Wife on a date tonight!

[54321]

Ah well. Each to their own.

54321

[Johnann2227]

Ah well. Each to their own.

54321

Yes. We have seen a few ladies wearing them at parties and they certainly get attention. One lady like to get fucked doggy style while her lover pulled on her tail.

[Johnann2227]

We arrived this morning at our retreat for the next four nights. The trip up here took about 2.5 hours with Ann in the front with me and Tracey with James in the back the car was loaded with cartons of beer, wine and eskys (ice boxes) of meat, seafood, cheeses etc. We brought only the clothes we are wearing (which we will wear home), lingerie for the ladies, toys, lube and makeup, body lotions etc. As we have rented all of the cabins on the property we are nude for the next four days.

Even though most of us have been here before , we had still forgotten how beautiful the area is. There were kangaroos on the lawn when we arrived and cockatoos everywhere. John and Fiona had arrived before us and met the estate manager for the keys etc so when we arrived it was nude town. We quickly stripped naked at the car and then James and I carried everything into our cabin. The girls went about organising the storage of the food, drinks etc. After about 45 minutes we were done and we oiled each other, grabbed our towels and headed to the pool area. John and Fiona were there tanning and Troy and Jenny were swimming. We greeted everyone and settled done to tan. It has been great so far.

[Johnann2227]

Our first day was fantastic. 29 degrees, sunny, blue sky. 18 nude adults enjoying each other's company. We tanned, played in the pool and had sex, sometimes with our own partners.
About 5.30pm all of the girls decided it was time to get ready for dinner and the night. They all headed off to the cabins leaving us guys to have another cold beer and set up. We cleaned off the BBQ, set up the tables and chairs and grabbed the meat/seafood etc. About 7.15pm we looked and saw the wives walking together back to the pool/ BBQ area. They had done their hair and makeup, were all wearing 4 inch strappy stilletoes and had the same lingerie on- 1/4 cup white lace bra with a pearl front white g-string. All of the guys cheered and clapped the girls. They look hot being so tanned with the white lingerie.

I walked up to Ann and gave her a deep kiss. James came and did the same. Her pearl g-string was splitting her pussy lips apart and they looked like the wings of a butterfly. We got the girls glasses of champagne and started cooking the food. James and the other boyfriends went and got the cutlery, salads etc.

Dinner was fantastic and the conversation was fun. We put on some music and danced under the stars, with the ladies moving onto a new partner at the end of each song. Soon everyone was groping and the party really started. I saw Ann sucking on Troy's cock while one of the boyfroends fucked her from behind. Later I saw her in a 69 with Jenny and then layer I saw her sandwiched between Scott and James. About 1am we all headed back to the cabins, not everyone with their partner.

[marine20]

since the women have no trouble with bisexuality , i wonder if the men ever engage ?

[Johnann2227]

since the women have no trouble with bisexuality , i wonder if the men ever engage ?

Hi,
At home I now suck James's cock daily when I clean him after he has fucked Ann. I fuck him a couple of times a week as he is a bottom and loves it. He sucks my cock almost daily and kisses me. I now enjoy sex with James but have no interest in dating him or any other guy.

In our group all of the men are comfortsble with male touch. They have also enjoyed blow jobs from James. Most of us have sucked cock and enjoyed it in the group sex situation.

The ladies are different in that over the years they have all had girlfriends that they dated separately to their marriages and our swinger group. Ann has dated a number of women where I had no involvement, one for three years. They would go on dates, hold hanfs while shopping together and Ann would sleep over at her house. She even had a tooth brush, clothes etc in her side of the wardrobe.

[Johnann2227]

Happy New Year to you all! I hope 2025 is a healthy one for you and your wives fuck as many other men as possible. Here's to our beautiful hotwives whose pleasure we live for.

[Johnann2227]

Our New Year's Eve party was fantastic! We cooked seafood, drank alcohol and danced nude under the stars. It is just so liberating being nude amongst friends and enjoying each others' bodies. We had set up a few ipads around the pool area so that we could watch the Sydney fireworks.

At 11.55pm we all filled our glasses with Moet champagne ready for the countdown to 2025. Ann was cuddled up against me and James was next to her. I heard James say into her ear, "I can't wait to push my big cock into your tight, wet cunt at the stroke of midnight". Ann was stroking his cock while he said that. I tensed a bit to hear her response. Ever since we started swinging in our early 20s, I always had the privilege of being the first cock into Ann that year. It is our tradition. So when James made this claim I hesitated to see whether this was another change for me to accept.

I heard Ann say back to James, "Babe, John's is always the first cock to fuck me each year, it is our tradition".
James stood back and said petulantly, "But I own this cunt and I am going to fuck it first".
I was about to say something but Ann put her hand against my chest in a sign to let her deal with this. She said, "James, you do own my pussy but John always fucks me first. You will fuck me second. Yours will be the first cock I suck each year".

I stood there waiting to see how James would respond. Even though he was pretty drunk, Ann's tone got through to him that she was in charge and back off. James nodded and said sorry to Ann. He then nodded to me.

I turned Ann towards me and hugged her and said, "I love you and thank you."
Ann spoke into my ear and said, "You have always been my love and will always come first." We had a long hug and both shed a few tears.

Our friends then began counting down. Ann quickly pushed me back on a sun lounger and sat on my cock. We were fucking on the stroke of midnight. I saw James watching and called him over. I said, "Happy New Year James. Our wife would love to suck your cock." James nodded and then knelt beside me. He looked at me and said, "I'm sorry John for disrespecting you."
He then leant in and kissed me passionately.
After a bit I lifted James by his arm and pulled his cock to Ann's face. She swallowed his cock immediately while she rode mine.

[Johnann2227]

About 1am we all headed back to our cabins. As usual Ann slept between James and I. In the morning I was woken by a warm mouth sucking my cock. I yawned, stretched and looked down to see James deepthroating my cock. When he saw that I was awake he stood and asked me to fuck him. He said, "You are the first to fuck Ann each year and I want the same tradition. I want your cock to fuck me first each year".

Ann had woken as well as squealed and quickly grabbed the lube. James lay back on the bed and spread his legs. Ann put a pillow under his arse and finger him with lube. She then covered my cock with lube and guided me to James's hole.

I pressed my cock against his ring and he hungrily pushed his hip up at me. I felt the "pop" and I was in. I pushed further until I was balls deep. I started a slow rhythm letting his hungry arse get stretched. Ann climbed on James's face and ground his clit on his chin.

After fucking James for a while I decided to really punish his arsehole. I turned onto his hands and knees and pushed hard into him. I love fucking James doggy and really slammed into him. Ann lay under him suckibg his cock and soon James came in her mouth. I kept slamming James's arse until I felt my balls start to tighten. I then sped up and pushed it deep coming in his arse.

[Slimslav]

Two weeks since the last update, has anything interesting happened to you or your children? Are you watching the Australian Open?

[Johnann2227]

Two weeks since the last update, has anything interesting happened to you or your children? Are you watching the Australian Open?

Hi,
Life is good with us all. Ann is on school holidays and spends her days going to the gym and tanning around our pool. James is back at work and I am, as usual, working from home. This has given me a lot more time with Ann on our own which has been nice. James is still fucking her before he goes to work and again at night when we go to bed. But during my lunchbreak Ann and I are having some quality one-on-one lovemaking and have solidly reconnected. Ann has even suggested that she and I go away for a weekend to our favourite nude resort.

Ann still deeply loves James and is stoked that he lives with us. She refers to him as her husband. Ann has decided that when school resumes at the end of January, she will go by her new hyphenated surname at work (James's surname then mine). She will tell colleagues that she is using her maiden name and our married name. Amongst family she will still just use my surname.

We are still partying with our group every Saturday night and having a blast. Wendy and Scott are playing with us all at a lot of our parties as well. We are discussing whether we invite them to join our group and go bareback with us all like Tracey has. Wendy has had a couple of dates with guys she met in bars and the gym and, to Scott's great delight, came home the next day doing "the walk of shame".

They are still having trouble with their kids not liking their new mother. Their daughter criticises everything Wendy wears saying things like, "Are you really going shopping in those high heels and mini skirt? You look like a hooker!"


Our adult kids are great and are both away at the moment. Our son has gone camping and 4wd with some mates. They love going off grid and remote. He has taken his favourite fwb daughter from our swinger group. She is also disgusted that her mother has pierced her belly button and nipples. She also hates that Wendy, and Scott when he is not at work, are tanning nude at home. If things don't improve I think they are going to ask her to move out. It is a sad siuation. I cannot imagine how their daughter will erupt if she finds out her mother is now a hotwife and actively fucking other men with her father's approval and support.

Our daughter has gone to Fiji for a week with her girlfriend. They are inseperable and in love. Our daughter is now openly bisexual and our extended family are supportive. Her girlfriend and her though still have a favourite fwb (Jenny and Troy's son) who stays over at least once a week and, from the sounds of things, fucks them well. Having seen his 9 inch cock erect at one of our parties I think it is safe to say our daughter is a size queen.

No, we haven't watched the Australian Open tennis. We aren't tennis fans.

[Johnann2227]

We are in a bit of damage control at the moment.
Ann caught the train into the city to meet James for lunch, do some shopping and then catch the train home with him.

I dropped her off at the train station and she looked gorgeous. A mid thigh, spaghetti strap white sundress which under undernesth she was wearing a white pushup bra with a matching thong. She wore her three inch wedges and her anklet of course. With her deep tan she look fabulous!

Ann met James at his work where he introduced her to some of his colleagues as, "This is my wife Ann". Ann said she loved that. They then left holding hands to grab some lunch and sit in Hyde Park. Ann said that as they were walking holding hands she ran into a teacher she works with. They aren't "close close" but she has met me at a few staff functions and knew that the young stud Ann was holding hands with wasn't me.

Ann said that she didn't know what to say but James just stepped forward and introduced himself as "James". Ann said this other teacher, Maree, chatted about the holidays and going back to work etc. but kept looking back at James with a curious look. Eventually they parted ways and Ann and James had lunch.

So it seems that Maree will assume that either Ann and I are split up or Ann is having an affair. As a family we talked about it over dinner but we haven't come up with a great plan. Our daughter thinks Ann should call Maree and set up a "coffee chat" and basically say that we have an open marriage but don't tell her that James is her second husband and lives with us.
Our son thinks Ann should just say to Maree if anything is said, "Fuck off it is none of your business". The thought processes of a 19 year old boy!

Any thoughts on how we should handle this? Can we be as lucky as we were when Wendy spotted Ann and James?

[Long Lurker 34]

We are in a bit of damage control at the moment.
Ann caught the train into the city to meet James for lunch, do some shopping and then catch the train home with him.

I dropped her off at the train station and she looked gorgeous. A mid thigh, spaghetti strap white sundress which under undernesth she was wearing a white pushup bra with a matching thong. She wore her three inch wedges and her anklet of course. With her deep tan she look fabulous!

Ann met James at his work where he introduced her to some of his colleagues as, "This is my wife Ann". Ann said she loved that. They then left holding hands to grab some lunch and sit in Hyde Park. Ann said that as they were walking holding hands she ran into a teacher she works with. They aren't "close close" but she has met me at a few staff functions and knew that the young stud Ann was holding hands with wasn't me.

Ann said that she didn't know what to say but James just stepped forward and introduced himself as "James". Ann said this other teacher, Maree, chatted about the holidays and going back to work etc. but kept looking back at James with a curious look. Eventually they parted ways and Ann and James had lunch.

So it seems that Maree will assume that either Ann and I are split up or Ann is having an affair. As a family we talked about it over dinner but we haven't come up with a great plan. Our daughter thinks Ann should call Maree and set up a "coffee chat" and basically say that we have an open marriage but don't tell her that James is her second husband and lives with us.
Our son thinks Ann should just say to Maree if anything is said, "Fuck off it is none of your business". The thought processes of a 19 year old boy!

Any thoughts on how we should handle this? Can we be as lucky as we were when Wendy spotted Ann and James?

JA2227
- I would go with your Daughter's take on it.

[pixmangurn]

Could this potentially cause Ann problems at her job? If Ann feels she needs to explain maybe a combination of both kid's response: "It's really none of your business, but we're in a completely open and honest relationship that we are ALL happy and comfortable with. End of discussion." If she is genuinely curious and not condemning, Ann could choose to fill her in as much as she feels comfortable with.

[Johnann2227]

We are in a bit of damage control at the moment.
Ann caught the train into the city to meet James for lunch, do some shopping and then catch the train home with him.

I dropped her off at the train station and she looked gorgeous. A mid thigh, spaghetti strap white sundress which under undernesth she was wearing a white pushup bra with a matching thong. She wore her three inch wedges and her anklet of course. With her deep tan she look fabulous!

Ann met James at his work where he introduced her to some of his colleagues as, "This is my wife Ann". Ann said she loved that. They then left holding hands to grab some lunch and sit in Hyde Park. Ann said that as they were walking holding hands she ran into a teacher she works with. They aren't "close close" but she has met me at a few staff functions and knew that the young stud Ann was holding hands with wasn't me.

Ann said that she didn't know what to say but James just stepped forward and introduced himself as "James". Ann said this other teacher, Maree, chatted about the holidays and going back to work etc. but kept looking back at James with a curious look. Eventually they parted ways and Ann and James had lunch.

So it seems that Maree will assume that either Ann and I are split up or Ann is having an affair. As a family we talked about it over dinner but we haven't come up with a great plan. Our daughter thinks Ann should call Maree and set up a "coffee chat" and basically say that we have an open marriage but don't tell her that James is her second husband and lives with us.
Our son thinks Ann should just say to Maree if anything is said, "Fuck off it is none of your business". The thought processes of a 19 year old boy!

Any thoughts on how we should handle this? Can we be as lucky as we were when Wendy spotted Ann and James?

JA2227
- I would go with your Daughter's take on it.

Yes, our daughter seems to be a diplomatic than our son.

[Johnann2227]

Could this potentially cause Ann problems at her job? If Ann feels she needs to explain maybe a combination of both kid's response: "It's really none of your business, but we're in a completely open and honest relationship that we are ALL happy and comfortable with. End of discussion." If she is genuinely curious and not condemning, Ann could choose to fill her in as much as she feels comfortable with.

Hi,
If Maree told other staff, professionally Ann is ok as it would appear to be be merely an affair. It would be a whispered bit of gossip but nothing to do with her department.

If, however, the whole truth of our lifestyle came out and became known and spread around it would only take someone to report her to the department for them to react. At the very least she may be transferred to another school and counselled on behaviour unbecoming to a teacher to possibly being sacked and struck of the teachers' register for behaviour not appropriate to being in contact for children.

This would be a completely bullshit move as Ann is the most professional, dedicated, passionate teacher a parent could ever want to teach their child. She has turned down the promotion pathway a number of times as she believes it would impact negatively on her ability to be the best teacher she can be. She is constantly learning in her own time and has completed her Masters of Education. She mentors beginning teachers at her school.

We have known for her whole career how narrow minded people can be and so have hidden our nudism, swinging and hotwifing. We have been at swingers clubs and seen parents from her school arrive and we have quickly dressed and left rather than be seen. Once at a swingers' club we actually met a teacher from a school in Ann's area and the conversation was about "Imagine if our schools found out?"

We have decided that Ann will call Maree and see if she can meet Ann for lunch. She lives about 30 minutes from us. Ann is going to tell her what we believe she needs to satisfy her curiosity.
Basically, Ann is going to tell Maree that she is dating James with my knowledge and permission. She is going to say that she met him at the gym and has been seeing him for about 6 months. Ann is going to tell Maree that after 26 years of marriage things have got stale and while we love each other the excitement has died.
Ann is going to tell Maree that I know James and get on well with him. While a lot of this is not true it sounds believable and hopefully something she can relate to.

Ann will not mention our nudism, swinging, her bisexuality, hotwifing, gang bangs or even James actually living with us as her second husband.

A problem will be Ann's decision to use a hyphenated surname at work this year (which I support and am turned on about). Ann has emailed her principal and told her that she will now be using the name professionally of Mrs Ann @@@@@ - ###### (which is James's surname and then mine).
Ann told her principal that has a sign of respect and a gift for her parents 50th wedding anniversary she would be using her maiden name hyphenated with her married name. Ann's principal was happy for her to do this.

We worry though will Maree see through this excuse? Will she suspect more about our lifestyle?
One thing we agreed on last night was we will not be changing our lifestyle. We are nudists. We are swingers. We love Ann being a hotwife. We love being in a threeway marriage with James.

[pixmangurn]

Thanks for the reply! Wish you all the best for all smooth resolution to this !

[venus-can99]

John, Ann and James - good luck in getting the "issue" resolved

[Johnann2227]

Thank you pixmangurn and venus. Ann has called Maree this morning and are meeting for lunch tomorrow at midday. Ann said Maree was friendly on the phone did agree that catching up for lunch was probably a good idea.
Fingers crossed!

[airhorn]

Ann is going to tell Maree that I know James and get on well with him. While a lot of this is not true it sounds believable and hopefully something she can relate to.

This is not a lie. It is true, as far as it goes. I'd call it deceptive rather than untrue.

[Johnann2227]

Ann is going to tell Maree that I know James and get on well with him. While a lot of this is not true it sounds believable and hopefully something she can relate to.

This is not a lie. It is true, as far as it goes. I'd call it deceptive rather than untrue.

Hi airhorn,
Thanks for your comment. You are correct, it is a deception rather than a lie. The main part that is a lie is that our marriage has lost its excitement. For Ann's sake hopefully Maree will keep this a secret.

[airhorn]

Ann is going to tell Maree that I know James and get on well with him. While a lot of this is not true it sounds believable and hopefully something she can relate to.

This is not a lie. It is true, as far as it goes. I'd call it deceptive rather than untrue.

Hi airhorn,
Thanks for your comment. You are correct, it is a deception rather than a lie. The main part that is a lie is that our marriage has lost its excitement. For Ann's sake hopefully Maree will keep this a secret.

That's a good point. I overlooked the last bit.

Still, I'd say "I know James and get on well with him" is an understatement more than anything. If Maree doesn't see it, that's hardly Ann's fault.

[Johnann2227]

Ann wake up early this morning like a cat on a hot tin roof. This lunch meeting with Maree today has her nervous. When Ann gets nervous she needs a release.

James and I were still asleep (it was 6.20am) when she started jerking our cocks. We awoke to her alternating sucking our cocks. When she saw we were awake she, "About time you two lazy boys woke up. I have so much energy and I need fucking". I reached down and felt her pussy and she was dripping wet. James grabbed Ann by her hips and lifted her astride him. I quickly grabbed his cock and held it upright while Ann lowered herself onto it. She started riding his cock right away. I went to kneel near her head for a blowjob but Ann stopped me and said, "No. I want you to lick my arse and get me ready. I want you to fuck my arse while James fucks my pussy".

I got straight behind her and spread her cheeks. He puckered little rosebud was waiting for some attention. I softly licked around her anus before pushing the tip of my tongue in. Ann moaned and pushed back onto my tongue. I did this for a minute or so and then started massaging her anus with my finger. I reached over and grabbed our lube. Soon I was fingering her arse and she was moaning. I licked James balls while I did it.

Ann soon told me to fuck her arse. James stopped moving and Ann lay forward onto his chest giving me access to her rosebud. I pushed my lubed up cockhead against her rosebud and then felt the "pop" of my cock getting past her sphincter. I let her arse acclimatise to my cock. Soon Ann started pushing back against me and soon my whole cock was buried in her arse. She then sat up a bit and James and I started to slowly work out a rhythm together. It felt great feeling his big cock through the thin membrane in her arse.

We started to really fuck her and Ann was really going off. She was saying, "That's it! Fuck me like the slut I am. Fuck my cunt harder! Fuck my arse harder you bastard!" A number of times we felt her body tense and she orgssmed but she wanted more. Unfortunately I could feel my own orgasm beginning and I told Ann. She demanded that I pull out and cum over her boobs. James then flipped into a diggy and fucked her powerfully. It was such a turn on watching him pound his big, gorgeous cock into Ann. She came again and then James said he was going to cum. Ann told him she wanted it on her face which James did.

The three of us lay gasping for breath. A bit later our daughter and her girlfriend stuck their head inside our bedroom and said, "Fuck mum, wake the neighbour up why don't you!" We laughed and Ann said, "Sorry darling. I am just really nervous about this lunch with Maree today and I need to burn off some of this tension".
Our daughter laughed and said, "Well it looks like you burned Dad and James out. And mum, you had better wash your face before you go out." I headed downstairs to make coffees for everyone. When I came back up Ann and James were just getting out of the shower. Ann told me to hurry up and get cleaned up as we are going to the gym. I looked at James and he just shrugged his shoulders.

I reminded Ann that I had an 8.30 appointment to get new tyres for our car and then a rego check with our mechanic. I watched Ann and James get dressed for the gym and head out. I got dressed and took the car for its appointments.

I got home a couple of hours later and Ann and James were home from the gym. I went upstairs to find Ann once again riding James's cock. She was so pumped up. Soon she orgasmed and James blew his liad in her (which I cleaned up). We lay there talking and Ann had a determined manner about her. She said, "Maree doesn't have to agree with what I am doing but she does have to respect my right to privacy". Good point. She then got up and hopped in the shower again. James and I lay in bed and watched ger put her make up on, rub in her lotions, di her hair and then select her clothes. She selected a pretty summer dress with wedges, and matching black lace lingerie (thong and bra set).

She kissed us both and headed off.

[Freemans892]

Could this potentially cause Ann problems at her job? If Ann feels she needs to explain maybe a combination of both kid's response: "It's really none of your business, but we're in a completely open and honest relationship that we are ALL happy and comfortable with. End of discussion." If she is genuinely curious and not condemning, Ann could choose to fill her in as much as she feels comfortable with.

Hi,
If Maree told other staff, professionally Ann is ok as it would appear to be be merely an affair. It would be a whispered bit of gossip but nothing to do with her department.

If, however, the whole truth of our lifestyle came out and became known and spread around it would only take someone to report her to the department for them to react. At the very least she may be transferred to another school and counselled on behaviour unbecoming to a teacher to possibly being sacked and struck of the teachers' register for behaviour not appropriate to being in contact for children.

This would be a completely bullshit move as Ann is the most professional, dedicated, passionate teacher a parent could ever want to teach their child. She has turned down the promotion pathway a number of times as she believes it would impact negatively on her ability to be the best teacher she can be. She is constantly learning in her own time and has completed her Masters of Education. She mentors beginning teachers at her school.

We have known for her whole career how narrow minded people can be and so have hidden our nudism, swinging and hotwifing. We have been at swingers clubs and seen parents from her school arrive and we have quickly dressed and left rather than be seen. Once at a swingers' club we actually met a teacher from a school in Ann's area and the conversation was about "Imagine if our schools found out?"

We have decided that Ann will call Maree and see if she can meet Ann for lunch. She lives about 30 minutes from us. Ann is going to tell her what we believe she needs to satisfy her curiosity.
Basically, Ann is going to tell Maree that she is dating James with my knowledge and permission. She is going to say that she met him at the gym and has been seeing him for about 6 months. Ann is going to tell Maree that after 26 years of marriage things have got stale and while we love each other the excitement has died.
Ann is going to tell Maree that I know James and get on well with him. While a lot of this is not true it sounds believable and hopefully something she can relate to.

Ann will not mention our nudism, swinging, her bisexuality, hotwifing, gang bangs or even James actually living with us as her second husband.

A problem will be Ann's decision to use a hyphenated surname at work this year (which I support and am turned on about). Ann has emailed her principal and told her that she will now be using the name professionally of Mrs Ann @@@@@ - ###### (which is James's surname and then mine).
Ann told her principal that has a sign of respect and a gift for her parents 50th wedding anniversary she would be using her maiden name hyphenated with her married name. Ann's principal was happy for her to do this.

We worry though will Maree see through this excuse? Will she suspect more about our lifestyle?
One thing we agreed on last night was we will not be changing our lifestyle. We are nudists. We are swingers. We love Ann being a hotwife. We love being in a threeway marriage with James.

This is Australia we are talking about, the Australian Fair Work Act is very tight on what an employer can do. An Australian employer is not able to react to what an employee does to in their personal life. Look at what happen with the Rugby Australia and Israel Folau scandal, the organisation realised they severely “fucked up” with an unfair dismissal, the organisation were going to lose the court case and thus reach a settlement, the CEO resigned and moved another country to continue their career. Ann will be safe with her job.

The Rugby Australia scandal has been a big wake up call for many Australian employers because it cost Rugby Australia dearly and they almost went bankrupt 4 years later.

Just to be sure, both you and Ann should read the Fair Work Act because no principal or department head will tread into a possible minefield if you show that you know the law better they do because they will be concerned that their is job on the line, not Ann’s.

[Johnann2227]

Could this potentially cause Ann problems at her job? If Ann feels she needs to explain maybe a combination of both kid's response: "It's really none of your business, but we're in a completely open and honest relationship that we are ALL happy and comfortable with. End of discussion." If she is genuinely curious and not condemning, Ann could choose to fill her in as much as she feels comfortable with.

Hi,
If Maree told other staff, professionally Ann is ok as it would appear to be be merely an affair. It would be a whispered bit of gossip but nothing to do with her department.

If, however, the whole truth of our lifestyle came out and became known and spread around it would only take someone to report her to the department for them to react. At the very least she may be transferred to another school and counselled on behaviour unbecoming to a teacher to possibly being sacked and struck of the teachers' register for behaviour not appropriate to being in contact for children.

This would be a completely bullshit move as Ann is the most professional, dedicated, passionate teacher a parent could ever want to teach their child. She has turned down the promotion pathway a number of times as she believes it would impact negatively on her ability to be the best teacher she can be. She is constantly learning in her own time and has completed her Masters of Education. She mentors beginning teachers at her school.

We have known for her whole career how narrow minded people can be and so have hidden our nudism, swinging and hotwifing. We have been at swingers clubs and seen parents from her school arrive and we have quickly dressed and left rather than be seen. Once at a swingers' club we actually met a teacher from a school in Ann's area and the conversation was about "Imagine if our schools found out?"

We have decided that Ann will call Maree and see if she can meet Ann for lunch. She lives about 30 minutes from us. Ann is going to tell her what we believe she needs to satisfy her curiosity.
Basically, Ann is going to tell Maree that she is dating James with my knowledge and permission. She is going to say that she met him at the gym and has been seeing him for about 6 months. Ann is going to tell Maree that after 26 years of marriage things have got stale and while we love each other the excitement has died.
Ann is going to tell Maree that I know James and get on well with him. While a lot of this is not true it sounds believable and hopefully something she can relate to.

Ann will not mention our nudism, swinging, her bisexuality, hotwifing, gang bangs or even James actually living with us as her second husband.

A problem will be Ann's decision to use a hyphenated surname at work this year (which I support and am turned on about). Ann has emailed her principal and told her that she will now be using the name professionally of Mrs Ann @@@@@ - ###### (which is James's surname and then mine).
Ann told her principal that has a sign of respect and a gift for her parents 50th wedding anniversary she would be using her maiden name hyphenated with her married name. Ann's principal was happy for her to do this.

We worry though will Maree see through this excuse? Will she suspect more about our lifestyle?
One thing we agreed on last night was we will not be changing our lifestyle. We are nudists. We are swingers. We love Ann being a hotwife. We love being in a threeway marriage with James.

This is Australia we are talking about, the Australian Fair Work Act is very tight on what an employer can do. An Australian employer is not able to react to what an employee does to in their personal life. Look at what happen with the Rugby Australia and Israel Folau scandal, the organisation realised they severely “fucked up” with an unfair dismissal, the organisation were going to lose the court case and thus reach a settlement, the CEO resigned and moved another country to continue their career. Ann will be safe with her job.

Just to be sure, both you and Ann should read the Fair Work Act because no principal or department head will tread into a possible minefield if you show that you know the law better they do because they will be concerned that their is job on the line, not Ann’s.

Thanks for the advice, Freemans. Ann's problem is that her department of education has a staff code of conduct which they can use to discipline or dismiss staff. They could say that she has brought the department into disrepute. If this stays inhouse then nothing would happen. If parents gossiped then there is trouble.