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Chester916
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Mentoring

Unread post by Chester916 » Tue Feb 06, 2024 11:58 pm

Hi,
After years of discussion, my gorgeous wife of 25 years has agreed to dip our toes into the hotwife/cuckold lifestyle. She demands that we start very slowly and thoughtfully. With that in mind, she would like us to communicate with couples already in the lifestyle with the hope of finding female mentors to kind of guide her slowly. Would anybody feel comfortable assuming that role? We would be so grateful. Thank you!

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leggysman
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Re: Mentoring

Unread post by leggysman » Wed Feb 07, 2024 3:52 am

Great news :-)

Let me be the first to suggest that your Mrs sign up for her own OHW account, get verified (as a woman), and join the other verified hotwives in the Ladies Lounge - a forum hidden from the rest of us rabble. The friendly and experienced women of "The LL" would be very helpful with support and advice, I am sure.

Once she gets familiar with the board she can contact armyguyot1 for verification instructions viewtopic.php?f=5&t=53838
our hotwife story: viewtopic.php?f=5&t=67232
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Lookingforadventure
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Re: Mentoring

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Wed Feb 07, 2024 6:38 am

I agree with this suggestion. There are many approaches to hot wifing, and your wife may not yet know what she's looking for. In the Ladies Lounge we have women who are still wannabees, those who are hot wives with multiple partners, those who are poly, hot wives who meet men "in the wild", and those who use the internet. Consider it a buffet of potential mentors, and we will all be happy to have her join us.

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Re: Mentoring

Unread post by Natatude » Wed Feb 07, 2024 7:48 pm

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Wed Feb 07, 2024 6:38 am
I agree with this suggestion. There are many approaches to hot wifing, and your wife may not yet know what she's looking for. In the Ladies Lounge we have women who are still wannabees, those who are hot wives with multiple partners, those who are poly, hot wives who meet men "in the wild", and those who use the internet. Consider it a buffet of potential mentors, and we will all be happy to have her join us.
I also agree,, I enjoy the ladies lounge very much, please have her join us! We all mentor each other!! 😉
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2inUPMichigan
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Re: Mentoring

Unread post by 2inUPMichigan » Thu Feb 08, 2024 6:05 am

Welcome to OHW Chester916

One of the things that makes this site unique is our VHW (verified hotwives) community. The VHW'S all have bright blue names 💙 as the VHW Admin my name is in 💛 to make it easier to identify us.

The VHW community is a very helpful group and resource for any and all hotwives. No need to fit into a predetermined mold here! We are about supporting each other and helping to find your individual path along this journey.

I look forward to reading about your journey together as it unfolds.

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Chester916
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Re: Mentoring

Unread post by Chester916 » Mon Feb 12, 2024 3:15 am

Thank you for the initial advice. Do you think the Ladies Lounge will allow her to connect with women in the Hotwife/cuckold lifestyle in our area whom she can meet in person to establish friendships?

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Re: Mentoring

Unread post by Seekingmore12 » Mon Feb 12, 2024 5:06 am

Ohw has allot of presence in the USA and other places…you never know

As for the suggestion that she joins and becomes verified, definitely do this…

Chester916
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Re: Mentoring

Unread post by Chester916 » Mon Feb 12, 2024 5:31 am

Thanks. She joined last night and we are awaiting verification.

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