Married men vs Single men pros/cons

[Her number1]

This is like so many other things in life; it's a personal decision.
It's easy for some to take the position that fucking a married man is wrong, and just as easy for others to say it's not on them. Moral problem, not really when one realizes that we all break certain laws and rules of society. It's just that each of us has a different rule, law, expectation, that we are willing to cross.
The problem is when we want to hold our standards as the best when we don't do everything "right". But it's easier to judge someone else.
Farmgirl has seen single and married, but the married far outnumber the singles. Married men are, to her, and I agree, simply safer all the way around.

Safer for who?

Sorry, I didn't see this until now.
For everyone involved.

[GenerallySpeaking]

This is like so many other things in life; it's a personal decision.
It's easy for some to take the position that fucking a married man is wrong, and just as easy for others to say it's not on them. Moral problem, not really when one realizes that we all break certain laws and rules of society. It's just that each of us has a different rule, law, expectation, that we are willing to cross.
The problem is when we want to hold our standards as the best when we don't do everything "right". But it's easier to judge someone else.
Farmgirl has seen single and married, but the married far outnumber the singles. Married men are, to her, and I agree, simply safer all the way around.

Safer for who?

Sorry, I didn't see this until now.
For everyone involved.

Safer for the wife of the man who's being cheated on?

[luvwives999]

This is like so many other things in life; it's a personal decision.
It's easy for some to take the position that fucking a married man is wrong, and just as easy for others to say it's not on them. Moral problem, not really when one realizes that we all break certain laws and rules of society. It's just that each of us has a different rule, law, expectation, that we are willing to cross.
The problem is when we want to hold our standards as the best when we don't do everything "right". But it's easier to judge someone else.
Farmgirl has seen single and married, but the married far outnumber the singles. Married men are, to her, and I agree, simply safer all the way around.

Safer for who?

Sorry, I didn't see this until now.
For everyone involved.

Safer for the wife of the man who's being cheated on?

I would say yes. Far better for him to sleep with a woman who is committed to her husband, than with a single woman, who has no ties.

[sandy691196]

True..

[BritishCuckCpl]

Generally married men. At first when starting to date my wife was strictly "single guys only" for moral reasons but quite quickly that flipped because she found single guys could be quite clingy and want more. Married men are usually looking for nothing more than good sex and friendship and have more in common out of the bedroom to.

[BT2]

My wife prefers married guys who play with their wife's permission. Its safer with married men. But also, she (we) figure that if a man cheats on the person he is to most care about, what other flaws does he have? Could he even be dangerous? I guess we kinda figure that its not likely that he is an upstanding gentleman, the kind we want to take off our clothes and make love with, except for one little thing - he cheats on his wife.

[sandy691196]

My wife prefers married guys who play with their wife's permission. Its safer with married men. But also, she (we) figure that if a man cheats on the person he is to most care about, what other flaws does he have? Could he even be dangerous? I guess we kinda figure that its not likely that he is an upstanding gentleman, the kind we want to take off our clothes and make love with, except for one little thing - he cheats on his wife.

Could this also be because your wife doesn't want you to get ideas of cheating on her?

[Her number1]

Safer for who?

Sorry, I didn't see this until now.
For everyone involved.

Safer for the wife of the man who's being cheated on?

I would say yes. Far better for him to sleep with a woman who is committed to her husband, than with a single woman, who has no ties.

[Her number1]

This is like so many other things in life; it's a personal decision.
It's easy for some to take the position that fucking a married man is wrong, and just as easy for others to say it's not on them. Moral problem, not really when one realizes that we all break certain laws and rules of society. It's just that each of us has a different rule, law, expectation, that we are willing to cross.
The problem is when we want to hold our standards as the best when we don't do everything "right". But it's easier to judge someone else.
Farmgirl has seen single and married, but the married far outnumber the singles. Married men are, to her, and I agree, simply safer all the way around.

Safer for who?

Sorry, I didn't see this until now.
For everyone involved.

Safer for the wife of the man who's being cheated on?

Her included.

[BT2]

Sandy691196, in response to my post re: married men who cheat on their wives, asked if my wife doesn't want me to get any ideas about cheating on her. I had been an fb myself for close to 30 years, always with my wife's prior informed consent. We started out with MFM and FMF threesomes and started including solos, both she and me, a few years after. I intended nothing more in my previous post than what was stated - my wife in later years believed married men to be safer, but doesn't want men who cheat on their wives, again for the reasons stated.

I believe it was a legitimate question posed by Sandy691196. I've read on this Forum, and have even experienced in real life, wives who are hotwives but who do not want their husbands to "play". But, in our case, the answer to his question is "no".

[sandy691196]

For some hotwives.. Who intend to play but her hubby to stay monogamous, the idea of a cheating man can be threatening..

[Mgcouplemn]

We do married men, safer. They are just looking for the sex, that is all we want too. The married guys are usually cleaner and less likely to have issues.

[Jmoney]

My wife enjoys married, they seem willing to be considerate, and understanding of time constraints.

[sandy691196]

Because married men themselves face those same issues. Time constraints, confidentiality, keeping things under wraps..

I as a married man, prefer ONLY married women..