Next Saturday Christmas Party

[Trevose]

This is very exciting!

[FNQLivin]

Looking forward to the update

[kaskap79]

Tonight is the night.

Hope you look forward to it.

[MarknSusan]

IMO, part of the fun and excitement is IF she did run into someone she knows. Although very unlikely I guess, she should have a cover story and she should not feel uncomfortable about it.

All she has to do is act like she’s not hiding anything and just say he’s a good friend and invited her!

Looking forward to your next update!

[nostringsorworries]

They just left. I wanted to call it off, but felt too embarrassed. but at the same time I wanted it to happen. How can you have so many conflicting feelings?

[FNQLivin]

Is she staying overnight?

[nostringsorworries]

They left and I feel scared. It's not as hot for me as I'd hoped. He was so cool and reassuring, picking up that I was getting cold feet I suppose. They'll be back in a couple of hours. It's not a "fun" party. Business thing and nothing more. He reminded me that everything is optional. They are coming straight back here and nothing needs to happen. No pressure etc.

But the way she looked at him was so different than anything I'd seen in her before, so I can't imagine that I could really stop things without a huge scene. He brought a bottle of champagne to have later on when they get back. He also had a nice gift for her, a bracelet which she loved. A thank-you-christmas gift he called it.

She had put up some mistletoe when she decorated for christmas which he noticed and stopped as they were on the way out and gave her a long, passionate french kiss. It seemed to last 10 minutes, but I'm sure it was just a few seconds. but now I can't stop thinking about their tongues exploring each other. They've kissed before, but this seemed different too.

I watched them through the window as he walked her to his car with his hand on the small of her back and opened the door for her. Seeing her leg flash out of the dress slit as she got in was a lightening bolt for me too.

Now I've got to think about something else for the next couple hours. I don't know how I'm going to manage that.

[nostringsorworries]

Is she staying overnight?

No, they are coming back here. I believe that too. What happens after that, I don't know.

[David52]

I hope everyone is having fun. Can’t wait for an update

[superb101]

looking forward to an update

[Trevose]

Looking forward to the ne t step.

[BVsMan]

Hope you all had a great night. Looking forward to hearing about it.

[trecital]

They left and I feel scared. It's not as hot for me as I'd hoped. He was so cool and reassuring, picking up that I was getting cold feet I suppose.

Don't worry, you'll gradually get more used to those feelings. They are just part of the experience.

Hope things went well.

[nostringsorworries]

my head feels like scrambled eggs this morning. exhausted but good. they got home early as planned. no problems at the party. He said he noticed other guys checking her out though, which was no surprise. she looked amazing.

I tried to watch a movie while I waited but don't remember any of it. I was relieved when they pulled up and then worried again as they walked in all happy and laughing he opened the champagne he'd brought and suggested we all make a toast to a great evening and a great beginning. We all sat on the couch and made some small talk. She sat between us and slipped her shoes off saying they were killing her from standing in heels all night and put her feet up on the coffee table. she was still in her slit dress so it was very sexy in a casual way to have her bare legs and feet stretched out in front of us.

Eventually he began to focus more on chatting with her and I felt like I was disappearing I guess and he leaned over and began kissing her. She definitely kissed back and they got into heavy tongue kissing that went on for a long time. I was already pretty aroused by that point and watched him rubbing her bare shoulder on the side of the dress that was uncovered and then slid his hand down under and was feeling her boobs, tweaking her nipples which would make her jump a bit.

Next she got a little aggressive and hopped over onto his lap, facing him and kissing him like a lap dance kind of. He slipped the dress top down and her boobs were exposed. He'd kiss and nibble on them and she'd squirm. She doesn't have big boobs, but they are perky and her nipples were sticking out like crazy. I don't think I'd ever seen her that stimulated. They continued making out in front of me and he kept tweaking those nipples and she'd kind of squeak every once in a while. She has very sensitive nipples.

After a while he said he'd give her a foot massage to help her recover from the evening and he kind of flipped back down off of his lap onto her back between us so her head was in my lap and her feet in his. He began massaging them and then looked over at me and asked if I was okay. I didn't really get to answer because she did it for me. She lifted her head up for minute off of my lap and rubbed my crouch and the big bulge there and said "oh he's fine".

From there he continued working on her feet, kissing them and working his hands down her legs and thighs. I felt like they were going to do it right there on the couch in front of me, but she had already said that if it happened she didn't want an audience and she must have meant it. She said to him "why don't go upstairs where it's more comfortable".

He got up and she was getting up I said to her "I'm so turned on right now" and she smiled and said "too bad" and they went up the stairs to our bedroom leaving me alone in the living room. It was another one of those sexy moments when I think I could have shot my load right in my pants.

By that point I was already rubbing myself I was so horny I wanted to follow them upstairs but I knew I needed to honor her request and stay out of the way. I did quietly sneak up the stairs and sat on the top step listening, trying to imagine what was going on. Eventually it got quiet and I just went back downstairs jacked off, and fell asleep on the couch until probably an hour or so later when I woke up and they were coming downstairs. He was dressed and she was in her bath robe and they had another long kiss at the door and he left.

She came over to me and kissed me and said "thank you" She let me fondle her a bit under the robe and then we went upstairs to bed. There was a big wet spot in the bed and her thighs felt sticky but she'd put her panties back on.

I couldn't really sleep at that point and eventually we had amazing sex. And then again this morning as I thought about his cum inside of her mixing with mine.

So I guess it was an amazing experience. I imagine we will do it again at some point but there's a fair amount of guilt and regret going on too today after the horniness subsided. We haven't talked about it again too much yet.

[isinlarsa]

Guilt on her part and regret on yours? Or do you also feel a little guilty letting it happen?

[Greg_N_Shelley]

The mix of feelings you describe isn’t uncommon. Quite normal, in fact. What happens next depends on how you both assimilate those feelings.

If your love and trust in each other is strong and the erotic euphoria of the night’s events triumphs over any guilt hangover, all will be fine. Sounds like a great first adventure on an exciting journey.

But like everyone says around here, communication is key.

Has she shared her experience of the night with you yet? It sounds like they had fun. You described it as "amazing," but I also get the impression you found something ungratifying from your description of events. But perhaps I'm misreading you.

There are obviously many recipes for hotwife sports and what’s best is what works for each unique couple. For myself, I don’t know if it would have worked for us (Shelley and I) if I was alone on the couch while the bedroom door was closed. Especially in the beginning.

[mundyman]

The most important part of this lifestyle is what happens AFTER your wife has sex with another, or goes on a date with another. The sharing of the details, the sharing of your feelings and reactions to the event allow both of you to recalibrate and redefine how this lifestyle will fit into your relationship and how it will help to enhance it for both of you!!
Please share the discussions you and your wife have over the next couple of days. There is much others can learn, plus it is a big part of the story you are sharing.
Good luck and I hope you two continue to find a way to move forward in this lifestyle.

[trecital]

So I guess it was an amazing experience.

Mate, from where I'm sat, reading, it sounded like it was definitely amazing.
I wasn't sure whether it was better leaving you downstairs or for him to have fucked her right in front of you.
But, if them doing it alone was her preference then that was the best choice.
When my wife first had her boyfriend visit us, after I found out about her affair with him, he was definitely not comfortable with me watching. It took a long time until that happened.
He gradually got more confident, and one time he invited me to fuck her in our lounge, while he watched. I was reluctant, as I knew he was a better lover for her. Inevitably I didn't last long, cumming in her, without me making her cum. After which he took her upstairs, leaving me alone, nursing my shrinking dick, while he gave her the proper fucking that she deserved.
These are times that you will remember for the rest of your life. I hope you can get through these difficult early stages. Just remember to assure your wife that you still love her. She will thank you for giving her this wonderful gift.
Good luck.

Your story was very stimulating!

[nostringsorworries]

The most important part of this lifestyle is what happens AFTER your wife has sex with another, or goes on a date with another. The sharing of the details, the sharing of your feelings and reactions to the event allow both of you to recalibrate and redefine how this lifestyle will fit into your relationship and how it will help to enhance it for both of you!!
Please share the discussions you and your wife have over the next couple of days. There is much others can learn, plus it is a big part of the story you are sharing.
Good luck and I hope you two continue to find a way to move forward in this lifestyle.

I can completely understand how the "AFTER" is the really important part of it all. That's a good observation. I think today we're both just wiped out physically more than emotionally. We didn't really get much sleep on top off all the other feelings going on. I'm sure we'll be talking more in the coming days. I think for her the one thing she'd hoped for didn't happen. She can never climax during intercourse. She really best responds to manual stimulation and a normal part of our routine is after we're done screwing we spoon and I reach around and get her off with my hand. I'm pretty sure she was hoping with a new and thrilling lover she could manage to climax during the moment, but I'm guessing it didn't happen. I wouldn't really have expected it to with all of the self-consciousness going on with somebody new. When I crawled into bed with her she had already put her panties back on, but I spooned her like I normally do and after laying there long enough and getting hornier myself I took a chance and reached around. She seemed a little reluctant at first but then got into it. I think she was embarrassed that she had all that cum in her from another man, not her husband. But for me it was a huge turn on and I got much hornier while I got her off, thinking about all of that inside of her, touching her with my fingers. And then we rolled over and continued on with our own love-making, and again this morning before we got up. I haven't asked her if that was the case yet, but I will once we get back to "normal" and catch up on our sleep.

[nostringsorworries]

The mix of feelings you describe isn’t uncommon. Quite normal, in fact. What happens next depends on how you both assimilate those feelings.

If your love and trust in each other is strong and the erotic euphoria of the night’s events triumphs over any guilt hangover, all will be fine. Sounds like a great first adventure on an exciting journey.

But like everyone says around here, communication is key.

Has she shared her experience of the night with you yet? It sounds like they had fun. You described it as "amazing," but I also get the impression you found something ungratifying from your description of events. But perhaps I'm misreading you.

There are obviously many recipes for hotwife sports and what’s best is what works for each unique couple. For myself, I don’t know if it would have worked for us (Shelley and I) if I was alone on the couch while the bedroom door was closed. Especially in the beginning.

I think it's all good. He called this afternoon and she sounded quite cheery about the whole thing. He wants to get together for dinner again soon and all of us talk about things to make sure everybody is on the same page and see what might come next, if anything.

[myoralannie]

Did you talk to her about all the action that occurred? Did she suck his cock? Positions? It sounds like you are on your way and he seems like a good partner since he is so considerate of your feelings.
Can’t wait for more updates and Info.

[Greg_N_Shelley]

I think it's all good. He called this afternoon and she sounded quite cheery about the whole thing. He wants to get together for dinner again soon and all of us talk about things to make sure everybody is on the same page and see what might come next, if anything.

Glad to hear. He sounds like a good match, mature and considerate. In my opinion, those are two of the most important virtues of a "good guest."

I'm curious if she gave you the details yet on her adventure behind the closed door.

[nostringsorworries]

She said it was pretty vanilla sex, but good. She said the reason she wanted to go upstairs when he began massaging her feet and legs was she was worried he would want to go down on her and she's not really comfortable with that. Not that she doesn't like it, she's just self-conscious. So she wanted to head it off but didn't want to stop the evening. She has a really hard time climaxing during intercourse and mainly likes to have me use my fingers afterwards, which is more or less what happened this time. I've always wanted to go down on her instead, and I'm hopeful we'll get there at some point. I think that would be a better climax for her than just with my hand. So didn't really suck his cock other than to kiss it etc and then get things going with traditional missionary. She will give a blow job, but not to completion. I don't think that stuff is off the table though. she seems to be ready to experience new stuff and that is kind of what has helped this along. It's just a lot to take on all at once for sure.

He's invited us to do something on New Years Eve, probably just at his place, not a party. If that happens I'll start a new thread with the specifics.

[FNQLivin]

Thank you for the update.