Young married guy here

[Dream Weaver]

Thanks for your words. We are doing great right now. I am able to sleep well and we are planning to go to Poconos for a few days soon. Regarding our sex life, it is not that great compared to what I have read here. We have sex once a week (usually on Fridays) but apparently this is low? After reading a few posts on this forum, I am amazed at guys (the bulls usually) who have enough time and stamina to have sex almost every day and multiple times a day.

Hey I agree with the others, it's your life and there are some people here who would kill for once a week sex (hello that's me). My word of advice, I kind of let things get dead bedroom for a bit when I was getting over the bitterness of my wife shutting down any extracurricular activity. That was a dumb mistake. Try to meet her needs, try to make her happy in bed. The happier she is, the more likely she'll help you with your fantasies.

[dadah]

dan - you've gotten some really high quality marital advice from several posters much smarter than i, and i suggest you pay close attention. but as a hotwife enthusiast, i am quite adept at recognizing wife latent interest. it took me 8 years of seed planting, cajoling my hot fuck of a wife and tons of lights off hot fucking pillow talk to finally get her there. and man when she finally got there........hang the fuck on !! and i say to you from your reporting, i think lauren is interested and i would expect that interest to marinate and grow. she's not frigging herself off in the middle of the night if there is not some causation. so again, be patient and i'd say don't be shy about occasionally broaching the subject with her. andkeep us allposted. you have a lot of interest here. davo

[dadah]

dan - you've gotten some really high quality marital advice from several posters much smarter than i, and i suggest you pay close attention. but as a hotwife enthusiast, i am quite adept at recognizing wife latent interest. it took me 8 years of seed planting, cajoling my hot fuck of a wife and tons of lights off hot fucking pillow talk to finally get her there. and man when she finally got there........hang the fuck on !! and i say to you from your reporting, i think lauren is interested and i would expect that interest to marinate and grow. she's not frigging herself off in the middle of the night if there is not some causation. so again, be patient and i'd say don't be shy about occasionally broaching the subject with her. andkeep us allposted. you have a lot of interest here. davo

[hwc]

SheLikesWhenIWatch,

Your story is brilliant! would really like to read an update on how things are going.

[user322]

Hi
Given your wife's reactions when you told her about your fantasies, I think you can start the adventure with her.
You don't have to become obsessive, but you can sometimes show him that you're still thinking about it.
You can set this up as a chat during sex to increase arousal.

In any case, it seems to me that you have to bring up the subject fairly regularly if you want there to be an evolution.
Your wife has already taken the step by showing you that she likes the idea, you shouldn't expect her to do more for the moment, the rest of the way is up to you to do, you must show your wife that this fantasy really excites you, and you must support your wife in her openness, until the moment when perhaps she will be ready to take action.

Accompany her, respect her rhythm, but on the other hand take action, even if it's a very small action, you have to start somewhere, then you will increase the level gradually.

[dadah]

dan - has lauren shown any additional interest recently in letting other guys fuck her ?

[RunDannyRun]

OMG! She brought it up again. I am literally over the moon. I will give some details here and I have a few questions too


On Wednesday, she asked me if we can take the Friday (today) off. This is not totally strange, as over the years, we tried to be a bit spontaneous and take one or two Fridays off in a year and enjoy an extended weekend. This was the first time did it this year. We cooked some nice breakfast and Lauren suggested that we should go to our favorite spot, yes this is the same spot we went to when she agreed that she might consider cuckolding for the first time a couple of months ago. As soon as she suggested, I was excited and scared. We drove in the rain and once we reached there, Lauren took a deep breath and said that she would like to sleep with someone else.

I had to control every single muscle in my face to not smile. I told her that she doesn't have to do this just to please me (which I think was a stupid thing to say in hindsight but I was caught surprised by her admission). She said that she is a bit curious too and want to explore a bit. We chatted some more but she said that I can arrange a date for her.

We then came home and made some lunch and now Lauren is busy with her favorite activity --- sitting next to the window and reading a book and I am giving you folks an update.

So how can I find a guy for her?

[joel68]

Fuck yeah! No advice on how to go about it, but I am sure you will get a bunch of responses.

[sandy691196]

OMG! She brought it up again. I am literally over the moon. I will give some details here and I have a few questions too


On Wednesday, she asked me if we can take the Friday (today) off. This is not totally strange, as over the years, we tried to be a bit spontaneous and take one or two Fridays off in a year and enjoy an extended weekend. This was the first time did it this year. We cooked some nice breakfast and Lauren suggested that we should go to our favorite spot, yes this is the same spot we went to when she agreed that she might consider cuckolding for the first time a couple of months ago. As soon as she suggested, I was excited and scared. We drove in the rain and once we reached there, Lauren took a deep breath and said that she would like to sleep with someone else.

I had to control every single muscle in my face to not smile. I told her that she doesn't have to do this just to please me (which I think was a stupid thing to say in hindsight but I was caught surprised by her admission). She said that she is a bit curious too and want to explore a bit. We chatted some more but she said that I can arrange a date for her.

We then came home and made some lunch and now Lauren is busy with her favorite activity --- sitting next to the window and reading a book and I am giving you folks an update.

So how can I find a guy for her?

Congratulations. Well, this was my take on this a month back-

by sandy691196 » Sat Jul 06, 2024 11:19 pm

Hi Run..
You are a sensible guy who has the usual LS fantasies but who values the primary relationship and loves his wife. Thats your priority.

We just helped with putting things in perspective. You haven't pushed her. You haven't let your dick lead your life..

But since you have put the idea in her head, it's unlikely that she would let it drop for ever. She is just taking time to feel normal and stable in your relationship.

I bet it will resurface one day. She will be more comfortable when it comes up next. She now knows you are a normal partner with kinky fantasies and not a weirdo. So she will trust you a lot more next time it comes up.

Have fun


It played out exactly as it should have, since you went about it the right way. You commented - "(which I think was a stupid thing to say in hindsight but I was caught surprised by her admission)".. On the contrary this was exactly the right thing to say. You didn't appear to be pushing her or even being over the top thrilled with this. For this to have an optimum outcome, its crucial that she owns it and never blames you for emotionally manipulating her.

Now, the question of how to go about it. I had given some suggestions on this.. if you scroll back. It would be really good if you can involve her too in the search process.

Watching porn together with the stated purpose of her (and you) discovering what kinda scenario, what kinda guy appeals to her. Plenty of HotWife amateur porn (ideally MFM) available. Hubby may or may not be participating, though present in the room. Best is you avoid the "cuck" porn involving humiliation and emasculation.

Bar - pick up lounges adventures are good too. Even if it initially doesn't lead to same evening hook up.

Finally, safest and least messy is a male masseur/escort for the first experience. From what you have said about your wife, I suspect, she may not be comfortable with too much of an elaborate and painstaking search process. She may want to get to the "experience" with the least amount of fuss and mind games. Massage with sex- option is ideal in such cases.
To arrive at that decision too, initiating the entire thing with exploratory porn watching is still a good start point.

Best of luck.

[wannabecUKold]

We drove in the rain and once we reached there, Lauren took a deep breath and said that she would like to sleep with someone else.

Wow! Imagine what she must have felt saying that. Imagine hos she has been rehearsing that statement. How wonderful to hear those words fall from her lips. We said that she wouldn’t have dropped the idea, once she said she would do it.

I wouldn’t worry about your response at all. She doubtless saw your smile and she knows you really want it. Have you had sex after that yet? Let her see how aroused you are, which will reassure her that she hasn’t misread the situation.

Getting the right guy. Think carefully about what her preferences would be. You ought to ask her and discuss what sort of guy she wants to fuck her.

Obviously if your best friend is the Olympic athlete who knocked the high jump bar off with his massive penis, then contact him. More seriously, think about any other friend she knows and likes and who you could ask. I would avoid a total stranger off a dating site, unless she specifically wants, say, a BBC, whom she could not get in any other way. A quick and reliable way to start would be to go to an erotic masseur, whom you could visit first and arrange a session with and have control over. The nudist beach and the bar and dance floor will offer possibilities.

Good luck. We look forward to that day in the very near future when she spreads her naked legs to receive another man’s cock.

[allways]

OMG! She brought it up again. I am literally over the moon.Lauren took a deep breath and said that she would like to sleep with someone else.

She said that she is a bit curious too and want to explore a bit. We chatted some more but she said that I can arrange a date for her.

So how can I find a guy for her?

Slow down. First use it to add to your sex life. Lots of pillow talk. Ask her what sort of man would she be attracted to. Its all about her not you at this stage. Is she happy with one off's or would she like someone that spins her wheels and is a regular. Have you thought about what role you would play. Would she be comfortable with you watching? Would you like that? What turns you on. Is she on the pill?. Would you like her to go bare back? Does the idea of a cream pie turn you on? Don't assume anything talk to her but first find out what she wants. How much does she really understand about the lifestyle? Talk, talk, talk and make it fun. Slowly slowly. You are both young you have a lifetime together if you communicate.

[RunDannyRun]

Hey folks,

Thanks for your replies. We spoke a bit more yesterday night (I didn't get any replies by then) and discussed a bit more.

Lauren said that she wants this part of our lives as separate as possible, like we should be in a position to go back to our old lives if she doesn't like this cuckolding thing.

She told me that she doesn't want anyone to know about this. So no friends or colleagues. I suggested dating apps and she seems okay with it. we met the old-fashioned way and we never used one, so there might be some challenges.

I really didn't tell her what I want yet. I just want her to be comfortable and take things at her own pace.

So the next steps are to install a dating app and create a profile for her and look for some guys. She seems very excited lol.

[dadah]

oh danny !! what thrilling news !!! you and lauren are on the verge of some fabulous and erotic sexual times. just the 'lights out' pillow talk about desires and possibilities is gonna lead to incredible sex between just the two of you. don't push her, let her be comfortable at all times with where this sexual adventure is. but in my opinion when she is comfortable with where this all is and where you and she are in your relationship, she is gonna be fantastic and incredibly hot and playful. and just wait til she brings you that first naughty, well used, cum filled pussy!! you will be lucky as hell and hooked for life. enjoy!! -- thrilling news and can't wait til you report more!! davo

[Jujube]

Okay, I’m hooked!

[Bones]

Excited about this latest progress!

[wannabecUKold]

As a young wife looking for consensual extramarital sex, Lauren is going to be in high demand on any dating site. Everyone will imagine getting between her willing naked legs.

Here are some suggestions of dating sites to kick off. Could other readers pile in please.
Swing life style SLS -for swingers, maybe a bit older than you.
Ashley Maddison - for extra marital affairs
Seeking (Arrangements): usually older, richer guys who will pay your rent for a younger woman
OK Cupid : conventional site but includes non-monogamy (would need to explain carefully)
Tinder : casual hookups

I wonder what her choice will be:
Same age: you might find that he was competitive and he might try to exclude you/ supplant you. The same age would make it easier for her to have a connection with her lover (yes, lover) which she might prefer, but riskier for you.
Slightly older: same, with more money. She could fall for him.
Daddy: could work well. He doesnt expect to replace you and will have maturity not to interfr with your young marriage (see y_guy on here).
Younger: Good for sex, ever-ready cock, wham bam and done, crude but effective, not a rival.

What's her go-to fantasy? Does she envisage having a lover who she sleeps with overnight once a week? With you bringing them breakfast in bed in the morning? What's your role? None/chair in corner watching/ submissive/ or friends having a threesome? (see cuckold fantasies realised, on here.) My guess is that she would start to deny you.

[marriedky]

Danny, what do you hope to get out of her cuckolding you?

See her fucked, help her get fucked. Fluff her bull and or clean her juices off him? Or just have her describe the sex? Reclaim her pussy? Suck a bull’s load out of her and then reclaim her? There’s a thousand options. Just curious what makes you nut hardest when you fantasize about it? As it’s getting close to reality quickly

[sandy691196]

Rundanny.. this is the most exciting phase. This discovery stage. Do this phase right.
Did you go with the watch hotwife porn option to check what gets her juices out? Since she wants it to be away from your normal life.. Thought of trying the short vacation option? The bar the beach? Vegas?

[RunDannyRun]

Hey folks,

Things here are not as realtime. We did go ahead and create an account on bumble.

To keep things simple, Lauren said that she is single in her profile. She was not very comfortable to tell folks that she is married and she felt like she might be judged. I didn't press on it too much.

We got several matches but we there are two main candidates leading the pack: James and Paul. James is around her age (24) and recently single. He is tall and athletic. He has thick blonde hair but no facial hair. He just gives frat boy vibes (not that we have any problems with it). Paul is a little bit older than us (29). He is also tall and broad shouldered with a beard and he has this whole lumberjack thing going on.

We are planning to take the conversation off bumble and to instagram as I am getting paranoid that someone might recognize her on the app. She archived a couple of our wedding pics but we each have like 40 followers and I think everyone gave up on the app and won't notice this.

So what do I want to get out this? Honestly it is a bit exciting and scary. We discussed this a bit. I honestly hope I can see her have sex with someone and enjoy. She made it very clear that she doesn't want threesomes. She is definitely a bit more prudish when it comes to these things, I suppose. But I hoping that she will loosen up as things progress. I probably want to eat her creampie (this is the most I had fantasized about but I didn't mention this to her yet). Right now, I am hoping that she "dates" on of these guys and initially she will sleep at their place but maybe after sometime, she will tell them about me and then hope that they would be willing to let me watch them plow her.

[wannabecUKold]

"She archived a couple of our wedding pics but we each have like 40 followers and I think everyone gave up on the app and won't notice this."

You'll set up a new account surely? under a fake name. Otherwise your followers will get notified of any new post.

[RunDannyRun]

We thought about new account but then the guys might get suspicious. I mean it is only to chat and nothing else. I don't think she will post anything lol (the last post was in 2023 October haha).

[sandy691196]

She will date them as a single girl? Later she will spring.it on them that she is married? In the meantime what will they be led to believe? It's FB, FWB, Romance.. what?

[RunDannyRun]

She will date them as a single girl? Later she will spring.it on them that she is married? In the meantime what will they be led to believe? It's FB, FWB, Romance.. what?

She is gonna make it clear that this will be a casual relationship. Both of us don't want to lead the men on.

[Rogueuser1]

Just curious since you guys have been together so long - has she had sex with anyone else before? If so how many?
Have you guys talked about any rules or boundaries - your place, his place, a hotel? Condom or bare? Anal? Swallowing? Etc.

[RunDannyRun]

Just curious since you guys have been together so long - has she had sex with anyone else before? If so how many?
Have you guys talked about any rules or boundaries - your place, his place, a hotel? Condom or bare? Anal? Swallowing? Etc.

She had a boyfriend in highschool and she lost her virginity to him. Right now, we just think that if she were to have sex, it would be at his place in the beginning. She will be insisting on condoms. I am sure she would do never do anal.