Recommendations wanted

[exroadie]

My wife and I enjoy playing with others. We’ve had a long-term friend (male) and have had a successful one nighter with another couple (m/f) and would really like to be doing a lot more playing around. Our long-term guy moved since we began and so have we. So, it’s much less convenient to meet up than it used to be.
We met both using the website doublelist. But, with maybe 6-8 years of frequent checking there (and Craigslist before that), those are the only two who’ve worked out. We probably talked to a half dozen more that we did not follow up with once we got to direct conversation.
A while ago I signed us up for adult friend finder. We were told this would be a better group of people especially as the pay to play aspect would weed out a lot. After letting it languish for a while, I finally began paying attention to it a lot recently and trying to find someone there. No luck. There are some really good looking people. If we were young and fit, we would be good. But, we aren’t either of those. There are some people our age, but… well, I hope people don’t think we look like they do… I mean we’re kind of older and a little overweight but not THAT old and overweight. And the local crowd seems to be very bearded and tattooed… not our thing. Whenever I find people in there we like, they seem to always include terms like ‘classy’, ‘educated’ and ‘clean’ in their descriptions and be located an hour or two away. I didn’t want to put terms like that in our description, but I guess I might have to. I don’t want our next fun time to turn into afternoon tea where everybody has to drink with their pinky fingers extended or whatever. It’s starting to feel like we’re living 100 miles from our preferred social group.
Which brings me to the question… I have heard that there are other sites out there for those seeking adult fun to meet each other and that the crowd that’s on these sites varies by location. I hope that we just haven’t found the website where our local people are doing their thing. But I don’t know what other sites are out there. Especially for couples and especially for older couples. We’re late 50’s and looking for couples that are our age maybe plus or minus a decade or so.
Can anyone recommend other possible sites where our crowd might be found?

[patw3268]

The people that post pics on here are proud of their bodies, rightfully so. Plenty of us normal folks with average bodies that don’t work out every day but still have the sexual desire. I agree the scene isn’t the same since doublelist went premium.

[HappilyShared]

An Almost Guaranteed Successful Cock Hunt for #6 is the Lounge of any of the Upscale Hotels in the City ... She can Pick n Choose from a limitless array of Traveling Businessman eager for over the evening meal conversation and invariably a Night of Fucking and Sucking ...

[HappilyShared]

An Almost Guaranteed Successful Cock Hunt for #6 is the Lounge of any of the Upscale Hotels in the City ... She can Pick n Choose from a limitless array of Traveling Businessman eager for over the evening meal conversation and invariably a Night of Fucking and Sucking ...

[exroadie]

An Almost Guaranteed Successful Cock Hunt for #6 is the Lounge of any of the Upscale Hotels in the City ... She can Pick n Choose from a limitless array of Traveling Businessman eager for over the evening meal conversation and invariably a Night of Fucking and Sucking ...

We haven’t done that. Honestly she’s quite good at flirting right in front of me. But it’s never progressed beyond talk.
We did have a nice time in a hotel, prior to her being shared, when we fucked and then she went to the lobby coffee area in nothing but a skimpy pullover. My cum was running out of her. There was a guy she’d seen at the hotel that she sort of fancied and I told her if he was there to give him a show. He was and she did.

[leo-cpl]

Look up www.sdc.com Its very decent, its paid (not a lot) so only good chances of connecting with genuine n like minded folks. TBH it doesn't matter where ya meet people, we have met good folks on free websites such as www.mewe.com. For us its all about how we approach things, there's an introduction phase and then moving on chatting to get to know the people followed up trading pics and finally a voice call. If all these are checked we think about meeting casually to check if our vibes match, to check how old the pics were (they shared lol) and most of all if we enjoy hanging out with the couples or the guy. Our theory is if we didn't enjoy hanging out casually over a coffee or drinks then we do not go ahead. If we enjoy meeting them then a lil more chatting and then either a second casual meet or we meet to play. AT times wife chats with the guys (this used to happen frequently earlier on) but now she doesn't feel the need to get too friendly as such.

Just sharing this coz we feel it increases the probability of connecting with like minded people whose idea of fun is same as yours, also helps weed out fakes and flakes!

[Tank Turner]

An Almost Guaranteed Successful Cock Hunt for #6 is the Lounge of any of the Upscale Hotels in the City ... She can Pick n Choose from a limitless array of Traveling Businessman eager for over the evening meal conversation and invariably a Night of Fucking and Sucking ...

^^^That is as close to 100% factual as 100% factual can get^^^

My recommendation is to do lounges at 5-star resorts and Four Seasons Hotels.

[adamgunnauthor]

We used SwingLifeStyle (SLS), and never had problems finding guys that desired my wife of various ages and physical attractiveness.

Yes, in order to contact potential partners you must be paid (you can create a profile for free and do searches, you simply can't send messages.) But the cost is less than a night out at an Applebees for two every month.

[Tank Turner]

Always remember that what you post on the internet stays on the internet forever. Be very careful before joining lifestyle websites.

[exroadie]

that's why we won't post any pictures. as much as I'd love to show her off, I really don't want that to come back and bite us. I tried for months to figure out how to get some pics that would be worth seeing, but also wouldn't give away who we are, and just couldn't come up with any. at least two people I know are on our local AFF. I've never said anything to either of them. But, we don't want for our private life and our work life or social life to have any intersection at all. In a place like where we live, keeping everything totally separated is not easy.

[zorro]

SLS has been a dependable standby. Lots of real people. Sure, there are flakes and no shows, but that is the nature of the lifestyle. Anyone you connect with remains only a "possible" until his cock is in your wife's pussy.

Tempering expectations if always the best way to go to avoid disappointment.

[Tank Turner]

Anyone you connect with remains only a "possible" until his cock is in your wife's pussy.

He zorro,

How have you been? How's Bay Area living? So Cal has been beautiful beach living.

I hope you have been drawing your sword from its sheath regularly.

I still enjoy reading your eloquent and descriptive posts. "...until his cock is in your wife's pussy," was definitively eloquent and descriptive.


Take care,

TT

[SensualDeviant]

OKCupid allows users to label themselves and search for non-monogamous partners. There are a multitude of personality questions you can answer with various weights of importance. You can game the system by carefully marking only the most pertinent questions as Mandatory.