Another man loves my wife

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Re: Another man loves my wife

Unread post by Bovary2012 » Mon Sep 18, 2023 11:23 am

I'm very sorry for your loss, Mark.

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Re: Another man loves my wife

Unread post by shadowtantra » Fri Apr 05, 2024 1:15 pm

I am just seeing this having been off the board for a while and had followed Mark and Julie's thread for years. Belated and sincere condolences Mark. I am so sorry for your loss.

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Re: Another man loves my wife

Unread post by SubGuy » Sun Oct 13, 2024 10:50 am

One of the most amazing journey's on this site, but such a sad ending.

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Re: Another man loves my wife

Unread post by cuckhus15 » Sun Oct 20, 2024 8:25 am

Another man loves my wife too. She loves us both but enjoys him better. They have a chemistry I will never be ablet to duplicate.

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Re: Another man loves my wife

Unread post by DavaoMike » Tue Oct 22, 2024 11:42 am

cuckhus15 wrote:
Sun Oct 20, 2024 8:25 am
Another man loves my wife too. She loves us both but enjoys him better. They have a chemistry I will never be ablet to duplicate.
My wife is deeply in love with her boyfriend, yet her love for me has never diminished. I don’t try to duplicate anything because her love for each of us is separate and distinct. Sort of like having both a fancy sports car and a comfy large Cadillac. I have both of those and like driving one versus the other depending on my mood. I don’t prefer one over the other.

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Re: Another man loves my wife

Unread post by olive2a » Fri Oct 25, 2024 3:25 am

DavaoMike wrote:
Tue Oct 22, 2024 11:42 am
cuckhus15 wrote:
Sun Oct 20, 2024 8:25 am
Another man loves my wife too. She loves us both but enjoys him better. They have a chemistry I will never be ablet to duplicate.
My wife is deeply in love with her boyfriend, yet her love for me has never diminished. I don’t try to duplicate anything because her love for each of us is separate and distinct. Sort of like having both a fancy sports car and a comfy large Cadillac. I have both of those and like driving one versus the other depending on my mood. I don’t prefer one over the other.
It's a way of life like any other but it shouldn't be obvious to everyone.
sex is one thing but love is another.

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Re: Another man loves my wife

Unread post by dinoo » Fri Nov 01, 2024 1:54 am

olive2a wrote:
Fri Oct 25, 2024 3:25 am
DavaoMike wrote:
Tue Oct 22, 2024 11:42 am
cuckhus15 wrote:
Sun Oct 20, 2024 8:25 am
Another man loves my wife too. She loves us both but enjoys him better. They have a chemistry I will never be ablet to duplicate.
My wife is deeply in love with her boyfriend, yet her love for me has never diminished. I don’t try to duplicate anything because her love for each of us is separate and distinct. Sort of like having both a fancy sports car and a comfy large Cadillac. I have both of those and like driving one versus the other depending on my mood. I don’t prefer one over the other.
It's a way of life like any other but it shouldn't be obvious to everyone.
sex is one thing but love is another.
Even before our marriage, my wife never hid her feelings for another man. She preferred to challenge me for it. And of course that is not without risks.
Later, we often discussed this issue and both of us were of the opinion that being in love is a very human thing.
That we had struck each other we considered a unique coincidence.
Open communication on this subject, that openness, gave us the mutual trust that was very deeply rooted.
Decades later, when she fell in love with another man as HW, that frankness was still there.
And what was the consequence? Our very close relationship got better and better.

I admit, it could have ended differently.
But without this lifestyle, this could also have happened.

Our way of life.................
Early in 2023, all my settings disappeared.
To read (and view) my contributions advanced search for author "dinoo".

We visited frequently a club. (www.kasteelwaterloo.nl)
It became "our" club.

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Re: Another man loves my wife

Unread post by olive2a » Fri Nov 01, 2024 9:47 am

dinoo wrote:
Fri Nov 01, 2024 1:54 am
olive2a wrote:
Fri Oct 25, 2024 3:25 am
DavaoMike wrote:
Tue Oct 22, 2024 11:42 am
cuckhus15 wrote:
Sun Oct 20, 2024 8:25 am
Another man loves my wife too. She loves us both but enjoys him better. They have a chemistry I will never be ablet to duplicate.
My wife is deeply in love with her boyfriend, yet her love for me has never diminished. I don’t try to duplicate anything because her love for each of us is separate and distinct. Sort of like having both a fancy sports car and a comfy large Cadillac. I have both of those and like driving one versus the other depending on my mood. I don’t prefer one over the other.
It's a way of life like any other but it shouldn't be obvious to everyone.
sex is one thing but love is another.
Even before our marriage, my wife never hid her feelings for another man. She preferred to challenge me for it. And of course that is not without risks.
Later, we often discussed this issue and both of us were of the opinion that being in love is a very human thing.
That we had struck each other we considered a unique coincidence.
Open communication on this subject, that openness, gave us the mutual trust that was very deeply rooted.
Decades later, when she fell in love with another man as HW, that frankness was still there.
And what was the consequence? Our very close relationship got better and better.

I admit, it could have ended differently.
But without this lifestyle, this could also have happened.

Our way of life.................
It's beautiful to read, you have a beautiful relationship. I wish you lots of happiness.

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Re: Another man loves my wife

Unread post by D+D » Sun Jul 20, 2025 6:55 pm

It is entirely possible for a woman to love two men simultaneously, maybe in different ways but each one just has much as the other. My wife fell in love with another man but our love never diminished at all. He couldn’t share her and made her choose. I honestly do not know if she would have chosen me if we hadn’t had family. She did and he broke it off. She was in depression for months but she started hotwifing again.
See our pics in the Hotties under My Wife Debbie

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Re: Another man loves my wife

Unread post by knight4princess » Wed Aug 13, 2025 1:24 pm

I started reading this thread two days ago and I binged it. I knew when it got to be about 2021 and there were only four pages or so before the end that something must have happened. I was shocked and saddened to learn of Juli's death. I hope the best for Mark. I'm sure he still hasn't gotten over it. I'm glad they lived life to the max while they both had a chance.

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Re: Another man loves my wife

Unread post by cpmici+ » Sat Sep 13, 2025 2:35 pm

Oh my God, so sad... I devoured the thread in three days and couldn't imagine the ending. I confess that reading it made me feel like I knew you personally, so emotionally involved were your experiences. I was eager to see his photo. Please accept, albeit belatedly, my deepest condolences.
At the same time, I wish you serenity and health.
A big hug
Hi, I'm new to this LS - I hope to convince the wife

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