Young married guy here

[AZguy425]

I think when Lauren said earlier she was good with the kissing and making out and kept holding that boundary she was enjoying the dynamic between the three of you. She likes the sexual attention and the idea of only giving him just enough like a high school girl with her boyfriend.

It seems like she does want to only go so far, but the tension is building. Even she is starting to sense these boundaries will fall soon and he'll fuck her.

[ShyBiGuy954]

Hey RDR
Is Lauren a blowjob type girl?
Do you think she'll start giving Adam BJ's a few times before she takes the plunge and fucks him?

[RunDannyRun]

RDR, how do they act around one another? i imagine you, busy in the kitchen… where are they? do you catch them stealing glances? will Lauren tell you later of discreet touching? did she or he finish when they ground their crotches against one another the other day? does she masturbate in bed with you?
what are you feeling, being in the house with them? can you feel the energy of their attraction?
this situation kind of reminds me of a great story that can be found on the slutwives website under the “legendary threads” tab. it’s in two parts: “my Korean adventure” and “my Asian wife wants more”. if you’re not familiar, you may find it interesting and perhaps see a small parallel.
happy turkey day

They surprisingly act normal. No weird/hidden glances at each other. If the three of us are around in the kitchen or in the living room, her attention is usually on me. Maybe she is compensating? She masturbated yesterday a few hours after we went to bed. This is the first time in some time she got "caught" masturbating. I might be seeing things that are not there but from Adam's body language around Lauren, there is some sexual energy. But again I might be seeing things that are not there or worse yet hoping for things that are not happening.

[jenisonherway6]

“I might be seeing things that are not there but from Adam's body language around Lauren, there is some sexual energy. But again I might be seeing things that are not there or worse yet hoping for things that are not happening.”
trust, the energy is there. i’m sure that he’s masturbating to keep his balls from exploding, but i’d bet the house that her pussy is in the forefront of his mind. he’s likely aching, physically, when he’s near her. but kudos to him for being able to play it cool.
you don’t need to hope. it’s happening.

[jenisonherway6]

RDR, does Lauren ever wear lingerie? maybe you could do some black friday shopping and get her something sexy to wear for Adam.

[joel68]

I think it’s going to happen soon. She is really ready for it.

[60dCommon]

Hey Danny, Happy Thanksgivng!

I agree with others who believe Lauren and Adam will soon be lovers - not just making out like teenagers - possibly even each other's primary or exclusive sexual partners. It also seems clear to me that this is eventually going to come out into the open among the three of you, possibly sooner than later. It might be in the best interest of everyone involved if you took the lead on setting out expectations.

Your wife wants Adam, and you want her to have him. So, tell her you're ready for them to be lovers, but that the "cheating" pretense isn't realistic long term. One of you will have to talk to Adam, or you could do it together. It could be as simple as you telling him you have an open marriage, that you've noticed the chemistry between the two of them, and that you're open to them being physical. You could let him know that Lauren has already "confessed" to kissing him, and that it's fine - that you're more than OK if they continue. If he has questions about how your open marriage works, it's easiest to just be honest and tell him he'll be your first. If he asks if you're looking to get laid, again, being honest is easiest and least complicated.

Have you and Lauren spoken about how you'd like things to go? Would she like to sometimes discretely slip away while you're sleeping to go to him? Or would she prefer to cuddle with him on the couch while you sit separately as you all watch a movie together? Would she like to have him replace you in her bed? Again, might be in the best interest of all involved for the two of you to talk about this now so you have some control over expectations, and even (a little bit) events.

Your situation could end up being very rewarding for all three of you. I hope you can get it all out in the open so each of you can enjoy the experience. I'm rooting for you!

[sandy691196]

I feel that OP should not initiate any discussions about expediting the next stage. The wife has demonstrated that she has her own pace and logic. She doesn't take kindly to pushing or dictating.

I also think that the cheating dynamic is the best here. It keeps Adam in check. It allows Lauren to control the pace and agenda.

Once Adam knows that the OP is a cuck, all kinds of complications might seep in. The appearances are important in this particular case.

[60dCommon]

@sandy You could be right. Could just be me letting my nerves for their situation get to me. Following one's wife's lead is usually right. FWIW, I wasn't suggesting Danny talk to Adam without having discussed it with Lauren first.

[joel68]

Sandy,

Good advice for Danny. I think he is going to let her go at whatever pace she wants and enjoy what she tells him. If a hand job goes with it, great. If not, ok as well. He learned a lesson from the last time.

Based upon recent developments I don’t think it will be all that long.

[Midnight Joker]

Hot update! I don't agree with other, let it play out. I'm sure the "cheating" on his part is fueling a lot of the lust. She's ready to take him when the time is right and it should be her decision if anything is said. She may do it once and not want him to ever know that you knew, so just enjoy the ride! Be sure to keep her horny. No satisfying any itches.

[jenisonherway6]

RDR, is Lauren on the pill? you might suggest to her that she tell Adam to get tested so that she can have him bare.

[RunDannyRun]

Hey everyone,

Lauren had gone for a run. Adam and Jason and my stepdad have gone to the Gym. So I am alone in the house with my thoughts and writing stuff down.

A small update for you all. Lauren and I had a small fight. I am gonna set the scene. Yesterday was mostly me making food for the five of us. I am very particular about the way I cook (almost to the point of controlling and getting upset if anyone encroaches my space in the kitchen). The guys were all in the living room watching some NFL. Lauren was in the kitchen giving my some company but reading something on the kindle. Everything was going okay.

I made all the food and when we were ready to eat and I asked everyone to join me in the kitchen. I am not gonna bore you all with the details about how good the food is but everyone was very appreciative. They all said Lauren was very lucky to have a husband who cooks this well. My stepdad even made some stupid remarks (Danny, if you were a girl, I would marry you. I have to hit the gym extra hard though, as all this food will make me a fat piece of shit). Lauren quickly retorted by saying that he is too old to be seducing people in their 20s. Everyone laughed.

After reading some of the comments here, I tried to observe how Adam was behaving around Lauren. But what I saw was something else. All the three guys were eyeing Lauren with lust. It is unmistakable. Though their glances were brief, I saw all of them looking at Lauren’s ass and legs (she was wearing some tight fitting jeans). I was a bit weirded out but I realized that this is the reality for lot of women where they are objectified by strangers. But it was a bit scary to see all three 230+ lbs cavemen eyeing at Lauren like she was their prey. We had some dessert, watched some more TV played some games. I actually got beer for the three of them and they were happy with some booze flowing. I was very tired at around 10:00 pm and decided to call it a night. Deep down, I am depraved enough to admit that I wanted to ask Lauren to stay back and continue spending time with the guys but she followed me back into the bedroom. We brushed our teeth and took some quick showers to freshen up before bed.

We cuddled a bit and Lauren thanked me again for the amazing food and for being the best husband. I told her that I saw Adam and other guys checking her out. She just laughed and told me that men are pigs. She put her hands in my pajamas to get me hard but I was too beat to do anything. I just kissed her and told her that I am too tired. She definitely seemed a bit disappointed but I was cooking since 10:00 am. She decided to read a bit more. I slept off very soon but around 02:30 am, I woke up to see Lauren leaving the bed. I thought she was going to the bedroom. And decided to go back to bed but after 5 minutes she was not back and the bathroom light is not on. I waited for a bit more but started getting worried. I am fairly certain she was with Adam but should I go down and check it for myself? My stepdad and Jason are sleeping in the rooms next to Adam’s. I just waited and hoped that she would come back soon. After an hour, she was still not back. I just decided to stop worrying and try to go back to sleep. I might have dozed off and again woke up to an empty bed and it was 04:30 am. Lauren was still not here. After some 30 minutes, she came into the room at around 05:00 am. She tried to walk slow to not wake me up and slid under the covers. She definitely didn’t know that I was awake. I felt so worried. What if my stepdad or Jason found her with Adam? I tried to go back to sleep but my head was hurting. I think I finally fell asleep and woke up again at 06:00 am. Lauren was also awake and she kissed. I was just staring at her. Mainly because I was angry about her carelessness but didn’t mention anything. I was mostly expecting her to lie about visiting Adam but she surprised me. She again put her hands under my pajama bottoms and started whispering

L: I did a bad thing..
Me: What did you do?
L: I might have slipped into Adam’s room yesterday night.
Me: why?
L: I am ovulating. I felt very horny.
Me: How long were you there for?
L: I don’t know.. a couple of hours?
Me: What did you do?
L: A lot of things. (She said this playfully and by now, I have somewhat of an erection and she started jerking me off)
Me: What kind of things?
L: Well, you were asleep and tired. I didn’t want to bother you and I woke up very horny. I went downstairs without making any noise. I slowly entered his room. He was deep asleep and I tried to wake him up. He almost hit me but I told him that it was me. He asked me what was I doing and I kissed him. It took him a few seconds to understand what was happening and he started kissing me back. He pulled me back to the bed and I was lying on top of him. He was just wearing a t-shirt and his old boxers as pajamas. This time, he didn’t hesitate to get me topless very fast. We started kissing again and I started grinding against him. We continued kissing for a few minutes and he got his hands under my running shorts and started kneading my butt. I tried to pull his hands up but this time he didn’t bring them out of my shorts. I stopped to kiss and he just shushed me and brought one hand out of my shorts and pulled me back into a kiss. He then pushed his free hand back into my shorts and continued his massaging. He was touching my vagina too but just light touches. He took his hands out of my shorts and then pushed me up a bit to get better access to my boobs and started to suck on them. After sometime, he laid me on the bed facing him and kissed me again and put his hands again in my shorts. But this time, he wanted to get them off. He tried to push them down and I rested by pulling them up. He stopped kissing me and again shushed me and tried to remove my shorts. I whispered to him, “what are you doing?”, he just answered, “I am gonna make you feel good” and started pushing them down again. I was too horny to resist and he got me naked. We kissed a bit more and now I am lying on my back and he was on top of me. He slowly stared started moving down by body by kissing me on my chin and neck. He kissed my boobs and then kissed me again on my stomach and bellybutton. I knew where this was going. I only wanted to make out with him when I entered into his room but this is more than what I wanted. He reached his goal and started eating my pussy. I am not exactly sure why, maybe his beard was tickling me or something, I kept closing my legs but used his hands to keep them spread. I think he has a thicker tongue than you. It felt different. He was more rough even while eating me out. I think it is just psychological but I came after like 5 minutes. I thought he would stop but he continued. I was too tired to continue but he didn’t relent. He continued to eat me out and soon enough I was cumming again. That still didn’t deter him. He only stopped after making me cum again. I was completely exhausted and couldn’t move a muscle. I think I might have even blacked out for a few seconds. Next thing I know, he was hugging me and kissing me. I was too tired to even kiss him back. I dozed off and slept in his arms for an hour or so. I woke and tried to get out of the bed but he pulled me back into the bed. I whispered to him again that people will start waking up and I need to go back to you. He reluctantly let me go and he helped me find my clothes using his phone’s flashlight and I came back to you. (This is not one continuous statement from her. I asked her a few questions but didn’t include them here).

She was jerking me off gently while she was telling her story and after she finished her narration, started to jerk me off faster and I came. I went to the bathroom to clean up and when I came back, I told her that she shouldn’t have visited Adam during the night. She got a bit defensive. I told her that my stepdad and Jason were right next to them and it would have been a huge scandal had they seen her with Adam. She told me that they didn’t and there is nothing to worry. I kind of insisted again that she should be more careful and then she hit me with the most devastating blow, “If you could be a real man, I don’t have to sneak into his room”. She realized that she made a mistake and immediately apologized. She said sorry multiple time. I said okay but both of us knew that I was not okay. I just got out of the bedroom and made got busy in the kitchen. I thought Lauren would follow me down to the kitchen but she stayed back in the room. My stepdad was the first to wake up and he came to the kitchen in just boxers and an old T-shirt. took me back to my childhood days in his home. Have these guys ever heard about pajamas or sweat pants? Anyway he asked me if he could get some coffee and soon enough the other two were also here. They all had some coffee and I made some bagel sandwiches for breakfast. My stepdad asked me if Lauren was still sleeping. Had he asked that question yesterday I would have just said yes but now, it felt like he knew something about Lauren. or maybe I am being unnecessarily paranoid. All three went to the gym after finishing their bagels and Lauren came down in her running gear and left for the run without saying anything to me. They should be back soon.

[RunDannyRun]

RDR, is Lauren on the pill? you might suggest to her that she tell Adam to get tested so that she can have him bare.

She has an IUD. This is a good idea. I will tell her.

[RunDannyRun]

Hey RDR
Is Lauren a blowjob type girl?
Do you think she'll start giving Adam BJ's a few times before she takes the plunge and fucks him?

She is not. I am not sure what is next for Adam and lauren but she doesn't like giving blowjobs.

[Midnight Joker]

Wow, two updates when I was expected nothing until after Thanksgiving. Hot! As for blowjobs, wives sometime will do things for their lovers that they won't do for their husbands. I'm sorry to hear about your fight. I'm really surprised he didn't fully take her last night, but she has been honest so far. Sorry to hear about her mean comment. Keeping her horny was a good idea, as she was thinking with her pussy last night. He'll be cumming in her soon. I hope a hotwife or experienced cuck can guide you on how to keep her from going down the 'not a real man' route.

[jenisonherway6]

RDR,
Lauren doesn’t sound like the kind of woman who ever wears lingerie. and you said that she doesn’t give blowjobs. she is beginning to change. she and you both are changing now. this is not a bad thing. her hard remark is a truth about how part of her feels about you that circumstances have brought to the surface. this is no doubt part of her, and your, attraction to Adam. she maybe didn’t come to you in the kitchen to apologize before she left because she wants to feel angry with you. she wants it to be your fault that she is falling for Adam. affirm what she said to you and assure her that you want her to be with Adam.
maybe let her know that you’re excited by what she did, it’s just the danger of exposure is great with what she did.
i imagine you two doing some shopping together at a local mall. you stop in front of victoria’s secret and ask her if she wants to go in, that you’d like to buy her something. you tug her hand: “C’mon.”

are you ok with your emasculation? it feels like you are, that you’re at the very least accepting of your ED. tell her what you’ve told us, that you love her and are committed to her and that you want her sexual fulfillment, even if it doesn’t directly involve you. maybe tell her that you’ll love her and stand by her, even if she falls for Adam.
do you think that she’s falling for him?

[RunDannyRun]

Hello folks, Lauren is back and the first thing she did was to apologize to me immediately.
L: I am sorry. I shouldn't have said any of those hurtful words. You are the best man I could have ever hoped for. I made a mistake and let the hormones take over my mind. You are right about things getting scandalous if Jason or Mike saw me with Adam.

I thanked her and said not to worry. We have the day off and Lauren and I will go to our favorite lunch spot while Adam, my stepdad, and Jason will be visiting some of their friends/family.

I just hope my stepdad or Jason didn't really notice anything. Adam didn't even shower in the morning before he left for gym. I went into his room to get the sheets and I could clearly see the evidence of their nightly activities(some dried sex juices on the sheets).

[RunDannyRun]

RDR,
Lauren doesn’t sound like the kind of woman who ever wears lingerie. and you said that she doesn’t give blowjobs. she is beginning to change. she and you both are changing now. this is not a bad thing. her hard remark is a truth about how part of her feels about you that circumstances have brought to the surface. this is no doubt part of her, and your, attraction to Adam. she maybe didn’t come to you in the kitchen to apologize before she left because she wants to feel angry with you. she wants it to be your fault that she is falling for Adam. affirm what she said to you and assure her that you want her to be with Adam.
maybe let her know that you’re excited by what she did, it’s just the danger of exposure is great with what she did.
i imagine you two doing some shopping together at a local mall. you stop in front of victoria’s secret and ask her if she wants to go in, that you’d like to buy her something. you tug her hand: “C’mon.”

no, she never showed any interest in lingerie. I am also not too keen about it but maybe Adam likes to see her in lingerie?

are you ok with your emasculation? it feels like you are, that you’re at the very least accepting of your ED. tell her what you’ve told us, that you love her and are committed to her and that you want her sexual fulfillment, even if it doesn’t directly involve you. maybe tell her that you’ll love her and stand by her, even if she falls for Adam.
do you think that she’s falling for him?

I do not think she is falling for him. They barely talk to each other other than sex stuff. I know that she deserves to have some mind blowing sex that i can not give her. I do not like to be emasculated. I might not be a stud in bed like Adam but I believe I give Lauren the necessary emotional intimacy.

[jenisonherway6]

right on. i’m misreading y’all. it’s not the first time i’ve been wrong in life.

i’d bet that Adam digs a woman in lingerie. my bets have missed lately, though. that’s probably something that would have to come from her, a desire to dress sexy for him. it struck me as a erotic way for you to show your support, but you know your relationship, obviously, better than i.
thanks for the updates. your story is very hot.

[Midnight Joker]

RDR,
Lauren doesn’t sound like the kind of woman who ever wears lingerie. and you said that she doesn’t give blowjobs. she is beginning to change. she and you both are changing now. this is not a bad thing. her hard remark is a truth about how part of her feels about you that circumstances have brought to the surface. this is no doubt part of her, and your, attraction to Adam. she maybe didn’t come to you in the kitchen to apologize before she left because she wants to feel angry with you. she wants it to be your fault that she is falling for Adam. affirm what she said to you and assure her that you want her to be with Adam.
maybe let her know that you’re excited by what she did, it’s just the danger of exposure is great with what she did.
i imagine you two doing some shopping together at a local mall. you stop in front of victoria’s secret and ask her if she wants to go in, that you’d like to buy her something. you tug her hand: “C’mon.”

no, she never showed any interest in lingerie. I am also not too keen about it but maybe Adam likes to see her in lingerie?

are you ok with your emasculation? it feels like you are, that you’re at the very least accepting of your ED. tell her what you’ve told us, that you love her and are committed to her and that you want her sexual fulfillment, even if it doesn’t directly involve you. maybe tell her that you’ll love her and stand by her, even if she falls for Adam.
do you think that she’s falling for him?

I do not think she is falling for him. They barely talk to each other other than sex stuff. I know that she deserves to have some mind blowing sex that i can not give her. I do not like to be emasculated. I might not be a stud in bed like Adam but I believe I give Lauren the necessary emotional intimacy.

Yes, don't go down the emasculation road. I'd reinforce that other than the risk she took, you found her sneaking off to his room really erotic. Keep her horny and wanting to be satisfied! I can't wait to read about when she finally takes the plunge and he fills her with cum.

[joel68]

Definitely heating up big time. Going to Adam’s room in the middle of the night with guests there? She needs a good fucking really bad.

I don’t think it will be too long before she gets fucked. Just sayin’.

[fiyime5288]

RDR, could it be that perhaps Lauren finds the idea of cheating (and almost getting caught) exciting? (I get it that the cheating angle provides off-ramps to the cuckold fantasy, but that by itself doesn’t explain why she’d take such reckless risks.)

Did you ask her what she fantasizes about when she’s masturbating? What specific scenarios?

[wannabecUKold]

I was too horny to resist and he got me naked.

That will be one of the most erotic moments of her life. To lie illicitly in his bed in the middle of the night, naked. It’s what she wanted to achieve by going to his room.
The fucking is now inevitable.
It is likely to happen the night after the other two leave. She will go to Adam’s room at night - you will know that she is going and you will consent to be cuckolded - and she will stay there most of the night. During this time, he will get naked too and then he will enter her, bareback. She will consent.
And you? Well he will ask and she won’t lie. She won’t be hostile about you, as she was today. But she will explain and say that you know what she is doing and you want it to happen.

[ShyBiGuy954]

That will be one of the most erotic moments of her life. To lie illicitly in his bed in the middle of the night, naked. It’s what she wanted to achieve by going to his room.
The fucking is now inevitable.
It is likely to happen the night after the other two leave. She will go to Adam’s room at night - you will know that she is going and you will consent to be cuckolded - and she will stay there most of the night. During this time, he will get naked too and then he will enter her, bareback. She will consent.
And you? Well he will ask and she won’t lie. She won’t be hostile about you, as she was today. But she will explain and say that you know what she is doing and you want it to happen.

+1
And once she's had a properly satisfying fuck from Adam's big cock it WILL become regular.