Potentially the Start

[KevDi69]

As someone who has followed this thread closely from very near the beginning, all I see is a loving wife who realized that her husband wanted to experience the excitement, angst, and suffering that comes with being a cuck. Because she loves him, she decided to step out of her monogamous mindset and embrace a new role in her life. She went into it, cautiously giving DDW several opportunities to end it. He wanted to continue, because that is what his true desires were. Even after she started as a hotwife she was doing weekly check-ins to make sure DDW was okay. She also provided him comfort when she knows something will increase his discomfort. Remember, we are only reading about her sexual experiences and her control of his sexuality. We are not reading about all the in between times when they do normal loving couple things through out the week.

For you naysayers who are jumping in lately, please keep your negativity to yourself. Let DDW and DDWHW enjoy their experiences and thank them for sharing it with us. I find the story of their experience informative and encouraging. I wish my wife would take me on a similar journey with the same level of love and care.

[scarfolamew]

This is a public forum and people it's perfectly appropriate for people to air their views, provided they don't continually harass once they've made their point. There are plenty of posters here who could benefit from some tough love in the replies, and many have expressed gratitude for receiving it.

Keep in mind, DDW/HW can mute any respondents whose thoughts they don't care to hear by listing them as a "foe".

[gesdell]

Keep in mind, DDW/HW can mute any respondents whose thoughts they don't care to hear by listing them as a "foe".

Thank you for bringing that up. I didn't realize that would be useful to stop seeing comments from some of the more inane commentors.

[MustBeDenied2]

There are plenty of posters here who could benefit from some tough love in the replies, and many have expressed gratitude for receiving it.

While true, not every poster has asked for advice. It seems to be the continual, repeated proffering of unsolicited advice that we are saying is unwelcome.

Not to mention the tone deaf replies to being called out on that which are basically, “but, I might be right.”

As frb mentioned earlier, I really don’t want this to end up being a repeat of Lara’s Husband, who just got tired of the negativity and quit posting on one of the hottest threads ever.

MBD

[scarfolamew]

There are plenty of posters here who could benefit from some tough love in the replies, and many have expressed gratitude for receiving it.

While true, not every poster has asked for advice. It seems to be the continual, repeated proffering of unsolicited advice that we are saying is unwelcome.

I totally agree with this, and have myself critiqued other posters for browbeating an issue

[Watchinu69]

Yet the clowns stilllllllll keep talking about themselves & others instead of just letting the owner of the post share when he's ready smh...correct as I just did as well....

[frb]

All right DDW and DDWHW, hopefully the runway is cleared for you again.

Thank you for your tolerance, and as you hopefully continue to share your story with the same enthusiasm and level of detail that you were, please keep in mind that a large majority of us here understand you are both having fun, that enjoying yourselves is in fact the point of all this, that you love and support each other, and that you're generous to share your journey with us.

You have a enviable dynamic, you're on a fantastic trajectory, you're good writers, and deserve to have a blast here. We will do our best to help.

[venus-can99]

Well said MBD.
DDW and DDWHW hope you continue to have fun and post in this thread. Would love to see how the dynamic evolves.

[Mike4Fun]

DDW and DDWHW,
The Super Bowl was fantastic! It was so nice to know you were enjoying it together. When we saw Travis and Tatylor and the love they have for each other it was hard not to think of you both!
All the best,
Mike

[txrockdog]

The problem with decreeing that there can be nothing but posts cheerleading the story is that in the absence of any back and forth discussion or questions, inevitably, the writer eventually starts questioning whether anybody is still reading or if the posting is worth the effort because the interaction drops off. I think there is room here to interact and ask questions or express reservations without taking it all as personal attacks or direct criticism of the writer or his wife.

I disagree. The two of them are recounting as they please. It's not your marriage. If you had some advice, fine, but for a half dozen people.to start saying "I don't like that. She's probably about to divorce you" when they know nothing about the situation except a few updates.... Kindly stop talking out of turn.

For sake of accuracy, I will just say that you appear to have conflated what I posted with things that others have posted. I completely agree that postulating that DDWHW has checked out of the marriage or that they are headed for a divorce is out of line. What I was referring to was questions about how they handled checkins or otherwise made sure that they were both still enjoying where things are going after the inital decision was made to proceed.

I enjoy understanding the mindset of both parties to what is going on which is what I enjoy about this thread. I enjoy it more when the poster is willing to talk about the emotions and not just the physical experience (like Ky_Da’s thread as an example). DDW has made it clear he isn’t interested in sharing the details of the emotional interactions, so I will stop asking about it and let him tell the story.

[Watchinu69]

Seeing Travis & Taylor and you thought of these two..... bahahahah god help us all 🫵

[Deepdownwannabe]

It has been quite a bit of reading the last couple days. Thank you to all who have stood up for DDWHW and myself. We have discussed it between us and my wife has suggested I keep providing updates at this time. Mostly so I have an avenue to express any concerns that I may have as we continue down this "virgin" path. So with that in mind, there was a curveball thrown of course. With all of the overnight reading bouncing around in our heads, we were settling in to watch the game, various football-themed outfits on when she received a text a few hours before kick-off. She even showed it to me and it was more or less the following:

"I've invited some friends over to watch the game. I want you here to serve drinks and food. You will do so topless so dress appropriately. Look good and don't be late. And it's not an ask....."

I looked at her with a look that said "you are kidding?" Only she told me "I guess I have to go. Sorry cuck, but you know I shouldn't say no". With that she slipped upstairs, leaving me alone. Thirty minutes later she came downstairs, looking nothing like the woman who went upstairs. Gone was the makeup-less sweats and jersey look, replaced by a skirt-wearing beauty, fully made up. I could see her garters extending under her skirt and a low-cut blouse that showed no bra lines. What a transformation, all for him. I was speechless.

"Enjoy the game cuck, sorry but I am now running late I'm not sure when I will be home". She gave me a deep look in my eyes, one that seemed to show compassion but also a tinge of "you asked for this". Not sure that was Travis/Taylor stuff?

And just like that she was gone. She came back later that night, an hour after the overtime game ended and I was already in bed. She knew I was disappointed she had been summoned away. She took her blouse and skirt off and stood in the doorway, her black stockings and blue panties and garters the only thing on her. "This is what I served in all night." My mind raced to a group of people watching her as she dished out drink after drink. "But that was it, all I did was act like a waitress. And then I came home cuck. But I will say it was exciting being ogled as I was". She slid into bed and reached for her vibrator and soon she was on her way to a climax. But before she did, she told me my task.

I had to guess something else was going to happen this week. Valentines. She told me she wanted me to buy her a Valentines outfit for Wed night because as she put it "Valentines is for lovers and since you are still locked I guess I have only one choice?" Fuck. And that is when she came.

[Mike4Fun]

In MHO. it's takes a whole lot of love to embark on this type of life style and that's what I was referring to, unless you see it otherwise.

[frb]

Perfect, you two. Just perfect.

Sigh. DDWHW you put the "hot" in "hotwife".

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the "super"(bowl) update. Just picturing in my mind's eye DDWHW serving drinks to bf's friends (male and female?) in stockings and panties - WoW....

[elina]

Dear DDW and DDWHW,

So good to see that you did not allow yourself be distracted by the naysayers and are back on thrack and posting again!!!

Thanks for a wonderful update and good luck with your assignment to get the Wonderful Lady DDHW and outfit for Valentines;
May I respectfully suggest you are careful NOT to forget about the shoes this time?

Not sure if you were properly reprimanded for that mistake on the previous occation where only DDWHW's ingeniuity finding an older pair She already had available to save the day? But who knows for how long your key will remain under lock if you make the same mistake again....

Sincere regards
elina

[Johng1953]

I love that she can be summoned like that and she just goes!

[Pecannut]

That is so amazingly hot ! So many guys have seen her boobs. They must be so amazingly beautiful too.

I bet your dick must be aching. Would your HW let you cum wearing your cage using her vibrator? Or would it help you?

Thank you for sharing your experience with us!

[Long Lurker 34]

It has been quite a bit of reading the last couple days. Thank you to all who have stood up for DDWHW and myself. We have discussed it between us and my wife has suggested I keep providing updates at this time. Mostly so I have an avenue to express any concerns that I may have as we continue down this "virgin" path. So with that in mind, there was a curveball thrown of course. With all of the overnight reading bouncing around in our heads, we were settling in to watch the game, various football-themed outfits on when she received a text a few hours before kick-off. She even showed it to me and it was more or less the following:

"I've invited some friends over to watch the game. I want you here to serve drinks and food. You will do so topless so dress appropriately. Look good and don't be late. And it's not an ask....."

I looked at her with a look that said "you are kidding?" Only she told me "I guess I have to go. Sorry cuck, but you know I shouldn't say no". With that she slipped upstairs, leaving me alone. Thirty minutes later she came downstairs, looking nothing like the woman who went upstairs. Gone was the makeup-less sweats and jersey look, replaced by a skirt-wearing beauty, fully made up. I could see her garters extending under her skirt and a low-cut blouse that showed no bra lines. What a transformation, all for him. I was speechless.

"Enjoy the game cuck, sorry but I am now running late I'm not sure when I will be home". She gave me a deep look in my eyes, one that seemed to show compassion but also a tinge of "you asked for this". Not sure that was Travis/Taylor stuff?

And just like that she was gone. She came back later that night, an hour after the overtime game ended and I was already in bed. She knew I was disappointed she had been summoned away. She took her blouse and skirt off and stood in the doorway, her black stockings and blue panties and garters the only thing on her. "This is what I served in all night." My mind raced to a group of people watching her as she dished out drink after drink. "But that was it, all I did was act like a waitress. And then I came home cuck. But I will say it was exciting being ogled as I was". She slid into bed and reached for her vibrator and soon she was on her way to a climax. But before she did, she told me my task.

I had to guess something else was going to happen this week. Valentines. She told me she wanted me to buy her a Valentines outfit for Wed night because as she put it "Valentines is for lovers and since you are still locked I guess I have only one choice?" Fuck. And that is when she came.

DDW - Glad you are here and have chosen to post. Alas there will always be creeps and naysayers.
- Nice visual of DDWHW. Now that is ping-ponging around in my head.
- You're kidding. A Stunner like her, ya ok I know the super bowl is a big thing in US, but she didn't even get felt up or groped at all? What are American men coming too?
- Right!! Down to the Salvation Army for the dowdiest outfit you can find.

[saveacow]

Hello DDWHW and DDW,

I discovered this forum a few months ago but haven't written anything except for one appreciative post on another thread. I enjoy reading along without interfering, and I want you both to know that I'm convinced the silent majority deeply enjoy your story here. I especially like your storytelling because it carries your whole experience excitingly. When I see you've posted, I don't read it instantly but happily postpone it to the evening so I can vividly imagine the scenery you describe line by line, thinking it would be with my wife. I like it so much that I will read your posts to my wife soon. I hope you can look past the thread-noise and continue sharing your incredible experience. In any case, thank you both so much for sharing your path so far. And now I'll be silent again :-)

[wifelver]

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Alas there will always be creeps and naysayers.

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Can folks please refrain from making insulting remarks about others? Let’s keep this civil and enjoy the thread.

[michael8401]

I feel like I’ve said this same thing a few times. It’s their story to tell and unless they are asking for advice, don’t give it and just enjoy the ride. I think they both know it’s a game and it’s fun and they are both enjoying it. Each of us have experiences that make this or that a red flag, but for them, they are solid and I see no red flags. DDW and DDWHW can stop and lose any bf and even pick a new one up so easily should they choose to, or they may go further. Either way they are following their desires and fantasies in a safe space with each other. I find this all hot at and say keep it up

[whosbeensleeping]

I'm interested in your journey and whatever unique form it takes and entirely uninterested in the unsolicited pronouncements of armchair quarterbacks.
Let's remember that each original poster is a human who is putting themselves out there, and treat them like subjects, not objects.
Seems like a good enough baseline for a fruitful dialogue.

[Shauncuckold]

Wow. You thought you were going to enjoy the football game with your wife, and then her boyfriend required her attendance. That must’ve been a shock to you. I can’t even begin to imagine the angst and mixed emotions you were feeling at that moment. Hope that was what you were looking for!!!

Mr. Swan

[Deepdownwannabe]

Out of the blue last night she brought up the cage. I was not expecting it at all. After dinner, watching tv and she just brought it up. It wasn't a discussion about her getting fucked or anything like that. She said she truly does feel more at ease when she has me locked up. The fact it takes away any pressure in her mind to have to satisfy me. She told me she loved the timed safe. When she is away with her bf, part of what excites her is the fact I am unable to 'self-pleasure'. "I can't explain why, but I just do" were her words. It is quite a thing to hear your wife say she prefers to have her husband locked up. "It isn't even because he likes to know you are caged, there is just something inside me that enjoys it".

Her arms were around me on the couch as they always tend to be when there is a discussion along these lines. "So I think you should be prepared for this to really be part of your future going forward. I wanted to use this month as a longer-term practice run and I can already tell you that I am liking it." I wasn't sure what to say, even as she ran her hand along "her" cage as she described it. "So you might want to do some research into how this 'long-term chastity' could play out, you can even get another cage if you want".

This added a new wrinkle I'm not sure I was fully prepared for, I just knew she was really beginning to love the idea of keeping me in this cage, which means I knew this rabbit hole was going to be explored more.

As for further details on her Super Bowl serving, evidently there were a few other ladies there, who just smiled at her.