Bisexual Stag?

[DangerandBunny]

Hello, I was wondering if I could get some insight from the community regarding what (I should identify as?). I'm a married bi-sexual male but am interested in a poly MFM relationship. From what I understand that would be a "Stag" but I didn't know if there was a more suitable term for a bi-sexual stag as it were.

[warmnsalty]

Labels labels labels. There are some strong opinions about labels not only in this lifestyle but current culture in general. As an older guy I kind of find it all exhausting. Personally I view sex as a spectrum and think people fall all across it. Like you, I'm a bi husband with a hot wife. I've always viewed the lifestyle as basically Hot wife or stag vixen. Hot Wifes fuck for their pleasure and hubby/bf get enjoyment from her extra play, they don't usually fuck others. Stag Vixen are more swinger couples both fuck for fun with other people for their and their partners pleasure. Cuck is a whole other subset. There are aspects to cuck play that we engage in, others that we don't. I think labels help initially when starting a conversation but as the discussion evolves it's important to clearly state your desires and ask the same of your potential partners. The label is the ice breaker, the many variations of play that you discuss is the important stuff. Labels can simply open the door... or close one depending on the other persons view of said label. Just one guys "humble" opinion. Above all communicate and have fun.

[DangerandBunny]

Warmnsalty, thanks for the response and the feedback. I believe above all else, safety and comfort are paramount.

[SensualDeviant]

Identifying yourself as bi saves you and others time and hurt feelings. There are many, such as myself, who would not want to include a bi male and would be upset to learn about this after the fact.

[DangerandBunny]

SensualDeviant, thanks for the response. I agree that some would be put off by the idea which is why I want to be up front with someone I were to meet.

[sana9889]

I think you need to be slightly bisexual to be ok with your wife being with other guys. Your share your wife and get pleasure from her experience. If you had a pussy, would you have gone out yourself or with her.

Next level is getting physically involved. You kiss her after he does. You touch her after he does. His fluids have touched her or been in her. You get the remains.. even if its after a few days.

Would you join them and let him touch and use you like a girl?

[sana9889]

Don't be embarrassed. Different ppl have different natures.

[Hotwife_57]

My husband is bisexual and I guess I am a rare woman who is really turned on by male bisexuality. I love the fact that he is so open and sexual. We are who we are and don't care much for labels, but we advertise ourselves as a Hotwife/Vixen with a bisexual husband. Puts it right up front. My hubby adores women as much as any "straight" guy, he's a huge female ass man lol, but also has this added dimension that I find quite alluring.

Mrs. Hotwife_57

[dinoo]

I think you need to be slightly bisexual to be ok with your wife being with other guys. Your share your wife and get pleasure from her experience.

At least that is how my wife thought about it.

I am very happy that she was able to convince me to give her this pleasure.
It made her overjoyed. And what more could I wish for?

[BBCfan]

Hello, I was wondering if I could get some insight from the community regarding what (I should identify as?). I'm a married bi-sexual male but am interested in a poly MFM relationship. From what I understand that would be a "Stag" but I didn't know if there was a more suitable term for a bi-sexual stag as it were.

I've thought about this too although I don't identify as Bi.

Although a wannabe that has sucked a few dicks, I consider that more fetishism play in the past, and would only want MFM in a more stag environment.
I would think my past experiences would not matter as I would want no contact with wife's lover as I want it to be all about her and get my enjoyment through compersion.

If you're looking for MFM and not MMF I think it shouldn't matter?

[Desiplayer]

Hello, I was wondering if I could get some insight from the community regarding what (I should identify as?). I'm a married bi-sexual male but am interested in a poly MFM relationship. From what I understand that would be a "Stag" but I didn't know if there was a more suitable term for a bi-sexual stag as it were.

Try not to attached labels as many have said. There is nothing wrong with being bisexual. My wife converted me bi fully ..my wife is turned on by mm and that’s reason she wants me this way. I’m also now fully addicted mm encounters and my experience with mm are full intimate sex from kissing, forplay , sucking and back and forth fucking …this also bring my gay side too …but I’m not bothered by that ….as I’m also turned on by hot women and pussy. I get hard for both sex ….

I enjoy solo mm and with wife threesome as well
I service wife’s lovers frequently and I look forward to it.

Not only I check out sexy babes and who comes my way or about on the streets stores places etc …but my eyes and alerts is open to checking out some sexy hunks as well…

Enjoy how you see it
I jus wish this bias, stereotypes and homo are not being judged…I have huge respect for ppl who are publicly enjoying in open their bi or homo life

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

I think you need to be slightly bisexual to be ok with your wife being with other guys. Your share your wife and get pleasure from her experience. If you had a pussy, would you have gone out yourself or with her.

I agree with sana, here.

I think there’s a little bit of “bi-thrill” in all of us stags. After all we get excited watching/knowing our wives and girlfriends get off on another guy’s dick. Appreciating what another man’s dick can do with the women we love so much is, I guess, a very subtle first step toward bi-sexuality. (I’m just spit-ballin’ here, folks. Forgive me if I’m missing something obvious.)

I agree with other commenters here, too, that the “label game” is exhausting. I feel like there are as many varieties of sexuality as there are people. We’re all different (and similar) in countless ways.

I can say that I appreciate your self-label. It puts it right out there where everyone knows what they’re getting into.

[Dutchpride7]

Bull perspective....
Dammit,I just thought I know you all dont like that term,and I myself do not really care for it myself and need to start putting just "Me" I dont know if "Buck" is any different. I just thought of a good one that I like is for me just to put ("Me" not B). Tell me what you all think of that? Thank-you!
Like the very 1st post I read and agreed a lot with that gentlemans opinion & observations.
Labels,labels,labels. And I feel and believe what difference does it make AS LONG as you CLARIFY what your into,what you like or may not like and really discuss and find everything out.
Because I myself am very particular as to whom Im with and consider others to be as such too. Why? Would I wanna be with someone or Anyone that isnt into the same kinks,or sexual desires & pleasures as I am.
I mean for me too completely enjoy and not only myself but more so the hotwife or stag or cuck, I make sure that I question and find out whomever I might be with that they are totally into the samethings that I am into for all 3 of us to completely enjoy the experience to the fullest and get everything out of it for everyones own & unique pleasure. That is how to fully work together as a team(3).
The greatest and most awesome form of friendship,sharing,giving,& enjoying our sexual desires & pleasures is when the 3 work so well as a team that each one is seekimg to make sure thee other one is dialed in and when its done in a way & fashion as this,thee old addage- its a Win,Win,Win. For each and all. And the sense of friendship,unity & bonding is exhilerating & just "off the hook" Awesome,feeling & the vibe is real & genuine.And you will all 3 know it...
Appreciate to share & even more so too read from others! Yowzza...

[bowlerlb]

I think it is best if we all get away from labels, and just enjoy our time together. I have been with couples where they have said that hubby is bi or bi-curious, cleans up and sucks cock. I have been with others where hubby says no contact, etc. When it gets exciting and everyone is aroused I have found that either way, hubby gets to taste and enjoy creampie and if the wife asks, they all are fairly quick to feel my cock in their mouth. They all come to enjoy it regardless of how they label themselves. Once they have tried it they are hooked. A survey on this site shows that 90% of the responses to this question said that they would cleanup and suck cock if the wife or lover requested it and most identified as straight.

[Dutchpride7]

I have to say NO MATTER what It doesnt bother me and I appreciate it immensely after fucking hotwife,to get cleaned up by the hubbie is an awesome feeling in the fact that he desires to and wants to and I so appreciate it immensely. That is so exhilerating to me after just completely draining myself to get cleaned up by hubbie.
But that only works out in complete joy and satisfaction is because he desires and wants that and I myself look forward to it and completely lavish in it myself. Now if someone didnt want or desire that then I myself wouldnt want that for tbem either. How could someone even enjoy something if they didnt want it? And I would dare never put myself i.n ANY situation where it wasnt just dezired for me,but for EVERYONE. That is thee ONLY way I could completely relax and really let loose All my inambitions and just really feel so comfortable and enjoy the experience and best orgasms,nuts,creamies,unloading my nut nectar all up in a hot wet pussie and it feels so fucking good that just getting cleaned up my breathing is felt like a weight has been lifted off me,and Im still jittery and feels just unbrelievably awesome as my balls are being licked & drained of every bit of nut nectar,being Im so relieved of all my energy & relaxed although that feelimg is still intense on my nut sack,which I like and lavish in so very muxh.
There is no use in doing ANYTHING especially good sex if your not prepared mentally,relaxed,comfortable,to just let your inhibitions go!

[John Ryan]

The wife was Bisexual when we met back in college at UMass Amherst. The area was a hot bed for LGB. I was straight and told her upfront she didn't mind. She did say however if we become serious she won't give up the LS. Being a young AF Veteran I had a few MFF relationship. The fact watching and participating with two willing woman is a man's fantasy. She was the force behind me having fellatio with another man. She said "what is good for the Goose (Her) is good for the Gander (me) thus the beginning on a new path for me to explore.

[SensualDeviant]

I think you need to be slightly bisexual to be ok with your wife being with other guys.

False, and I'm sick of the "bi male activists" pushing this narrative here. You're worse than evangelical Christians.

[John Ryan]

To each their own

[John Ryan]

To each their own

[bighelmet]

considering my online perv wannabe fantasy life i think i would potentially identify as a bi stag

[John Ryan]

Nothing wrong with that. Do what makes you feel good.

[bighelmet]

Nothing wrong with that. Do what makes you feel good.

trust me.. i do

[John Ryan]

Good for you. I like your screen name!!!

[atxbim]

I’m bisexual and have been meeting with other men a couple times a year for the last several years to suck their cocks. I guess I have an oral fetish. All the times I’ve done it with my wife’s knowledge and approval. Just recently she has expressed an interest in joining me and did in my last encounter. It couldn’t have gone any better as we had a lot of fun sharing his cock. She didn’t fuck him that time, but we are planning on meeting him again, and I’m thinking she is about ready to enter the hotwife lifestyle.