


Great that there is a next goal.slenderfish wrote: ↑Tue Jul 09, 2024 3:58 pmSW just informed me that she desires to take on a new trainer (private sessions) at the new location, effective immediately.
I casually asked what happened with Mr. G and it seems she was no longer getting enough personal attention from him.
That works for me. Let's find someone who will give her what she wants and needs.![]()
Gotta love a lady who likes it in her assslenderfish wrote: ↑Wed May 01, 2024 5:47 pm
SF: Did he want to fuck you in your ass?
SW: Yeah, he wanted to fuck my ass.
SF: Did he ask you?
SF: So he fucked your ass?
SW: Yeah
SF: He fucked your ass hard:
SW: Yeah
SF: Did he put his big dick all the way inside of you
SW: Mmm yeah
SF: Where did he come?
SW: He came in my ass
SF - As I recall didn't his wife seem to have an issue with SW being around Mr G?slenderfish wrote: ↑Tue Jul 09, 2024 3:58 pmSW just informed me that she desires to take on a new trainer (private sessions) at the new location, effective immediately.
I casually asked what happened with Mr. G and it seems she was no longer getting enough personal attention from him.
That works for me. Let's find someone who will give her what she wants and needs.![]()
I'm reminded of how SW was so enamored with Mr. B. With him it was an almost-two-year buildup from when she/we first met Mr. B at a party in St. Tropez when I immediately saw she had an extra level of awareness of him and less of herself whenever he was in the same room. She immediately informed me that we'd met his estranged wife the prior year and she'd kept in touch primarily with me since then, and therefore she (SW) would be driving the contact and friendship with Mr. B. This continued until it culminated in September of 2020 at which time she had him stay overnight when I was away, thinking I was not aware. After that night, the next time we were all together at a party in our house, he was giving all his attention to Ms. R. It was this attention shift that coincided with SW's change in energy toward him; e.g. she was "over it" with him.Long Lurker 34 wrote: ↑Wed Jul 10, 2024 6:44 amSF - As I recall didn't his wife seem to have an issue with SW being around Mr G?slenderfish wrote: ↑Tue Jul 09, 2024 3:58 pmSW just informed me that she desires to take on a new trainer (private sessions) at the new location, effective immediately.
I casually asked what happened with Mr. G and it seems she was no longer getting enough personal attention from him.
That works for me. Let's find someone who will give her what she wants and needs.![]()
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Yes. She knows her ass is the central sexy object and feature that attracts.
So is it reserved to the lovers or she lost interest in being anally penetrated in general?slenderfish wrote: ↑Thu Jul 11, 2024 12:13 amYes. She knows her ass is the central sexy object and feature that attracts.
It was available to me early in our relationship, first quite available in the initial years, and then less so for the next few years, and since her foray into the hotwife waters in 2020, fully off limits to me.
I used to live with my then-significant other in a very swanky part of town, before SW. This woman and I split up, and sold our property, and ultimately settled up on the winnings. I lived a bachelor lifestyle for a few years, then decided to date SW exclusively, then we married.
I introduced her to it and she was both curious and eager to please back then.
She was not happy and if she were a witch she would cast a terrible spell on this woman. The woman not only shared this secret but went out of her way to use whatever she had to turn the other girls against SW, including lying about SW to other mutual girlfriends, which caused a domino effect.
Did SW feel anything other than anger over being betrayed? Such as embarrassment for having been with 2 different guys when she was back home, or empowered, or something else. I’m assuming the mean girls know of her hw experiences. Did she feel like she was a horrible person or a “dirty slut”, or did she feel a bit empowered for being able to do something they cannot? Does being outed make her want to abandon the whole hw world, have no effect on her interest, or cause her to be more determined to find a new guy to play with?slenderfish wrote: ↑Sat Jul 13, 2024 2:29 amShe was not happy and if she were a witch she would cast a terrible spell on this woman. The woman not only shared this secret but went out of her way to use whatever she had to turn the other girls against SW, including lying about SW to other mutual girlfriends, which caused a domino effect.
I saw it coming and branded them "mean girls" (clear reference to the movie) to the wider group. The moniker stuck, so at least there is that satisfaction.
Of course, the whole dynamic between these women is based on petty jealousy.
SF - I would bet this woman in relating SW HWing activities said to the other women something along the lines of, "SW is going try to get your guys to cheat with her." And that by it's self is enough to do irreparable harm. Sort of fox in the hen house as it were.slenderfish wrote: ↑Sat Jul 13, 2024 2:29 amShe was not happy and if she were a witch she would cast a terrible spell on this woman. The woman not only shared this secret but went out of her way to use whatever she had to turn the other girls against SW, including lying about SW to other mutual girlfriends, which caused a domino effect.
I saw it coming and branded them "mean girls" (clear reference to the movie) to the wider group. The moniker stuck, so at least there is that satisfaction.
Of course, the whole dynamic between these women is based on petty jealousy.
To be honest, I don't think this is part of the equation. Here's the deal from my viewpoint.Long Lurker 34 wrote: ↑Sat Jul 13, 2024 4:36 am
SF - I would bet this woman in relating SW HWing activities said to the other women something along the lines of, "SW is going try to get your guys to cheat with her." And that by it's self is enough to do irreparable harm. Sort of fox in the hen house as it were.
SF - Yes I believe you wrote about that party.slenderfish wrote: ↑Sun Jul 14, 2024 4:56 amTo be honest, I don't think this is part of the equation. Here's the deal from my viewpoint.Long Lurker 34 wrote: ↑Sat Jul 13, 2024 4:36 am
SF - I would bet this woman in relating SW HWing activities said to the other women something along the lines of, "SW is going try to get your guys to cheat with her." And that by it's self is enough to do irreparable harm. Sort of fox in the hen house as it were.
I made a new friend over 10 years ago with a recently-divorced guy who then joined my "boys' night" that had been going already for almost 10 years. He has a lot of personality and money and over time he dated and SW and I met the various girlfriends, etc. He really liked SW and his "type" is similar to mine, apparently. He ultimately settled on one lovely blonde not too different from SW, and they dated exclusively. This girlfriend was "new" to the set of people and embraced SW as her new best friend, since SW was about the only woman in this man's life who didn't carry over from his married days. The new girlfriend was leery of any single woman in the group.
The guy's divorce was a big financial hit to him and he vowed never to marry again. And he kept that vow. We became very close as couples and traveled the world, etc. together for over 10 years.
He is a bit of an alpha personality and I'm more chill, but I am also very competitive and challenged him, which not many other guys would do. He is a fabulous skier (he skis about 100 days each year) and I'm one of the only ones he knows who can keep up with him on the slopes. So we ran as equals at the top of our social group. He threw parties with many guests, and so did I. We kept upgrading the parties, kind of as a challenge to each other and showing off to our many mutual friends. We kind of took turns in that way.
A lot of the other women saw SW and the lifestyle and the committed husband (me) and her beauty and that she was always the one with the attention and the life of the party. The new girlfriend was unhappy that my friend didn't splurge on her, resisted buying her the nicer clothes, etc. Over time, it became apparent this woman was in her own way jealous of SW in that we truly approach everything as joint in our marriage, while this woman was stuck in a non-marriage situation with a less-than-complete commitment from her guy.
As she stayed with this guy, she started to mirror and mimic his "alpha" style but she ended up alienating SW who demanded proper friendship.
She also began alienating different people who were close to her guy. Family members, longtime friends, people at his company got fired because she went against them, etc. But of course my friend is blinded to it all. Believes everything that comes out of her mouth. I mean, he has to live with her (his choice).
Other women saw the opportunity to get in close with the girlfriend in order to glean the lifestyle benefits from her guy. Thus started the rift. SW was not willing to become a sycophant to this woman. Over the course of the past five years, different women became close to SW and then used this closeness against SW in order to become the "new best friend" of the guy's girlfriend. The most recent iteration of this was with the one with whom SW shared the hotwife secret. The division didn't have anything to do with the secret, but rather good old-fashioned mean girls stuff (from 5-6 grade middle school). The telling of the secret was just additional insult to injury.
As I saw all this developing I took my friend out to dinner and asked him to intercede before it got too much momentum and out of control. He doesn't really run deep so didn't take my request to heart, and it did spin out of control. At that point, he did give it a try but quickly let me know it would be of no use.
This all culminated at the big party I threw for SW for her birthday in 2023. It was the best party yet, well planned and my buddy was co-planner. He supplied the wine as his gift to the party and to SW. There was about 70 people in attendance. In looking back, this was the peak of the girlfriend's jealousy, as she believed she should have had that kind of party thrown for her, before SW. Beginning right after that party, she began the earnest effort to show division, and she let all the girls who were willing to be swayed, to pledge fealty and to prove it by distancing from SW.
I let my buddy know that I expect better from someone who considers me his "closest friend" and that he didn't put in the work when it was needed. And we are now just acquaintances who used to be best friends.
Of course, his girl continues to drive wedges between us whenever she finds the opportunity, and her crew of sycophants follow suit. Perhaps one day she will tire of it and move to a new target.
And the one with SW's secrets is now the "bestie" of this girlfriend. Though not a long-term fit, as time will prove.
In summary, and to answer the question, I believe the hotwife revelation was just another element to add to the girls' jealousies.