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How important is a cock size to a woman?

Unread post by Hillcountry66 » Thu Sep 12, 2024 12:21 am

How important is a cock size to a woman? So men always have this dream of having the biggest cock to satisfy a woman. And I’m told too big of a cock hurts a woman. So can I get some honest feedback on what is the ideal size that yall prefer? I understand to each their own. So go ahead and post your thoughts.

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Unread post by Natatude » Thu Sep 12, 2024 7:26 pm

I prefer about 7 my hubby is about 9-10 and he hurts me a lot, I would never want anyone bigger than him.
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Re: How important is a cock size to a woman?

Unread post by sana9889 » Thu Sep 12, 2024 10:26 pm

Not as important as you guys think. My bf is 7.5. And still some wastage of dick.
I think around 7 is good.

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Unread post by Thebestdays1 » Fri Sep 13, 2024 2:43 am

One of my ex wife's lovers had 5.5 inches and it wasn't very thick but he knew how to please her with it. One of the reasons she particularly liked his penis was that she used to suck him off every morning, after their night shift. He always took a while before he'd cum in her mouth so the fact that he didn't make her jaw ache or make her gag when he came made her feel comfortable when she did it.
She enjoyed feeling full with some of her larger lovers but sucking them off could be uncomfortable.

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Unread post by NC-hotwife-hubby » Fri Sep 13, 2024 4:02 am

I am 5.5 and my wife also likes BJ's with me for the same reason. She can get it all in her mouth without hurting. But for sex she has to have 7+ or it's not much for her.... Her biggest is a 10" BBC. She has had him in her ass too.

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Unread post by Cdncuck » Fri Sep 13, 2024 8:04 am

I think it depends on the woman. Some like larger some don't

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Unread post by UKDan » Fri Sep 13, 2024 9:03 am

NC-hotwife-hubby wrote:
Fri Sep 13, 2024 4:02 am
I am 5.5 and my wife also likes BJ's with me for the same reason. She can get it all in her mouth without hurting. But for sex she has to have 7+ or it's not much for her.... Her biggest is a 10" BBC. She has had him in her ass too.
Wow, that’s one talented wife. She must have been super hot for him to attempt that.

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Unread post by NC-hotwife-hubby » Fri Sep 13, 2024 11:18 am

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Unread post by subcuck93 » Fri Sep 13, 2024 11:20 am

It depends on how much they feel before.

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Unread post by LawyerWouldbeCuckold » Fri Sep 13, 2024 11:31 am

Cdncuck wrote:
Fri Sep 13, 2024 8:04 am
I think it depends on the woman. Some like larger some don't
I've heard the same thing(s). Size does matter to some women....does not matter to other women.

Just like boob size, I suppose. I most assuredly DO NOT LIKE small or smallish breasts.I like a minimum
of a "C" Cup.

But that's just me.

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Unread post by MartasBoy » Fri Sep 13, 2024 12:39 pm

My wife has always said that she likes my size of penis. She calls my penis "friendly" and says that mine could never be intimidating, or hurt, like she says big penises do. However, her boyfriend's penis is quite a bit bigger and I've heard her howl in ecstacy with him, in ways she never has with me.
I've asked her why his isn't intimidating and she has said that it would be, if it was any larger. But I've also seen how enthusiastically she mounts him, when she takes him cowgirl style. She also rides him hard enough that his big penis doesn't seem to hurt her.

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Re: How important is a cock size to a woman?

Unread post by 4herpleasure89 » Fri Sep 13, 2024 1:13 pm

I’m bigger (length and girth) than the majority of Sue’s lovers and she prefers a little smaller for sex but loves the big ones for pictures.

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Unread post by hornedhubby » Fri Sep 13, 2024 1:22 pm

Just curious, 4herpleasure89, was your large endowment one of the reasons why Sue chose to marry you?

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Unread post by mychubbyhotwife » Fri Sep 13, 2024 1:54 pm

How big is big enough? :P You can test your wife's tolerance with toys, bottles, fists ... Measure your wife's depth. Vaginal depth scale.

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Unread post by BBCfan » Sat Sep 14, 2024 8:10 am

I'm 7" and feel quite small in my wife, still amazing though, but can't come close to getting deep as I've experienced with others.

She once a said a cock shouldn't be called big if it's under 9".
I thought she was joking but she wasn't.

She's an outlier from my experience though. I'm very lucky to be with a woman with a porn star pussy.
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Unread post by BT2 » Sat Sep 14, 2024 11:25 am

A number of years ago we had a threesome with a guy who had the largest cock I had ever seen - maybe ten inches. My wife enjoys intercourse with her dates when she can raise her knees up high and her date fucks her deep, then cums deep inside her. But this time she kept her legs flat on the bed. When later I asked her why, she said "I thought he would hurt me".

I saw a video once citing studies which were supposedly conducted by a university. On one study sexually active women were asked what size a penis they preferred for the most enjoyable, worry free sex. Another study looked at the size of dildo most women ordered for themselves. The responses were the same in both studies - 5 1/2 to 6 1/2 inches.

I've read some porn posts, letters, and/or stories where the male claims a "ten inch cock". I've always thought the writers were bragging. Turns out the bragging would be a waste for most women.

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Unread post by parklife » Sat Sep 14, 2024 1:44 pm

All things being equal, my wife enjoys a larger cock…. She’s had a FWB with 8” and thought it was great… she’s played with a didlo latger and loved it…. That being said, cock size isn’t important for her at all really. Her last FWB was less than 5” and she really enjoyed sex with him and thought it was some of the most passionate sex she’s had.

Does she enjoy size? Yes. Is size important? No.

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Unread post by carolinacuck » Mon Sep 16, 2024 6:12 am

When we dipped our toes in the HW/Cuckold lifestyle we created an AFF account. When we filled out our profile, I asked C what type of man should we say she is looking for in an extramarital sex partner. She simply replied "good looking with a big dick." She has gotten exactly what she wanted with several different men over the last few years, all of whom were considerably bigger than my 5" cock.

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Unread post by Tryagain » Mon Sep 16, 2024 9:16 am

mychubbyhotwife wrote:
Fri Sep 13, 2024 1:54 pm
How big is big enough? :P You can test your wife's tolerance with toys, bottles, fists ... Measure your wife's depth. Vaginal depth scale.
Vaginal depth scale? I will be researching if there is one. I would love to get a true measurement - both before and after she tents. She amazes me when she takes a full 9 inches. But she cannot sustain fucking that one hard for long. But...she loves it to be fully inserted slowly and then when he keeps it in there deeply. How intense it is when he just lies on top and she moves slowly against it moaning in ecstasy.

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Unread post by MartasBoy » Mon Sep 16, 2024 10:39 am

But what about someone like me who is small? I have heard it said before, that it isn't the meat, it's the motion:
It isn't the size of a dick, but how you use it.

What can I do to use it better, if I have trouble staying in her. I usually fall out after a few thrusts, and end up coming on her thigh. I would like to know some techniques I can use to still turn her on, so that she will want me inside of her again. She always says that I just end up hurting her. I don't understand how a small penis can hurt. I thought it was just really big penises that hurt.

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Unread post by CTim » Mon Sep 16, 2024 11:14 am

https://www.hims.com/blog/what-size-pen ... men-prefer

The above article references research that allowed women to select from 3D models as opposed to just picking a listed number. Theoretically, that should be a more accurate representation. The average preferred size for a long term partner was 6.3" length and 4.8" girth.

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Unread post by kort677 » Mon Sep 16, 2024 11:49 am

my wife enjoys cocks of all sizes, she prefers thickness more than length, she really dislikes pencil thin ones

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Unread post by Bogdan » Thu Apr 24, 2025 11:42 pm

My wife isn't that concerned about the size of a cock. The guy attached to it is much more important. She does however likes it when it's a little ticker then average, gives her more feeling inside. She also likes it when it's looks pretty? Like nice and firm, a little curve upwards and circumcised although that's is not mandatory.
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Re: How important is a cock size to a woman?

Unread post by Tryagain » Fri Apr 25, 2025 1:42 pm

But how about the variety of fucking that comes with a large one? If the guy is really hung he can fuck the lady in a whole range of positions that a 5 incher or even 6 incher can't do? One position is for her to lay on her stomach. With my 5.5 incher i cant get enough in her for her to feel it in that position.

How about when she is cowgirl and bends over to kiss him and he upthrusts into her pussy. My wife loves that but my cock will slip out if i try to thrust up. And if i do get in, the length of cock just does not give much friction in her. You can't effectively spoon fuck her either if you are average sized.

If he sits on a chair with a long cock, she can sit down on it facing him but again...limited mobility means she needs more cock.

And how about when she turns on her side and he puts one leg outside of one of her legs and the other in between hers and he fucks her from behind. I can't do that one either.

She is not fat either. A lady's girth also shrinks the ability of a cock to penetrate her.

And if you blessed with a hung lover, he does not have to put the whole thing in her so she can take whatever she wants ! What's the problem with that?

If you add in the beauty of a large cock and like the feel of a handful of it, hands down a large cock is the winner for almost all women except the small minority who have such a very tight shallow pussy.

Take that... you small cock advocates :-)

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