Next Saturday Christmas Party

[nostringsorworries]

Not sure which forum to post this. I'd started in the wannabe but things have moved beyond that a bit. We have gotten to know a professional guy that is wanting to "date a couple" because he's too busy for a girlfriend and all that that involves. We done things socially a bit now. Restaurants etc. He wants the full seduction, dating experience after a fashion I guess. They've made out and had some heavy petting while we watched Netflix. Seeing them kiss got to me in ways that I'm still not sure what they are, but it's definitely exciting.

Next Saturday is his work Christmas party and he wants to take her. Obviously I won't be along on that. He said he'd pick her up at our place and bring her back right afterwards and that anything that happens would happen with me at least nearby and with full veto power if I change my mind, or if she does of course. So I guess I'm okay with it. That was the agreement. Nothing behind anybody's back. I imagine Saturday will be the actual love making, or whatever you call it in this world. I'm nervous as hell, but just as excited. She is smitten with him, so I'm a bit worried and jealous, but I don't think he's after anything beyond just having somebody when he has time. I can't imagine sitting home though and waiting for them to get back.

[Long Lurker 34]

Not sure which forum to post this. I'd started in the wannabe but things have moved beyond that a bit. We have gotten to know a professional guy that is wanting to "date a couple" because he's too busy for a girlfriend and all that that involves. We done things socially a bit now. Restaurants etc. He wants the full seduction, dating experience after a fashion I guess. They've made out and had some heavy petting while we watched Netflix. Seeing them kiss got to me in ways that I'm still not sure what they are, but it's definitely exciting.

Next Saturday is his work Christmas party and he wants to take her. Obviously I won't be along on that. He said he'd pick her up at our place and bring her back right afterwards and that anything that happens would happen with me at least nearby and with full veto power if I change my mind, or if she does of course. So I guess I'm okay with it. That was the agreement. Nothing behind anybody's back. I imagine Saturday will be the actual love making, or whatever you call it in this world. I'm nervous as hell, but just as excited. She is smitten with him, so I'm a bit worried and jealous, but I don't think he's after anything beyond just having somebody when he has time. I can't imagine sitting home though and waiting for them to get back.

NSW
- So is your wife going to do the "whole nine yards" for him, hair, nails, makeup, new dress, shoes, perhaps a mist of perfume and maybe underwear to make the evening a special one?

[Freemans892]

Has the sex between you and your wife gotten more active since this guy has entered the scene?

[annsman]

It’s a scenario that we both love and I get very turned on by the anticipation while waiting for her to come home. In our case they would usually book a room in an hotel to avoid problems with drinking and driving and also it seems to erotically round off the evening.

You didn’t say, but I have assumed you are married so will she be wearing her wedding ring and be introduced to his friends and work colleagues as his married girlfriend? Just imagine the looks that they will get when they come down to breakfast after obviously spent the night together.

[mundyman]

It sounds like he wants a situation where he borrows your wife whenever he feels the need for a girlfriend experience. There is an entire profession of professional escorts and SWs who provide the same services for a very pretty penny. Hopefully he at least pays when you all go out.
Will you be ok the next time he comes over to Netflix and chill with looking over at them and seeing your wife with his cock down her throat, or bouncing up and down riding his cock, or her legs over his shoulders while he pounds his cock deep into your wife’s pussy and she making noises she never makes with you?

[54321]

Merry Christmas!

54321

[nostringsorworries]

Has the sex between you and your wife gotten more active since this guy has entered the scene?

Yes, sex between us has become amazing, especially after the times we've met in person to get to know each other.

[nostringsorworries]

It’s a scenario that we both love and I get very turned on by the anticipation while waiting for her to come home. In our case they would usually book a room in an hotel to avoid problems with drinking and driving and also it seems to erotically round off the evening.

You didn’t say, but I have assumed you are married so will she be wearing her wedding ring and be introduced to his friends and work colleagues as his married girlfriend? Just imagine the looks that they will get when they come down to breakfast after obviously spent the night together.

No, no wedding ring. And it will be a short, meet and greet, obligatory office Christmas party. He's new in town for a new position and wants to build a career there. They are quite conservative and he's on partner track. He doesn't have time for girlfriend and doesn't want the drama if things don't work out. But he also doesn't want co-workers wondering why he's there alone, wondering if he's gay or trying to set him up etc. He says he's done this before at his previous position and it works out great if everybody is comfortable with it. He says a wife, (not his of course, but somebody else's! LOL) isn't looking for more than enjoyment and friendship. He doesn't have to worry about problems down the road. No pregnancy worries. No golddigger worries. And he said if he's truly honest, the turn-on of inseminating another guy's wife is huge for him. He doesn't really know why, and I don't know why that turns me on either, but I just about shot my load at dinner when he said that.

He says he wants to orchestrate everything, so we should just relax. He's picking out a dress he'd like her to wear. Proper, attractive, but not too hot or something that upsets other wives and gets tongues wagging. They won't be going anywhere else, and he will make excuses early to get her home early so I won't worry or explode with the tension/lust.

[Lucky Dog]

No, no wedding ring. And it will be a short, meet and greet, obligatory office Christmas party. He's new in town for a new position and wants to build a career there. They are quite conservative and he's on partner track. He doesn't have time for girlfriend and doesn't want the drama if things don't work out. But he also doesn't want co-workers wondering why he's there alone, wondering if he's gay or trying to set him up etc. He says he's done this before at his previous position and it works out great if everybody is comfortable with it. He says a wife, (not his of course, but somebody else's! LOL) isn't looking for more than enjoyment and friendship. He doesn't have to worry about problems down the road. No pregnancy worries. No golddigger worries. And he said if he's truly honest, the turn-on of inseminating another guy's wife is huge for him. He doesn't really know why, and I don't know why that turns me on either, but I just about shot my load at dinner when he said that.

He says he wants to orchestrate everything, so we should just relax. He's picking out a dress he'd like her to wear. Proper, attractive, but not too hot or something that upsets other wives and gets tongues wagging. They won't be going anywhere else, and he will make excuses early to get her home early so I won't worry or explode with the tension/lust.

It's because it's so hot and exciting!

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

Hello, I think you and your wife are in a great situation with a perfect match man. I would suggest you and your wife keep building this relationship with this man and keep all three of you very happy and satisfied. Is your wife on birth control and may I ask your ages?

[BrunetteLover]

There is an entire profession of professional escorts and SWs who provide the same services for a very pretty penny. Hopefully he at least pays when you all go out.

My wife is one of the SW's you mention, and she has been on many 'social' dates.

Problem is, she has not gotten paid for any of them, except one.

She has had a few clients who have become friends, and she has 'gone out' with them on dates. One guy shares her interest in music, and she gets together with him and his friends and they go to concerts. She just went to the sixth or seventh concert with them, over a period of about three years.

The ironic thing is that once my wife enjoys the date and it does not include sex, she has no qualms about us paying our own way for the event. The last concert was in Newark, and we got a hotel room nearby. I actually took her by PATH train, dropped her off, went to the hotel for a nap, and went back later.

His buds know he was banging her for a while, and hanging with them after the concert was a bit awkward, for them, not me.

There is absolutely NO WAY we would do anything like that for a client.

If your wife enjoys the dating experience, she is going to want to pay her way to some extent. You can be around somewhat, even try being a driver with them in the back, if your vehicle has the interior size for that.

[Long Lurker 34]

It’s a scenario that we both love and I get very turned on by the anticipation while waiting for her to come home. In our case they would usually book a room in an hotel to avoid problems with drinking and driving and also it seems to erotically round off the evening.

You didn’t say, but I have assumed you are married so will she be wearing her wedding ring and be introduced to his friends and work colleagues as his married girlfriend? Just imagine the looks that they will get when they come down to breakfast after obviously spent the night together.

No, no wedding ring. And it will be a short, meet and greet, obligatory office Christmas party. He's new in town for a new position and wants to build a career there. They are quite conservative and he's on partner track. He doesn't have time for girlfriend and doesn't want the drama if things don't work out. But he also doesn't want co-workers wondering why he's there alone, wondering if he's gay or trying to set him up etc. He says he's done this before at his previous position and it works out great if everybody is comfortable with it. He says a wife, (not his of course, but somebody else's! LOL) isn't looking for more than enjoyment and friendship. He doesn't have to worry about problems down the road. No pregnancy worries. No golddigger worries. And he said if he's truly honest, the turn-on of inseminating another guy's wife is huge for him. He doesn't really know why, and I don't know why that turns me on either, but I just about shot my load at dinner when he said that.

He says he wants to orchestrate everything, so we should just relax. He's picking out a dress he'd like her to wear. Proper, attractive, but not too hot or something that upsets other wives and gets tongues wagging. They won't be going anywhere else, and he will make excuses early to get her home early so I won't worry or explode with the tension/lust.

NSW
- Is this guy or yourself "snipped".

[WSCuck]

It sounds like he wants a situation where he borrows your wife whenever he feels the need for a girlfriend experience. There is an entire profession of professional escorts and SWs who provide the same services for a very pretty penny. Hopefully he at least pays when you all go out.
Will you be ok the next time he comes over to Netflix and chill with looking over at them and seeing your wife with his cock down her throat, or bouncing up and down riding his cock, or her legs over his shoulders while he pounds his cock deep into your wife’s pussy and she making noises she never makes with you?

This sounds like the perfect scenario for me.

[nostringsorworries]

It’s a scenario that we both love and I get very turned on by the anticipation while waiting for her to come home. In our case they would usually book a room in an hotel to avoid problems with drinking and driving and also it seems to erotically round off the evening.

You didn’t say, but I have assumed you are married so will she be wearing her wedding ring and be introduced to his friends and work colleagues as his married girlfriend? Just imagine the looks that they will get when they come down to breakfast after obviously spent the night together.

No, no wedding ring. And it will be a short, meet and greet, obligatory office Christmas party. He's new in town for a new position and wants to build a career there. They are quite conservative and he's on partner track. He doesn't have time for girlfriend and doesn't want the drama if things don't work out. But he also doesn't want co-workers wondering why he's there alone, wondering if he's gay or trying to set him up etc. He says he's done this before at his previous position and it works out great if everybody is comfortable with it. He says a wife, (not his of course, but somebody else's! LOL) isn't looking for more than enjoyment and friendship. He doesn't have to worry about problems down the road. No pregnancy worries. No golddigger worries. And he said if he's truly honest, the turn-on of inseminating another guy's wife is huge for him. He doesn't really know why, and I don't know why that turns me on either, but I just about shot my load at dinner when he said that.

He says he wants to orchestrate everything, so we should just relax. He's picking out a dress he'd like her to wear. Proper, attractive, but not too hot or something that upsets other wives and gets tongues wagging. They won't be going anywhere else, and he will make excuses early to get her home early so I won't worry or explode with the tension/lust.

NSW
- Is this guy or yourself "snipped".

LOL...she is on birth control. He said inseminate, not impregnate! He's a doctor and uses a lot of terms like that I guess. It was hot to hear though. It conjured up a very stimulating image

[nostringsorworries]

Hello, I think you and your wife are in a great situation with a perfect match man. I would suggest you and your wife keep building this relationship with this man and keep all three of you very happy and satisfied. Is your wife on birth control and may I ask your ages?

Yes it seems too good to be true. She is definitely on birth control. Late 30s. I'm not sure of his age actually, similar I think. I'm a little older. She is getting hornier lately which kind of got us going on this fantasy. She's not looking for pornstar acrobatics. Just something exciting. Definitely not looking to be somebody's escort "on call". She's kind of reserved and inhibited, so this is all stunning to me. But he has the kind of personality that can overcome that. One minute I'm worried she'll back out of the party, and the next I'm worried she will. I think she's passed the point of no-return though.

[Long Lurker 34]

Hello, I think you and your wife are in a great situation with a perfect match man. I would suggest you and your wife keep building this relationship with this man and keep all three of you very happy and satisfied. Is your wife on birth control and may I ask your ages?

Yes it seems too good to be true. She is definitely on birth control. Late 30s. I'm not sure of his age actually, similar I think. I'm a little older. She is getting hornier lately which kind of got us going on this fantasy. She's not looking for pornstar acrobatics. Just something exciting. Definitely not looking to be somebody's escort "on call". She's kind of reserved and inhibited, so this is all stunning to me. But he has the kind of personality that can overcome that. One minute I'm worried she'll back out of the party, and the next I'm worried she will. I think she's passed the point of no-return though.

NSW
- Of course not. But at the sametime if things work out is there any reason this couldn't evolve into a HW/BF type of situation where it would be entirely reasonable for her to go on 'regular' type dates and accompany him to other events such as this, when things align?
- This guy or situation might be the key to her emerging from within her protective social shield. Which, I would bet, you wouldn't mind happening, to some degree, and could benefit from yourself in different ways.

[Greg_N_Shelley]

...And he said if he's truly honest, the turn-on of inseminating another guy's wife is huge for him. He doesn't really know why, and I don't know why that turns me on either, but I just about shot my load at dinner when he said that.

I'm curious what her reaction was when he said that. I'm guessing the both of you discussed it afterward.

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

Hello, nostringsorworries:

Be positive and supportive of your wife and your new male friend. I envision many positives arising from her Christmas Party Date. May I ask when is the party ?

[kellycuckoldsmark]

I think this could be enjoyable for all three of you.
My wife pretty much only sees business travelers to our city. Keeps things. She will go to several holiday parties this year, usually as their wife, so rings on. She only does this with guys she has seen a few times so the chemistry is there and comes naturally that help no-one suspect anything. Also she knows enough about the guys to sound credible.

She does go back to their room for fun but she never stays the night. She’s been to three this year, one tonight and one more next week.
It’s fun for me as she usually ones sees 1-2 guys a month based on their schedules but they all fly in for holiday parties!

[nostringsorworries]

...And he said if he's truly honest, the turn-on of inseminating another guy's wife is huge for him. He doesn't really know why, and I don't know why that turns me on either, but I just about shot my load at dinner when he said that.

I'm curious what her reaction was when he said that. I'm guessing the both of you discussed it afterward.

Well he's extremely good at talking about things in a straightforward way, which I think that in itself turned her on. He's very self-assured, but not pushy or crude. Charming. Good bedside manner I guess you might call it. LOL He had also warned her that he isn't circumsized, which I think threw her more, just having a guy say that. Some women hate that I guess, others couldn't care less. So that's mostly what we talked about afterwards. It would be a first for her so it was kind of thrilling. And he wanted us to be comfortable with the idea right out of the gate, so he took care of getting all 3 of us tested with one of those mail-in labs. Anonymous. etc. Haven't heard the results but should in the next day or so. Not expecting any issues.

[nostringsorworries]

Hello, nostringsorworries:

Be positive and supportive of your wife and your new male friend. I envision many positives arising from her Christmas Party Date. May I ask when is the party ?

This coming Saturday

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

May I ask is he well hung and him cumming inside her will be a bonding experience for both with each of them wanting to make this relationship an ongoing arrangement. A win win

[nostringsorworries]

May I ask is he well hung and him cumming inside her will be a bonding experience for both with each of them wanting to make this relationship an ongoing arrangement. A win win

We have no idea about his size. Haven't seen it yet, and she's not really into that anyway. That's more a male fantasy I think. She's more into the confidence and take-charge attitude, but not in the porn star sense. Just a confident guy that knows what he likes but also wants to know what she likes.

She did rub him a bit through his pants when they were making out and seemed to have no concerns, so I'm assuming he's just regular.

[Greg_N_Shelley]

...He had also warned her that he isn't circumsized, which I think threw her more, just having a guy say that. Some women hate that I guess, others couldn't care less...

That would have earned a smile from my girl.

Glad you're having fun on the adventure! I'm eager to hear how the Christmas party goes.

[nostringsorworries]

I'm so horny thinking about this. I can't think about anything else. All week long it's on my mind. Looks like it's really happening. Last night she had me take a pic of her in the dress she plans to wear and she sent it to him to see if it would be the right attire for the party. Of course she picked my favorite. One of those long, black dresses that have an opening on one side so that the occasional leg pops out. She's got incredible legs. And one shoulder is bare with a diagonal top that crosses her chest. Very elegant and sexy at the same time, but not over the top.

I'm nervous though. I feel like I've thought through everything, but what if by some strange coincidence somebody happens to be there that knows her in passing, and she's there with another guy and no ring on? I can't come up with plausible cover story for her. That would ruin everything. He's not looking for any scandal at all, and that isn't a turn on for us either.