Does Your Wife Like Rough Treatment?

[Tryagain]

Very recently something happened which has never happened before. My wife met a guy through an online site and had a coffee only meeting with him. She told me he was very tall and liked him and wanted to invite him over.

So, he comes over a week later. This attractive but huge guy walks in the house-quite an imposing figure. Later I learned he is 6 ft 5 in tall and weighs 230 lbs.

We hung out at the kitchen island and had a drink and chatted about his work. He is in sales now but used to be a stock trader. He said you must be tough in the financial business. Anyway, I could not get over looking up at him and how big this guy was. I am only 5ft 9 in and 170 lbs. So he has 60 lbs. more than me and 10 inches more in height. He also had a deep voice and exhibited a sort of aggressive, no-nonsense way about him.
Usually, most guys we meet are nice guys and wait for a clue to move upstairs and my wife is the one to lead the way after about 20-30 minutes. However, this guy sat on the island stools very close up to her and after about 10 minutes he rubbed her shoulder and back and told her how beautiful she is. No one has ever done something so soon and quite like he did.

He then pulled her gently head over to him and kissed her right on the lips. My wife is very accommodating in these sexual situations so she was easy to kiss. But it evolved into deep kissing.

He stood and led her to stand as well. He wrapped his very long arms around her, held her tight and began an intense make out. We have been at this a long time but I was surprised that nothing so quick and intense has ever happened before. I got rock hard then and there.
My wife said let’s go upstairs. He looked at me and shook his head in a way which said this is going to be good.

Once in the bedroom he again held her tightly and kissed her with real passion. He stripped down right away and his long and very thick cock popped up. My wife always goes down on the guys right away and she was sitting on the bed and grabbed his cock and began sucking it. She does not like that position so she always has the guys sit down on the bed, and lay back. She did what she always does – give him a long worship of his cock. He asked if she liked it and she said a strong yes especially when it is so thick. He put his hand on her head and pushed it down on him causing her to choke and she backed off his cock. She told him not to do that.

She stood up and stripped in from of him. He grabbed her forcefully and began sucking her tits passionately. I could see he was grabbing her tits tightly, pushing his face between them. My wife told him to ease up on them and he did.

At this point I thought that given his size and his manner, I felt powerless to stop him if that was needed. That thought aroused me even more.
They got into bed and he began orally arousing her. She really seemed to enjoy it. They then began fucking in the missionary position. At first she pushed at his chest telling him to go in slower and ease in. So they were fucking and he soon began to pound her heavy. He also grabbed her throat and then her face and hair. It seemed this huge guy laying on top of her was maybe getting out of control. Like I said before, my wife will go along with many things before complaining but she was not doing that now and she seemed to really enjoy the fucking.

After some time had gone by my wife asked to sit on top, He obliged and fucked her that way. When she bent over to kiss him, he started kissing and grabbing her tits kind of hard while he up thrusted into her pussy. After some time, he said he wanted to fuck her doggy and lifted her of his cock and tossed her over to the side.

He wanted to do it at the corner of the bed and just picked her up and literally tossed her like a rag doll to the edge. He commanded her to get in her knees. I was getting a little concerned about things but nonetheless excited.

He fucked her hard and long and took his whole cock out of her sometimes and then plunged it back in. She yelped each time. At one point he grabbed her hair but did not pull her head back. I heard her saying oh god, oh god and went around to look at her face. She had a grimace and her head bobbed around from the pounding. But she did not say anything to me. He did at one time look right at me and held the stare, like he was tempting me to say something or indicating “look at what I am doing to your wife.”

He said he was going to cum, picked up the pounding, and let out a scream when he came.

After he left we talked and she said she enjoyed his thick cock but he was way to rough and he was not going to come back.
I don’t know why, but I really enjoyed his aggressiveness and the way he manhandled her and how powerless I felt in his presence.

Has anyone had a similar experience with rough unexpected treatment or get excited by it ?

[BrunetteLover]

You can feel sexually powerless as part of a kink, that's fine. NEVER feel truly powerless around another man.

[SRKnight]

My HW generally does not like rough treatment. In the last 12 years she has been with many different men but none really into the rough stuff other than playing rough with her breasts.

There is one guy she met about a year ago though that she allows him to be a little rough, talk naughty to her, spank her, even wears nipple clips for him when they go out.

Just that one but it is her choice.

[DavaoMike]

My Filipina wife Maricel’s boyfriend, Adam, isn’t exactly “rough” with her, but he has a lot more stamina than I do (me, being much older than both of them). When Maricel and I make love, we’re slow and intimate. But Adam, while also loving and intimate with Maricel, gets more like a jackhammer when he’s excited, which is often. Maricel has expressed that she loves how Adam is in control and ravishes her like a rag doll.

DM

[Cdncuck]

There are people who seem to enjoy that kind of thing. To us it's just bad behavior and won't be tolerated.

[MartasBoy]

My wife has always said that she doesn't. But on some of the times when I have been allowed in the room with her and her boyfriend, I got to witness how she sets up situations for him to be aggressive and a little rough.

It is only when she is with him that I have witnessed this. She likes to play hard to get, and has told him that she likes it when he refuses to take "no" for an answer. I saw her clamp her legs together tight and roll on her side, curl up in a ball, and tell him that he can't have her, and she dares him to make her.

He is very muscular and will roll her over, pin her arms above her head, and force her legs open with his knees, and then slides into her. She shreaks with excitement at these times.

I have tried doing it to her like I have seen him do. I am not strong enough to restrain her on the bed and get her legs open. She will taunt and tease me, and say, "Come on big boy, are you going to take me like a man or not?"
After allowing me to struggle with her for a while, she will spread her legs and tell me to go ahead and take her, knowing that I always need help to get hard. I then have to roll off of her, and get myself hard. When I try to get inside of her, she will just do a Kegel move and squeeze me out. And I lose my erection again.

[isinlarsa]

Being rough with my wife is a good way to get castrated.

[bltn1966]

My wife says she wants a man to make love to her and not just wham Bam her. Whenever my wife cum (which can be often) she asked that she’s given a chance to gather her senses. Me and most guys follow her simple rule. But I’ve noticed my multi-orgasmic wife only squirted twice. Both times was with guys that was being very rough with her.

One night she was with this one young guy. He bent her over the end of the bed. He had one hand on the back of her neck to forcefully hold her down. Her little legs flailed away as he rammed into her as hard as possible. My wife was unable to get away from him if she tried. She was at his mercy. The guy didn’t stop pounding her when my wife started cumming. If anything, he fucked her harder. My wife stopped screaming and moaning and looked at me as if she was in pain. Her eyes and mouth was wide open but she was completely silent. I was close to telling the guy to stop when I HEARD (yes heard) her squirting. That was the first time that has ever happen to her.

A few years later she found herself in the same predicament with this tall crazy guy. He had her bent over the bed and she was unable to stop his onslaught. She screamed and hoped he would stop when she started cumming but he only fucked her harder. He yanked on her ponytail (which is a big no-no) and slapped her ass (another bug no-no). My wife was coming too hard to say anything to him. Soon, she went into a catatonic state for a few seconds before she started having a squirting orgasm. To this day my wife will say she don’t want to be sucked like a rag doll, but her squirting orgasms say otherwise.

[Tryagain]

Now that's what i am talking about! Great description. And something similar I can relate to. When my wife was fucked by a true 9 in cock, and the guy was pounding her doggy, I was looking at her face and she was grimacing and definitely in pain. I was waiting for her to say enough but she never did.

I asked her later about that and she said she was still enjoying it so much she did not want it to stop. Besides, he was so good-looking, she had to continue. Of course she had trouble walking away and was sore for 2 days after that.

[Tank Turner]

Fuck yes she does. Very early in our booty call relationship, she told me she loved rough, hard, hair pulling, neck grabbing, ass slapping sex. It wasn't on our first date, yet it wasn't long after we'd get together for dinner and sex or a movie and sex. I fucked her on our first date. She told me that doggie was her favorite position and she liked hard thrusts.

My wife told me she has never been a tender loving gal. She wants tender loving after hard pounding sex..

My wife would have been a huge success as a porn star.

[OldBoyToy]

My wife loves to held down by her wrists to the bed. About as far as she goes for rough play

[bltn1966]

Now that's what i am talking about! Great description. And something similar I can relate to. When my wife was fucked by a true 9 in cock, and the guy was pounding her doggy, I was looking at her face and she was grimacing and definitely in pain. I was waiting for her to say enough but she never did.

I asked her later about that and she said she was still enjoying it so much she did not want it to stop. Besides, he was so good-looking, she had to continue. Of course she had trouble walking away and was sore for 2 days after that.

I will never forget the look on my wife’s face, before, during and after, the guy made her squirt. She had a ‘confused WTF’ look when she realized she was squirting. My naive wife didn’t know anything about squirting. So she was confused as to what was happening to her body. Then the guy abruptly stopped fucking her. She rolled on the bed with her hands cupped over her pussy. It was like she couldn’t stop her pussy from quivering.

The guy laughed and mockingly asked her if she was ok. Before she could really answer he roughly bent her back over the end of the bed. My wife putting up a little resistance asked for a timeout. The guy ignoring her request started banging the shit out of her again. My wife immediately started squirting again. This time her body convulsed and she screamed the whole time she was squirting. My wife, who was still cumming, had a look of relief and disappointment when the guy finally stopped. I remember her looking at the soaking wet bed sheet and marveling at what had just happen to her.

[Tryagain]

My wife squirts occasionally but that first time was such a shock. She was on top and she totally soaked his cock and the bedsheets! There is something about being on top that does that to her.

[Tank Turner]

My wife loves to held down by her wrists to the bed. About as far as she goes for rough play

We've tried bondage a few times. My wife gets turned on when she's in bondage. But bondage limits our activity. We can't flip her over onto her hands and knees. It restricts her ability to suck cock. She can't sit on my face and grind her clit on my tongue. I'd rather have my wife's wrists and ankles free so we can maneuver her into erotic positions.

[SilverStag]

My wife likes assertive but not rough. She wants the guy to lead the way and "take" her. She, also, enjoys sex while in bondage. She says the lack of control is, to her, freeing.

It was good that you didn't stop him, as it seems she was enjoying it in the moment. The fact that later, upon reflection, she said she didn't want him back again, means that she tried something different, enjoyed it, but has (at least temporarily) crossed it off of her list.

[Lookingforadventure]

How is your wife doing? Has she talked about it again?

We only know your version of events but it sounds like this guy didn't respect her limits or listen when she told him to not do certain things. If it was me, that would be enough for me to not want to play with others ever again.

You might want to check in and see how she's feeling now that it has been a few days. You might also want to institute a safe word she can say in the future that let's you know it needs to stop.

[sw6]

My (now ex) HW had suggested she wanted to try rough, always preferring a confident man in bed. Having her ass spanked was what really turned her on.

One guy seemed to be all about this and we set up time for all three of us together. When I got home late I heard slaps coming from the open bedroom window. I went up to close them and found her standing partly bent over holding on to the foot of the bed frame being spanked but good.

I was worn out so I just watched. He really put it to her. Shortly I went down to get dinner, somehow I didn't find it that interesting as it didn't seem to really be what she wanted but I let her be. I think she let out a good scream at one point.

Soon enough she came down to me naked and out of sorts, telling me it was time for him to go. Totally unlike her, usually she would have at least been in a robe. So I showed him out.

Later she told me that he did this and that very dominantly and had his cock in her mouth very forcefully and asked her if he should finish that way to which she indicated yes as she didn't care for it to continue. Adding that I would have really liked watching that she thought.

An interesting part of the aftermath was she who usually had a two fuck rule as she thought the first one was just feeling each other out, thought he should come back and maybe she wasn't clear on the amount of punishment she wanted. And he called her which I intercepted to tell him continuing wasn't going to happen. He begged and insisted on talking to her saying he could adjust his play. I convinced her that the only way he was going to enjoy himself was to be like he had been.

[Shadnaster]

Through all this we learned that my wife does like it a little rough. Choking and spanking but that's about it. I've tried to spank her like her BF does but, it just doesn't feel right for me. We both usually end up laughing.

[leo-cpl]

Wife's not into rough play to extreme levels, she likes the occasional spanking but doesn't do much for her. We avoid playing with guys who are rough or into BDSM. However, I'm keen to let her explore and meet one of our regulars alone, I feel just brings a different dynamics when the husband is not around and she may be open to exploring new stuff which is in her comfort zone, she likes the idea and open to trying it once....lets see when it happens

[KinkyBear]

I think there are a lot of hotwives (really women in general) who crave being dominated. Whether that is primal rough sex, or more formal BDSM. In my experience it is hard to verbalize, but in general, they seem to want to turn themselves over to someone to do things with and to them that they could never imagine doing with a life partner.

At the same time, it is incredibly difficult for some men to imagine allowing such things to happen to the woman they swore to protect and cherish. Very much in the same way some husbands cannot handle their wives being too sensual or loving with another partner. It can be a hard needle to thread if the couple is not incredibly strong and communicative.

I had an experience with a couple that really changed how I look at engaging that kind of fantasy. The wife and I did most of the texting and got along really well. First meet up with them we played. It was a bit awkward as he was incredibly eager and wanted to be involved in everything. But I one point she was lying across my lap while I spanked her and she completely melted into my arms. It didn’t last long as he was right back in the mix.

Second date we had planned as more formal BDSM. I took a ton of time to talk to each of them separately and make sure they were comfortable with the plan. She wanted a hard session with paddles and floggers and all the fun painful toys! He sat on the couch and watched. Definitely tense. She fell into it pretty well but never fully let go. Every hard impact she would look over at her husband. I realized that she could not let go with him in the room. She was always aware of his presence and, I think, worried about what he thought. After awhile I called it off and we went into just a regular MFM. Which was fine. She and took a shower together and she just wanted to play without him in the room. Which wasn’t the agreement, so I declined.

Fast forward a week later and she texted that they were having issues and we would not be getting back together for awhile. Turns out that he had tried to spank her one night while they were fooled around and she laughed. He was a nice guy and eager, but just not the dominant play partner she wanted. She wanted him as her husband and life partner. They spiraled into divorce talk and counseling. I never found out how they ended up.

I took it as a cautionary tale. When couples are not on the same page about rough play and BDSM, it is a big red flag for me. It is dangerous to open that door before knowing how they each will handle it. In my experience it is much easier for everyone when they agree that the wife can go off and have that experience alone, then return to hubby satisfied and refreshed.

[leo-cpl]

I think there are a lot of hotwives (really women in general) who crave being dominated. Whether that is primal rough sex, or more formal BDSM. In my experience it is hard to verbalize, but in general, they seem to want to turn themselves over to someone to do things with and to them that they could never imagine doing with a life partner.

At the same time, it is incredibly difficult for some men to imagine allowing such things to happen to the woman they swore to protect and cherish. Very much in the same way some husbands cannot handle their wives being too sensual or loving with another partner. It can be a hard needle to thread if the couple is not incredibly strong and communicative.

I had an experience with a couple that really changed how I look at engaging that kind of fantasy. The wife and I did most of the texting and got along really well. First meet up with them we played. It was a bit awkward as he was incredibly eager and wanted to be involved in everything. But I one point she was lying across my lap while I spanked her and she completely melted into my arms. It didn’t last long as he was right back in the mix.

Second date we had planned as more formal BDSM. I took a ton of time to talk to each of them separately and make sure they were comfortable with the plan. She wanted a hard session with paddles and floggers and all the fun painful toys! He sat on the couch and watched. Definitely tense. She fell into it pretty well but never fully let go. Every hard impact she would look over at her husband. I realized that she could not let go with him in the room. She was always aware of his presence and, I think, worried about what he thought. After awhile I called it off and we went into just a regular MFM. Which was fine. She and took a shower together and she just wanted to play without him in the room. Which wasn’t the agreement, so I declined.

Fast forward a week later and she texted that they were having issues and we would not be getting back together for awhile. Turns out that he had tried to spank her one night while they were fooled around and she laughed. He was a nice guy and eager, but just not the dominant play partner she wanted. She wanted him as her husband and life partner. They spiraled into divorce talk and counseling. I never found out how they ended up.

I took it as a cautionary tale. When couples are not on the same page about rough play and BDSM, it is a big red flag for me. It is dangerous to open that door before knowing how they each will handle it. In my experience it is much easier for everyone when they agree that the wife can go off and have that experience alone, then return to hubby satisfied and refreshed.

WoW! This is such an eye opening experience! Communication between couples is just so important, what's off the table should be discussed openly and followed. At times the LS really tests couples I feel and they get burned rather than enjoying the LS.

[bltn1966]

We’ve been to a few swinger parties and my wife had NEVER come close to doing anything with anybody. We just hangout a little bit and leave. She said she would never do anything in a houseful of people. Plus she like to be wined and dined before she would even think snot having sex with someone. ONS are out of the question. Never happening!!!

One night we went to a party and saw this one tall white dude roughly fuck one of her friends. He just jackhammered the shit out here doggystyle. Later on we saw the same dude jackhammering another lady doggystyle. When we were getting ready to leave the big guy tried flirting with my wife. I thought he didn’t have a chance in hell with her. She just witness this total STRANGER throwing two ladies around like rag dolls. He fucked them like they were his personal fuck toy. The next thing I know the stranger was carrying my wife into an empty bedroom.

After a few minutes I peaked into the bedroom. That’s when I saw the guy had her bent over the end of the bed and banging here as hard as humanly possible. Since my wife is very vocal and orgasmic the guy was rougher with her then he was with the other two ladies.

When he fucked her doggystyle, my wife, collapsed on her stomach to get a break from his onslaught. The guy quickly got on top of her. He roughly held her face down on the bed and started pounding the shit out of her again. My wife started asking for a timeout but the guy ignored her and just kept fucking her very hard. Then suddenly she went completely silent. The squishy sound of her squirting, every time he thrust into her, is something I will never forget.

Afterwards I asked my wife what got into her. Why did she have sex with a total stranger that fucked her like there was no tomorrows. She said she didn’t know. It was a scratch she wanted to itch. She promised me that it probably would never happen again. I told her I would like for her to do it more often.

[leo-cpl]

We’ve been to a few swinger parties and my wife had NEVER come close to doing anything with anybody. We just hangout a little bit and leave. She said she would never do anything in a houseful of people. Plus she like to be wined and dined before she would even think snot having sex with someone. ONS are out of the question. Never happening!!!

One night we went to a party and saw this one tall white dude roughly fuck one of her friends. He just jackhammered the shit out here doggystyle. Later on we saw the same dude jackhammering another lady doggystyle. When we were getting ready to leave the big guy tried flirting with my wife. I thought he didn’t have a chance in hell with her. She just witness this total STRANGER throwing two ladies around like rag dolls. He fucked them like they were his personal fuck toy. The next thing I know the stranger was carrying my wife into an empty bedroom.

After a few minutes I peaked into the bedroom. That’s when I saw the guy had her bent over the end of the bed and banging here as hard as humanly possible. Since my wife is very vocal and orgasmic the guy was rougher with her then he was with the other two ladies.

When he fucked her doggystyle, my wife, collapsed on her stomach to get a break from his onslaught. The guy quickly got on top of her. He roughly held her face down on the bed and started pounding the shit out of her again. My wife started asking for a timeout but the guy ignored her and just kept fucking her very hard. Then suddenly she went completely silent. The squishy sound of her squirting, every time he thrust into her, is something I will never forget.

Afterwards I asked my wife what got into her. Why did she have sex with a total stranger that fucked her like there was no tomorrows. She said she didn’t know. It was a scratch she wanted to itch. She promised me that it probably would never happen again. I told her I would like for her to do it more often.

WoW! Insane experience The question everyone wants to ask......Did it ever happen again?

[sw6]

My ex HWed and I did some fucking around including my fave = HWs and their hubbies, who I could be in cahoots with. God it was terrific having a lady leave and get in contact with him telling all the dirty details after which he would get the same from her. How they differed in a way. I often got tips on ways to be rough with the wife. They loved it

My ex definitely liked someone with confidence, which is the same that I found with the women I bedded down

One guy said he'd be really rough and she laid down what she would like and limits
I came home late to watch and realized it was more than I expected her to be interested in, I was tired and went downstairs to relax and get some food
She came down naked and disheveled which was totally unlike her. Said he had to go. After which he called daily to talk her into a repeat. She was thinking of submitting, suggesting she didn't give good enough instructions and did generally give a guy two visits to her bed no matter how terrible the sex was, as she found the first time got the jitters over with. But I explained to her that the way he treated her was how he got off and it would only escalate, which if she wanted was fine by me but not to include me. Which was pretty rare cause basically I wanted to take part in some way with all of her interactions. Sometimes she allowed it, sometimes not

Another guy who did MFM with my ex and I shared an interesting instance
We fucked the hell out of her mouth which she wasn't generally fond of but would do anything she was expected to do. I knew that rough mouth play made her pee so we took it into the shower and went to town. He and I returned to the bedroom while she cleaned up after we were done with her, and he was worried that what happened was too much. She returned very breezy and easy going like it was nothing. He was stunned, as much as he fucked around and did spend a lot of time with her alone. She actually thanked me later for taking her into the shower considering the pee thing

[BT2]

Back last year Cdncuck said in his post to the effect that some people like this kind of stuff (rough play) but that it is really bad behavior. I suppose it is all right if the wife, husband and fb are all into it, and agree beforehand, but I think that would be rare. My wife would bring the date to an immediate end if an fb tried the rough stuff with her.

My wife on occasion has wound up sore "down there" at the end of a visit with her fb, but that was long lasting enthusiastic sex, not rough play.