My wife is getting close to her first affair.

[isinlarsa]

We started sleeping in separate rooms over an argument. After we worked things out it was just easier to sleep separately. On occasion, she would have a guy over and he could just stay overnight. Now it just works out better since Ethan comes over two or more times a week, sometimes later at night. It's nice because she can have him over without having to ask me or having me make other arrangements to sleep in the other room.

Do you get to fuck her when she doesn't have an overnight guest?

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

We started sleeping in separate rooms over an argument. After we worked things out it was just easier to sleep separately. On occasion, she would have a guy over and he could just stay overnight. Now it just works out better since Ethan comes over two or more times a week, sometimes later at night. It's nice because she can have him over without having to ask me or having me make other arrangements to sleep in the other room.

Hubby and I have had arguments like that! If it's working out for you both that is what's important.

[jguy]

It works out well for both of us. I get up earlier than her and also it gives her freedom to have him over whenever she wants.
Lately we've been wanting to meet another guy. Not big on clubs, but we may go there again and check it out.
And no, we don't have sex together very often lately. She has been having good sex and doesn't want to mess that up.

[jguy]

I need some advice. My wife wants to cuck me for two weeks where she spends time solely with her boyfriend. They will hang out every day together - for the most part at our house (we have dogs and things that need attended to) and I am not allowed to interfere or come upstairs - at all. I can however, put up internet cameras in the kitchen, living room, bedroom, anywhere I want! and will be allowed to watch them at all times.
I can masturbate all I want, but must remain in the basement and cannot have any contact with her for two weeks - even when he's gone.

I told her I really have to think about this. But this would be the ultimate cuckold above anything I have heard of.
I would get to watch them in the most intimate settings and she promised to always leave lights on for me to view.
She said they would only do things together at the house also.

My heart is racing because I feel this may be the end of us if I agree.
Seems like she would totally be in love with him by the end.
I don't want to lose my wife, and I very much love her, and this seems like it could make her fall for him.
But I absolutely love the idea of watching them in these intimate settings - I really want to view them alone, to see exactly what they do together when I'm not there. I've always wondered what they were like together when I wasn't with them.

She told me she's good either way and not to feel like she is pressuring her. It was something the two of them thought of, not her idea.
I told her I need to weigh the pros and cons.

So... big decision and I'm not leaning either way yet.

So please, Any advice is appreciated.

[FNQLivin]

You don’t sleep with her. You don’t have much PIV sex. She’s spending more and more time with him. She’s in love with him. As hot as it sounds, I think you know the answer.

[jguy]

Good point. I mentioned to her this is going in the wrong direction; she acted like she understood. She started stroking me and saying things about it's not fair I haven't got fuck my wife and how hot it is when I have to watch him take her. She was so wet and she slid my cock on her and said "You know you like to watch him put his cock in your wife, and I love having him in me". Then she slid me deep into her tight pussy. It had been so long. While we were having sex she kissed me and asked me "can he have me for two weeks?" I asked if we could have sex more, and she agreed we needed to, and of course, I agreed to her wants.

[FNQLivin]

Double post

[FNQLivin]

And there she goes. Your wife is manipulating you and you just went hook like and sinker. The fact that you ask for advice means you have serious doubts.

There is so much doubt in your mind yet your kink overrides what you know. He is stealing her (as much as anyone can ‘steal’ another person) and you’re just going along with it.

You’re going to be living downstairs in your own home whilst another man makes love to your wife for 2 weeks. You’re paying him in effect whilst you are consigned to the basement.

[jguy]

Yeah. You're right. I'm going to tell her I said that in the heat of the moment. It's a bad idea.
I think I'm going to tell her it's time to move on. They are too serious.

[edgedndenied]

It seems your wife and boyfriend are looking at a trial run of living together as a couple without any interferance from you. Your sleeping in seperate bedrooms with virtualy no sex are you not living more like roomates instead of husband and wife. You have questioned where theres and your relationship stands in the past. You must be concerned.

[Mumfred]

Is there a way for you to step halfway into this? Where the do this for 2 days instead of 2 weeks?

[jguy]

That was good advice that I not allow my wife to have this two weel fling where all I got to do was watch them on cameras.
It actually worked out a lot different than I ever expected. She called him and broke ties. She let him know they can't see each other again and that her marriage is more important than sex with him. I guess she just wants to reconnect with me.
I guess it hurt his feelings and they had a blow out fight and she blocked him too.
So we agreed no more mentioning his name. No more texting or talking to him.
She said it was one way or the other and if I want her exclusively, she wants that too.

So, I guess that is the end of this two year long affair.

[readyy2009]

Awesome news jguy...You must be feeling pretty good about your relationship now

[edgedndenied]

Glad to hear things are looking up for your relationship with your wife. Are you planing to move back into the master bedroom and sleep together?