... As you have successfully done in the past you will change her mind again. I was worried for you as are the others, but now I see that this is what you really need and are finding harder than your wife to put on hold.

Very perceptive comment. I have always felt that this thread is more about w770's desires, than it is about Lana's.

I mulled this over for a bit to see if there is something behind what you're saying. Our exploration into this lifestyle definitely was spurred on by me initially, but once Shawn was able to break through, Lana became much more engaged in it. As far as the sex between us lately, we've made love a bit in the last few weeks. Before any of this ever started, she would prefer sweet, caring, and slow penetration with a lot of kissing. She's gone back to a lot of that in terms of what she tells me to do in bed, but when she wants me to finish, she knows what to say, and will simply mention something that she know will get me to cum such as, "Adam fucks me so much better......" She's even fabricated up some scenarios like how Evan was at her bachelorette party, which is why he seemed so familiar to her, and took her into the bedroom while her friends all listened to them have sex. She definitely always knows what to say in order to get me to cum without much effort.

So I think there is some truth into your comment, in that it's been primarily been driven by me, but at the same time, I think that perception may also be colored by the fact that the communication between Adam and myself is more intriguing to me at this moment than it is to Lana, who really just spends her time reading Mommy blogs and who couldn't be mentally further away from the lifestyle.

Update: So I haven't blocked Adam yet as I'm curious how this will play out. I woke up to over 10 messages from Adam - more of the same, really. Things like, "Your wife was the best fuck I've had in years. She told me the same, lol." "I fucked the shit out of her tight little pussy on your side of the bed, sorry!" "She would text me the second you left for work. Said she needed a real man's cock."

I got back to him this morning saying, "You caught her in a moment of weakness. She made a mistake. We've moved forward." Of course this prompted him to send me a barrage of messages back. "LOLOL, yeah a "mistake" is when you lose your keys. Spreading her legs for me and telling me to make her cum.... NOT a mistake." "I gotta hand it to, Lana - she can really take a pounding." and "You want me to stop? You had enough?" Let me fuck her again, but this time, in front of you."

Honestly, this intrigued me a bit, and I mentioned it to Lana, but she says she is fully done, and that she's mentally moved on.

He saw that I read his last message, and wrote, "I know you saw my message. Think it over. If not, I'm just gonna fuck her anyway, so at least this way, you get to see her actually being satisfied."

W,
- Has he really fucked her in your home, on your bed, on your side? As he claims? He even mentions that Lana used to call him once you left for office, which I am presuming he is blatantly lying as you both work from home.
- Was there any such day he may have fucked Lana in your home and your are unaware?
- Is this something hidden from you by Lana?
- Why don't you call him out on his bluff and let him know that he has never come to your home and see what he tells you.
- I think you should somehow let him know the following and see his reaction::
-- That Lana is super happy and satisfied in your sex life.
- That you both do lot of kinky stuff together.
- Somehow bring up the topic of taboo things for Lana like anal, dp that she will never do ever in her life and see what he tells you.
- Had you already seend the spanking video that he sent you or was it something new and your didn't know about it. Was her ass sore and red due to that?
- see if you receive some videos that are unaware and perhaps Lana is also unaware and that has been somehow recorded on one of his hidden cam.
- This man is a nuclear missile and if like last time, if Lana doesn't shut up with her pussy and ass, he will turn toxic and do nonsense. Not that I am telling you to do it, just an observation of his personality.
- imagine with this personality and if he believe that your kid is borne by him, you may face some real toxic shit in your life in foreseeable future. Best to safeguard family and kid.

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Well, I think what Adam meant by "bed" was the hotel room bed in CT. I seriously doubt that he's ever had her in our marital bed or that there's anything I don't know about because we both work from home and are around each other pretty much all of the time. As far as the spanking video, it honestly got lost in the mix of videos that I've gone through in her phone as there's a LOT, and I haven't had time to watch all of the in their entirety. Your other comments I'll address in the update.

Update: Adam messaged me again and asked me if I thought over his proposition to let him fuck Lana while I watch, and I told him that it's never going to happen. "LOL. Wrong choice."

Lana woke up to a message from a number that she didn't recognize saying, "Lana, it's Adam. I know you blocked my other number but I can't stop thinking about you. Please. Lets have some fun again. I'll come to you."

She hasn't responded to him, even though he's written her a few more times. "Are you pregnant? Can you at least tell me that? I KNOW we made a baby that night..."

Oddly enough, he's been pretty silent today to both of us. Lana is brushing it off like it's nothing, as I assume that she's quite experienced in guys falling for her.

[KevDi69]

"Are you pregnant? Can you at least tell me that? I KNOW we made a baby that night..."

I think telling him that she is pregnant but it is your baby would be an appropriate kick to his nuts!

[w770]

"Are you pregnant? Can you at least tell me that? I KNOW we made a baby that night..."

I think telling him that she is pregnant but it is your baby would be an appropriate kick to his nuts!

Well she's pretty committed at this point ignoring him, and I think he got the hint finally, as he's been bombarding my phone with messages, a lot of them screenshots of their conversation detailing how she can't wait to have his cock inside of her again, how slutty she felt being shared with him and Evan, her saying that she would let him cum inside of her, etc. Basically confirmation that they've had sex after CT.

"Sorry bro. Me and my boy took turns on her. Lol."

I've ignored and blocked him, but he soon after created a new profile and sent me a video of him taking her from behind, apparently right after he made her cum. "Your husband ever make you cum like that?" "No..."

I feel like blocking him only goes so far as he'll just make another profile, so I'll probably just ignore him for the time being.

[Topnotch]

Profile?

[w770]

Profile?

He's been messaging Lana on Facebook and also SMS text, but he doesn't have my number, so he messages me on Facebook.

Update: He's now sending me screenshots of him and Evan talking about Lana. It's getting a bit much in my opinion, beyond the point of intrigue. However, it seems like any time I respond to him, he just comes back with some snarky comment and laughs. There's no leveling with him or getting him to stand down. So my best option at this point is to just ignore him and hope it cools down.

[Topnotch]

Well surely he is doing the same thing with Lana? I would just have to assume

[afagehi7]

Profile?

He's been messaging Lana on Facebook and also SMS text, but he doesn't have my number, so he messages me on Facebook.

Update: He's now sending me screenshots of him and Evan talking about Lana. It's getting a bit much in my opinion, beyond the point of intrigue. However, it seems like any time I respond to him, he just comes back with some snarky comment and laughs. There's no leveling with him or getting him to stand down. So my best option at this point is to just ignore him and hope it cools down.

Time for a restraining order

[tojanman]

He’s being a sore loser right now. Plus you can take solace in the fact that Lana has ruined all other women for Adam as she’s set the bar so high. He’s going to have a very hard time finding a woman as good as your wife lol. Poor kid…

[Topnotch]

I would even think Evan is probably messaging her also?

[BoBatty]

He's been messaging Lana on Facebook and also SMS text, but he doesn't have my number, so he messages me on Facebook.

So he has access to both of your Facebook accounts meaning he has access to your friend lists and he has videos / screenshots not only of your conversations but most likely Lana's face while having sex?

[w770]

Well surely he is doing the same thing with Lana? I would just have to assume

I just asked her and she said that he's left her alone. I guess he's resorting to "asshole mode" and I'm the one he's taking it out on.

Profile?

He's been messaging Lana on Facebook and also SMS text, but he doesn't have my number, so he messages me on Facebook.

Update: He's now sending me screenshots of him and Evan talking about Lana. It's getting a bit much in my opinion, beyond the point of intrigue. However, it seems like any time I respond to him, he just comes back with some snarky comment and laughs. There's no leveling with him or getting him to stand down. So my best option at this point is to just ignore him and hope it cools down.

Time for a restraining order

That's definitely a possibility if he doesn't change course in time.

He’s being a sore loser right now. Plus you can take solace in the fact that Lana has ruined all other women for Adam as she’s set the bar so high. He’s going to have a very hard time finding a woman as good as your wife lol. Poor kid…

We should've known considering how he acted out the first time she told him that it was over.

I would even think Evan is probably messaging her also?

I asked Lana, and nope. But I don't rule it out as something that might follow soon.

He's been messaging Lana on Facebook and also SMS text, but he doesn't have my number, so he messages me on Facebook.

So he has access to both of your Facebook accounts meaning he has access to your friend lists and he has videos / screenshots not only of your conversations but most likely Lana's face while having sex?

Right, this is why we've been treading lightly - because he found her FB profile after CT. She says that he let her go through his phone to make sure there are no videos with her face, which I know he could have uploaded those videos to Dropbox or some other site, but it's the consequence we have to live with. My only consolation is that he would have sent me videos with her face if he had them at this point.

Update: He just messaged me - "How's everything at home? Lol, pretty bad I'm guessing. Me and my boy spent the whole weekend slutting your sexy little wife out. Took her bare too. Lol. Oh and I almost forgot - I took her ass. LOL."

Still ignoring him for now.

[MonaLisaOverdrive]

Profile?

He's been messaging Lana on Facebook and also SMS text, but he doesn't have my number, so he messages me on Facebook.

Update: He's now sending me screenshots of him and Evan talking about Lana. It's getting a bit much in my opinion, beyond the point of intrigue. However, it seems like any time I respond to him, he just comes back with some snarky comment and laughs. There's no leveling with him or getting him to stand down. So my best option at this point is to just ignore him and hope it cools down.

This dude is a real velcro shoe wearing knucklehead. I would suggest a simple cease and desist letter, I suspect one of these wouldn't be too much trouble for you. But make it clear contacting you, Lana, your work places or your friends/family will result in legal action. This guy just doesn't take a hint and is a sore loser. When he finally realises it's over and he isn't getting a response from you, he may decide it's a good idea to try burn your life to the ground.

I would get ahead of the potential of that as he clearly isn't able to reason out logical effects and consequences of his action.

[Topnotch]

Who knows what hw truly has on video...saying he had hidden cameras in his apartment? He may be saving them for what he feels is the right moment. I hope not, but you can't trust someone like this

[lovethis]

He has data on Lana pictures video texts and is using that info to get at you. He may threaten to use that data against you both and put it out there in the public domain. The way he is harassing you both could be his next move. Sounds like a hotwife leftover who is finding it hard to move on.
You need to show him the man you really are and have a word to him face to face and try and get that shit from him.
Tell him the truth and explain how it is not his. If you don't he will play with you more trying to put doubt in your mind about the baby being his.

That gets me thinking with the lifestyle. Data is collected as a hotwife has a fling or something more meaningful. What happens when it ends and the boyfriend and hotwife move on. In our day and age with social media things happen instantly boyfriends must hang on to the memories etc. Once it is out there you have no control over what happens to your data.

[shawnm]

All the things happening with Adam were bound to happen as many of us had mentioned and that W had also expected once he is cutoff. So I guess, W and Lana were kind of ready for this and perhaps were hoping that he might not do it. I think, the more he is ignored, the more he will try to burn your marriage. At this point, he doesn't care about Lana one bit. All he is focusing is on how to destroy her marriage.

[leander99]

By "ignoring" you mean "block", right?

[w770]

Profile?

He's been messaging Lana on Facebook and also SMS text, but he doesn't have my number, so he messages me on Facebook.

Update: He's now sending me screenshots of him and Evan talking about Lana. It's getting a bit much in my opinion, beyond the point of intrigue. However, it seems like any time I respond to him, he just comes back with some snarky comment and laughs. There's no leveling with him or getting him to stand down. So my best option at this point is to just ignore him and hope it cools down.

This dude is a real velcro shoe wearing knucklehead. I would suggest a simple cease and desist letter, I suspect one of these wouldn't be too much trouble for you. But make it clear contacting you, Lana, your work places or your friends/family will result in legal action. This guy just doesn't take a hint and is a sore loser. When he finally realises it's over and he isn't getting a response from you, he may decide it's a good idea to try burn your life to the ground.

I would get ahead of the potential of that as he clearly isn't able to reason out logical effects and consequences of his action.

All the things happening with Adam were bound to happen as many of us had mentioned and that W had also expected once he is cutoff. So I guess, W and Lana were kind of ready for this and perhaps were hoping that he might not do it. I think, the more he is ignored, the more he will try to burn your marriage. At this point, he doesn't care about Lana one bit. All he is focusing is on how to destroy her marriage.

You're both right. We were anticipating this outcome, and had a cease and desist ready to go. Lana has his address so it wouldn't be hard to have him get it. We're also thinking of the semi-drastic measure of deleting our FB accounts and creating new ones for our family and friends, hoping that he hasn't bookmarked our family/friends pages.

He has data on Lana pictures video texts and is using that info to get at you. He may threaten to use that data against you both and put it out there in the public domain. The way he is harassing you both could be his next move. Sounds like a hotwife leftover who is finding it hard to move on.
You need to show him the man you really are and have a word to him face to face and try and get that shit from him.
Tell him the truth and explain how it is not his. If you don't he will play with you more trying to put doubt in your mind about the baby being his.

That gets me thinking with the lifestyle. Data is collected as a hotwife has a fling or something more meaningful. What happens when it ends and the boyfriend and hotwife move on. In our day and age with social media things happen instantly boyfriends must hang on to the memories etc. Once it is out there you have no control over what happens to your data.

I think we were just spoiled in a way with Shawn in that he wasn't really on social media and this sort of thing wasn't really a concern. But I think Adam represents much more of reality of guys in their 20's as they're all over social media and tend to use it for malicious purposes if they don't get their way.

Who knows what hw truly has on video...saying he had hidden cameras in his apartment? He may be saving them for what he feels is the right moment. I hope not, but you can't trust someone like this

Well again, my hope is that the reason why he hasn't sent me videos with Lana's face is because he doesn't have any. It could be naïve, but it makes sense.

By "ignoring" you mean "block", right?

Right. Sorry, the terminology gets muddled for me sometimes.

Update: I finally responded to him. "I'm asking you nicely to leave us both alone. The next time you cross the line will result in legal consequences." I honestly didn't expect much impact from this other than further antagonizing him, which is what happened as he replied to me with a series of messages and videos. "You think I'm scared of some small dicked cuck that can't make his wife cum?" "Wanna watch your wife ride my cock like a whore?" Then he sent me a video that he took as her phone was propped up on the desk in his bedroom of her riding him as he spanked her repeatedly for cheating on me, adding to the red marks already on her ass, Lana moaning each time afterwards. "You know she told me to cum in her, right? We def made a baby that weekend."

Since he keeps going, I'm left with no choice but to send out the cease and desist tomorrow morning. Not how I wanted this to end, but Adam was the one that chose this path.

[r_h_nc]

w770

Adam knows both your legal names?

[leander99]

If you actually just block him, and stop responding, what can he do?

Does he know where you live? Can he do harm via social media?

If no, I'd let him choke on it in silence. He is feeding on the attention you are giving him, even if it os negative attention. That's scary, but starve him and he will move his gaze somewhere else.

I fear legal action may instead feed the beast instead. But if he may cause harm then it may be the only way forward