Poll: pre-hotwife porn viewing

[ProfessorH]

She saw both, but as we started our journey the “real” porn was much more of a turn on. Seeing real people was much more exciting…likely because we were about to become those real people!!

[Desiplayer]

I introduced my wife porn first few weeks in our marriage, she was keen or certain types of porn and more of gay porn etc …no wonder …when we got to this lifestyle she converted me bi to extream of gay side …

[leggysman]

Leggysandy and I were always open about our porn viewing, right from the start. She likes more hardcore/BSDM/rough stuff. I like the mild stuff

Like everyone, we like to see our fantasies enacted, I guess (amateur or pro). Hers are more 'out there'. She wants to see a girl get used and abused (often by multiple men). I just want to watch a girl who resembles my wife getting laid in a realistic way, preferably with lots of good leg shots and maybe a creampie.

[isinlarsa]

My wife was animately against porn, as she saw it exploiting women. At once point we were in marriage counseling because of our different views of sex (we had good sex, but she had issues with some of my kinks). The counselor was understanding of both of our views, but suggested that we watch porn together. He gave us some "counselor-approved" sex tapes; showing a married couple having sex with each other, and with other people.

She was uncomfortable watching the tapes, but she got very wet and aroused, much to her chagrin. It was like her head didn't like porn but her body did.

It didn't change her attitude toward porn, but it was a factor in changing her view of extramarital sex.