Potentially the Start

[Watchinu69]

This guy - he gets it

[elina]

if you guys haven't figured it out by now, we are following the exploits of a unique couple. Cuck is not one to give a lot of personal feelings and emotions and if you haven't figured that out after 39 pages then you are missing the boat. The cuck is giving you details as to exactly what is going on in their consenting relationship and people here have the nuts to throw spears at what they are doing? We even have the bonus of DDWHW dropping in here and giving her two cents about it all. At no point has she ever said "I think my cuck is an ass and I am going to leave him on the spot". So why are you putting words in her mouth.

You are in a cuckold forum, this is not exactly mainstream stuff. Why are people saying they should be playing from some specific playbook that meets "your" requirements? People are getting upset because the HW is actually being a HW? And the cuck is rolling along with it all? Kind of defeats the purpose of the whole ideology of this fetish.

They are sharing what they want to share and there isn't one person here who can righteously sit there and go "they need to share to us more of their "communications between themselves" or "they should be describing the sex in more detail". It is none of your fucking business what they share and they don't owe you a damn thing. They've said it before, don't like it then just move on. Because the negativity thrown out the last few days is going to have both of them shut down this session on what is one of the best forums here.

Great reply

Agreed,

I am really feeling sorry for those posters who expresses that they feel sorry for DDW.

Both he, and to a larger extent DDWHW, has time and again refuted similar comments. Yet these guys still don't get that this is a Cuckold Forum, not a hotwife or swingers forum. This forum is intended for people like DDW and DDWHW who decides to explore a different relationship for the benefit of both parties, and that is what they are doing. It is also intended for people like me and others posting here who feel that we learn a lot and gain insights otherwise not available to us by reading the accounts provided by DDW and DDWHW,

I, and apparantly many others here, are very grateful to DDW and DDWHW for sharing, up to the point of detail and emotions that they are comfortable sharing, with us at this forum. If you do not appreciate that, the internet is full of other things you can enjoy!!!

Sincerely
elina

[Bluetoed]

Let's clear this up.....This is The Cuckold "Forum" The Oxford dictionary defines "Forum"......A place, meeting, or medium where ideas and views on a
particular can be exchanged.

Exactly!

What the posters telling others to shut up really want is called a "circle jerk".

[_xavier_]

What we want is to hear more from DDW about the experiences he and his wife are having.

I have seen this pattern so many times now, where the peanut gallery just becomes loud and contrarian, ignoring statements (and pleas to stop) from the person who owns the thread that conflict with the projection you and others have brought up, demanding that he satisfy your unsolicited concerns and refusing to take his answers as valid. And then the thread dies. And your type thinks it's a victory for some reason.

You are not contributing anything of value by insisting on a perspective that has been refuted by the man himself, and his wife, multiple times.

[tovid555]

You guys are missing the point of what defines a Forum. Discussion, questions? Sure, absolutely. Trying to direct how our couple in question should conduct their lives is not anyone else's concern. Let alone calling anyone names, which was done. That is abuse and should not be tolerated.

Btw, if you haven't noticed. Neither DDW or DDWHW have posted anything since this latest round of verbal abuse began, and I don't blame them.

[Bluetoed]

Readers and/or the OP can simply click on the poster they don't want to see posts from and click "foe". It is immediate and 100% effective.

Or if a post violates the forum rules, click the "!" and report it.

[grnlght]

DDW hasn't been on since his last update didn't even read any of that yet. lol

[tovid555]

DDW hasn't been on since his last update didn't even read any of that yet. lol

You can read all the posts in this thread without logging in so I'm sure he has seen everything.

[Watchinu69]

DDW may be caged & bound to his chair again ....wifey may have bidden him to go online as his humiliation... maybe he realized he didn't enjoy being left out of her sex life.....many possibilities....very exciting times for the couple.

[Johng1953]

Another thread shut down by the trolls?
I hope not.

[Rogueuser1]

I'm curious about the sheath --- was it "your size"? bigger? smaller?
How much longer is on the timer - or is she still wearing the key?

[Deepdownwannabe]

DDWHW here. This will probably be my last post here, and I've even asked cuck to consider not discussing anything else, although I will leave that to him as this is his escape from what is going on in real life. But this was definitely a topic between us last night.

I will remind everyone, for the last time, this is our lives and not yours. We are two (actually three) consenting adults and what we choose to do is ours and no one else's concern. You want to discuss things, that is fine. But there is zero reason for the name calling and suggestions of one's character that has gone on here as people try to make this all about themselves. I'm not leaving cuck but we are in a relationship that started because of his desires and it has become something quite exciting that has clearly given him the angst he craved. And I love seeing the look on his face at various times and surprises. But I don't understand the negativity that has been expressed here when one of these "cuckold" surprises happens. I become the bitch and his life is "destined for ruin". I don't understand how everyone the trolls think this should play out and how I should have to defend myself. Well, it isn't worth it to me.

Tonight we are hosting a party at bf's place and I'm looking forward to it. Cuck will be home in his cage, and I will have the key on my anklet. Just as the cuckoldress is supposed to do. If he shares anything beyond that, it is his call.

DDWHW

[funfortwo]

Well, I'm sorry that some people can't remain adults on this site. I'm sure it's frustrating to be vulnerable and let everyone into your lives and share your thoughts and feelings about being in this lifestyle. I don''t blame you if you decide NOT to post any longer, but personally speaking I find your experience exciting and intriguing. Good luck with whatever you decide.

[edgedndenied]

I agree
I hope you and your husband will continue to post.
I believe most people are intrigued by your lifestyle.
Please ignore the haters.
Thanks again for the great post you both have made

[venus-can99]

Thanks DDWHW and DDW. Sorry to hear that you may not be posting here much. As much as I am sad to see you go (likely) I can fully understand your viewpoint that some posters here have started to assume things about your lives and providing "advice" without the full context.
Best wishes to all 3 of you... I will miss your posts about your erotic journey

[grnlght]

Don't let it get to either of you it is what it is and always will be on open forums just dance like no one is watching.

[kenlonely]

DDWHW You are nothing without your husband's love. Your husband is a great man. I hope this is really your last post.
DDW you are a funny and lovely person who can share your heartfelt words unselfishly to outsiders. You are the protagonist, the talker of the game, and without you sharing your heart, the story has little appeal. I'm here to watch, not your wife, not your wife's lovers, but your interesting soul.

[Midnight Joker]

The only negativity I saw came from WarrenOldcuck » Thu Mar 07, 2024 4:47 am and Watchinu69 » Thu Mar 07, 2024 3:00 pm, with some follow-on discussions.

I know that I'm looking forward to hearing about your adventure and hearing your wife's perspective as well. I think most of us feel that way.

It is your story, but we're living it with you in a manner of speaking. Sometimes we get wrapped up in the emotions...passion and angst...as we re-live your adventure in our own heads.

[Bluetoed]

Thank you DDWHW.

As was mentioned by a previous poster, many readers are here because they want to learn from the real experiences of other couples.

But what that previous poster did not mention is that people can learn both what to do and what NOT to do. The one attribute that separates the two is that when both partners enjoy their dynamic, it's likely a lesson of what to do. But when one of the partners does not enjoy their dynamic, it is likely a lesson of what not to do.

You've made it very clear in many of your posts that you are enjoying this. However, your partner has not. Over 40 pages and his posts lack positivity of happiness, enjoyment, etc... And even when he has responded to questions of "are you happy, are you enjoying this, etc..." his responses have been "whoa is me, but at least she is happy".

That being said, he is not obligated to share anything. He doesn't have to share his feelings at all. But before you vilify the commenters here, keep in mind that they would really like to know if your story is a something that they can learn from as something to do, or not to do. And with your partner keeping that absent from this audience, they are left to question, except the ones that are projecting their own extreme emotional masochism on him to just assume that of course he is loving it. That doesn't mean the ones that are left to question have to call you names and draw pictures of an inevitable future. But people make assumptions, good and bad, when they are left to assume.

I hope both of you are happy and full of enjoyment!

[safira]

What Bluetoed says above. Hear here!
What has consistently bothered me about this post is what I read as an underlying lack of respect that HW seems to display towards her partner. It seems that it has never been a journey taken together as much as "I'm in it for me; your desires don't matter." I get it that cuckoldry has some amount of this built in. In my experience and in what I've witnessed, if both parties aren't careful of one another, it doesn't lead anywhere good.
For DDW's sake, I've just been hoping that HW will see the light.

[wittol]

What the critics seem to overlook is that if he wanted her treatment of him to stop, he would say so. I'm not going to go back through 40 pages, but I don't recall him telling her to quit or even slow down. "I've just been hoping that HW will see the light" -- your light, you mean.

And this is irritating -- "Don't let it get to either of you it is what it is and always will be on open forums just dance like no one is watching." Unfortunately, it is often all too true, but it cuts both ways. When you hide behind your internet anonymity to throw stones or be a jerk, should you get all offended and defensive when someone calls you out for it?

I've been on this site since about 18 hours after it first started. Compared to the number of threads in which the marriage likely crashed for failure to heed the "warnings" of self-elected counselors and doom-sayers, I've seen many more good threads abandoned because instead of getting thoughtful, considerate, and non-negative responses, they get a lot of "you're doing it all wrong," or "your wife is: /a terrible person/cheater/doesn't really love you," etc. If you're truly concerned for the welfare of the OP, then maybe learn how to write in a non-didactic, non-patronizing, non-know-it-all way.

[venus-can99]

Well said wittol.

[grnlght]

My comment was irritating to who?

[Maddie_Hippychick]

Just stop

Wait

And read

Deep breaths

[grnlght]

Thought it was stop look and listen before crossing, stop drop and roll?