Wife has started looking for her first bull - we are so excited

[Drakebelg]

So after having our first serious conversation a full year ago, and probably about 20 talks during the year, my wife f54 said yesterday she definetly wants to start searching for a bull.

She told me she has started checking out men from our day to day life in a sexual way and it turns her on. I explained that this is a good example of how just telling me this turns me on. I also told her that she clearly flirted with our bank manager and I loved it. She said she found him hot. HMMM..... I love that she is doing this also when I am there.

She will do the searching for a bull online and keep her eyes open in her day to day life.
My involvment will be just helping with app accounts setup etc..
She will talk about it with a female friend who is single but is sexually active via online dating with multiple FWB's.
For the first date she would like to meet him for a coffee or a drink with me nearby.
For a second date I will drop her off and wait nearby in the car or bar for a few hours.
She will use a condom but let him cum on her body so I can can wash her off.
We agreed that she needs to give me some feedback information on how it went and how it felt.
We will have a reconnect and aftercare.
Maybe down the road she might ask me to watch.

This morning she told me to massage her and then fuck her with a big cock sleeve to 2 intense orgasms. I was then allowed to cum in her (15 seconds later lol).
She then told me that she made a tinder account last night, just after our talk and is checking out SDC as another option.

It's very hot that she's getting so comfortable with the idea. A year ago she was pissed with me when I first suggested it. But now she says things like:
-yeah of course I'm going to find some guys to fuck me,
-lol, if my family knew that I was on tinder when they were messaging me,
-yeah, I'm just going to have a casual talk with my girlfriend (that i also often see) about fucking other guys.......
-he must use a condom but you won't be able to clean the creampie. Do you mind? Hmm, he can just cum on my body.

[stonemtncouple]

Good Luck and enjoy the ride! Sounds like you two are reaping the rewards all ready!

[Pecannut]

Sounds so awesome! Looking forward to hearing how things develops.

[Flcuck4herand]

Im glad you are both involved. We have been on a site that works pretty well. My wife doesn't date and we choose together with her final say. Good luck

[Flcuck4herand]

Im glad you are both involved. We have been on a site that works pretty well. My wife doesn't date and we choose together with her final say. Good luck

[Drakebelg]

I'm happy to be able give a small but very positive update since september.

I'm being a patient hopeful subby cuck never pushing her on it. She really appreciates that.

She will talk about it with a female friend who is single but is very sexually active via online dating with multiple FWB's.
- She just had this talk today with her friend and she said it was good fun, she learned some new things and it's making her feel more comfortable.
- in Belgium her friend said that Tinder is horrible but bumble is pretty good.
- Her friend advised her to go to a swingers club in another province or just an hour away in the Netherlands or France. She is seriously considering this. WOW a few months ago this was a hard no.
- SDC is also a possibility.
- The friend suggest a trio with me but she is still not thinking that way. That's fine by me.
- The friend told her about an FWB that has a room full of sex toys, swings, ride on saddles and my wife was really interested.
- I find it a BIG turn on that a friend of my wife that i also see around knows i am a wishful cuck and didn't bat an eye at it. I'm curious how she will react to me the next time we see eachother.
- my wife realises she can have a happy typical loving family relationship but now also have what her hyper sexual single friend has.
- In december we will be going to a concert in another city and she wants to play single in a bar.

[Long Lurker 34]

I'm happy to be able give a small but very positive update since september.

I'm being a patient hopeful subby cuck never pushing her on it. She really appreciates that.

She will talk about it with a female friend who is single but is very sexually active via online dating with multiple FWB's.
- She just had this talk today with her friend and she said it was good fun, she learned some new things and it's making her feel more comfortable.
- in Belgium her friend said that Tinder is horrible but bumble is pretty good.
- Her friend advised her to go to a swingers club in another province or just an hour away in the Netherlands or France. She is seriously considering this. WOW a few months ago this was a hard no.
- SDC is also a possibility.
- The friend suggest a trio with me but she is still not thinking that way. That's fine by me.
- The friend told her about an FWB that has a room full of sex toys, swings, ride on saddles and my wife was really interested.
- I find it a BIG turn on that a friend of my wife that i also see around knows i am a wishful cuck and didn't bat an eye at it. I'm curious how she will react to me the next time we see eachother.
- my wife realises she can have a happy typical loving family relationship but now also have what her hyper sexual single friend has.
- In december we will be going to a concert in another city and she wants to play single in a bar.

DB
- How about being the helpful cuck hubby. When you and your FutureHW are out and about, you could have some mild fun pointing out guys, to each other, that she finds as eye candy.

[Drakebelg]

I'm happy to be able give a small but very positive update since september.

I'm being a patient hopeful subby cuck never pushing her on it. She really appreciates that.

She will talk about it with a female friend who is single but is very sexually active via online dating with multiple FWB's.
- She just had this talk today with her friend and she said it was good fun, she learned some new things and it's making her feel more comfortable.
- in Belgium her friend said that Tinder is horrible but bumble is pretty good.
- Her friend advised her to go to a swingers club in another province or just an hour away in the Netherlands or France. She is seriously considering this. WOW a few months ago this was a hard no.
- SDC is also a possibility.
- The friend suggest a trio with me but she is still not thinking that way. That's fine by me.
- The friend told her about an FWB that has a room full of sex toys, swings, ride on saddles and my wife was really interested.
- I find it a BIG turn on that a friend of my wife that i also see around knows i am a wishful cuck and didn't bat an eye at it. I'm curious how she will react to me the next time we see eachother.
- my wife realises she can have a happy typical loving family relationship but now also have what her hyper sexual single friend has.
- In december we will be going to a concert in another city and she wants to play single in a bar.

DB
- How about being the helpful cuck hubby. When you and your FutureHW are out and about, you could have some mild fun pointing out guys, to each other, that she finds as eye candy.

We already do that. She is now really getting into the practicalities of finding a bull and asking a nearby friend is smart and sexy.

[Drakebelg]

Update: Since Jan 2nd she is on bumble premium but has only liked a few guys. They didn't like her her back so no match yet. I told her that a lot of guys on Bumble might not be into the dating/meeting a married woman. She doesn't want to go on tinder, SDC, fetlife. I won't push her, but to be honest it's going to take a loooong time if you only likes 1 guy a week. But, I really am keeping my mouth shut and not pushing her at all, it's difficult though.
Her profile text is also suggestive instead of being clear. In my opinion it might tun guys away because of it not being clear, but again, this is what she wants.

So yeah, it will be slow and still a good chance nothing will happen, but it's exciting not knowing and hoping.

Otherwise I'm 21 days locked, denied and teased a bit. She says she lost the key.....
She also loved a sexy caption "prejacs don't deserve pussy" and she's going through some info about me being a cuckold and pussyfree...... very scary but exciting.

[Long Lurker 34]

Update: Since Jan 2nd she is on bumble premium but has only liked a few guys. They didn't like her her back so no match yet. I told her that a lot of guys on Bumble might not be into the dating/meeting a married woman. She doesn't want to go on tinder, SDC, fetlife. I won't push her, but to be honest it's going to take a loooong time if you only likes 1 guy a week. But, I really am keeping my mouth shut and not pushing her at all, it's difficult though.
Her profile text is also suggestive instead of being clear. In my opinion it might tun guys away because of it not being clear, but again, this is what she wants.

So yeah, it will be slow and still a good chance nothing will happen, but it's exciting not knowing and hoping.

Otherwise I'm 21 days locked, denied and teased a bit. She says she lost the key.....
She also loved a sexy caption "prejacs don't deserve pussy" and she's going through some info about me being a cuckold and pussyfree...... very scary but exciting.

DB
- Is there any chance she would be open to finding a guy in the "wild"?

[Ocucknhw77]

So after having our first serious conversation a full year ago, and probably about 20 talks during the year, my wife f54 said yesterday she definetly wants to start searching for a bull.

She told me she has started checking out men from our day to day life in a sexual way and it turns her on. I explained that this is a good example of how just telling me this turns me on. I also told her that she clearly flirted with our bank manager and I loved it. She said she found him hot. HMMM..... I love that she is doing this also when I am there.

She will do the searching for a bull online and keep her eyes open in her day to day life.
My involvment will be just helping with app accounts setup etc..
She will talk about it with a female friend who is single but is sexually active via online dating with multiple FWB's.
For the first date she would like to meet him for a coffee or a drink with me nearby.
For a second date I will drop her off and wait nearby in the car or bar for a few hours.
She will use a condom but let him cum on her body so I can can wash her off.
We agreed that she needs to give me some feedback information on how it went and how it felt.
We will have a reconnect and aftercare.
Maybe down the road she might ask me to watch.

This morning she told me to massage her and then fuck her with a big cock sleeve to 2 intense orgasms. I was then allowed to cum in her (15 seconds later lol).
She then told me that she made a tinder account last night, just after our talk and is checking out SDC as another option.

It's very hot that she's getting so comfortable with the idea. A year ago she was pissed with me when I first suggested it. But now she says things like:
-yeah of course I'm going to find some guys to fuck me,
-lol, if my family knew that I was on tinder when they were messaging me,
-yeah, I'm just going to have a casual talk with my girlfriend (that i also often see) about fucking other guys.......
-he must use a condom but you won't be able to clean the creampie. Do you mind? Hmm, he can just cum on my body.

Best of luck to you both! Will be following your progress

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

I'm happy to be able give a small but very positive update since september.

I'm being a patient hopeful subby cuck never pushing her on it. She really appreciates that.

She will talk about it with a female friend who is single but is very sexually active via online dating with multiple FWB's.
- She just had this talk today with her friend and she said it was good fun, she learned some new things and it's making her feel more comfortable.
- in Belgium her friend said that Tinder is horrible but bumble is pretty good.
- Her friend advised her to go to a swingers club in another province or just an hour away in the Netherlands or France. She is seriously considering this. WOW a few months ago this was a hard no.
- SDC is also a possibility.
- The friend suggest a trio with me but she is still not thinking that way. That's fine by me.
- The friend told her about an FWB that has a room full of sex toys, swings, ride on saddles and my wife was really interested.
- I find it a BIG turn on that a friend of my wife that i also see around knows i am a wishful cuck and didn't bat an eye at it. I'm curious how she will react to me the next time we see eachother.
- my wife realises she can have a happy typical loving family relationship but now also have what her hyper sexual single friend has.
- In december we will be going to a concert in another city and she wants to play single in a bar.

The is beyond amazing. I'm so happy both of you are so positive about it. her lady friend will be a big help.

[sandy691196]

So after having our first serious conversation a full year ago, and probably about 20 talks during the year, my wife f54 said yesterday she definetly wants to start searching for a bull.

She told me she has started checking out men from our day to day life in a sexual way and it turns her on. I explained that this is a good example of how just telling me this turns me on. I also told her that she clearly flirted with our bank manager and I loved it. She said she found him hot. HMMM..... I love that she is doing this also when I am there.

She will do the searching for a bull online and keep her eyes open in her day to day life.
My involvment will be just helping with app accounts setup etc..
She will talk about it with a female friend who is single but is sexually active via online dating with multiple FWB's.
For the first date she would like to meet him for a coffee or a drink with me nearby.
For a second date I will drop her off and wait nearby in the car or bar for a few hours.
She will use a condom but let him cum on her body so I can can wash her off.
We agreed that she needs to give me some feedback information on how it went and how it felt.
We will have a reconnect and aftercare.
Maybe down the road she might ask me to watch.

This morning she told me to massage her and then fuck her with a big cock sleeve to 2 intense orgasms. I was then allowed to cum in her (15 seconds later lol).
She then told me that she made a tinder account last night, just after our talk and is checking out SDC as another option.

It's very hot that she's getting so comfortable with the idea. A year ago she was pissed with me when I first suggested it. But now she says things like:
-yeah of course I'm going to find some guys to fuck me,
-lol, if my family knew that I was on tinder when they were messaging me,
-yeah, I'm just going to have a casual talk with my girlfriend (that i also often see) about fucking other guys.......
-he must use a condom but you won't be able to clean the creampie. Do you mind? Hmm, he can just cum on my body.

This is so hot!

How is it going with the bank manager? Isn't picking him up an easier bet than what she is doing now on bumble?

It will be hot for you to imagine them together, since you know him personally. And you meeting him later, on business, after he has fucked your wife, will be double hot!

And he being a mature, senior professional, is likely to keep an "affair" under wraps..

Wanna try him?

[Drakebelg]

I'm afraid she didn't take it further with the bank manager.

She's on bumble premium and taking it slowly. As a highschool teacher it's really busy until end of this week with exams and then she will have more time. I've learnt not to push but to encourage and reassure her.

She's loving the tease and denial at the moment. I'm 23 days locked and denied. She's really getting into it this time. Yesterday she said I miss your penis and I was sure she would unlock me. Nope. She got out of bed and had a good giggle about it. This morning I had to more or less fist her and then in spoons fuck her with the cage to orgasm. I couldn't feel anything but discomfort.
I told her about my dream (true) of her showing me bumble matches. She said I hope so.
We live near the french border so with bumble travel she is seeing if she could meet french men. She loves the freedom and adventure idea.

She's also thinking about connecting with her fwb before she met me. He was an amazing lover, had a huge perfect cock and loves free women.
Lol I'm almost shaking here from writing it and after 23 days....

[sandy691196]

FWB from before she met you?

That must be a decades old story? Is rekindling an old flame, the right thing to do?

She is not interested in trying things out organically? She does have a control fetish.. right? Does she like junior men?

[sandy691196]

Ever tried the Brussels Pub Crawl? I hear there is a lot of action possible for an attractive lady, playing single?

[Drakebelg]

FWB from before she met you?

That must be a decades old story? Is rekindling an old flame, the right thing to do?

She is not interested in trying things out organically? She does have a control fetish.. right? Does she like junior men?

I met her in 2002. She was with him for a year then stopped it a year before she met me. She said it was purely for fucking. He had other fwbs at the same time.

What do you mean organically? Just on a night out? If the situation would happen, yes for sure.
She has set bumble for 25 to 55 and is liking the 45 year olds.

She definitely likes controlling me , and to let go of control with a an fwb is her hope.

[sandy691196]

By organically I mean where she meets men in a natural hook up / pick up type setting. In a club, bar, pub,, at work,, in a mall.. at a party.
Where there is mutual liking. The man thinks she is picking up a cheating wife..

[Drakebelg]

By organically I mean where she meets men in a natural hook up / pick up type setting. In a club, bar, pub,, at work,, in a mall.. at a party.
Where there is mutual liking. The man thinks she is picking up a cheating wife..

I thought you meant that. I am pretty sure she would go for it if it would happen. There are a few things that make it a low possibility.
We are not big nightlife people and if we do there are usually friends with us.
Where we live, Flanders Belgium guys would be in general very carefull and pickups would happen much in daily life.
Her colleagues are 95% women.
She wants to keep this secret so she is very careful locally.

As I said though, if the situation arises I'm sure she would go for it. We might start trying to "create" more chances in how we go out.

[sandy691196]

Creating those chances is the way to go. The attractive dressing, flirtatious demeanor - eye contacts, smiles, 2nd looks, holding someone's gaze. Striking up small conversations with strangers.. You strategically holding back, as she goes in ahead of you.

There are tourists in the Ardennes area. Some looking for hook ups.

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There are tourists in the Ardennes area. Some looking for hook ups.
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He says he lives in Flanders Belgium. Not the Ardennes area.

[Drakebelg]

Creating those chances is the way to go. The attractive dressing, flirtatious demeanor - eye contacts, smiles, 2nd looks, holding someone's gaze. Striking up small conversations with strangers.. You strategically holding back, as she goes in ahead of you.

There are tourists in the Ardennes area. Some looking for hook ups.

I am not going to push her though. I suggest things, but if she doesn't bring it up again i know not to push. She has made it very clear to me that she is in charge and she will do it her way. There are tourists everywhere in Belgium, it's small but well visited.
My wife likes the idea of metting up with a guy in France. We are just 45-1hr away from a few nice sized cities. Every so often she sets he bumble as if she is in one of those cities to see if she gets connections.

[sandy691196]

Great!

[Bboy0804]

Creating those chances is the way to go. The attractive dressing, flirtatious demeanor - eye contacts, smiles, 2nd looks, holding someone's gaze. Striking up small conversations with strangers.. You strategically holding back, as she goes in ahead of you.

There are tourists in the Ardennes area. Some looking for hook ups.

I am not going to push her though. I suggest things, but if she doesn't bring it up again i know not to push. She has made it very clear to me that she is in charge and she will do it her way. There are tourists everywhere in Belgium, it's small but well visited.
My wife likes the idea of metting up with a guy in France. We are just 45-1hr away from a few nice sized cities. Every so often she sets he bumble as if she is in one of those cities to see if she gets connections.

Hier in Vlaanderen kan je misschien ook je goesting vinden?

[Drakebelg]

She's kind of pulled back due to other family stuff.

But, for the first time in 2 hours time she is going for a 2 hour tantra massage from a naked man that was recommended by a girlfriend. A happy ending is guaranteed if she wants it.

She is nervous but excited to be kind of sexually with someone else than me since 2001.

We've also bought a new high quality sleeve and sex is almost always with the sleeve. She wanted a deep intentense pounding in doggy this morning. My pe seems to be getting worse. Im always cumming in the sleeve window a minute or 2 but luckily she doesn't notice.
I hope she has a great time and it opens her up to more.