Potentially the Start

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by venus-can99 » Tue Jan 07, 2025 11:39 am

Thanks for the DDWHW. Wish you and your bf (now your primary husband?) and your cuck the best. It would be good to hear from you ocassionally as time permits, since it appears that you have moved to firmly comitted to your new husband with new rings.

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by Johng1953 » Tue Jan 07, 2025 12:45 pm

Sounds to me like one marriage has been destroyed.
Bye.

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by Rogueuser1 » Tue Jan 07, 2025 12:49 pm

Thanks for sharing the update - would love more details of course but I am glad for you to share. I hope cuck is ok and still happy with all of this. Is he allowed to post here even if you don't?
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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by edgedndenied » Tue Jan 07, 2025 1:32 pm

Does your cuck live by himself in the basement all day and night or does he have free movement in the house during the day?
How does he interact with your new husband/boyfriend. It seems as though he has no role in your life going forward or does he.

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by txrockdog » Tue Jan 07, 2025 4:50 pm

Johng1953 wrote:
Tue Jan 07, 2025 12:45 pm
Sounds to me like one marriage has been destroyed.
Bye.
My thoughts exactly. I think we have different ideas of marriage than she does. This story has sounded like a trainwreck almost from the beginning, and I never got the sense DDW was happy with how things were going, but was codependent enough that he had no choice but to go along with everything. He avoided repeated questions about whether he was actually happy, just repeatedly deferring to the fact that he had agreed to go along with her frankly coercive efforts at gaining consent from him. The only difference between their marriage ending and what they have now is that she is keeping DDW around locked away so he can pay for everything instead of just taking half his money and letting him at least enjoy his life. Sorry if that is harsh, but it sounds like a miserable life to me.

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by frb » Tue Jan 07, 2025 10:12 pm

The only thing destroyed here is the best thread on the site. Done in by the relentless negativity of people who apparently can't read. Because I *can* read, I happen to know that DDW is happy, and DDWHW is happy, and their marriage is stronger than ever despite being unconventional. I can't fathom what some of you were expecting on a cuckold fetish website aside from relationships that involve the cuckolding fetish, but hey, great job.

Thank you very much for the update DDWHW. It was excellent. We've missed you both and will miss you going forward. Any time you're inspired to drop back in and update the thread, I and countless other people will be grateful for whatever news you have.

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by viking53 » Wed Jan 08, 2025 12:13 am

Thanks for the update DDWHW. Both you and your bf obviously put a lot of thought into this and the way you want to live your lives together. I wish you both a long and happy relationship together.

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by trecital » Wed Jan 08, 2025 2:03 am

Seems strange that neither of them want to update. Surely there is still mileage to be got from continuing to post?

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by mundyman » Wed Jan 08, 2025 3:10 am

I’d be very interested in hearing from DDW to see if he is as happy as his wife has told him he is….

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by knight4princess » Wed Jan 08, 2025 5:17 am

Well if it were my marriage, I'd consider it destroyed. But to each their own.

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by Lucky Dog » Wed Jan 08, 2025 6:45 am

I've followed this thread since the beginning. I've found much of it very thrilling, and watches as both cuck and HW shared their journey. When it comes to families doing what they want, it is my inclination to support them and always wish them the best.

Something about this is hard for me to take, as it seems that cuck has not only lost access to his wife's body, but the way this has been presented makes it seem there has been a far greater rupture in their relationship. It seems something that I can't personally feel good about, but I do hope they all find happiness on this path.
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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by edgedndenied » Wed Jan 08, 2025 12:35 pm

I hope they change there minds and will update. There journey is ramping up to a whole new level.

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by frb » Wed Jan 08, 2025 4:35 pm

DDWHW, for what it's worth here are the questions your update brought up for me.

After you consummated your new commitment and sent DDW home, you all apparently had a reception of some kind. Was your toplessness the only sexual aspect to this reception? As you were surrounded by experienced swingers I have to think there may have been more to it. If so, were your two friends involved at all?

You vowed to obey your bf without hesitation going forward. Has he played that card yet? Have you been shared with anyone since the poker game?

Is DDW allowed to witness you and your bf fucking in the master bedroom or anywhere else in the house? Has your bf hinted at all that he might allow DDW out of his "permanent" chastity in future for any reason?

Thanks, and keep having fun.

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by wifelver » Wed Jan 08, 2025 4:57 pm

Johng1953 wrote:
Tue Jan 07, 2025 12:45 pm
Sounds to me like one marriage has been destroyed.
Bye.
Totally agree.

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by wifelver » Wed Jan 08, 2025 4:59 pm

txrockdog wrote:
Tue Jan 07, 2025 4:50 pm
Johng1953 wrote:
Tue Jan 07, 2025 12:45 pm
Sounds to me like one marriage has been destroyed.
Bye.
My thoughts exactly. I think we have different ideas of marriage than she does. This story has sounded like a trainwreck almost from the beginning, and I never got the sense DDW was happy with how things were going, but was codependent enough that he had no choice but to go along with everything. He avoided repeated questions about whether he was actually happy, just repeatedly deferring to the fact that he had agreed to go along with her frankly coercive efforts at gaining consent from him. The only difference between their marriage ending and what they have now is that she is keeping DDW around locked away so he can pay for everything instead of just taking half his money and letting him at least enjoy his life. Sorry if that is harsh, but it sounds like a miserable life to me.
Well said. That’s how I see it as well.

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by tovid555 » Thu Jan 09, 2025 12:24 pm

I say good for them. And there shouldn't be one person in here that should be standing on their own pedestal of righteousness. As someone said, its a cuckold website, there should not be any surprised reactions to what three other consenting adults do with their lives.

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by wifelver » Thu Jan 09, 2025 12:48 pm

tovid555 wrote:
Thu Jan 09, 2025 12:24 pm
I say good for them. And there shouldn't be one person in here that should be standing on their own pedestal of righteousness. As someone said, its a cuckold website, there should not be any surprised reactions to what three other consenting adults do with their lives.
Ha! A pedestal of righteousness is it? And coming from those who would suppress a point of view different from theirs. That’s rich.

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by frb » Thu Jan 09, 2025 3:32 pm

No one is trying to suppress your point of view, even though it's moronic. I never cared whether you expressed it, as long as it wasn't in this thread, because:

1) OP and his wife explicitly said that too much negativity would drive them away from the site, which is exactly what happened.
2) I and many others wanted to hear from them.

This thread was killed by idiots like you incessantly criticizing OP and his wife for doing things that are very common among people in the lifestyle. No matter how many times they assured everyone that they were happy with their trajectory and that their marital bonds were stronger than ever, no matter how many times they pleaded with all the lurkers, most of whom don't even have girlfriends let alone experience in the lifestyle, to stop telling them that they're doing it all wrong, and raining on their parade, you kept at it. So now they're fed up and no longer posting. When all you had to do was create your own thread bashing DDW and DDWHW to your hearts' content.

Again, great job.

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by wifelver » Thu Jan 09, 2025 3:46 pm

frb wrote:
Thu Jan 09, 2025 3:32 pm
No one is trying to suppress your point of view, even though it's moronic.

This thread was killed by idiots like you
lol. So when folks like me put forth a different point of view from the enlightened ones like you then you insult us. Why people feel the need to cast insults at the people whose opinions they don’t agree with is mind boggling. And, I might add, mean.

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by frb » Thu Jan 09, 2025 3:50 pm

What I've said about the history of this thread is completely accurate. But in the interests of peace I'll let you decide how to describe the people who killed it for absolutely no good reason.

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by Wife4Guys » Fri Jan 10, 2025 1:30 pm

Yawn

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by Watchinu69 » Fri Jan 10, 2025 2:42 pm

wifelver wrote:
Wed Jan 08, 2025 4:57 pm
Johng1953 wrote:
Tue Jan 07, 2025 12:45 pm
Sounds to me like one marriage has been destroyed.
Bye.
Totally agree.
💯🎯✅ fuckin guy forefather wanted.... to get lichen away in a small cage,,, his wife getting laid without him along with public embarrassment with the wife's friends.... lives in the basement in a constant state of wondering what his wife is doing with her BF next... destroyed his world Bahahahaha !! He got what he wanted-

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by Watchinu69 » Fri Jan 10, 2025 4:29 pm

Watchinu69 wrote:
Fri Jan 10, 2025 2:42 pm
wifelver wrote:
Wed Jan 08, 2025 4:57 pm
Johng1953 wrote:
Tue Jan 07, 2025 12:45 pm
Sounds to me like one marriage has been destroyed.
Bye.
Totally agree.
💯🎯✅ fuckin guy got what he wanted.... to get locked away in a small cage,,, his wife getting laid without him along for the ride & with public embarrassment with the wife's friends.... lives in the basement in a constant state of wondering what his wife is doing with her BF next... destroyed his world Bahahahaha !! He got what he wanted congratulations 🎉🍾🎈

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by txrockdog » Fri Jan 10, 2025 6:31 pm

Watchinu69 wrote:
Fri Jan 10, 2025 4:29 pm
Watchinu69 wrote:
Fri Jan 10, 2025 2:42 pm
wifelver wrote:
Wed Jan 08, 2025 4:57 pm
Johng1953 wrote:
Tue Jan 07, 2025 12:45 pm
Sounds to me like one marriage has been destroyed.
Bye.
Totally agree.
💯🎯✅ fuckin guy got what he wanted.... to get locked away in a small cage,,, his wife getting laid without him along for the ride & with public embarrassment with the wife's friends.... lives in the basement in a constant state of wondering what his wife is doing with her BF next... destroyed his world Bahahahaha !! He got what he wanted congratulations 🎉🍾🎈
I never got the impression being locked away in the basement like a forgotten toy never to have an orgasm again, while some guy replaced him in his wife’s social life, emotional life, sexual life, and in his own house and bedroom was really what DDW was really after when he talked to his wife about this. When asked about it, he would never say he was enjoying it or that he was happy with things. He would just repeat that he and his wife had talked about and he had agreed to what she wanted. Always seemed pretty melancholy and unwilling to openly say he wasn’t happy because he knew his wife would read about it.

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Re: Potentially the Start

Unread post by gesdell » Fri Jan 10, 2025 11:30 pm

This was an excellent cautionary tale for those who don't want the extreme loss of control that happened here. I have noticed that he never posts anymore, the wife took over his account and probably locked him out of that too. Maybe he had a mental breakdown or some other psychological problem happened. For those that enjoyed what happened toward the end of this thread, may I suggest that the are plenty of car crash videos on YouTube to watch.

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