How did u discover you wanted to be a cuckold

[surry]

How did you first discover someone was a cuckold?
My first experience about cuckolding was when I was 17. I was in the Army. My bunkmate was married, and his wife would send him pictures of her fucking others. I was too shy to ask more information about this.
Jim a coworker was a cuckold, and I thought it was great but never told him or anyone. We worked shift work 12-hour shifts. He was on another shift, and he was hanging around work after 6 AM. I asked why he was still at work he told me he can't go home until his wife is finished with her boyfriend. Two hours later she called him to come home. He would be late for work because his wife was out on a date. My black boss told me Jim and his wife stopped by his house once and she flashed her pussy to him and told him she was available. He told them to leave now before his wife comes out.
He thought they were crazy. I wished I would have sat down and talk to him about being a cuckold. My wife even said she was a lucky woman.
Later in life I would drop my wife off and pick her up from my boss's house.

[Cdncuck]

For me there was no "aha" moment. Since first developing an interest in girls I was deeply attracted to the slutty types. It was just always there

[bewareoflizzy]

Yes, the classy slutty type. Her desire exceeded my ability to satisfy. I knew she had a wandering eye and was "restless". We slowly moved to fantasy talk then encouraging sexy dress when out, a more alluring look, and flirtations with younger guys she worked with. Soon enough she had a young stud fucking her for hours to her delight. The idea at first terrified me, then enchanted me, then thrilled me when she would come home and tell me what they did together.

[InigoMontoya]

Wife and I got into swinging and had some other couples we played with. But we had kids and it was double tough to get babysitters so often instead of the four of us going out.... Sometimes she would stay home with the kids while I visited the other couple as an extra M while other times she would go out and visit the other couple as an extra F. I quickly realized that my preferences for the night were: FMF (loved the anticipation and reclamation sex) > FMFM (where I would spend much of the time watching wife with the others) > MFM (fun, but not AS fun). So yeah, if all four of us couldn't meet, I always volunteered to stay home. It was a pretty natural progression from there.

[luvwives999]

Had a MFM 3 months after we were married with my best friend. Ended up me watching the two of them. From there, I encouraged her to go to his apartment alone because I loved the idea of him fucking her.

[emca753]

Kevin the bad boy next door would take Sonja and our kids for rides on his Suzuki crotcher, and soon after Sonja was exhilarated and openly getting leathers and a helmet to ride with Kevin, as well as the both of them calling each other , talking about future rides; I felt jealous but aroused at the thought Sonja possibly was attracted to this sexy kid

[Mr_Bent_Over]

By accident, we'd had a friend over for dinner after he had just got divorced. A little drinking led to strip poker, whereby he asked me if I was OK with him fucking my girlfriend. I wasn't sure how to answer as I had not thought about it much, a little fantasy, but not any type of obsession. Well to add a little to kink to it he ask if she would wear his ex's lingerie while we played. I agreed, he retrieved it, and she put it on. I participated for awhile, but it became apparent she was focused on him, he was very well hung!

Fast forward a few years, we were engaged, had done no further sex outside the two of us. It was a warm night and we were at the lake with one of her co-workers. She had suggested we take swim, however, the swim spot was on the other side of the lake. I volunteered to go ahead and make the way was clear as skinny dipping would be involved. After being on the other side for an hour they finally arrived, she a little sweaty, and indicated it was time to go home. We went home. A couple months later while I was doing her she cried out his name while I was pounding her! Taken aback, we had a heart to heart at that moment and I was informed she had been fucking him and another co-worker for the last couple of months. I was shocked, hurt, excited, and a host of other feelings. We were able to work through it though and what emerged on the other side was a very healthy marriage, whereby she is the hotwife and I the cuckold.

No regrets to this point and I have been genuinely happy that she finds her sexual satisfaction with other men, she still relies on me for emotional support to an extent as they also provide it as well.

So can I say it was an active desire to be a cuckold, no, at the time I was not even aware of the term. But with the surprise of it, I have definitely enjoyed it.

[ucaneffher]

When I dated a girl who not only was way out of my league but she was very openly sexual and every conversation was about sex.

Once we were dating, her sisters were constantly encouraging her to not settle for me and instead fool around with different men. They would invite her our to clubs and bars where they knew the bouncers and would sneak my girlfriend into 21+ venues. Many times they'd take my GF to parties with them and they would do my GFs make up and have her wear some of their sexy clothes. Her sisters would not invite me because they always used these parties to introduce her to guy friends at the parties.

Another thing, my girlfriend only had 2 girlfriends and the rest were all men. The girlfriends were a replica of her sister's and always encouraged her to be like them and cheat on me. In fact, my GFs first date with another man was setup by her girlfriend.

Anyway, to recap, I was dating a hot girl who was out of my league, was overly sexual, and had older sisters and girlfriends who were constantly encouraging her to not only fool around but all of them kept introducing guys to my gf.

At this point I knew the odds were all against me and knew that it was only a matter of time before the inevitable encouraged promiscuity would take place. So instead of letting that possibility end a relationship with a hot girl, I chose to adapt and "survive". Since I was constantly anticipating being cheated on, I feel like my mind tried to normalize it and be accepting of it as long as there was still a place for me and a relationship with her. Seeing that she was indeed going out with her girlfriends and her sisters despite the stories she initially told me of what the GFs and sisters were trying to encourage, I think that it prepped me and had clenching so hard for dear life that I became obsessed with it and ended liking it.

Shortly after I found myself jerking to the thought of my gf cheating on me. Fought myself and didn't want to accept that it turned me on but eventually did and just came clean to her. She found it weird but in 3 years she was making everyone happy. The sisters, the girlfriends, herself, all the men she dated, and finally her cuckold boyfriend who initially feared infidelity from his hot girlfriend.

[Long Lurker 34]

When I dated a girl who not only was way out of my league but she was very openly sexual and every conversation was about sex.

Once we were dating, her sisters were constantly encouraging her to not settle for me and instead fool around with different men. They would invite her our to clubs and bars where they knew the bouncers and would sneak my girlfriend into 21+ venues. Many times they'd take my GF to parties with them and they would do my GFs make up and have her wear some of their sexy clothes. Her sisters would not invite me because they always used these parties to introduce her to guy friends at the parties.

Another thing, my girlfriend only had 2 girlfriends and the rest were all men. The girlfriends were a replica of her sister's and always encouraged her to be like them and cheat on me. In fact, my GFs first date with another man was setup by her girlfriend.

Anyway, to recap, I was dating a hot girl who was out of my league, was overly sexual, and had older sisters and girlfriends who were constantly encouraging her to not only fool around but all of them kept introducing guys to my gf.

At this point I knew the odds were all against me and knew that it was only a matter of time before the inevitable encouraged promiscuity would take place. So instead of letting that possibility end a relationship with a hot girl, I chose to adapt and "survive". Since I was constantly anticipating being cheated on, I feel like my mind tried to normalize it and be accepting of it as long as there was still a place for me and a relationship with her. Seeing that she was indeed going out with her girlfriends and her sisters despite the stories she initially told me of what the GFs and sisters were trying to encourage, I think that it prepped me and had clenching so hard for dear life that I became obsessed with it and ended liking it.

Shortly after I found myself jerking to the thought of my gf cheating on me. Fought myself and didn't want to accept that it turned me on but eventually did and just came clean to her. She found it weird but in 3 years she was making everyone happy. The sisters, the girlfriends, herself, all the men she dated, and finally her cuckold boyfriend who initially feared infidelity from his hot girlfriend.

UC
- Just wondering, was your GF the hottest of the bunch? If so is it possible they were using her to attract guys to themselves?

[ucaneffher]

When I dated a girl who not only was way out of my league but she was very openly sexual and every conversation was about sex.

Once we were dating, her sisters were constantly encouraging her to not settle for me and instead fool around with different men. They would invite her our to clubs and bars where they knew the bouncers and would sneak my girlfriend into 21+ venues. Many times they'd take my GF to parties with them and they would do my GFs make up and have her wear some of their sexy clothes. Her sisters would not invite me because they always used these parties to introduce her to guy friends at the parties.

Another thing, my girlfriend only had 2 girlfriends and the rest were all men. The girlfriends were a replica of her sister's and always encouraged her to be like them and cheat on me. In fact, my GFs first date with another man was setup by her girlfriend.

Anyway, to recap, I was dating a hot girl who was out of my league, was overly sexual, and had older sisters and girlfriends who were constantly encouraging her to not only fool around but all of them kept introducing guys to my gf.

At this point I knew the odds were all against me and knew that it was only a matter of time before the inevitable encouraged promiscuity would take place. So instead of letting that possibility end a relationship with a hot girl, I chose to adapt and "survive". Since I was constantly anticipating being cheated on, I feel like my mind tried to normalize it and be accepting of it as long as there was still a place for me and a relationship with her. Seeing that she was indeed going out with her girlfriends and her sisters despite the stories she initially told me of what the GFs and sisters were trying to encourage, I think that it prepped me and had clenching so hard for dear life that I became obsessed with it and ended liking it.

Shortly after I found myself jerking to the thought of my gf cheating on me. Fought myself and didn't want to accept that it turned me on but eventually did and just came clean to her. She found it weird but in 3 years she was making everyone happy. The sisters, the girlfriends, herself, all the men she dated, and finally her cuckold boyfriend who initially feared infidelity from his hot girlfriend.

UC
- Just wondering, was your GF the hottest of the bunch? If so is it possible they were using her to attract guys to themselves?

I am biased so in my opinion my girlfriend was definitely the hottest of the bunch but realistically they were all hotties. Her sisters were just a few years older and very sexual/promiscuous. During our relationship, her sisters also had their fair share of men and not counting the ones before I met them which based on what my girlfriend told me it was a lot. She at a preteen, she saw her older sisters with going out with countless different men and hearing their adventures. They definitely did not use her as bait, they actually attracted their own men and introduced their little sister to them.

Regarding her girlfriends, she was definitely the hottest but again, her girlfriends were experienced and very slutty. I recall in hearing their body count right around the end of high school or immediately after graduation and both of them well well in the high 30s-40s while my gf had only been with me at that point. It was after high school that she tried to catch up to her girlfriends but by the time we ended she was barely reaching 20.

Let me tell you though, her sisters and GFs didn't expect to see my girlfriend having a boyfriend and being single at the same time. They always tried breaking us up but realized that she was now doing exactly what they were encouraging her to do but without having to dump me. As a cuck this worked out perfect because often times her sisters and girlfriends introduced her to men, covered for her, and played look-out for her when they were out together and my gf was horny and wanting to do something with a guy.

Her older sister kept look out once in a downtown high-rise stairwell while my girlfriend pulled her pants down and bent forward to let guy friend have her and cum in her. He later became her regular fb, then boyfriend, and in 6 months he was officially dating her and taking her to live with him. All as a result of the night that her sister was the watchman at the stairwell door to make sure no one caught her little sister having sex with a new man for the first time.

[LongTermHubby]

I didn't so much discover I wanted to be a cuckold as I disovered how much it excited me that she wanted to see other men. The cuckold "angst" became my drug of choice.

[AZPainter]

I had no idea I wanted to be a cuckold husband, it just seemed to happen. My wife was pretty openly sexual before we married and I became aware that she played the field through her work as a cocktail waitress and part time model for local women's clothing stores and a large department store here in our city. Looking back her sexiness and dating a lot of guys I think was part of what attracted me to her. I didn't realize it then and cuckhold/hot wives were not a thing, in fact I never heard those terms used back in the 60's and 70's.
We dated for awhile and eventually married. I figured she would stop playing with others after we married. After awhile it became fairly obvious she didn't stop and I confronted her about it. What surprised me is not only did she admit it, but how much it aroused me hearing that she was fucking guys from her work and sometimes in other situations, like with her part time modeling jobs.
We talked quite a bit over a few days before coming to an agreement that she could continue, but had to tell me about it when she did anything. She agreed and that is when I got into it. Like I mentioned, I didn't realize she was cucking me back then and I only came to the realization of what our relationship was called when I found this site, I guess close to 10 years ago. I really did enjoy being her cuck and reminisce quite often even though I haven't been with a woman in 24 years now. Interesting time in my life it was.

[isinlarsa]

As it happened with many couples, we started by swinging with another couple who were experienced in the lifestyle. I had a great time fucking the other wife, but also found it was hot to reclaim my wife, and have oral sex with her cum-filled pussy.

On her own, she decided to go solo, first with a co-worker. After a few times with him she confessed her unfaithfulness. It wasn't her first time getting fucked by another man, and I discovered her debauchery excited me. I was hooked on being cuckolded.

[cthubby]

Essentially, my fantasies growing up tended to be about women/girls I was close to.. any lady really. It continued when I met my girl to be wife in hs. Always imagined other guys banging her.. loved it when they flirted with her. Convinced her to do the skirt roll up and tell me abt the results/ interest. Continued later after we eere married and I proposed the hotwife idea, which took her time to get her lips(!) around..

[Wifedeniesme]

I think my desires came from a lifetime of jerking off to pictures of women I would never be good enough to have. That led to watching porn videos of better men with perfect cocks fucking women I could never have. This caused me to enjoy feelings of humiliation and inadequacy . Next came looking for videos where the women resembled my wife. Picturing it was her bent over her desk being fucked hard. That turned out to be my hottest and my only way to jerkoff. That led to me telling her my fantasies in our fifties as her sex drive was slowing. To my suprised she loved the fantasy. We still get off regularly to role playing sex talk games in bed. This all led to me being caged. Wich we both love. We feel like I was made for this.

[ucaneffher]

I think my desires came from a lifetime of jerking off to pictures of women I would never be good enough to have. That led to watching porn videos of better men with perfect cocks fucking women I could never have. This caused me to enjoy feelings of humiliation and inadequacy . Next came looking for videos where the women resembled my wife. Picturing it was her bent over her desk being fucked hard. That turned out to be my hottest and my only way to jerkoff. That led to me telling her my fantasies in our fifties as her sex drive was slowing. To my suprised she loved the fantasy. We still get off regularly to role playing sex talk games in bed. This all led to me being caged. Wich we both love. We feel like I was made for this.

This has seriously been my thing for as long as I have been looking at porn while being in a relationship.

I never look at images/video of other women whether sexy but dressed, semi nude, nude, or altogether having sex without imagining them being my girlfriend. So regardless if it's porn or not...

My latest craze has been going through sexy "influencer" Instagram pages and all of the pictures of them on vacation/beaches, hotel rooms, at restaurants, etc, I tend to imagine those being my girlfriend at a date or vacation with someone else in those pictures.

I tend to imagine that her Instagram profile is just there for her to share pictures for me to see how busy she is as a hot g/f and at the same time get followers while she is busy being a hot GF. The twist is that her Instagram profile would have a collection of photos from ALL of her dates and vacations with all the men and not just one. I think that would be one hot scenario and I would love it if that was a reality. Imagine as a cuck, when you need to jerk off and your lady is away on vacation or on a date, all that you have to do it go on her Instagram page and see if she has posted new images of her in a little low cut busty tight dress in a fancy restaurant or if she posted a new picture in a thong bikini while away in some Caribbean island with another man.

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

Friend and his newlywed wife came to visit Colorado on their honeymoon. Spent the night with them. He fucked his wife mercilessly in the room next to ours. Wife got worked into a frenzy. We all decided to meet (naked) in the dimly lit living room. We fucked our wives next to each other on the sofa. We absolutely loved watching him fuck his bride right in front of us. Wife was mesmerized at the sight of the abuse his cock was giving to his new wife. Couldn’t take her eyes off of where they were joined. She was clearly excited by his lovely cock. Got it in my mind that I wanted to hear my wife moan and watch her cum on his very talented and bigger-than-mine cock for me and his newlywed wife. We were all totally into it, but we fellows were spent and limp, cum dripping from our respective wives. It would have to wait until morning, at least. Morning arrived. Phone rang. His brides father had just had a heart attack. They immediately packed and left. The fantasy lingered for years. With my encouragement, she hooked up with her coworker who later became her boss. I’ve been privileged enough to watch him make my wife cum hundreds, maybe a thousand or so, times, sometimes participating and getting sloppy seconds. By far some of the best memories of our lives. A beautiful sight to behold.

I was hooked. Can’t imagine going back to vanilla, now.

[surry]

Some on here mentioned they did this to survive - save there marriage. This happened to my best friend. The couple were in there 40's when this happened. She has her own business and he worked shift work, 12 hour 7 PM to 7 Am. He came home sick and found his wife in bed with two young black me. She told her husband, she had hired the two friends and one was a big flirt. The flirt had sex with her in her office and then he invited his friend. She said they showed up at their home when he went to work. She said she was not going to give them up. He left and the two men moved in. When he stopped by the men were there and they would make a point to touch his wife while they were talking. He missed his wife but he said the sight of them together started to turn him on. He started reading about wife's going black. After six months he asked his wife if he could come back. She was happy to have him back but told him the new rules. He will have his own bedroom. She will visit him only after the boys have been with her.
He was to listen to her and the boys. They will respect him as long as he behaves. He moved back in and he said it took about a month to get use to his new marriage. The first time she came to him after the boys had been with her, he did not like it. But know he likes it. Now one of them will call him to come clean his wife up. They young men are polite to him and his wife.

[sandy691196]

I had no idea I wanted to be a cuckold husband, it just seemed to happen. My wife was pretty openly sexual before we married and I became aware that she played the field through her work as a cocktail waitress and part time model for local women's clothing stores and a large department store here in our city. Looking back her sexiness and dating a lot of guys I think was part of what attracted me to her. I didn't realize it then and cuckhold/hot wives were not a thing, in fact I never heard those terms used back in the 60's and 70's.
We dated for awhile and eventually married. I figured she would stop playing with others after we married. After awhile it became fairly obvious she didn't stop and I confronted her about it. What surprised me is not only did she admit it, but how much it aroused me hearing that she was fucking guys from her work and sometimes in other situations, like with her part time modeling jobs.
We talked quite a bit over a few days before coming to an agreement that she could continue, but had to tell me about it when she did anything. She agreed and that is when I got into it. Like I mentioned, I didn't realize she was cucking me back then and I only came to the realization of what our relationship was called when I found this site, I guess close to 10 years ago. I really did enjoy being her cuck and reminisce quite often even though I haven't been with a woman in 24 years now. Interesting time in my life it was.

This cocktail waitress thing turns me on like crazy! Barmaids, waitresses at bars, lounges, restaurants an'all are the queens of fantasy material. I suppose their opportunities to play/cheat/experiment are much higher than women working in office jobs? They get hit on daily, hourly by multiple men. Since your wife, AZPainter, has been in the position, you would be knowing a lot.

Do they really get hit on so much? Even in these days of stifling political correctness? Does it become boring or irritating for them after sometime?
Do most of them hook up a lot with customers? Do colleagues "judge" them or resent them for hooking up with random customers? is it unsafe sometimes? Do break ups with SOs happen a lot due to these cheating binges?

Thanks.

[JackRawls]

I read postings from a woman on a message board whose husband made her sex other men while he masturbated. I got very aroused by this. That’s when I learned I was a cuckold.

[Shadnaster]

For me, as I look back, I think it was an ex that cheated on me. She had sex one night with her ex. She told me about it a few days later. I was upset but, I was turned on too. I didn't know what it was.

[Gmor]

I know it was there all along undetected or unknown, but thinking back to how I really discovered and it would be definitely linked to infidelity.

This occurred initially with my first girlfriend and then also later in another serious relationship. In both cases I experienced all the feelings that anyone who has been cheated on has but at the same time I was more powerfully aroused than anytime in my life. I began to ask them questions and draw out details of their illicit sex. I became even more deeply aroused as in both cases they described how well endowed the men were and how satisfying the sex was. I'm small and always struggled to satisfy these two women yet their descriptions and details only this increased my desire.

[AZPainter]

I had no idea I wanted to be a cuckold husband, it just seemed to happen. My wife was pretty openly sexual before we married and I became aware that she played the field through her work as a cocktail waitress and part time model for local women's clothing stores and a large department store here in our city. Looking back her sexiness and dating a lot of guys I think was part of what attracted me to her. I didn't realize it then and cuckhold/hot wives were not a thing, in fact I never heard those terms used back in the 60's and 70's.
We dated for awhile and eventually married. I figured she would stop playing with others after we married. After awhile it became fairly obvious she didn't stop and I confronted her about it. What surprised me is not only did she admit it, but how much it aroused me hearing that she was fucking guys from her work and sometimes in other situations, like with her part time modeling jobs.
We talked quite a bit over a few days before coming to an agreement that she could continue, but had to tell me about it when she did anything. She agreed and that is when I got into it. Like I mentioned, I didn't realize she was cucking me back then and I only came to the realization of what our relationship was called when I found this site, I guess close to 10 years ago. I really did enjoy being her cuck and reminisce quite often even though I haven't been with a woman in 24 years now. Interesting time in my life it was.

This cocktail waitress thing turns me on like crazy! Barmaids, waitresses at bars, lounges, restaurants an'all are the queens of fantasy material. I suppose their opportunities to play/cheat/experiment are much higher than women working in office jobs? They get hit on daily, hourly by multiple men. Since your wife, AZPainter, has been in the position, you would be knowing a lot.

Do they really get hit on so much? Even in these days of stifling political correctness? Does it become boring or irritating for them after sometime?
Do most of them hook up a lot with customers? Do colleagues "judge" them or resent them for hooking up with random customers? is it unsafe sometimes? Do break ups with SOs happen a lot due to these cheating binges?

Thanks.

I think the number of cocktail waitress's, bar maids, particularly in a larger city would have a fairly high number of ladies who would be available. I know with my wife, I got to know a lot of waitress's and barmaids. I also got to know (not sexually) quite a few in other clubs and bars in our city. I did posters for special event and bands with a majority o the clubs in Our area, which even at that time was a larger city here in Texas. The ones I met all seemed to be pretty open once I got to know them a little and they knew of my wife being a cocktail waitress also. That crowd tends to flock together. After closing time you can , or at least at that time, find a lot of them in all night coffee shops talking and having a bite to eat and some non alcoholic drinks, like coffee and tea. A few times I was with my wife after work and when we went into a coffee shop near her club, there were people from her club as well as many of the others in the area. These women who work these type of jobs seem to be open to a lot more ways of enjoying themselves than your average office worker. When they party the definitely PARTY! I want to add that I am not saying all of them, but I suspect many, if not a majority are pretty open minded this way, based on my experience around them for 10 + years.

[wulfenus]

This cocktail waitress thing turns me on like crazy! Barmaids, waitresses at bars, lounges, restaurants an'all are the queens of fantasy material. I suppose their opportunities to play/cheat/experiment are much higher than women working in office jobs? They get hit on daily, hourly by multiple men. Since your wife, AZPainter, has been in the position, you would be knowing a lot.

I love the waitress thing also as I get stories from my wife who was a waitress in college and then a restaurant mgr afterwards while she was thinking about grad school and then again a waitress once in grad school.

Restaurants have that frantic pace at times, yes it's 'just' a restaurant, but most young people want to do a good job whatever it is.
and it is mostly young people working at restaurants. The busy times builds that us vs the customers, in a good way, to get the
job done and then it's break time. The atmosphere around rest. workers is definitely sexually charged.

She told me restaurants are real soap operas. She's sure one of her workers once had sex in the cooler. Another time one called in with a broken arm as she fell out of bed having sex.

[sanny]

My wife is a bit older than I am and knew my mother from work. Through work gossip coming home, I found out she cheated on her husband and divorced. I had found her attractive before but knowing that sent me into overdrive. Did not quite know why at the time. Years later, we would meet and start a relationship which eventually became a marriage.