My wife is getting close to her first affair.

[Jujube]

I think if you got Admin to move this thread over to the Cuckold Forum you’d get more engagement. After two years you’re no longer a new member!

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

I know your head is probably spinning, but this is probably the apotheosis of a cuckold lifestyle. She has found a man who absolutely rocks her world, who obviously fucks her much better than you. This latest is her idea to get you more involved, in a BIG way! She is taking control, and she knows this kind of semi-humiliation will only enhance her own orgasms. Personally, I think it’s Cuckold Heaven.

I have to agree. Sounds great to me!

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

Hi Jguy, I like your story! Your conflicting emotions and sometimes contradictory feelings and actions are completely normal. It's called Cuckold Angst, and it's totally normal if you truly love your wife. I was similar to your wife in that I was head over heels for my first man. Not in love, but super infatuated, even obsessed. Our dates were exclusively one on one, and I saw my husband again only after. The fact that I saw him being worried sometimes about the situation, or not sure if he made the right choice, was reassuring to me that he really loved me! I made sure he knew I loved him too. It was much later, and with another man, that my husband became more involved, but my preference is still one on one and my husband waiting for me. I understand what she is doing becasue I was the same. I also told my husband that if we do the hotwife thing, that we do it MY way, I'm in control of all of it, and he can't ask me about it. I would text him during and tell him everything when I get back home. Sometimes I wouldn't tell him until after an encounter. I went on dates in the beginning, but less often now because I don't want to waste the time. I realized I didnt need romance, just the sex. I got my husband for affection and love and validation. The part you described where E would come over at night and fuck her in your bed while she kissed you was SO HOT.. and I have done similar with my husband.. my guy would come in, fuck me and leave.. was I getting used? Yes, AND I LIKED IT! It's ok.

So I'm saying all this to tell you that it's ok. You got off to a rough start with the communication issue, but I've seen you say multiple times that she keeps you informed to what is going on, and even does it with you there, holding your dick, hand or kissing you. You do need to have time just you and her. Be romantic, take her on dates. Do what you know she desires (non-sexual). And if she wants to end a date by stopping by a man's house to get fucked like the little slut she is, then you take her to him and be happy the love of your life wants you there beside her, and then show her your love by greedily eating her pussy after! I have the BEST orgasms when my husband eats my pussy after a man fucks me. It's part of being a submissive cuckold. It's amazing and brings us closer together. That is the role of my cuck hubby.. love me and EAT MY PUSSY.

I do draw the line at love talk with a fuck buddy, even a "boyfriend". I dont want anyone to get the wrong idea. Any guy I'm with has a very clear understanding that I love my husband, he's my forever soulmate, and I'm never leaving him no matter what. I hope it all works out for the both of you! <3

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

last night he came in. When the door unlocked, it startled us both. I turned on my nightstand light and it was Ethan. He went over to my wife's side of the bed and started taking off his shirt. My wife started shaking her head and said "We're can't do this." He took off his pants and she said my name. He said "This is between me and her" He got in bed on her side and started kissing her. When he tried to kiss her mouth she turned away so her kissed her neck and nipples and eventually went down on her. She had a blank stare on her face and her head started shaking. Eventually her eyes rolled back and she had an orgasm from this. He came up and kissed her. She didn't kiss him back but she didn't turn away either. She said 'don't', to him, and he slid himself inside of her. I just laid there not knowing what to do. then, I heard her say 'oh.. fuck' and grabbed his head and pulled it into hers and kissed him and put her arms and legs around him and he fucked her. I'm sure it the best sex she had since he moved out.

I always have a "safe word" with a man, and STOP or DONT are never it! What you describe sounds bad at first, but may have also been dominance play that your wife craves. You are like my husband in some ways.. submissive cuckold. He gets submissive around a dominant alpha male who is showing us that he wants me, and that I am giving into it, much as your wife did. If she has a D/s dynamic (even if it's not formal), and she gave him the OK in advance to do something, like come into your house unannounced, sometimes it's not always going to happen at convenient times, but that's part of the deal she made with him. So long as my husband sees I'm not getting actually for real hurt or saying the safe word, he knows to stay in his place and not interfere with an Alpha male taking his wife's body for his pleasure. He can always console me after

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

Our relationship is fine. The other night he got in bed with us, she turned towards me and put her lips against mine, occasionally kissing me. She stuck her ass out towards him and the entire time they had sex she would breath hard on my lips with every pleasure she received. She let me know how good he felt and would kiss me as she made me cum in her hand. She put her arms around me and held me until he came. It was very sensual.

OMG that is HOTT!! I've done that too, almost exactly as you described! Sounds like a hotwife who loves her husband to me <3

[jguy]

I had forgotten all about that night. I reminded my wife about that night, she told me if I would come in the bedroom with them next week, she would let me stay in bed with them and touch me or hold my hand while he makes love to her. I can't say anything, or reach over to them, and I can't take care of myself while they are in the act. Also, I have to stay on the side and be very still, and she said I could experience him making love to her. She did warn me that there is a lot of talk and while they are having foreplay and she is in love with him. I may have to just be patient. She said she probably will only be kissing him. But after he leaves if i eat his cum, she will stay in bed and let me eat her out, and then I can take care of myself.
Thank you for reminding us of that night. I'm excited to do it again.

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

I had forgotten all about that night. I reminded my wife about that night, she told me if I would come in the bedroom with them next week, she would let me stay in bed with them and touch me or hold my hand while he makes love to her. I can't say anything, or reach over to them, and I can't take care of myself while they are in the act. Also, I have to stay on the side and be very still, and she said I could experience him making love to her. She did warn me that there is a lot of talk and while they are having foreplay and she is in love with him. I may have to just be patient. She said she probably will only be kissing him. But after he leaves if i eat his cum, she will stay in bed and let me eat her out, and then I can take care of myself.
Thank you for reminding us of that night. I'm excited to do it again.

Sounds like her rules are clear -and reasonable for the type of hotwife-cuckold-bull relationship she wants to have. She took control of it and seems like she likes it, and she's including you. What more could you ask for?

ALWAYS eat your wife after! Take your time, suck her clean, savor it -she's sharing with YOU the intimacy she had with the other man, feel her build up, enjoy it, and give her a special loving feeling and orgasms she will remember. That is your job -NO ONE can eat her pussy with the passion you can -she's your hotwife and true love and youre showing her that you love her even though she's openly unfaithful and with another man's cum inside her <3 My husband says nothing compares to the feelings he has in those moments, and I can feel it too.

[BallSpanking]

Sounds like her rules are clear -and reasonable for the type of hotwife-cuckold-bull relationship she wants to have. She took control of it and seems like she likes it, and she's including you. What more could you ask for?

ALWAYS eat your wife after! Take your time, suck her clean, savor it -she's sharing with YOU the intimacy she had with the other man, feel her build up, enjoy it, and give her a special loving feeling and orgasms she will remember. That is your job -NO ONE can eat her pussy with the passion you can -she's your hotwife and true love and youre showing her that you love her even though she's openly unfaithful and with another man's cum inside her <3 My husband says nothing compares to the feelings he has in those moments, and I can feel it too.

Excellent advice.

[Jujube]

Did she go away for the weekend with him?

[jguy]

Yes. I don't know all of what happened yesterday before they left. No details at all!
I did get a text last night. They got checked in to the hotel and went out and had an awesome time at a seafood joint and they were heading to a club before going back to the hotel.
This is all I have heard. I want to text her so bad. I miss her a lot and just keep imagining that they are having a romantic weekend together.
This is very tough.

[Jujube]

Maybe she’ll bring him back home with her when the weekend is through. I know it’s tough when they’re away together, but it seems they’re in their own little world.

[FNQLivin]

It certainly doesn’t seem like it’s fun for you at all.

[uhhhhhhh]

My thought is to get yourself a good lawyer. You will need one when you return.

This

[jguy]

It's mainly about her. But for me it's worth it because our relationship and our sex life is so much better. I enjoy eating my wife and giving her pleasure. One way I can give her pleasure is by letting her get away and have a weekend away from everything and enjoy another man. The reward for me is her happiness. She has been so excited about this weekend and has been extra sweet to me all week.

I enjoy seeing her attracted to another man, putting her arms around him, kissing his lips, putting her skinny fingers around his penis and lightly touching and admiring it.. kissing it, placing it in her mouth, and getting turned on about a man's hard cock she is about to be unfaithful in front of her husband with. When I see my wife naked with her legs spread for a man it is euphoric. To see her arms on his back and shoulders as she gives herself to him and pulls his face nest to hers to kiss him is what really excites me. Watching her moan as he puts his cock into my wife, and to see how she looks into his eyes with anticipation of his penis plunging inside her. Some parts may not be exactly what I want, but seeing her hips rise to meet him halfway as they fuck each other makes it all worthwhile. I absolutely do not like the taste of a man's cum, but when my wife begs me to lick her pussy and enjoys it as much as she does, and I can give her the best orgasms of the whole evening, it is worth it. I do love how her juices are mixed with his, and I taste his cock and his cum on her pussy as she orgasms in my mouth.
She has let me know how much she appreciates me letting her get away with him and how good sex has been alone with him. He came in her mouth (which she doesn't care for and spit it out) but told me she may let him do it again when I'm around and kiss me with it so there is no mess. She also let me know she is ready to come back.
So. to me, as much as I have enjoyed having sex with other girls in the past, I should be unselfish and allow my wife to enjoy that same feeling with another man also.

[Jujube]

Beautiful. You both are getting exactly what you want .

[jguy]

Great ending to the weekend. They came back, I hinted to her if she wanted to take him to the bedroom, but she said she was too sore. When he left she started kissing my neck, pulled down my pants and stroked me. I asked her if she had fun. She whispered in my ear "I loved it. We fucked so much. His cock felt so good inside me. He came in me so many times." I know she was saying this on purpose to make me come, which I did - a lot!
As I was coming, she kissed me on my lips and said 'I love fucking him'.

[silky nylons]

Great ending to the weekend. They came back, I hinted to her if she wanted to take him to the bedroom, but she said she was too sore. When he left she started kissing my neck, pulled down my pants and stroked me. I asked her if she had fun. She whispered in my ear "I loved it. We fucked so much. His cock felt so good inside me. He came in me so many times." I know she was saying this on purpose to make me come, which I did - a lot!
As I was coming, she kissed me on my lips and said 'I love fucking him'.

That is incredible hot and sexy!!!

[jguy]

I know! it was super hot of her!
And last night she ran downstairs and gave me that wet kiss she had been wanting to give me.
It was actually very nice. We kissed for a little bit and she made sure I got a good taste, then she told me she loved me, and ran back upstairs.

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

Sorry if I didnt catch on, but is he living with you? And she primarily or exclusively sleeps with him?

[jguy]

He doesn't live with us. We just started sleeping in other rooms almost a year ago. Sometimes we do sleep in the same bed together.

[Jujube]

The cum-kiss is soo hot! How often does she get to fuck him? Seems like it’s all the time now. Is this the same guy that would let himself in your house and fuck your wife beside you at night?

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

He doesn't live with us. We just started sleeping in other rooms almost a year ago. Sometimes we do sleep in the same bed together.

Why are you sleeping in separate rooms?

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

Great ending to the weekend. They came back, I hinted to her if she wanted to take him to the bedroom, but she said she was too sore. When he left she started kissing my neck, pulled down my pants and stroked me. I asked her if she had fun. She whispered in my ear "I loved it. We fucked so much. His cock felt so good inside me. He came in me so many times." I know she was saying this on purpose to make me come, which I did - a lot!
As I was coming, she kissed me on my lips and said 'I love fucking him'.

I love her manipulation combing certain actions and words.. very calculated

[jguy]

We started sleeping in separate rooms over an argument. After we worked things out it was just easier to sleep separately. On occasion, she would have a guy over and he could just stay overnight. Now it just works out better since Ethan comes over two or more times a week, sometimes later at night. It's nice because she can have him over without having to ask me or having me make other arrangements to sleep in the other room.

[edgedndenied]

Thanks for the update. Do you still have PIV sex with your wife? If so how often.