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We have a massage room set up and she does several a month.
We were on another site for active wives but it seems that 99.9% of the folks there weren't serious about it. I can't count the number of times we were 'stood up'. The issue was usually distance and that's understandable and not counted. But every guy, gal or couple that we connected with ran in the other direction once they discovered we were close enough and it could actually happen. OK, OK, I'll get off my soapbox about that.
That's one of the outs for us in the swinger and hotwife lifestyle. A major is the friendships we've made along the way. The majority is other couples we've met that we not only share a bed together but family activities as well. We have found that as the friendship grows the sex keeps getting better.
We're looking forward to discovering this site and what it brings to the party.