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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by r_h_nc » Tue Sep 12, 2023 7:59 am

SixInchDick........A woman's libido while pregnant isn't universally the same and in fact, can vary from trimester to trimester.

w770: I hope the less than enthusiastic sex with your wife was solely a result of her apprehension about harming the baby.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by w770 » Tue Sep 12, 2023 8:18 am

SixInchDick wrote:
Tue Sep 12, 2023 7:24 am
w770 wrote:
Tue Sep 12, 2023 5:17 am
She seems to have lost a lot of sex drive, opposite of what some have said would happen, lol.
Yeah I feel like I'm the only one whose wife didn't become a sexual beast from pregnancy. She lost all of her drive.
Lana definitely seemed that way too until a few days ago. And after she started talking with Shawn, it seemed like it awakened that side of her again.
r_h_nc wrote:
Tue Sep 12, 2023 7:59 am
SixInchDick........A woman's libido while pregnant isn't universally the same and in fact, can vary from trimester to trimester.

w770: I hope the less than enthusiastic sex with your wife was solely a result of her apprehension about harming the baby.


It may have been, but also another part of it may have honestly been her craving for more of the sexually charged fucking that all of her lovers in the past few months have been able to give her and that I never really have.

Update: Lana has been looking for flights to Cali and it looks like there's a good chance of her going this weekend, if not next weekend.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by Nfhw » Tue Sep 12, 2023 8:37 am

How to feel about venturing into hotwiring now that it seems to have resulted in your being cut out of your wife's sexual life?

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by w770 » Tue Sep 12, 2023 8:51 am

Nfhw wrote:
Tue Sep 12, 2023 8:37 am
How to feel about venturing into hotwiring now that it seems to have resulted in your being cut out of your wife's sexual life?
Sorry for my unawareness, but I'm not exactly sure what that would entail. Does it mean that she would have sex with others while I don't? Because that's basically what the last few months have been like anyway.

Update: Her tickets have been booked and she's leaving this Friday for California. It looks like the plans are to stay at his place the entire weekend, but she mentioned that there's a chance that she might stay out there longer than the weekend, so she'll be bringing her work computer with her. Also, if she does stay out there longer than expected, they might get a hotel, as she feels like she'll be able to work with more focus in that setting, and besides, she loves having sex in a hotel room bed.

Before heading back into the office, she kissed me as I asked her if she was excited. "Sooo excited...."

We also talked about the dynamic that we want to have in place. With Adam, it quickly spiraled into something that we didn't like, so I told Shawn that I'm fine with, and in a lot of ways, welcomed, the humiliation. But actual threats are not to be tolerated, which honestly, I never really felt that way with Shawn in the first place as he seemed to understand the line that wasn't to be crossed.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by Nfhw » Tue Sep 12, 2023 8:56 am

As a "Wannabe" I have focused on the frequent comment that hotwifing improved the quality and frequency of sex between the married couple as well. It doesn't seem to be the case with W770. Why?

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by tojanman » Tue Sep 12, 2023 9:58 am

Wow this just seemed to manifest from out of the blue! Have you guys talked about how you want to be included in the play as well? Would you consider also flying Eric down for the weekend?

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by leander99 » Tue Sep 12, 2023 12:06 pm

Wow, how fast things change...

All of us are going to be pressing F5 again the whole weekend or maybe longer

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by lovethis » Tue Sep 12, 2023 2:23 pm

Yes sex is not a risk while pregnant. As long as he takes it easy. And you never know with the meet up you may get some more too. It looks like this is your life now. Do you feel that the only way forward for you to have sex with Lana is that she has to have sex with her big cocked lovers that love to humiliate you and affirm to Lana that you will never be a real man.

Oh and the fact that she loves you unconditionally and will never leave you the father of her child. W you really are the man. You are a real man that loves the lifestyle.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by Wifesharing » Tue Sep 12, 2023 3:03 pm

Glad the doctor could confirm.

I think her lack of interest in sex was thinking that it was over and the sex with you was all she was going to have. It seems now that she has a taste for better sex she is not likely to stop anytime soon especially with you being on board with it all. It a win win win for her.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by parmaham55 » Tue Sep 12, 2023 3:04 pm

Hey W770, this is fantastic news. Looking from afar, a trip to CA was always on the cards, and Shawn the real deal all along, so that's really challenging for you, but really exciting for you both. If you look back, Shawn was always very respectful (in a bull, controlling, kind of way) which Lana craved, and you did too. She'll have a real high going there for a weekend. You can be sure he'll look after her properly, so no worries there.

It'd be interesting to discover, if you can, whether Shawn has bedded anyone else since his total infatuation with your Lana. He was painted as a total stud, babe magnet, but the evidence was never there - he fell deep for Lana.

Does she still have, and wear the necklace? Imagine seeing her off at the airport, her wearing that, clutching it as she flies west for him. The pain, but thrill, will be on another level.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by shawnm » Tue Sep 12, 2023 4:13 pm

w770 wrote:
Tue Sep 12, 2023 7:21 am


Update: So now there is talk about her possibly flying out to California (just her) to be with him for a long weekend. She also let him know that she's pregnant, so he knows to be gentle with her.
So this answers my question. She finds sex with you boring as of now. By the way, congrats once again and wish the very best for three of you.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by KevDi69 » Tue Sep 12, 2023 4:47 pm

“ but she mentioned that there's a chance that she might stay out there longer than the weekend, so she'll be bringing her work computer with her.”
Who are you kidding? There is a 100% chance she will extend until Tuesday or Wednesday. At that point, she will say she might as well stay for the weekend. 🤣

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Unread post by william70 » Tue Sep 12, 2023 4:54 pm

IMHO here's my 2 cents. She has not lost any of her sex drive as she clearly wants to fuck someone else. She is board with your love making. Your penis/positions and oral isn't making it anymore.
I don't have any answers for you. I'm sure you've read enough of this forum to know what can come next. There are men on here who haven't had sex with their wives for years and seem to be very happy with that. Would certainly like to hear your take on this situation.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by Whenwillshe » Tue Sep 12, 2023 5:45 pm

Like I've said before.
Big genie, little bottle.

My fear is she stays permanently

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by lovethis » Tue Sep 12, 2023 5:52 pm

You opened pandora's box after years of her telling you no. Talk to Lana where you envision where you guys are at. Tell her what you want out of it as you have done in the past. It should be beneficial to both what ever floats your boat. Talking to Shawn is a great step. Humiliation with respect.
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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by shawnm » Wed Sep 13, 2023 2:49 am

I am positive that Lana will let Shawn take her anally multiple times. Hope Shawn is anal virgin and Lana can teach him how to fuck her ass. Can you find out from Lana whether she has discussed anything anal with Shawn now. Hope they do a FaceTime with you while he is balls deep inside her ass. Will be fun!

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by parmaham55 » Wed Sep 13, 2023 3:42 am

w770, have you two discussed whether Lana will offer up anal sex to Shawn? He asked for it often enough before. If so, will she surprise him by wearing a butt plug for him to discover - as a way of announcing her willingness?

Will she pretend to be an anal virgin for him? Does he even know about Adam (and the others..!) or would that spoil the magic for him? Does he think she’s been loyal to you and him ever since he last saw her?

Does she anticipate sharing herself around his close friends this weekend? Or at least show off to them in some way? Proudly flaunt her bump, a married pregnant lady on Shawn’s arm…quite the statement. I imagine many of them will instant erections at the thought of that opportunity.

How do you feel about their non-sexual relationship this weekend? All those times they simply eat, workout, spend time at movies, bars etc etc together, arm-in-arm, him protective of her?

Does Cara know she is going yet? This knowledge will blow Cora’s mind.

Do you have any knowledge of how active Shawn has been recently in and amongst the Cali married women that you know he loves to take?

So many questions!

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by lovethis » Wed Sep 13, 2023 3:51 am

Whenwillshe wrote:
Tue Sep 12, 2023 5:45 pm
Like I've said before.
Big genie, little bottle.

My fear is she stays permanently
Guarantee she stays longer than the weekend. May be a few weeks. She is taking her work and planning a longer stay anyway. Hotel and all. Will she stay permanently? I doubt it. Shawn is young and won't want any responsibilities.

She did shut everything down when she found out she was pregnant no more play for a few months. Obviously she had a cracking time before her pregnancy and misses getting really fucked by real men. This is a great outcome for you as well. You were also bored of vanilla and wanted your wife to continue fucking. Just not Adam. I am happy for you because Lana will play after the birth of her baby. It is part of her mind set now. She now has expectations that can only be met by Shawn and co. Great outcome for you.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by w770 » Wed Sep 13, 2023 7:35 am

tojanman wrote:
Tue Sep 12, 2023 9:58 am
Wow this just seemed to manifest from out of the blue! Have you guys talked about how you want to be included in the play as well? Would you consider also flying Eric down for the weekend?
Well we've discussed how I would like to get updates every so often but I understand that too many constant updates might kill the moment, so I'm trying not to be pushy in that way. I trust Lana's understanding of what I want and need so I'm sure she'll do enough to keep me on the edge. In terms of Eric, there have not been talks about flying him out. However, Shawn did mention that he's excited to show her off to some of his buddies out there in Cali.
leander99 wrote:
Tue Sep 12, 2023 12:06 pm
Wow, how fast things change...

All of us are going to be pressing F5 again the whole weekend or maybe longer
I'm already feeling some angst. My big dillemma will be whether I allow myself to cum or not, knowing that if I do cum, I'm scared that I might regret the decision to let her go out there, as there won't be a way for her to quickly come home.
lovethis wrote:
Tue Sep 12, 2023 2:23 pm
Yes sex is not a risk while pregnant. As long as he takes it easy. And you never know with the meet up you may get some more too. It looks like this is your life now. Do you feel that the only way forward for you to have sex with Lana is that she has to have sex with her big cocked lovers that love to humiliate you and affirm to Lana that you will never be a real man.

Oh and the fact that she loves you unconditionally and will never leave you the father of her child. W you really are the man. You are a real man that loves the lifestyle.
Thank you! And yes, I'm thinking that this may be a glimpse into the future of our sex life. I can't really say that I regret it.
Wifesharing wrote:
Tue Sep 12, 2023 3:03 pm
Glad the doctor could confirm.

I think her lack of interest in sex was thinking that it was over and the sex with you was all she was going to have. It seems now that she has a taste for better sex she is not likely to stop anytime soon especially with you being on board with it all. It a win win win for her.
It definitely seems that way. It started off with some morning sickness, but when she stopped having those symptoms, I expected our sex life to pick up, which it never really did.
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Tue Sep 12, 2023 3:04 pm
Hey W770, this is fantastic news. Looking from afar, a trip to CA was always on the cards, and Shawn the real deal all along, so that's really challenging for you, but really exciting for you both. If you look back, Shawn was always very respectful (in a bull, controlling, kind of way) which Lana craved, and you did too. She'll have a real high going there for a weekend. You can be sure he'll look after her properly, so no worries there.

It'd be interesting to discover, if you can, whether Shawn has bedded anyone else since his total infatuation with your Lana. He was painted as a total stud, babe magnet, but the evidence was never there - he fell deep for Lana.

Does she still have, and wear the necklace? Imagine seeing her off at the airport, her wearing that, clutching it as she flies west for him. The pain, but thrill, will be on another level.
She still has the necklace, but honestly, she was never really keen on it as she has a particular taste in jewelry, and lets be real - what does a single guy in his 20's know about jewelry. She thinks it's a cute thing that she has, but she doesn't wear it as it's not up to her typical standards.
shawnm wrote:
Tue Sep 12, 2023 4:13 pm
w770 wrote:
Tue Sep 12, 2023 7:21 am


Update: So now there is talk about her possibly flying out to California (just her) to be with him for a long weekend. She also let him know that she's pregnant, so he knows to be gentle with her.
So this answers my question. She finds sex with you boring as of now. By the way, congrats once again and wish the very best for three of you.
Yeah you were right about that. After about half a year of the best and most exciting sex of her life, there was really no where to go but down I guess.
KevDi69 wrote:
Tue Sep 12, 2023 4:47 pm
“ but she mentioned that there's a chance that she might stay out there longer than the weekend, so she'll be bringing her work computer with her.”
Who are you kidding? There is a 100% chance she will extend until Tuesday or Wednesday. At that point, she will say she might as well stay for the weekend. 🤣
I'm thinking that she will extend, but as of now, the plan is to come back Monday morning.
william70 wrote:
Tue Sep 12, 2023 4:54 pm
IMHO here's my 2 cents. She has not lost any of her sex drive as she clearly wants to fuck someone else. She is board with your love making. Your penis/positions and oral isn't making it anymore.
I don't have any answers for you. I'm sure you've read enough of this forum to know what can come next. There are men on here who haven't had sex with their wives for years and seem to be very happy with that. Would certainly like to hear your take on this situation.
My hope is that sex with Shawn will bring her to the point where she craves the contrast, and begs me to make love to her instead of being "fucked" like I'm expecting Shawn to do.
Whenwillshe wrote:
Tue Sep 12, 2023 5:45 pm
Like I've said before.
Big genie, little bottle.

My fear is she stays permanently
I'm anticipating that she'll extend by a few days, but it just doesn't make sense for her to stay permanently. We have an entire life here, her family is here, our home, her friends, etc. It just is too impractical for her to stay with him long term.
lovethis wrote:
Tue Sep 12, 2023 5:52 pm
You opened pandora's box after years of her telling you no. Talk to Lana where you envision where you guys are at. Tell her what you want out of it as you have done in the past. It should be beneficial to both what ever floats your boat. Talking to Shawn is a great step. Humiliation with respect.
Lana mentioned the same thing to Shawn and he's since started texting me. More on that in the update.
shawnm wrote:
Wed Sep 13, 2023 2:49 am
I am positive that Lana will let Shawn take her anally multiple times. Hope Shawn is anal virgin and Lana can teach him how to fuck her ass. Can you find out from Lana whether she has discussed anything anal with Shawn now. Hope they do a FaceTime with you while he is balls deep inside her ass. Will be fun!
parmaham55 wrote:
Wed Sep 13, 2023 3:42 am
w770, have you two discussed whether Lana will offer up anal sex to Shawn? He asked for it often enough before. If so, will she surprise him by wearing a butt plug for him to discover - as a way of announcing her willingness?

Will she pretend to be an anal virgin for him? Does he even know about Adam (and the others..!) or would that spoil the magic for him? Does he think she’s been loyal to you and him ever since he last saw her?

Does she anticipate sharing herself around his close friends this weekend? Or at least show off to them in some way? Proudly flaunt her bump, a married pregnant lady on Shawn’s arm…quite the statement. I imagine many of them will instant erections at the thought of that opportunity.

How do you feel about their non-sexual relationship this weekend? All those times they simply eat, workout, spend time at movies, bars etc etc together, arm-in-arm, him protective of her?

Does Cara know she is going yet? This knowledge will blow Cora’s mind.

Do you have any knowledge of how active Shawn has been recently in and amongst the Cali married women that you know he loves to take?

So many questions!
I'm not sure about this. I think the big appeal for Lana doing anal was because Adam wanted it badly, and she was submitting to him by doing something she wasn't necessarily into for him. Shawn never really pushed the issue so I don't think there will be any of that. But I could be wrong.

As far as the non-sexual side of their time together - I'm quite jealous of that to be honest. It's in this space that guys tend to fall for her.

In terms of Cara - yes, Lana just told Cara about her trip last night. Unsurprisingly, Cara is incredibly jealous, and expressed how she wants to seriously start looking for another guy to fulfill her needs, even though her and Cory are still married. Lana mentioned how this is entirely different as I was always aware of all of her activities (for the most part) and that having another man inside of her without Cory's knowledge or approval is a horrible thing to do. I'm not sure how much of that Cara really took in though. That marriage was doomed before it began.

Update: Like I had mentioned above, Shawn and I have started a text conversation. He was pretty respectful and we spent some time establishing boundaries. After that was set, I told him that it's okay for him to mention humiliating comments and that above all else, be careful and respectful of her and the baby.

Lana and I made love last night, and she was much more into it than the last time. She put her toy in her mouth as I told her to show me what she'll be doing with Shawn. As I made love to her, instead of moaning, she screamed "HARDER SHAWN!!! HARDER!" I came a few seconds after that. She's in a really lively mood this morning too as she begged me to take her after we got back from the gym.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by lovethis » Wed Sep 13, 2023 9:12 am

What a great outcome. Good on you W. Vanilla doesn't work for the both of you. Lana appreciates your willingness to share her and you appreciate Lana fulfilling your fantasies as well as hers. You guys are talking and communicating and are on the same page. Enjoy the next few months. Look forward to future updates of Lana's adventures with Shaun.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by tojanman » Wed Sep 13, 2023 9:18 am

What were some of the boundaries your and Shawn talked about? Have you set any new limits with him that weren’t in place the last time he and Lana played? Is there anything that you’re really nervous about? And finally, building on this forum’s focus on booty sex, does Shawn know that Lana is no longer an anal virgin and it’s a viable “door #3” now?

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by US31 » Wed Sep 13, 2023 1:14 pm

The cuddling and kissing in between sessions is what makes me worry the most.
But I wouldn’t change it even though my stomach is in worry knots.
And my wife tells me very little of the non-sex conversations.
Just tells me to shush about that!

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by leander99 » Wed Sep 13, 2023 2:16 pm

Shawn should use Snapchat or something similar to send you some action photos. The type of app where you have 30 seconds to watch the photo..... and poof! It's gone forever....

A real treat for a real cuck

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by mundyman » Wed Sep 13, 2023 2:52 pm

I guess we now what what Lana’s craving is during her pregnancy.
Big hard crack, attached to a young, study guy, who fucks her senseless.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by tojanman » Wed Sep 13, 2023 5:46 pm

mundyman wrote:
Wed Sep 13, 2023 2:52 pm
I guess we now what what Lana’s craving is during her pregnancy.
Big hard crack, attached to a young, study guy, who fucks her senseless.
Big hard crack? Tyrone Biggums would be proud of Lana lol.

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