Potentially the Start

[safira]

If you put your personal shit on an open forum, you have given up all right to freedom from exposure to other people's opinions regarding your personal shit.
If you're one of the folks bothered by this, the internet probably isn't for you.

[Bluetoed]

What the critics seem to overlook is that if he wanted her treatment of him to stop, he would say so.

Assuming he did not say anything to the contrary I would agree with you. However, he did. He made it clear on page 1 that: 1) he had no say in anything except to agree to let her do it; 2) she would continue doing it despite any misgivings he would have; and 3) that there would be no buyers remorse for him. In other words, in his mind he knows that him not enjoying it wouldn't change a thing. Communicating any misgivings/remorse with her would be futile. See below.

I had to question what she meant by "her way" which she explained what seemed very casually other than the fact she looked amazing in her outfit right in front of me. I was to learn "her way" meant she would choose the manner and direction that this would go. How she would do it, with who, for how long. How that impact our physical relationship. She would be the one in charge, she even said "consider it a light version of a FLR". She had done some reading. She would decide all aspects as it related to anything along these lines, the one part I had the say in is I had to agree willingly.

She added that she knew that while some husbands get cold feet as it all plays out but if she started with the idea, then she would take it to a logical ending, despite any misgivings I would have. Basically, once the ship sails, it will continue to sail.

I won't say how or when, but by the end of the night I answered her question "Do you want me to become a hotwife?" With "yes".

I guess the ship has sailed.

gave no timeline, it could happen very quickly or this could be a long, drawn out affair (so to speak). But she assured me that it will happen one way or the other. There was to be no buyers remorse, I had agreed to this. And the final rule was a reminder that she is the one who will make any and all of the decisions.

[Johng1953]

The trolls on here do it all the time. Their negativity shuts down so many threads. You have to wonder why they are even here. Please don't end up as another casualty. It's a pity there is no way of blocking them.

[_xavier_]

My comment was irritating to who?

Me, for one.

[_xavier_]

If you put your personal shit on an open forum, you have given up all right to freedom from exposure to other people's opinions regarding your personal shit.
If you're one of the folks bothered by this, the internet probably isn't for you.

And thanks to that self-important, entitled attitude, you'll find that's why so few people post their journeys. I can't point to anyone reading this thread who is at all interested in the "contributions" of negative judgement being projected with an obvious unwillingness to listen to DDW himself. Nagging him for direct answers to rude questions, insisting that your/their opinion is deserving of consideration when you show not consideration to DDW/DDWHW's request to kindly stop.

"It's an open forum! It's an open forum!" -- what childish response to having almost the entire forum's feedback that you are derailing the thread. You're like someone who comes into a party and changes the music to some totally unwelcome vibe, directly offends the host, and then starts yelling "it's a free country, isn't it?!?"

Main character syndrome.

[frb]

Safira I have a really straightforward question for you: why do you want OP to stop posting?

You can't claim to want OP and his wife to continue posting, because they have said very clearly over and over that negative comments on the thread are ruining their fun and will eventually cause them to stop posting.

They are playing a game with each other. They are trying to enjoy their lives. And they've been generous enough to share their experiences with us.

Why, why on earth do you want to put an end to that? For some principle only you understand and value more highly than the feelings of anyone else here?

You are helping no one. You are harming many. This should be obvious to you by now. Why continue? Why can you not simply leave this one thread alone out of the hundreds that are available to you? Can you really be that obnoxious?

[nick4224]

Well said DDWHW!

[_xavier_]

mark me a foe if you don’t want to be exposed to my opinion. DDW and HW can do the same, but they haven’t. does their opinion on this matter to you?
eat me.

Because it requires they spend the extra energy to read these unhelpful comments and then block you and others, and then they'll still see the rest of us responding to call you out for it. Not knowing what nonsense you're saying about them.

I haven't blocked you because I want to understand what it is that is (almost certainly) about to chase them away - well, what has already chased DDWHW away, and likely will chase away DDW.

I'm not "just here for masturbation material" although I find it hot. I like to encourage DDW and help make his experience all that more 'fantastic'. But I wouldn't cheerlead him to ruin. We can all tell he's getting off on this new dynamic. You think he comes here to post about all the details out of disgust and resentment? If so you're dumber than I thought.

[MonaLisaOverdrive]

I wonder if it's time an admin came in to clean this thread up a little bit. At least for the sake of DDW/DDWHW, I'm hoping they haven't logged in to read it yet.

[saveacow]

Rule #2 states

2) Serious discussion and debate are fine. Personal attacks are not. Posts that contain personal attacks or inflammatory language (this includes racist crap), or are mean or disrespectful, may be edited or deleted without warning. Disagreement is fine. If you see someone walking over a cliff, tell them but in a reasonable way. When they acknowledge your warning drop it or answer their questions but don't badger them. We have to assume they are adults or are old enough to be.

DDW clearly wrote that he is uncomfortable sharing emotions. Any additional nagging and demanding answers is, therefore, not helpful criticism, as some commenters try to frame it, but just that: badgering. If DDW didn't answer, then that is your answer. There is no need to belittle the other readers just because your wisdom was not cherished as you hoped it would. The "main character syndrome" seems fitting.

DDW and DDWHW provided us with a unique insight into their lives. DDW clearly stated that DDWHW is clever. How she comes up with these "surprises" is precisely what should be expected from a creative mind. In my opinion (!), this is exactly what made this thread much more appealing: a truly clever significant other (DDWHW) who knows how to play a game. If you don't have all the facts, stick with what is known to be true: DDW and DDWHW are consenting adults.

I highly recommend DDW and DDWHW using the "add-as-foe" feature. While it is insufficient, it is the best option so far. Maybe there could be a pool of "recommended foes" to quickly help others identify self-absorbed know-it-alls, improving the forum experience significantly.

Additionally, please consider opening a blog somewhere else. I would be happy to continue following your journey!

Finally, should DDWHW and DDW decide to stop posting, which is only to be expected, thank you for providing us with this unique view into your journey. Best of luck to you both.

[MustBeDenied2]

Sad that it has come to this. Thank you for all the fun you provided, DDW and DDWHW. Wishing you the best in this journey.

MBD

[mattyg_2671]

Why can’t people just enjoy the story without pushing their unwanted views, I don’t get it. No one asked for it, no one wants it, keep it to yourself. If you can’t say something nice and supportive, don’t say anything at all. Go somewhere else and stop ruining this board, please! This is one of the best threads on here, I hope you don’t stop posting. It has been very hot, and also given me and my wife some great ideas for our own journey.

[venus-can99]

Why can’t people just enjoy the story without pushing their unwanted views, I don’t get it. No one asked for it, no one wants it, keep it to yourself. If you can’t say something nice and supportive, don’t say anything at all. Go somewhere else and stop ruining this board, please! This is one of the best threads on here, I hope you don’t stop posting. It has been very hot, and also given me and my wife some great ideas for our own journey.

Well said mattyg Most of us know how hot your thread is so this one inspires you then it means it is awesome. I certainly hope DDW and DDWHW keep sharing their journey but if they don't then I can certainly understand their reluctance

[tovid555]

Yes, if I had to hazard a guess another interesting story has been torpedoed by the trolls. I know, they will jump on here to say something along the lines of "suck it up, it's the internet. I can say what I want because of free speech" or "they asked for it, being called names and attacking their way of life because they went public here". The realization is they are defenses probably being put forth by people still living in their parents basement. But guaranteed, they will make replies here that imply everyone else is soft and they are all powerful.

But what will we probably miss? The further development of a unique couple, one we've all grown to admire. Him because he is letting his wife experience pleasures she never dreamed, even if these experiences are probably very excruciating and mentally challenging to him. And if they are? So what, its not our business. They are his feelings to cope with and he has an understanding wife to talk to if he feels it has gone too far. And her, because she has probably learned so much about herself in a world she never knew existed. We've watched the progression (and some have even predicted what would happen next and they weren't too far from it).

Which makes us all know what we are probably going to miss hearing about as this progresses, because I think we can all agree, it is not stopping anytime soon unless cuck throws the white flag out, which deep down I don't think he will at this point. The experienced people here do have some idea of the possible progression:

- She could possible drop the "L" word. After how many months together sharing very intimate moments, would it surprise anyone?
- Further impromptu demands of her to perform sexually?
- Further displays in front of cuck, possibly even bringing him in closer to their physical interactions?
- More public displays of DDWHW? She hasn't pushed back on anything to date, do we really think she will, especially as the weather begins to warm up?
- Her boyfriend is somewhat knowledgeable on the whole dynamic, does anyone think he won't go as far as suggesting to share her? Do you think she will say no?
- And along those lines, who thinks she wouldn't have a get-together with another woman if told to?
- How much longer will cuck be caged? I doubt they will be shorter periods?
- Will she spend even more time at her bf's place? Move in for periods of time? It is certainly something that would be a progression.

I'm sure there are more things we can all think of but the bottom line is we will be deprived of those because a few selfish people had to be the loudest people in the room and insist that their way was the only way and anyone who challenges that notion is not strong enough to be here. Thanks.

[MrMtl]

DDWHW and DDW, you two are helping people here believe me. How well by showing that there’s real couple who leaves it and are still together and in love.

It’s really to bad that we see again some people with a blocking mindset who only think about himself and not having an open mind.

If you decide to stop writing well, it’s really your choice and we will accept it with our heads down unfortunately.

[vicouple]

Textbook formula to sabotaging your marriage.

And here we go again. Trolls trying to wreak what they can. Admins let them get away with it. I am also out of here.

[_xavier_]

At this point, DDW, I hope you decide not to post anymore. I know I wouldn't.

This is absolutely ridiculous.

I don't even know where these negative commenters get the energy to keep coming back, again and again, arguing for the right to argue... about how they know your feelings better than you. Like bullheaded teenagers.

Job done, bluetoad, et al. Another detailed, heartfelt thread about a couple's experimentation has devolved into nothing more than a meta-debate about your "right" to spew ignorant disagreeable opinions ad nauseum until the room empties. You've successfully made it about you again.

Time to move on and kill the next thread now. Until there's no more activity. Because we all know you don't show up to troll the quiet threads. You're here for attention and conflict. Lord knows why you frequent a message board explicitly about a kink you seem not to understand, that gives you the ick. Like anti-abortion protestors hanging out at the gates of a planned parenthood.

[Pecannut]

This is DDW's thread. Please leave this for him to share his experience. No need for criticism here. Let everyone enjoy their lives as they want to.

[BallSpanking]

I will not read or comment further on this thread.

[luvymayfly2]

DDWHW here. This will probably be my last post here, and I've even asked cuck to consider not discussing anything else, although I will leave that to him as this is his escape from what is going on in real life. But this was definitely a topic between us last night.

I will remind everyone, for the last time, this is our lives and not yours. We are two (actually three) consenting adults and what we choose to do is ours and no one else's concern. You want to discuss things, that is fine. But there is zero reason for the name calling and suggestions of one's character that has gone on here as people try to make this all about themselves. I'm not leaving cuck but we are in a relationship that started because of his desires and it has become something quite exciting that has clearly given him the angst he craved. And I love seeing the look on his face at various times and surprises. But I don't understand the negativity that has been expressed here when one of these "cuckold" surprises happens. I become the bitch and his life is "destined for ruin". I don't understand how everyone the trolls think this should play out and how I should have to defend myself. Well, it isn't worth it to me.

Tonight we are hosting a party at bf's place and I'm looking forward to it. Cuck will be home in his cage, and I will have the key on my anklet. Just as the cuckoldress is supposed to do. If he shares anything beyond that, it is his call.

DDWHW

I'm sorry for the negativity. You seem like a loving, caring cuckoldress. Thank you and your husband for sharing your journey.

[Mike4Fun]

Ladies and Gentlemen,
DDW and DHW have been extremely generous in giving us a look at what this life stile entails. Whatever your feelings are we owe them a big thank you for being so open and giving us the opportunity to learn. Whether you are all for trying it or not you are at least educated about what it may entail. This thread is a wonderful way to learn. Let 's all understand that and thank the authors.
DDW and DHW, this is a terrific thread, PLEASE CONTINUE !

[afagehi7]

Y'all need to be respectful and tone it down. Next time we're going to lock the thread and issue more warnings. If you don't like the thread, leave but bring disrespectful and arguing is not how this site works.

Again, I cleaned up the thread from the arguing.

[MrMtl]

Is it possible “afagehi7” that instead of locking up a tread to block the one who writing negative things ?

[Shauncuckold]

I love reading your story. Thanks for sharing.

Mr. Swan

[Deepdownwannabe]

I see there has been a great deal of churn going on here. I personally don't understand why others want to control the lives of my wife and I, maybe they just want to sound like they are the all knowing experts of everyone else's life. Thank you to those who have stood up to common decency which is clear that not everyone possesses. So, I'll guess I'll keep going here for a bit, but no guarantees for how long.

She did go to that party Sat night. She left early to help set up. A travel bag with her. She kissed me goodbye with the normal statement of love. And off she went.

Little did I know the party was going to be a little more on the wild side. And as I thought might happen, I received a pic from her friend. Only it was taken of a bunch of people in the hottub at his place. And it was clear of the six people in it, the three women were all topless. And one was my wife,a glass of champagne or something of the sort in her hand.

That was all I heard from the evening until she came home the next day.

"That was quite a party". The first things she said when she got home. "We never went to a party like that, I can tell you that". I told her that her friend sent me a pic and she nodded that she knew. And she smiled. "Like I said, quite a party". There were no more details at this time, not until she came to bed.

"I'm sure you are curious what happened. Well, folks showed up and the booze started to flow. I was dressed nothing over the top, a black lingerie outfit under a skirt and blouse. At some point later in the evening, someone saw there was a hottub on the back deck and before you knew it, a couple had hopped in it, both down to their undergarments as a bathing suit. They were frolicking and having fun and before you knew it another couple had done the same. He came out to see what was happening and smiled while pouring more drinks. He looked at the tub and told me he thought I needed a dip as well." Her vibrator had come out of the nightstand as it tends to on story recap nights.

"So right there, I did just that. I took my items off, down to my panties and hopped in the tub." That part I could have guessed had happened, but to hear her describe it - fuck. She used to want the lights off a lot of the time when she was naked with me, and now this? "I felt free and liberated, it was quite cool I have to say". I could only imagine. "Only it took a turn when my bf came over and extended a hand to me with a towel. He led me out and took me upstairs and fucked me right then while the party went on downstairs. And it was hot. He told me everyone knew what we were doing. How everyone had seen me naked. He seemed to be a little more on the directive/controlling side. And it was hot. We went back to the party and as I was wearing something completely different it was not difficult to know what happened. And I was just fine with that".

She let that sink in for a bit while her vibrator did it's work. After she climaxed, she added "Did I mention I was introduced as his girlfriend all night? Well, you probably knew that part anyways cuck."

That thought never left my head, he had shown her off to friends. And she did it, no questions asked. It seems she was enjoying a little of this exhibitionist side and that part I could not believe.