Listen or Watch

[xxxRyno]

Do you prefer to listen to your Hotwife? or watch her?

[Cdncuck]

Watch

[Tank Turner]

Participate.

[Her number1]

By far, listening to her tail tales when she returns! Watching had its special twists; but the mind, waiting to hear creates so much more, and the telling eclipses even that.

[tiedyeHotwife]

I am the WORST at describing sexy events. So bad I feel sorry for my husband.
So he got me a small audio recorder. Can't even count how many times I have failed at turning it on and actually recording anything.
So iphone video has been his favorite - but I fail to capture the best moments.

I had one date where the guy was totally into filming.
I setup the iphone on its stand and thought I hit record. It was in photo mode so all I got was one pic of an empty bed.

News Years resolution was to get better at this!!

(for me - I LOVE video - and re-watching. Super hot).

[Tank Turner]

Hi tiedyeHotwife,

Have you considered hiring a professional videographer? A professional videographer will record a porn quality memory that your husband and you could enjoy forever.

My wife and I have discussed flying to a distant city, hiring a professional videographer to make a professional quality porn video of us. We have yet to do it. If we can, we will.

[shorebird]

Listening outside the door on occasion can be very very hot!

[zoe]

By far, listening to her tail tales when she returns! Watching had its special twists; but the mind, waiting to hear creates so much more, and the telling eclipses even that.

Perhaps this is true because Farmgirl torments you so deliciously in her telling as a prelude to


Well you know LOL

Z

[newUK]

Me watching is both our preference but we also both enjoy when she plays alone and recites it to me. I’m always full of questions to get the finer detail, like who said what and who touched who first.

[funkyfitter]

Listening outside the door on occasion can be very very hot!

I came here to say the same thing !
Listening from outside the room is ALMOST as hot as watching ! I can't get my ear close enough while Miss Sue is fucking her man just around the corner and out of view !

[54321]

I had one date where the guy was totally into filming.
I setup the iphone on its stand and thought I hit record. It was in photo mode so all I got was one pic of an empty bed.

Give yourself a break. Make a couple of videos with your husband at home so that you get comfortable with it
before trying it out 'on ops'.
Handling unfamiliar tech in the middle of a passionate adventure is too much for most people.

54321

[smoothmin]

Not allowed to watch. When her boyfriend stays overnight he gets the master bedroom. I’m locked in chastity and I stay in the guest room which is next door. I’m not allowed in the hallway but I can hear them through the walls as they play. They are very loud so I can hear everything. I stand by waiting and anxious for one of them to call me in for clean up duty. Usually I enter and she tells me to get busy. He usually is lying next to her watching as I lap up their goodness. She is very complementary and tells me how I’m such a good sissy gurl. He just enjoys the power dynamic and sometimes will allow me to clean him up. It depends on his mood. It’s weird but my wife and I love it.

[BT2]

I've never listened, as in listening to my wife and a date in the next room, outside the bedroom door, etc.

If it is a question of do you prefer to watch (even in a MFM) or hear about it afterwards, that for me is a tough question best answered by the non answer "it depends". I love watching her in action, and at times I even get up close, but not enough to be intrusive, and watched his cock enter her body, and watched them fuck close up. BUT, on not watching but hearing about it afterwards, I get to hear what she was liking, what she wanted, when she wanted it, etc., in other words I can learn about her desires and her emotions, things I can only assume while watching.

[MarknSusan]

IMO, the title of this should have been listen, watch, hear about it, or join in. All four have different levels of excitement.

In our experiences, the “listening experience” is primarily because the third isn’t able to perform well with me in the room. But it also lets my wife get “into the moment” with the third which has its own satisfaction for her. At times, if the door is open, I just can’t help it, I need to take a quick look without them seeing me.

The “watching experience” is something I love to do and she loves to “show off”. In fact I usually need to take images because it captures memories that are truly amazing. In some experiences others watch her as well. This has happened in lifestyle clubs and even parties. She will often make eye contact with me and smile because she knows I am enjoying it so much.

The “hear about it experience” usually begins with exciting thoughts about how it’s going to happen. It could be a date that’s going to occur in a few weeks, few days or few hours. Watching my wife communicate with him ahead of time, prepare to meet him is so, so exciting. When it’s over and when I see my wife again my heart races, my mind wanders and she has a glow about her. When she describes the experience she provides exceptional details to the point that I can’t keep my hands off her and I can’t wait the get inside her! For weeks, or months or even years I may ask her about the experience if I think of something that she did not mention.

The “join in” experience is my wife’s favorite. For her it begins with just having he and I with her out in public, doing G rated activities or traveling together. She calls us her bookends. When she shows affection to each of us in public, it excites her knowing people are wondering what is going on. When we finally get into the bedroom together, she is a master at pleasing us and pleasing herself. Sometimes she tells us what she wants and never leaves me or the other guy out of the fun.

[ucaneffher]

I have never had the pleasure of experiencing either one with a girlfriend of mine but I did once share an apartment with two roommates in the past and one would bring women over all the time.

There were a few times where I could hear these women moaning and screaming for their lives and those sexy sounds would come through the heating and air conditioning ducts to my bedroom in the middle of the night and it was the hottest thing I've ever heard.

So hot that it has indirectly helped shape my fantasy of my girlfriend getting a boyfriend and having him come live with us. He would move into the bedroom with her and take over while I move into a guest room. I'd absolutely love to hear my girlfriend moaning, screaming, gasping just like those girls my roommate would bring.

[Mgcouplemn]

I alway have watched when my wife fucks and will always going forward too. The whole idea of having and encouraging my wife to have sex with other guy is so I can masturbate to the show she puts on. It also just happens that she get excited looking over and seeing me stroking my cock while some guy is fucking her..

[Bryce 69]

i have joined Hannah's Bulls watched or listened it kind of depends
a couple times when Hannah has been at hotels with a Bull after their foreplay she will call and put her phone on the nightstand
that was pretty hot too
it's all fun and exciting

[hotfreaks]

I prefer a mix of watching and my wife playing solo. Only listened 2 times. Once from outside of the bedroom when we first started in the lifestyle, and once when she recorded audio of her and a bull fucking solo

[hotfreaks]

I prefer a mix of watching and my wife playing solo. Only listened 2 times. Once from outside of the bedroom when we first started in the lifestyle, and once when she recorded audio of her and a bull fucking solo

[Greg_N_Shelley]

Watching/participating was always preferred. For me, a major part of the joy of hotwifing was seeing Shelley's beauty radiate when playing with a gifted lover. And for her, playing without me made her somewhat nervous. And strange as it may sound, there was also a unique type of intimacy when we were together and she was fucking another guy.

We did try a few experiments where she played alone with her regular BF. She had a lot of fun and I enjoyed the angsty-tease of sitting at home and watching video later, but they both were adamant afterward about wanting me present. Although she enjoyed the experience, I think she still preferred the intimacy of my presence. For him, I think he just enjoyed shooting the shit (we had a good rapport) and moreover, showing off what he could do with her.

I am the WORST at describing sexy events. So bad I feel sorry for my husband.

Lol! You just described my wife to a tee!

The few times she played alone, I asked her afterward how it was. All she would say was "good." I then saw the video and Oh WOW!!!

[Parsifal]

I want to pick off of Greg_N_Shelley above. Gala is just the opposite. Her general practice, with few exceptions, experiments as Greg might term them, were of me watching. One commonality Selley and Gala have is of the intense feeling of connectedness with their husbands while engaged sexually with the other man. But despite the intensely beautiful feelings of that significance Gala feels with me, with me watching, she still prefers to have sex in private. Our style is to savor those feelings during the "debriefing."

Greg and I share the same preference of being there.

[parklife]

By default, I guess I’d have to say hear, and by that I mean listen to her tell me about it as I’ve never been present nor has she ever been with someone while I’ve been close enough to hear them live. So, ever since she stated, it’s always been her alone with her friend and her telling me details later. She’s also not a particularly great storyteller so most of it all is mental gymnastics for me. She has always shared mostly, but is more a question and answer kind of person than someone to come out and tell me the details.

Early on, I never wanted to be there and preferred hearing about it after. Now, as the years have gone by, I’d like to be present at least once. We came so close last month…. Her first boyfriend and her stay in touch and he knows she has played in the past with others and has spent the last few years trying to get her to play with him. I thu I she enjoys the attention. Last month, the kids were gone, she had been texting with him, had a glass or two of wine. We invited him over and he showed up. The idea was to let him go down on her in front of me… she was curious. But, she got cold feet, he never actually made a move (despite his aggressive talk via text) and we all just chatted for a couple of hours before he went home. Later, he asked her if he should have made a move and my wife said it probably wouldn’t have mattered and that once he was there, she just wasn’t feeling it.

So close…. But it was still electric sitting in the room with someone I knew wanted my wife so fucking bad.

[BT2]

The post by parklife immediately above made a couple of observations about his wife that fairly equally apply to my wife. Earlier on we used to have MFM threesomes and I loved watching her in action. In fact, sometimes I'd get up close, but not close enough to be intrusive, and watch his cock penetrate her body. The last number of years, she prefers to play alone and tell me the details later. I have always believed it was because in a threesome she was always worried about how I was feeling. My wife, also as with parklife's wife, is not a great story teller, although I believe she tries her best. And, after a day or two she develops convenient memory lapses.

I've never put myself in a position where I could be close by and listen.

[Wifekeeley]

I am the WORST at describing sexy events. So bad I feel sorry for my husband.
So he got me a small audio recorder. Can't even count how many times I have failed at turning it on and actually recording anything.
So iphone video has been his favorite - but I fail to capture the best moments.

I had one date where the guy was totally into filming.
I setup the iphone on its stand and thought I hit record. It was in photo mode so all I got was one pic of an empty bed.

News Years resolution was to get better at this!!

(for me - I LOVE video - and re-watching. Super hot).

OMG this is so me. My hubby is always pausing me mid story to ask more detail. Detail is his thing and he loves to know everything, but I do love how he gets so invested in every moment of my adventure. Its just part of our ritual now

[stonemtncouple]

Im such a Voyeur!
I Love watching a video of her with her Bulls.

If Im not able to be the camera man she usually makes a audio recording on her phone for me.
Makes for nice listening while on long road trips!