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by mrfuntime39 » Fri Aug 18, 2023 10:44 pm
Given not many questions a person on kik I chat with suggested i post his Questions and my replies. Some of these are from a chain of questions he asked me as i gave answers. Still havent been 'allowed' to fuck her, nor have i cum.
If you have any questions after reading below you can ask me.
Q1: Did i prefer being present / watching or her going solo with me at home?
A1: I loved being there but i feel she needs lots of one on one time. If she goes weekly solo with me joining in once every 4-6 times i'll be happy
Q2: If she goes weekly are you concerned you'll have less sex?
A2: A little bit but so far it results in more sex. But if she said she wanted us to slow down to give them more i'd accept that.
Q3: If she said she wanted more one on one time how much is your max?
A3: My ideal view would be 2 times a week (one of them a sleep over), my max is whatever S is happy to do.
Q4: If he wanted a dirty weekend with her away, would you allow her?
A4: Its not up to me to 'allow' but yes i would support her going on one, I'd even support a long weekend, or even a whole week if lots of notice is given. I'd expect regular updates.
Q5: You said your taking her to a sex club, would you allow her to go with him, without you?
A5: Its not up to me to allow her. I'd support her going, once i've been with her once, however if she turned around and said she was going with him and we hadnt been yet i'd support her.
Q6: You said this is just for sex, what if he 'dated' her, takes her to dinners or the movies
A6: I like her being seen in public with him, i loved it when he kissed her right in front of me at a packed bar. The person next to us worked out what was happening. Its up to her but if she asked, yes i'd like her to go on dates with him.
Q7: You mentioned she called him her boyfriend to an uber driver, what if she wanted him to be called that all the time?
A7: I would like that, i've even said if his friends see them together, if they come over and ask then they can refer to each other as boyfriend / girlfriend. If i'm present i'd be just a friend of hers.
Q8: For the above to work then with him you wouldnt be able to get fresh with her in public when with him
A8: Thats correct, fits with my rules when with him they are the couple. Last outing i patted S's arse on the street going in, then i didnt touch her again until he was all over her back at his place. He kissed her a number of times, they were seen by a number of people.
Q9: Do you see her expanding her pool of men?
A9: Not for solo visits, i mean i'd like her to have 2 or 3 but she will likely be a one at a time person. Of course we'll go to the sex club too, let her really go wild.
A9 - update: This morning S told me she was arranging a meet up with D when we got back, thats the guy she saw after our first ever thteesome. She showed me his cock pics again, he's bigger than me. It'll be a solo date. This absolutely floored me, she had been talking about a steady regular thing with N, i asked if she saw D as someone regular, "If he knows how to use it, I would like that" she said. She was stroking my hard cock as we chatted.
Q10: You mentioned she's done anal with others, but not you?
A10: Technically she has only done full penertration anal with two guys, neither of them are me. N's keen to try it on her, we tried last time, i even got to 'try' but the best we could get was N fingering her, i was in her pussy when I felt himn in her. She enjoyed it. Its not something she has offered me, if she did i would. She has said i am perhaps too big for anal, i've made it clear i want to do it, i just need the invitation.
Q11: Are there things besides anal that the wife does with others or does it more often?
A11: Blowjobs, i get them rarely, very rarely and she has knocked me back plenty of times. I recently found out that she likes sucking on certain cocks. In the last 4 months i have only gotten bj's because it was part of a position we were trying with a playmate of hers.
Q12: What do you do when she goes on solo dates?
A12: Primarily i am her safety, i watch her position on google maps. I often do some housework, i'll watch tv or play a computer game, however I reach a point that my cock ends up in my hands.
Q13: You talked about not cumming, what are the rules and when did you last cum?
A13: I like cumming in my wife, feels more intimate. Well we have read some cucks get caged, or go on a honor system and the wife controls when they cum. I have gien S control of when i cum. Last time i came was after C came in her on our first threesome back on the 4th August. More chats this morning, she wants me to wait longer. We are on holidays next week, skiing so she will be tired and sore at the end of the day, so i doubt we'll fuck let alone let me cum. Normally i just get to wank infront of her at the ski trips. If we get to late next week without fucking then we'll be in the 48 hour no sex rule before she goes over to N's place again.
Q14: You mentioned N is yet to cum in her, why and do you see this changing?
A14: He knows he can, both S and i told him he could. He knows she plays only when its safe to do so. I can only think he's being etra careful. I suspect over time this will change once he is comfortable.
Q15: Do you see yourself not being her primary partner for sex?
A15: Secretly yes, but only if thats what she wants it and she'd need to suggest it. I wont ask her to do that but if it happens i wont complain. I worked it out she has spent more time the last 3 months fucking other guys than she has with me. The last 3 months i've cum rather quickly, S has had to use her toy or i've had to help her with either my mouth or fingers. In some cases i've lasted a minute or two, normally i can go for 30-60 mins (yes we regularly fuck for 15 - PIV, 5 min break, rinse, repeat for hours - that is until i cum). Right now we'd be averaging 20 mins foreplay, 3 mins fucking. Its one of the things S really likes about our sex life, we can fuck and fool around for hours and hours. So far both her times with N have been for hours, nearly 3 hours when she saw him solo and 3.5 hours with me present. We were in bed when i mentioned it to her, she was spooning me, she at first said it cant be right but i explained how i worked t ut. She ran her hand around and felt my hard cock. "You like that dont you, me staying over so long at N's place" she whispered in my ear, i told her i did. She then let go of my cock, "Time for sleep, love you". Not sure what that means going forwards.
A15 update: She knocked me back on a bj today and sex since we had reclaiming sex (no release for me)
